Leo running away from me-Literally

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I'll be brief as possible. I haven't seen this Leo in 2 years. Did we end on a good note? No. Never contacted me again because I didn't give to sex on the first date after knowing him for a year and a half as friends but had a mutual attraction throughout the whole period mostly because I was had a boyfriend and I didn't want to do that to him and I had to delete the Leo on facebook. Boyfriend and I broke up and the Leo asked me out. We smoked hookah and talked. He offered to take me to my car and we fooled around and then he wanted sex and I told him I wasn't ready yet. We haven't talked afterwards after I texted I had fun with him. Few weeks, he sent me a gif of a cute dog. I only said something small and that's the end of it. I tried calling and never answered. Found out a month later, he got into a long distant relationship with a girl he went to college went. Oh well, I don't care, I'm happy for him I guess.

Fast forward 2 years, I was working. The Leo and his sister came into my job. His sister said "Josh?" and he bolted running out. I asked was that Joshua to his sister. She replied "no that was my cousin, Bruno". I was suspicious with her. When it comes to checking out, I asked if her mom was Ronda U. her name is Melissa and how's Junebug the cat? She denied everything. Because my job needed info to give credit for pet food. I just put out of town in her receipt. She said "I'm in the system". I apologized to her and asked for her info for credit and she had a look with total regret because she lied. While doing this, the Leo was running covering his face and I said with a smirk "I see, that was Josh and you're mom is Ronda." She was quiet and I told her to pet junebug the cat for me. After she left, I was going to message him and he blocked me LOL. I'm guessing it was embarrassing for him to run and didn't want to be confronted. At least be a man and say hi and we'll never talk again.

His placements are Leo Sun, Cancer Moon, Virgo in Mercury, Venus(retrograde) and Mars.

What do you guys think? 🙂
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Posted by Effervescent
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What do I think?

Why are you even making a thread about this complete loser? Angry cause you didn't give him sex, running around like a lunatic, etc. How gross.
What's wrong with you? It was suppose to be funny. Did you even read?



Guess we have different perceptions about what funny is.

A loser who gets angry over not getting sex and then acting like a lame excuse for a man in public is not funny to me. And it made sense to me because of his placements. Leo ego bruised, overly emotional Cancer Moon activated = bad combo. lol.
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Well, seeing how he mistreated me, yes...it's karma and I love it and it's hilarious 🙂

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Posted by infires
lmao

he's a shy boy, his virgo in venus and mercury makes a lot of sense

Really? He was charismatic, macho and kept saying he's a man. Now that he saw me, it was opposite. It took a awhile for me to understand the situation. He either ran because of his ego for me not giving in or doesn't want me nor cares about me. I concluded it was both maybe since I have done nothing wrong. Who knows and he embarrassed himself.
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lmao

he's a shy boy, his virgo in venus and mercury makes a lot of sense

Really? He was charismatic, macho and kept saying he's a man. Now that he saw me, it was opposite. It took a awhile for me to understand the situation. He either ran because of his ego for me not giving in or doesn't want me nor cares about me. I concluded it was both maybe since I have done nothing wrong. Who knows and he embarrassed himself.


have you ever had the feeling but there's a strong attraction there or even when you're not attracted to someone but something embarrassing happened. so all of a sudden your heart beats million of miles/hr. you want to hide or run away as fast as you can

you are probably right about the embarrassment
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Not sure I follow. Explain or use examples? Sorry I'm not all there yet.
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lmao

he's a shy boy, his virgo in venus and mercury makes a lot of sense

Really? He was charismatic, macho and kept saying he's a man. Now that he saw me, it was opposite. It took a awhile for me to understand the situation. He either ran because of his ego for me not giving in or doesn't want me nor cares about me. I concluded it was both maybe since I have done nothing wrong. Who knows and he embarrassed himself.


have you ever had the feeling but there's a strong attraction there or even when you're not attracted to someone but something embarrassing happened. so all of a sudden your heart beats million of miles/hr. you want to hide or run away as fast as you can

you are probably right about the embarrassment
Not sure I follow. Explain or use examples? Sorry I'm not all there yet.


i'll use a real life example:

so there's a guy who i talked to and then his gf (who I didn't know about) got mad. she was insecure to the point he blocked me.

i was kind of mad, but it's happens. then I saw him by chance and ran away in embarrassment

it happened when we broke contact without much closure..

maybe it's that your situation, he never really told you how he felt
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He really didn't and I wish he did. He blocked me on facebook and I still have his number where I can pop up in his phone if I want to. No point though since it's clear what he wants.

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Not going to lie, this story made me laugh. It's odd that he ran off and doubly odd that he blocked you for no reason. If I had to guess, you hurt his feelings years ago and he decided to ignore you. Realizing that he overreacted, he was probably embarrassed to bump into you after all of that. So like the cowardly lion he is, he ran.

It's ok, he'll find the wizard and get some courage after running around with a girl, her dog, a man made of straw, and a man made of tin
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Posted by Chuckcem
Not going to lie, this story made me laugh. It's odd that he ran off and doubly odd that he blocked you for no reason. If I had to guess, you hurt his feelings years ago and he decided to ignore you. Realizing that he overreacted, he was probably embarrassed to bump into you after all of that. So like the cowardly lion he is, he ran.

It's ok, he'll find the wizard and get some courage after running around with a girl, her dog, a man made of straw, and a man made of tin
I believe it and I don't mean to hurt his feelings(I liked him a lot) for rejecting him to do the hanky panky. I'm the type that wants to commit first and then that. Dating now is horrible. Have sex first with the person and then deciding to settle with them or not. Originally, if he acted like a man, I would've been civil and said hi, Nothing more nothing less. I admit, I still care about him because we were friends for a year and a half, but we could never go back to that romantic stage. He has a girlfriend and I have my partner. Wish I could reassure him it's no big deal? I forgive because its toxic to hold on to the negatives. It's been 2 years, I'm over it. What do you think?

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Not going to lie, this story made me laugh. It's odd that he ran off and doubly odd that he blocked you for no reason. If I had to guess, you hurt his feelings years ago and he decided to ignore you. Realizing that he overreacted, he was probably embarrassed to bump into you after all of that. So like the cowardly lion he is, he ran.

It's ok, he'll find the wizard and get some courage after running around with a girl, her dog, a man made of straw, and a man made of tin
I believe it and I don't mean to hurt his feelings(I liked him a lot) for rejecting him to do the hanky panky. I'm the type that wants to commit first and then that. Dating now is horrible. Have sex first with the person and then deciding to settle with them or not. Originally, if he acted like a man, I would've been civil and said hi, Nothing more nothing less. I admit, I still care about him because we were friends for a year and a half, but we could never go back to that romantic stage. He has a girlfriend and I have my partner. Wish I could reassure him it's no big deal? I forgive because its toxic to hold on to the negatives. It's been 2 years, I'm over it. What do you think?

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I think that based on his actions, he was never truly your friend. He wanted sex, you didn't give it to him, and he ghosted to land himself in a long distance relationship. It's unfortunate, but at least you know his true character now.
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Posted by Chuckcem
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Not going to lie, this story made me laugh. It's odd that he ran off and doubly odd that he blocked you for no reason. If I had to guess, you hurt his feelings years ago and he decided to ignore you. Realizing that he overreacted, he was probably embarrassed to bump into you after all of that. So like the cowardly lion he is, he ran.

It's ok, he'll find the wizard and get some courage after running around with a girl, her dog, a man made of straw, and a man made of tin
I believe it and I don't mean to hurt his feelings(I liked him a lot) for rejecting him to do the hanky panky. I'm the type that wants to commit first and then that. Dating now is horrible. Have sex first with the person and then deciding to settle with them or not. Originally, if he acted like a man, I would've been civil and said hi, Nothing more nothing less. I admit, I still care about him because we were friends for a year and a half, but we could never go back to that romantic stage. He has a girlfriend and I have my partner. Wish I could reassure him it's no big deal? I forgive because its toxic to hold on to the negatives. It's been 2 years, I'm over it. What do you think?


I think that based on his actions, he was never truly your friend. He wanted sex, you didn't give it to him, and he ghosted to land himself in a long distance relationship. It's unfortunate, but at least you know his true character now.
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You're right, I guess that's my closure now. In the end, he gave me a good story to share 🙂