Leo not talking

Hi can a Leo go months with out talking to you.really hope he get back in contact 19 years is a long time just to give up on.please help.xxx
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  • SMC
    leo infp
    female
    I read your previous thread and I think this a follow up?
    anywaaaay..he is just an marker, plain and simple

    I know we move on fast and us not contacting def means we did.
    Just start focusing on healing and being there for your daughter, building up a healthy life with her
  • Chuckcem
    Four neighboring signs in four different elements...That's Me...
    2018 years old male
    It's not that guys get over girls faster, guys generally don't rebound. Unlike women, men don't always have a variety of options after a break up. Women may be able to find another guy who is interested in them relatively fast, but because it's generally a rebound, it's much harder on the woman in the long run. For guys it always looks like the girl moves on faster because women tend to have an easier time finding a guy to fill the void of a missing companion. Obviously the emotions are misdirected which is why rebounds ultimately fail to work.

    So basically the grass always seems greener. For men we want a physical companion after a break up, so when we see a woman move on with an other guy (and form that physical connection), we think the woman moved on fast. For a woman to see a guy make a emotional connection with another woman, when she wasn't able to do so with another guy, it makes it look like the man was able to move on faster.

    Of course there are some men (especially Leos) who have clued into this dynamic and tend to keep their options open one way or the other. That being said, a guy moving on and finding a physical connection with another woman after a break up is still a rebound, but this will still look like the guy moved on faster. If the guy isn't worried about making an emotional connect in the first place, then the woman actually dodged a bullet.
  • Scorpio1982
    female
    Posted by Chuckcem
    It's not that guys get over girls faster, guys generally don't rebound. Unlike women, men don't always have a variety of options after a break up. Women may be able to find another guy who is interested in them relatively fast, but because it's generally a rebound, it's much harder on the woman in the long run. For guys it always looks like the girl moves on faster because women tend to have an easier time finding a guy to fill the void of a missing companion. Obviously the emotions are misdirected which is why rebounds ultimately fail to work.

    So basically the grass always seems greener. For men we want a physical companion after a break up, so when we see a woman move on with an other guy (and form that physical connection), we think the woman moved on fast. For a woman to see a guy make a emotional connection with another woman, when she wasn't able to do so with another guy, it makes it look like the man was able to move on faster.

    Of course there are some men (especially Leos) who have clued into this dynamic and tend to keep their options open one way or the other. That being said, a guy moving on and finding a physical connection with another woman after a break up is still a rebound, but this will still look like the guy moved on faster. If the guy isn't worried about making an emotional connect in the first place, then the woman actually dodged a bullet.


  • Scorpio1982
    female
    Posted by Scorpio1982
    Posted by Chuckcem
    It's not that guys get over girls faster, guys generally don't rebound. Unlike women, men don't always have a variety of options after a break up. Women may be able to find another guy who is interested in them relatively fast, but because it's generally a rebound, it's much harder on the woman in the long run. For guys it always looks like the girl moves on faster because women tend to have an easier time finding a guy to fill the void of a missing companion. Obviously the emotions are misdirected which is why rebounds ultimately fail to work.

    So basically the grass always seems greener. For men we want a physical companion after a break up, so when we see a woman move on with an other guy (and form that physical connection), we think the woman moved on fast. For a woman to see a guy make a emotional connection with another woman, when she wasn't able to do so with another guy, it makes it look like the man was able to move on faster.

    Of course there are some men (especially Leos) who have clued into this dynamic and tend to keep their options open one way or the other. That being said, a guy moving on and finding a physical connection with another woman after a break up is still a rebound, but this will still look like the guy moved on faster. If the guy isn't worried about making an emotional connect in the first place, then the woman actually dodged a bullet.


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    I hope it not wee have been togeather since wee were 16 and have a daughter together.i do love my Leo .just wish he would see that he thinks I don't respect him and I do.xxx
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