Leo/Scropio

I met this Leo guy about a year ago at my part-time job (I draw blood part-time at Free Health Screenings in the DMV)He had just started a year ago and he was there doing BP. He is a PT full-time.

We hit it off and things were cool, we both love music so he would come over and I would make CD's for him and he would being me new music that he has brought for to copy. Things were good we would talk on the phone just friend stuff, he talked about inviting me to his apt. and he would make dinner for me and show me a good time. Last August he came over and we celebrated his birthday. He was coming on a bit strong which made me feel uneasy but I eventually relaxed. We were kissing and one thing led to another and the rest is history. Well, after that night I basically did not want to see to pursue the friendship any futher, because he was not exciting in the bedroom, not sure if it was him being scared or what but it did nothing for me and he was actually working with something, but his actions in the bedroom was a bore to me.

To be Continue......

Well time went by and I did not see him again until January when we do this big health screening (NBC4 Your Health and Fitness at the Convention Center in DC) I did not know he was going to be there so when he showed up I said hey, gave him a hug and left it at that. He approached me and said "Vicky, did I do something wrong? I was truly upset that I did something to make you not want to talk to me anymore" Well I could not tell him that his bedroom game suck so I just said "It was me" (small lie, to save hi ego) He said Oh ok so during that day I kept seeing him looking at me and at the end of the day when it was time to go home he said "It was really nice seeing you again" Lately, we've worked every weekend together, so last weekend we were talking and I asked him when was I going to get my invite for dinner, then I asked him was he sleeping with anyone. He said no, he asked me was I and I said no. It was really boring at work that day so we was playing squares to pass the time away. Right in the middle of the game he said "you scare me, espcially when you just stare at me" I started smiling and said "don't let me scare you, when I look at you I am thinking about what you said and I am thinking about an answer. We spend the whole day talking and laughing and just having fun until it was time to get off.

I have been thinking since then. Do I want to pursue this to be something more? or do I want to just continue being friends. I have never dated a leo so I am not sure what I want to do.

U should try it out. He seems like he really likes you. Once you guys start to hang out more and if you wat to pursue a relationship... or even if not and u want to be intimatewith him again. Maybe you can show him things that DONT bore you. You know maybe the last girl he was with liked boring plain intimacy and maybe you like whips and strawberrys. *smile* we are all just humans and it sucks we dont come with a cheat sheet stuck to our butts for a heads up.

He sounds polite and sweet and very interested in YOU. If youre not romantically attracted.. I think he'd be a nice friend for you.

I am also a fellow scorp. And I went on a date with a leo a few months back. Such a gentleman and oh my the compliments he gave me infront of his friends MADE ME BLUSH FEEL SHY AND LIKE A MOVIE STAR ALL at the same time. No guy has ever been so open and sweet to me in front of his male friends.For sure flattered.

Give the LEO a try hunnie! You never know =)

Thanks Queencali.

I have been on these boards some years back. I had fun spending time with the Leo and we were making each other laugh and was joking about the Rapture last weekend, I found him to be amusing and funny.

What bothers me also is that I feel like I would be going backwards which is something I don't do. In my mind...."you had your chance to proved me, wow me, excite me, and if you did'nt then I don't think you can so why give a second chance". I have a very hard time giving second chances and that is something I really need to work on letting go.

I thought about calling him yesterday but my pride won't let me because, 1) I know he is going to be happy to hear from me, 2) he will probably asked me what made me calling him and then I would have to tell him how I feel and I don't really want to burst his ego and tell him fully why I stepped back a year ago. So I have to be tactful when talking to him because I normally just blurt out how I feel and a lot of times it hurts people feelings.

He also be shocked and surprised about what comes out my mouth when we are together working. What amuses me about him is he gets so turned on when I say the word "Pussy" it gets him excited and he has to get up and walk and calm himself down. that shit is funny to me. LOL

I will think abit more on this maybe I will call him maybe I won't.

Oh as a fellow scorpio, I am sure you understand. I am an older scorpion, very evolved and stubborn.

Hi SL,

I'm currently struggling with a female scorpio co-worker... those stares scare, it's so true. All I can say is that you should give the guy a chance to really shine. He was probably tense and nervous, since he likes you a lot he probably tried to play it safe and was afraid to judged negatively if he started some kinky game on your first time maybe? He probably has never dated a scorpio before so he doesn't know about the facts that scorps express themselves better in the bed than with words.
He seems he wants more than just occasional sex. Think about it

I still have a bruised rib from my last encounter with my scorpio.LOL

Hey Leonidas,

I thought he was a bit nervous and so was I but I would never let it show :-).

He has dated a scropion before. When I first met him and we were talking about what sign we were, when I told him I was a scorpio he stepped back LOL. He said he dated her for about six years. I guess she wanted to marry him or something because he said "I guess I took to long and she left" I asked him was he over her and he said yea and that they were friends. So I can almost see his apprehension from that point.

It was'nt about occasional sex or FWB. One thing led to another he initiated it and I was curious. He probably does have good bedroom game, but I like to know if he can handle me and my intensity in the bedroom and him not showing it not even a little was a turn off to me. I have a hard time understanding men that is packing and won't/don't work it properly. :-)

I called him last night and he said he was happy that I called and said that he wanted to come and see me because he has some new music he wants to share with me. (Music Soulchild and Jeffery Albright) so I said ok. He told me he was going home this weekend (Mrytle Beach) and that he would call me while he was down there. I told him I am not big on making a lot of phone calls so he would have to share the work.

I guess we will see what happens when he gets back.

I've dated a scorpio before this girl, she ripped me apart... that was long time ago and now I'm wiser but the main difficulty that I find in talking to her (the second scorpio) is that I always have to search for a hidden meaning beyond what she says and that I find a little tiring at times, I know she's very sensitive and I spoke to her openly but yet I feel resistance at times...
Being a Leo is hard LOL we don't hide as much as scorpios thus although I think it could be an amazing match there's always something missing
Try to be a little more open, we like to play games but up to a certain point after that we want to keep it real

keep us posted


BTW I had the same reaction when she told me she's a scorp, I stepped back and said to myself "you still have time to run" LOL

Ok,
this is what happened today at work:
she approached me and asked if I wanted to hang out with her after work, I say:ok!!! ( I was waiting for that LOL)
after work, I finished earlier than her so I told her I'll be waiting for you ok?
after 1/2 hour she texted me saying that she was going home and she would have texted me in a "while" ... I replied: OK
so I hung out at a cafe' near by after another 20 mins she texed me again: I'm taking a nap I'm tired I'll call you later"
FINE! I replied: I'll stay here a little more than I'll go downtown. And so I did, I went home to walk my dogs and suddenly she textes me again: "I can't sleep, do you want to catch a movie?" my reply: "ok but I need an hour to travel from one end to the city to the other is that ok for you?" texted back again: "Oh nevermind I'm too tired anyhow" my reply: "Ok then good night" another text later from her again: "I'm just trying to tell you in a polite way that I don't want company"
WHAT—? are you serious?!?!?!?! My reply: why did you texted me then— Please from now on let's go back to ignore eachother like it was before, it was much better, bye"

In the very beginning I told her that I don't play games, so SL, tell me is she mental or what— I just can't take this ups and downs all day long then she flirts with me at work, she saw me talking to a friend of mine (girl) that came to visit me at our workplace just for few mins, after 10 minutes she left Crazy Scorp approached me and asked: "who's that chick? your new GF?" and I told her she was just a friend nothing more.

Concerning the first scorp, Yes she stung me really bad. This time I got out in time.

Leave her alone, "She's not into you yet" if she was into you she would have met you. She was honest with you when she said "I don't want any company" I have been there. She wanted you at that time but then she thought about and became unsure. She' not evolved.

When I slept with the Leo, I became unsure when he "Held my feet to the fire" but I am evolved so when I say I am going to do something I do it, regardless because my word is my bond and I could not do it I would have said so way in advance.
Let he come around when she is ready. And if she does she will start asking questions about you and what you have been doing. This is where I am at with this leo. I stop talking to him and then when I started seeing him again I started thinking differently that maybe I should see how this would go.

Thanx SL,
She texted me later on for an hour trying to turn the whole sotuation on me and pick a fight
But I knew it and wasn't up for it anyhow. I kept saying her it was ok and good bye
But she kept coming back until her pride took over and she quit.

I've moved on already, I like her a lot but I can't deal with indecisive ppl
The just frustrate me too much. If I say yes I mean it, if I invite you somewhere
I'll be there no matter what.
We're just on different paths. The only thing that bothers me is that she keeps dating and
Getting hurt Burke same type of guys. She's too stubborn to admit she's wasting her life
But when someb is addicted to toxic relationships is like any other
Form of addition she'll be able to quit it only when she'll be ready to do it
Thang for the insights and sorry to have hijacked the thread.
Good luck with your Leo don't drive him too nuts I'm sure he's a good guy

I'm sorry for the typos but the iPhone smart text thing just keep
Messing my text

We went out Monday and everything was fine
we were holding hands while walking in the street
I miss her a lot

Hey Leonidas,

I am not surprised she tried to turn it around and blame it on you.

Yea you have to let her go. Just be a friend and be there if and when she wants to talk she will appreicate that.

Nothing new with me and the Leo. He had not called not that I am waiting but I know I will see him again at work and will talk to him them.

Keep me posted