Leo's help

okay I love Leo's and I'm an Aquarius. I really like my Leo bestfriend he is just so flawless he has a personality and looks a lot of people like him and he's my bestfriend. He says I'm one of his "Besties" too by the way 1m 15 and he's 16. Since I like him I will obviously take anything and try to Turn into something. Does he honestly mean that I'm one of his Besties do Leo's throw that word around and just tell people what they want to hear ? Does he mean it how do I know if he does. He's told me "love ya❤" first sometimes does he mean it do Leo's throw that word around too?. Hes said love ya too and ily too a couple times too does he mean it do Leo's say that to just anyone. I just want to know where I stand with him he does call me gorgeous,beautiful,sweet , amazing and perfect sometimes. Leo's specifically men can you give me some insight I already know he doesn't like me more than a friend but just tell me where do we stand in any way be honest please

Posted by MiZLeo
He means it. Leos don't throw those words around. You are his friend and he loves you like a friend.

Not a bestfriend?

I may be wrong but he seems phony. Like, if a guy is speaking to a girl like that, that's a red flag. I't seems like he's just telling you things you want to hear because he knows you're going to melt over it (you seem like the type). I know leo's love attention too so he could just be enjoying the attention you're giving him. You seem like you're starstruck or something, lol.

Posted by Gooober
I may be wrong but he seems phony. Like, if a guy is speaking to a girl like that, that's a red flag. I't seems like he's just telling you things you want to hear because he knows you're going to melt over it (you seem like the type). I know leo's love attention too so he could just be enjoying the attention you're giving him. You seem like you're starstruck or something, lol.

that's what I've been thinking but we do talk a lot I've known him for 5 months and we have talked everyday do you still think that ?

Posted by JustALeo
Why read into it? If you enjoy his friendship then enjoy it, does it matter if you are a "bestie" or not and c'mon, you're 15 and he is 16! You both have so much life to live, why waste so much time wondering if one guy is your "bestie" or not? Enjoy life, enjoy being young and go be friends with more people because then you'll learn who really is a good friend and who is just an acquaintance.

*side note, just my opinion, no guy should ever say the word "bestie" out loud to another person lol

I know I just like him

OK, let me be blunt. My first "serious" BF was Aquarius. I was 14/15, and he was 13/14 when we dated. We broke up after 9 months, and it crushed us both. Very intense. It sounds funny to me now because we were sooo young. But it WAS serious. We talked about getting married when he turned 18.

My next (and last) serious relationship was with another Aquarius. We have been together for 20+ years.

Here's the ugly truth. You will get along fantastically, there will be serious chemistry on both sides. You are too young to handle this kind of attraction if you let it go romantic. Enjoy your connection, stay friends. Find other guys to be interested in romantically and have FUN.

A romantic relationship between Leo and Aqua is so dynamic that it isn't for the faint of heart or the inexperienced. You each have the ability to impact the other in ways that I don't think you want to deal with at this point in your life. I'm being completely honest here. Opposites attract, for soul-growth reasons. At 15/16, you don't know YOURSELVES well enough to be able to handle that kind of intensity. Hell, myself and my SO didn't get to that point until we were 30 and had been dealing with each other for 10 years already. And we still have deep seated issues we are working on.

My purpose isn't to be overly dramatic pr to scare you. Just be aware that you may not be fully prepared for the kind of relationship with this guy that you think you want. Be friends and enjoy the lighter side of your attraction, and keep it casual.

Posted by sultrykitty
OK, let me be blunt. My first "serious" BF was Aquarius. I was 14/15, and he was 13/14 when we dated. We broke up after 9 months, and it crushed us both. Very intense. It sounds funny to me now because we were sooo young. But it WAS serious. We talked about getting married when he turned 18.

My next (and last) serious relationship was with another Aquarius. We have been together for 20+ years.

Here's the ugly truth. You will get along fantastically, there will be serious chemistry on both sides. You are too young to handle this kind of attraction if you let it go romantic. Enjoy your connection, stay friends. Find other guys to be interested in romantically and have FUN.

A romantic relationship between Leo and Aqua is so dynamic that it isn't for the faint of heart or the inexperienced. You each have the ability to impact the other in ways that I don't think you want to deal with at this point in your life. I'm being completely honest here. Opposites attract, for soul-growth reasons. At 15/16, you don't know YOURSELVES well enough to be able to handle that kind of intensity. Hell, myself and my SO didn't get to that point until we were 30 and had been dealing with each other for 10 years already. And we still have deep seated issues we are working on.

My purpose isn't to be overly dramatic pr to scare you. Just be aware that you may not be fully prepared for the kind of relationship with this guy that you think you want. Be friends and enjoy the lighter side of your attraction, and keep it casual.

Okay I just want to know are we even friends ? I want to make sure he does mean what he says and actually wants me as a friend

Lol @ old ppl trying to teach young ppl not to get their knees bruised.

Posted by enfant_terrible
Lol @ old ppl trying to teach young ppl not to get their knees bruised.

Beyond bruised.

Posted by Stars

Okay I just want to know are we even friends ? I want to make sure he does mean what he says and actually wants me as a friend

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Sounds like you guys are friends. But that's not really what you're asking, is it?

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Posted by Stars

Okay I just want to know are we even friends ? I want to make sure he does mean what he says and actually wants me as a friend

Sounds like you guys are friends. But that's not really what you're asking, is it?

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I want it to be more I just want to know what he thinks of me as a friend I'm being really stupid...

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Posted by enfant_terrible
Lol @ old ppl trying to teach young ppl not to get their knees bruised.

Beyond bruised.

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So "do as I say not as I do" ?

In order to know what fire feels like they gotta get burned, no?

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Posted by enfant_terrible
Lol @ old ppl trying to teach young ppl not to get their knees bruised.

Beyond bruised.

So "do as I say not as I do" ?

In order to know what fire feels like they gotta get burned, no?

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Yes, but believe me, Leo/Aqua energy is different. Been with lots of guys, and been hurt. But nothing like what I experienced with the Aquas I dated. I'm just putting out the caution message out there.

Posted by MagicPowas
Young love, ehhh? The best advice I can give a younger person is to explore the opposite sex, but not to become so engrossed in the mystery of it all. You have your whole life ahead of you. Guys will ALWAYS be around and they can wait. You have so much of yourself to explore and so many, many things to experience (and he does too). I won't say your guy doesn't like or love you, but at that stage of growth and development, most guys do not understand the meaning or function of love or even like (and typically, in order to truly know this, they must date multiple women over a long span of time). And these same elements and rules apply to young women as well. Have fun with him, but don't take it so seriously. You two have years to make those decisions; for now, just enjoy your youth. When you get the feeling that you two are ready, you will know it in the pit of your soul. Until then, ride it out.

Basically this.

Posted by sultrykitty
OK, let me be blunt. My first "serious" BF was Aquarius. I was 14/15, and he was 13/14 when we dated. We broke up after 9 months, and it crushed us both. Very intense. It sounds funny to me now because we were sooo young. But it WAS serious. We talked about getting married when he turned 18.

My next (and last) serious relationship was with another Aquarius. We have been together for 20+ years.

Here's the ugly truth. You will get along fantastically, there will be serious chemistry on both sides. You are too young to handle this kind of attraction if you let it go romantic. Enjoy your connection, stay friends. Find other guys to be interested in romantically and have FUN.

A romantic relationship between Leo and Aqua is so dynamic that it isn't for the faint of heart or the inexperienced. You each have the ability to impact the other in ways that I don't think you want to deal with at this point in your life. I'm being completely honest here. Opposites attract, for soul-growth reasons. At 15/16, you don't know YOURSELVES well enough to be able to handle that kind of intensity. Hell, myself and my SO didn't get to that point until we were 30 and had been dealing with each other for 10 years already. And we still have deep seated issues we are working on.

My purpose isn't to be overly dramatic pr to scare you. Just be aware that you may not be fully prepared for the kind of relationship with this guy that you think you want. Be friends and enjoy the lighter side of your attraction, and keep it casual.

Thank you so much for all your advice

Posted by sultrykitty

Posted by enfant_terrible

Posted by sultrykitty

Posted by enfant_terrible
Lol @ old ppl trying to teach young ppl not to get their knees bruised.

Beyond bruised.

So "do as I say not as I do" ?

In order to know what fire feels like they gotta get burned, no?

Yes, but believe me, Leo/Aqua energy is different. Been with lots of guys, and been hurt. But nothing like what I experienced with the Aquas I dated. I'm just putting out the caution message out there.

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yes!

Aquarius runs cool. Leo runs HOT.

one is the chaser the other is the runner.

if aqua has complementary placements and so does leo, they will run hot together. they both learn alot from eachother, as they are opposites.

every opposite sign learns from their opposite.

Posted by sultrykitty
OK, let me be blunt. My first "serious" BF was Aquarius. I was 14/15, and he was 13/14 when we dated. We broke up after 9 months, and it crushed us both. Very intense. It sounds funny to me now because we were sooo young. But it WAS serious. We talked about getting married when he turned 18.

My next (and last) serious relationship was with another Aquarius. We have been together for 20+ years.

Here's the ugly truth. You will get along fantastically, there will be serious chemistry on both sides. You are too young to handle this kind of attraction if you let it go romantic. Enjoy your connection, stay friends. Find other guys to be interested in romantically and have FUN.

A romantic relationship between Leo and Aqua is so dynamic that it isn't for the faint of heart or the inexperienced. You each have the ability to impact the other in ways that I don't think you want to deal with at this point in your life. I'm being completely honest here. Opposites attract, for soul-growth reasons. At 15/16, you don't know YOURSELVES well enough to be able to handle that kind of intensity. Hell, myself and my SO didn't get to that point until we were 30 and had been dealing with each other for 10 years already. And we still have deep seated issues we are working on.

My purpose isn't to be overly dramatic pr to scare you. Just be aware that you may not be fully prepared for the kind of relationship with this guy that you think you want. Be friends and enjoy the lighter side of your attraction, and keep it casual.

good advice. i suppose both parties have been through relationships before, and have experience. at least to get it right.