Leo won't open up

This can be the most ridiculous story you've probably read so far. So I've just started to have this (what he and I have agreed on) "relationship" online and purely on line in terms of we don't meet (because we live so far away in another part of the globe) and I have nevr heard his voice even for once.
LOL LOL
So anyways, here's the data: He's a Loe Sun, Sag Moon, Libra Asc, Mars Taurus and Venus Cancer. I'm Scorp sun, Sag Asc, Cancer moon, Libra Mars and venus.
I understand the conditions, I mean it's like we have no attachments whatsoever in this so called relationship.
But here's what bothers me, he has been ultimately passive and never opens up at all (well okay maybe not, but i always have to take the initiative) and the most annoying thing he never asks a single bit of shit about me.

What do you say about this, guys?

Oh yeah, he's also 9 yrs younger than me. To be honest, on my side, yeah I am still open for options like talking to other guys, flirt once or twice, basically acting as if I'm practically single offline. But he can be damn sure he is in my mind. I wanna see the prospects of this craziness first before I let my heart in as well.

I know this is a garbage topic, but then it's just good to see how others would view on this.

So, feel free, hit me up.

Relationship

Online

Reaaaallllllyyyyyyy—??

Posted by Lunatic
But here's what bothers me, he has been ultimately passive and never opens up at all (well okay maybe not, but i always have to take the initiative) and the most annoying thing he never asks a single bit of shit about me.

What do you say about this, guys?

Have you stopped asking questions, yet?

Or are you thinking up (and trying out)

new ways to get info out of him?


Tell the truth! 😄

Posted by AriesGirl74
Relationship

Online

Reaaaallllllyyyyyyy—??

LMAO!

Posted by dontgetmewrong
My question to you is, why are you wasting time on an online relationship with a guy who doesn't even care to ask you questions about yourself and you have to pry info out of him? Look, leo and sag are outgoing and inquisitive in real life with people they have a real interest in. He knows it's just play But he's not playing for keeps. So he's not asking or sharing much.

Because I'm delusional lol
Yeah, I know we're not going anywhere.

Posted by beautifuldiaster
I would guard your heart above all else because everything you do flows from it.

If you are left with any lingering feelings od doubt then you should find out why. Trust your gut.

Thanks! 🙂

So far I haven't let my heart out (I can't anyway) hecause dang he hasn't shown the depth or anything. Which is good though coz it means I can walk out of this safe and sound.

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by Lunatic
But here's what bothers me, he has been ultimately passive and never opens up at all (well okay maybe not, but i always have to take the initiative) and the most annoying thing he never asks a single bit of shit about me.

What do you say about this, guys?

Have you stopped asking questions, yet?

Or are you thinking up (and trying out)

new ways to get info out of him?


Tell the truth! 😄

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I'm now more into the very questions (seeing as he never initiate asking a question to me) which I ask myself, "he doesnt bother to know more about me, why should I?"

Posted by dontgetmewrong
Look, leo and sag are outgoing and inquisitive in real life with people they have a real interest in.

Ding! ding!

Posted by Lunatic

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by Lunatic
But here's what bothers me, he has been ultimately passive and never opens up at all (well okay maybe not, but i always have to take the initiative) and the most annoying thing he never asks a single bit of shit about me.

What do you say about this, guys?

Have you stopped asking questions, yet?

Or are you thinking up (and trying out)

new ways to get info out of him?


Tell the truth! 😄

I'm now more into the very questions (seeing as he never initiate asking a question to me) which I ask myself, "he doesnt bother to know more about me, why should I?"

Soo... is that a No?

Posted by Lunatic
Ding! ding!

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Or... if you're looking for someone to commiserate,

mostly, then I'll leave you to it.


*shrugs*

🙂

I'm now more into the very questions (seeing as he never initiate asking a question to me) which I ask myself, "he doesnt bother to know more about me, why should I?"





Soo... is that a No?

Posted by Lunatic
Ding! ding!

Or... if you're looking for someone to commiserate,

mostly, then I'll leave you to it.


*shrugs*

🙂



I decide to not asking him more questions, so I will just put out my opinion on his pic on his reply or whatever or I don't reply.
If he then give some moves, great. If not, very well then so what Ariesgirl says is true indeed.
I can play games if he wants to.

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by Lunatic

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by Lunatic
But here's what bothers me, he has been ultimately passive and never opens up at all (well okay maybe not, but i always have to take the initiative) and the most annoying thing he never asks a single bit of shit about me.

What do you say about this, guys?

Have you stopped asking questions, yet?

Or are you thinking up (and trying out)

new ways to get info out of him?


Tell the truth! 😄

I'm now more into the very questions (seeing as he never initiate asking a question to me) which I ask myself, "he doesnt bother to know more about me, why should I?"

Soo... is that a No?

Posted by Lunatic
Ding! ding!

Or... if you're looking for someone to commiserate,

mostly, then I'll leave you to it.


*shrugs*

🙂

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I decide to not asking him more questions, so I will just put out my opinion on his pic on his reply or whatever or I don't reply.
If he then give some moves, great. If not, very well then so what Ariesgirl says is true indeed.
I can play games if he wants to.

Commiserate? Hmmm.. I never thought of that. Its just he appears to be very calm and content, like he doesnt care, rockn rolla and i'm just curious. So curious that he is in my head as if he keeps telling me, "Ain't I irresistable? Just look at me"

I am as a shitty restless as I can be, seeing him being calm and content appearance JUST insatiable. I turn into desiring him. Lol

Posted by Lunatic
I decide to not asking him more questions, so I will just put out my opinion on his pic on his reply or whatever or I don't reply.
If he then give some moves, great. If not, very well then so what Ariesgirl says is true indeed.
I can play games if he wants to.

Whatever.

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by Lunatic
I decide to not asking him more questions, so I will just put out my opinion on his pic on his reply or whatever or I don't reply.
If he then give some moves, great. If not, very well then so what Ariesgirl says is true indeed.
I can play games if he wants to.

Whatever.

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Awh how cute. Lolz. Are you pouting now? Tell me u are 😄

Nope, trying to help you.

I heard the same complaint from a Scorp--

'You never tell me anything.'


But you aren't very forthcoming about

what you're doing... only what you're

*going* to do.


Nevertheless, "playing games" ought to solve the

problem you know you created.




Good luck.

The last time I asked him was this Friday and I asked him where he was going.
After that, no more questions. Ahhh it's complicated anyways, he always reply like forever.
He never asks. He never asks, he never aks, he never asks, he never asks, takes forever for his replies, he never asks, he never asks,

I dont want to play games, but i need to. I just want to be in the same level with him.
He doesnt initiate, so do i. He never tell what he thinks, so do I, he takes forever to reply, and so do i.
So it will be 0:0

I admit, i have created problems by indulging my curiousity on this guy anyways.

*i'm getting bitter*

Posted by busyeyes88
@lunatic. I hate to say this but You are beginning to seem like your namesake aka "lunatic"! If there is no real relationship here or intention to form one or a real one ie meet in the flesh.. Why are you entertaining it?! It seems you are not getting anything out of this "friendship" other than wasting your time. I suggest you switch your computer off and get a relationship in the real world. Life is too short and "time is of the essence".

Not getting out of this relationship.
Wasting my time.
Life is too short.

That's what I'm looking for.

Thank you, busyeyes88!

Posted by Lunatic
The last time I asked him was this Friday and I asked him where he was going.
After that, no more questions. Ahhh it's complicated anyways, he always reply like forever.
He never asks. He never asks, he never aks, he never asks, he never asks, takes forever for his replies, he never asks, he never asks,

I dont want to play games, but i need to. I just want to be in the same level with him.
He doesnt initiate, so do i. He never tell what he thinks, so do I, he takes forever to reply, and so do i.
So it will be 0:0

I admit, i have created problems by indulging my curiousity on this guy anyways.

*i'm getting bitter*

Disclaimer: I don't approve of strictly

online *relationships*... I think you're

setting yourself up for a world of hurt

that (due to distance) will end up giving

you very little in the way of resolution,

should it fail.

Having said that, it's hard to put down a

connection that's good, even if it is online.


Anyway... since you're past the point of trying

to learn more about him and getting bitter, at

least play effectively.

Ask nothing-- only inform.

Go incommunicado for a day (or three).

Your presence is being taken for granted, so

take it away.

If you hear nothing, drop it with your dignity

in tact.

If you do... don't jump and reply immediately.

Simple but usually effective.

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by Lunatic
The last time I asked him was this Friday and I asked him where he was going.
After that, no more questions. Ahhh it's complicated anyways, he always reply like forever.
He never asks. He never asks, he never aks, he never asks, he never asks, takes forever for his replies, he never asks, he never asks,

I dont want to play games, but i need to. I just want to be in the same level with him.
He doesnt initiate, so do i. He never tell what he thinks, so do I, he takes forever to reply, and so do i.
So it will be 0:0

I admit, i have created problems by indulging my curiousity on this guy anyways.

*i'm getting bitter*

Disclaimer: I don't approve of strictly

online *relationships*... I think you're

setting yourself up for a world of hurt

that (due to distance) will end up giving

you very little in the way of resolution,

should it fail.

Having said that, it's hard to put down a

connection that's good, even if it is online.


Anyway... since you're past the point of trying

to learn more about him and getting bitter, at

least play effectively.

Ask nothing-- only inform.

Go incommunicado for a day (or three).

Your presence is being taken for granted, so

take it away.

If you hear nothing, drop it with your dignity

in tact.

If you do... don't jump and reply immediately.

Simple but usually effective.

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Yes, I think your idea is awesome, so after a day of incommunicado (It was Saturday), Monday morning he "hey" with the ah-so-gorgeous pic of his. I manipulated the app into enabling me to "read" without sending the report. Then i didnt do anything with itfor the next 5hrs. When I replied, i noticed he had sent me ah-so-cute pic with the"