Leo say just friends but i don't be believe him.

I've known this Leo man for a long time..since we were kids and he is going through a hard time.
we hadn't seen each other for a long time (about 4 years) and so I'm 20 now.
Anyway he saw i moved back home (on the net) so he came around to celebrate with me...
I was so attracted to him. We got on the drink and he was after me...we'd flirt and
the whole thing was rather romantic actually but i didn't give in, I'm not easy and
i wanted him to know it. Days passed (he just stayed here at my place and relaxed with me)
he says "you can lay on my arm if you want" but i sort of shy'd away from that...point is he
wasn't abrupt with his approach but very gentle. He was very sweet. I didn't do anything
because he talked of a girl, asked me what he should do? he didn't take my advise though.
I felt so comfortable. He was helpful and made me feel like he wanted to take care of me
(not that i need taking care of!). He wanted to go help his parents on their property
and told me he will be leaving in an hour, that they will come pick him up...we just talked
and then we stopped and had that staring thing going on...i didn't know how to take it
because well our families are close. I know he wanted to kiss me though. i saw 'the fire
in his eyes' lol.
a week passes and i finally tell him 'I've been thinking of you' but he replies with
'true, well how it was is how it is..we're just friends' and it cut but i accepted it.
i find out he started to sleep with a chick at that time (a chick who really doesn't like
me btw) but he stayed at my sisters place...this girl said nasty things about me and he
defended me. anyway i got angry....every time i saw this girl she'd talk about him to
try make me jealous but I'm not so much like that..she started to cause trouble and i
took it out on him. he says to my sister 'i will forgive anything she says to me, no
matter how bad it is' and he kept defending me. he ignores me though.
this girl decides she wants to move here too so he leaves to help her.... coincidentally
my brother happens to live there...instead of staying with this girl, he is staying with
brother...and still continues to ignore me. The more he ignores me the more i think of
certain things. it's starting to drive me crazy...
anyway i am going there to visit my brother and friends and celebrate my 21st birthday but
i am lil nervous that i will see him. and i don't know what i should do. My appearance isn't
a problem I already he's attracted

contd.....i already know he's attracted .....................what my problem is is that
i don't know what he wants with me now...he doesn't ignore any other girls that like him,
just me, surely he'd avoid my family too if he weren't interested in me? i'm going to visit
soon and i don't know what to do. what do i do?

Leos out there....please help me....he make my whole world feel bright and i really do believe we'd be a strong couple if we gave ourselves a chance at a relationship instead of being so caught up worrying about everyone else who can be effecting by this....tbh i think most ppl would be happy for us.

wow, thank you...i lost hope that anyone would reply. and this makes a lot of sense. i planned to do that but umm things got a little more complicated. My brother girlfriend is living in the same house the guy i like is. id been texting her to let her know i'm coming up and asked her if she was comfortable with it...and she told me that she thinks they(guy i like and 'chick') wont last. i didn't ask her about him though. but i told her my sister said this 'chick' was looking at wedding dresses already but my sister had wrong information lol silly her. My brothers girlfriend told this guy that i asked about this and he told the 'chick' so the chick did this whole rant on her facebook and i was told about it so it confuses me more.....why would he talk of anything i say or do to this 'chick' i felt so betrayed because he's meant to be my friend and already knows that she doesn't like me. so stupid me got emotional about it and told him off a few times lol ............'chick' made me look bad. i did apologize for being out of line later on though...i felt bad that i told him off so harshly. anyway i think he did this because i told him i wasn't interested anymore and didn't talk to him when he finally seemed comfortable on FB again (every time i was on FB an he was on he'd quickly run away hehe and so i played mafia wars to test him...i got to a higher level than him. he goes on FB for ages just to get ahead of me, it's cute) lol is this all a part of his games or am i just twisted? i feel twisted. But he's got me so bad. so ignore him when i see him hey?

p.s. my sister is good friends with this 'chick' if that helps

It has just got me thinking he really doesn't care. i apologize again today but im over it now. wasted tears i guess. i hope this nasty girl is really worth his time. because i have no more time for him =.(

maybe i shouldn't feel bad...the friendship side of things i guess i really do feel betrayed. wouldn't hecare how i'd react to being ignored while he sees someone that doesn't like me? Im mean i know i wouldn't ignore someone i still consider a friend if i was with someone that didn't like them so it's sort of like he's chosen a casual relationship over me. maybe im being selfish to think way.....i guess im so confused i just don't know what to think. I think it is a good ideas to ignore him him from now on though.....maybe he'll see what a douche he's being lol. Thing is, it's hard i know i'm a very loving person and would make him feel like the top of the world, i have my insecurities but i'm such a sensual human being. I'm supportive and wouldn't get angry if he needed space but i'd want just as much attention as i'd give him haha. yeh, i really do care about him....i just don't want to set myself up for a bit of heartache i guess. looks like it'd head that way. time to back off and see what he does next i guess. nothing else i can do hey? I'll let you all know what happens anyway =) i'll be seeing him in only a couple of weeks so I'll see what he does. thanks guys

My leo man and I r constant companions - I will be single (divorcing) he is now single - we give each other everything we both want and need which is present in a relationship except for sex --- we were involved about 20 years ago and in his words we did not have chemistry it was electricity --- will he approach me or should I approach him ---- plse help this taurus woman

Ok it's been leo den time for my leo man [i know this too well esp with 52 Leo's amongst the family..] Anyway everyone has tried to reach him to no avail and if they can't teach him they contact me.. We r working on a Construction project material need to arrive tomorrow and I have no idea (just noticed now he's on line so he better let me know what's going on) also old work associates r contacting me to invite him to a business seminar [he says he will go with me however he has so much on the go - I don't understand why make time to see contact me - yet he still says call me if u need anything from me.. He has 3 important Jobs as work.

Ok my leo man and I r now on the same page (20 yes ago we were involved not ready) I've now separated from hub - he has broken up from a 6 year relationship - we see and contact each other all the time - we r both at present not into a relationship headspace therefore he wants us to constant companions (plus 1 for family / business events and projects hanging out he says I've got u I don't need a relationship. 20 yrs ago when together he would break /drop/ lose things when he saw me and so would I when I saw him now our mutual friends and ex work associates see all this happening again - he went to catch a plane he lost his keys I was at the airport I locked my keys - then I needed help he left his tools behind - he got lost going to a meeting with me - then he got dressed up ready to meet me for a business meeting at an expensive restaurant blew off his family dinner to meet me and he realised it was the wrong day yet he read the invite - he rang me saying I don't know what's wrong with me - I have nt been like this in years. Stranger look at is and say 'u too r so cute together - u both make us laugh' is it more than friendship longterm ?

Sounds like he was testing you "lay on my arm" to see how easy you were. Since you arent...he kept it as friends.