Shaniajam
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Leo Men Witholds sex when upset
For me it depends on the chemistry/energy between me and that person. And what the conflict is about.
With some people it's not so much witholding as being genuinly turned off by the energy between us... while with others, it's almost like an aphrodisiac and you want to f ck the living daylights out of them.
With some people it's not so much witholding as being genuinly turned off by the energy between us... while with others, it's almost like an aphrodisiac and you want to f ck the living daylights out of them.
Is there serious libra in his chart?
It's not just LEO men.
A Leo male friend of mine told me that if he's angry at his partner, he doesn't want to have sex with her. It isn't punishment, it just kills any desire for it for him.
Be very, VERY, VERRRY, careful about adopting others' relationship issues as your own. VEEEEERRRRRRYYYY CAREFUL, my friend.
Communicate with your LDR boyfriend. LDRs have nothing else BUT communication.
Communicate with your LDR boyfriend. LDRs have nothing else BUT communication.
VERY. CAREFUL.
Posted by CopperDovePretty much. I mean how angry can you really be if you're pausing for sex? More like dramatic I'd say. I know anger, it's an ugly thing.
A Leo male friend of mine told me that if he's angry at his partner, he doesn't want to have sex with her. It isn't punishment, it just kills any desire for it for him.
There have been several studies that suggest those who proceed in sexual acts while angry or upset at their partners tend be devoid of having parents. Namely the father. Either they were mentally unwell, or just weren't around.
So well, how does that relate to astrology?
Well- Chances are if your a Leo or an Aries, and it's not debilitated- You had a pretty freakin' awesome dad.
So what does this mean?
Personally i can't fathom making a conscious effort of being in the same room with someone i'm pissed at, let alone be intimate with them. Even the idea of it just sounds ridiculous.
You've asked this question before- for whatever reason you have it ingrained that it's a sign of vengeance, or manipulation.
******Not everyone correlates feelings of hate to feelings of lust.
The dude is just bent, he'll get over it.
So well, how does that relate to astrology?
Well- Chances are if your a Leo or an Aries, and it's not debilitated- You had a pretty freakin' awesome dad.
So what does this mean?
Personally i can't fathom making a conscious effort of being in the same room with someone i'm pissed at, let alone be intimate with them. Even the idea of it just sounds ridiculous.
You've asked this question before- for whatever reason you have it ingrained that it's a sign of vengeance, or manipulation.
******Not everyone correlates feelings of hate to feelings of lust.
The dude is just bent, he'll get over it.
Posted by LillyPetalThank you and I will
VERY. CAREFUL.
Posted by leow31As I stated it was for someone also dating and she asked this ... So please stop assuming everything is about me. Me and my Leo is fine. As you noticed I haven't posted in awhile.
Op, don't mean to be rude but you've posted countless times about this leo man and your issues with him.
Stop assuming all leos behave the way he does, theres a reason why he does what he does, you have drama.
And no, like most humans, we sometimes won't want sex if we're pissed off / hurt / angry.
Posted by TheLibraMudraYasssss make up sex ❤❤❤ Love it
I think a lot of people hold off on sex when they're upset with someone... My leo and I do it to each other. Then when we're made up, we both know I'm about to be dominated in the nastiest, naughtiest ways haha
Posted by CopperDoveMakes sense. I'm just like why can't you just talk it out. Get over it and on to see. Why stay mad and withhold? Seems like punishment then no?
A Leo male friend of mine told me that if he's angry at his partner, he doesn't want to have sex with her. It isn't punishment, it just kills any desire for it for him.
Posted by ImpulsvHow long were they for? And was it all the time and how did it end did you have to be the one to apologize? Just trying to get a grasp... She asked me to ask lol. So feel free to object hehehe.
Yes ex Leo withheld sex as punishment
Posted by ShaniajamOh and I feel it's ok to stay mad for a day or so but days or up to 5 days a week to me is like punishment and withholding.Posted by CopperDoveMakes sense. I'm just like why can't you just talk it out. Get over it and on to see. Why stay mad and withhold? Seems like punishment then no?
A Leo male friend of mine told me that if he's angry at his partner, he doesn't want to have sex with her. It isn't punishment, it just kills any desire for it for him.click to expand
sounds like a girl thing to do, withhold sex... haha.
Posted by ShaniajamBut this isn't about you, this is about your "friend", right? *wink, wink*Posted by TheLibraMudraYasssss make up sex ❤❤❤ Love it
I think a lot of people hold off on sex when they're upset with someone... My leo and I do it to each other. Then when we're made up, we both know I'm about to be dominated in the nastiest, naughtiest ways hahaclick to expand
Who would want to have sex with someone that you're angry or upset with?
Posted by ShaniajamHe said that if the issue can be resolved, it takes him a while to come back emotionally from being angry, so he's not ready to be intimate right away like what some people are with so-called makeup sex. But that wouldn't be days on end of not being ready to be intimate, as far as I know.Posted by CopperDoveMakes sense. I'm just like why can't you just talk it out. Get over it and on to see. Why stay mad and withhold? Seems like punishment then no?
A Leo male friend of mine told me that if he's angry at his partner, he doesn't want to have sex with her. It isn't punishment, it just kills any desire for it for him.click to expand
Posted by enfant_terribleIt really is lol... I still love sex thoughPosted by ShaniajamBut this isn't about you, this is about your "friend", right? *wink, wink*Posted by TheLibraMudraYasssss make up sex ❤❤❤ Love it
I think a lot of people hold off on sex when they're upset with someone... My leo and I do it to each other. Then when we're made up, we both know I'm about to be dominated in the nastiest, naughtiest ways hahaclick to expand
Posted by leow31That one about me of course. And I didn't bash them there did I? Seems like you coming here with negativity is showing how your sign is as well? If it was about me I can come out and say it and if it was about me what is it to you? If you are negative keep it moving why do you want to indulge with someone that you have no taste or even care for? Seems to me you're idle and have nothing better to do. Still if I want to post I will do so. You ain't scaring me off. I'm a Taurus. Find someone else to wrestle with.Posted by ShaniajamIt's not about assuming m'dear but what has become a habit seeking advice, ignoring it, trashing leos and the cycle repeats itself. Especially since you posted a second thread about leos & love .. that one probably was about your friend as well. It's all peachy.Posted by leow31As I stated it was for someone also dating and she asked this ... So please stop assuming everything is about me. Me and my Leo is fine. As you noticed I haven't posted in awhile.
Op, don't mean to be rude but you've posted countless times about this leo man and your issues with him.
Stop assuming all leos behave the way he does, theres a reason why he does what he does, you have drama.
And no, like most humans, we sometimes won't want sex if we're pissed off / hurt / angry.click to expand
Posted by leow31And anything after this will get you blocked or ignored. Your negativity is irrelevant to me... Cheerios.Posted by ShaniajamIt's not about assuming m'dear but what has become a habit seeking advice, ignoring it, trashing leos and the cycle repeats itself. Especially since you posted a second thread about leos & love .. that one probably was about your friend as well. It's all peachy.Posted by leow31As I stated it was for someone also dating and she asked this ... So please stop assuming everything is about me. Me and my Leo is fine. As you noticed I haven't posted in awhile.
Op, don't mean to be rude but you've posted countless times about this leo man and your issues with him.
Stop assuming all leos behave the way he does, theres a reason why he does what he does, you have drama.
And no, like most humans, we sometimes won't want sex if we're pissed off / hurt / angry.click to expand
Posted by CopperDoveGood pointPosted by ShaniajamHe said that if the issue can be resolved, it takes him a while to come back emotionally from being angry, so he's not ready to be intimate right away like what some people are with so-called makeup sex. But that wouldn't be days on end of not being ready to be intimate, as far as I know.Posted by CopperDoveMakes sense. I'm just like why can't you just talk it out. Get over it and on to see. Why stay mad and withhold? Seems like punishment then no?
A Leo male friend of mine told me that if he's angry at his partner, he doesn't want to have sex with her. It isn't punishment, it just kills any desire for it for him.click to expand
Posted by KoniuchaThat's so true... It's not being mad and not wanting sex is the issue its how long he takes to have sex with her and sometimes around 5 days... I mean why not resolve it and move on why stay mad that long?
I would imagine most people would not have sex when they are angry. Not a Leo thing only.
I know I would not have any desire and I am a sex crazed Scorpio!
Posted by ImpulsvGood lord! And you didn't cheat and stayed?? And he didn't see the loyal female in front of him. I'm not gay and I would've given you some pronto hahahaha.... Wow that's crazyPosted by ShaniajamPosted by ImpulsvHow long were they for? And was it all the time and how did it end did you have to be the one to apologize? Just trying to get a grasp... She asked me to ask lol. So feel free to object hehehe.
Yes ex Leo withheld sex as punishment
I told him once I hated him due to financial strain we were in. With held half a year. I cried telling him how long are you going to punish me for thisclick to expand
Posted by ImpulsvGeez ... Can someone say exit pronto smh.
Walked on eggshell whole marriage
Could put dishes right
Couldn't control my guest, family.
Couldn't joke around I disrespected
Didn't treat him like a king lol his words
my Leo man Has gotten upset before and attempted to not have sex with me ‚‚‚‚‚‚‚‚ I went with it but it didn't last 5 mins. I would say it depends on the relationship and even though a person might like sex you can't make them feel cheap or like they are being used. If we have issues we can't just go from being mad to having sex we need to have a talk first.. I would say that's not my relationship we are equally sexual but sometimes he just wants to be loved on no sex and I give him that. And sometimes I just want sex and no talking and he gives me that. She has to learn her man.. When my Leo does stuff when he is upset I simply ask him about it when he is feeling better. Depending on what it is I might ask jokingly... I would quote him jokingly one day and just be like what's that about?
Posted by Ladi1975Me!!!!! Lol ‚
Who would want to have sex with someone that you're angry or upset with?
Posted by Scorpio4242Thank you she read this and said that helped lol
my Leo man Has gotten upset before and attempted to not have sex with me ‚‚‚‚‚‚‚‚ I went with it but it didn't last 5 mins. I would say it depends on the relationship and even though a person might like sex you can't make them feel cheap or like they are being used. If we have issues we can't just go from being mad to having sex we need to have a talk first.. I would say that's not my relationship we are equally sexual but sometimes he just wants to be loved on no sex and I give him that. And sometimes I just want sex and no talking and he gives me that. She has to learn her man.. When my Leo does stuff when he is upset I simply ask him about it when he is feeling better. Depending on what it is I might ask jokingly... I would quote him jokingly one day and just be like what's that about?
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