Leo's is it hard for you to get along with scorpio

Short & sweet, I have a scorpio gf and we are really close. She usually has a very sweet disposition. Which initially drew me to her. However, I find myself needing a break from her often bc I feel she can be somewhat mean & unbearable at times. She says the most cutting things to me about what she hates about my personality and such. I don't like things about her personality either, but bc I want to be delicate with her feelings I don't say anything. She doesn't care about my feelings when she tells me things.

Also, I work with a scorpio male. One day he is SOO sweet, the next everything I do bothers him. I just don't get it.

Have y'all noticed this eight scorpio people?

Well, in any relationship if you truly love a person you must accept the good with the bad. However, in your particular situation I know that the sweet is incredibly so, and the unsweet is equal in value on the other end of the scale. Perhaps you should try looking at it from a different angle, it's only those that a Scorpio loves that will bear all of their ups and downs with you, if she didn't trust you and truly care about you, she would simply disappear. A word of caution, once you start pushing back when she flips, cause eventually you will, just watch yourself, a Scorpio doesn't let go of slighted words as easily. One last thing, grow a pair and stand up to her when she lashes out, she will only respect you more for it, and feel safer and respect you more for bringing her back down to earth when it's slipped away from her.

I hope this helps, I am speaking from my own experience as a Scorpio.

No offence, Tiz, but you're the most peggable person in here, so your opinion is invalid. 😉
Furthermore, Scors are supposedly intense and controlling, while Leos are simply easygoing. Fact of the matter is, Leos don't give a fuck while Scorps give too many. Naturally that dynamic will make people jump to certain conclusions.

@JBG: Are you sure she's mean and unbearable or is it just that your ego can't handle her honesty? Does she intentionally pick at stuff that she knows will strike the wrong note with you, or could it be that she's trying to be constructive but goes about it the wrong way? Frankly both Scorps and Leos have huge egos and both take things way too personally. What's her Mercury?

Posted by tiziani
Scorpios peg Leos, that's just how it goes from what I've seen.

I don't know what kind of hold they have on them, but it just seems Leos are happy to do a lay-down job on the mat and just take the countout when it comes to Scorpio. Whatever Scorp says, goes.

Ehh... until it doesn't.

It has the capacity to be the very best or the very worst, imo; depends entirely on the individuals involved.

What works for Leo with most people, does NOT work with Scorpio.

They want more/better (everything).


Both parties have to make sacrifices-- but if it gets off the ground, the payoff is going to be worth it.

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by tiziani
Scorpios peg Leos, that's just how it goes from what I've seen.
I don't know what kind of hold they have on them, but it just seems Leos are happy to do a lay-down job on the mat and just take the countout when it comes to Scorpio. Whatever Scorp says, goes.

Ehh... until it doesn't.
It has the capacity to be the very best or the very worst, imo; depends entirely on the individuals involved.
What works for Leo with most people, does NOT work with Scorpio.
They want more/better (everything).
Both parties have to make sacrifices-- but if it gets off the ground, the payoff is going to be worth it.

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i don't know why Tiz says what he says. Has he ever been in a relationship with a Scorpio woman?? i mean a serious one, with commitment.

and i agree, it would also depend on the venus/mars/moon too. how they love (venus) If they have more scorpio in their chart....well...

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by tiziani
Scorpios peg Leos, that's just how it goes from what I've seen.
I don't know what kind of hold they have on them, but it just seems Leos are happy to do a lay-down job on the mat and just take the countout when it comes to Scorpio. Whatever Scorp says, goes.

Ehh... until it doesn't.
It has the capacity to be the very best or the very worst, imo; depends entirely on the individuals involved.
What works for Leo with most people, does NOT work with Scorpio.
They want more/better (everything).
Both parties have to make sacrifices-- but if it gets off the ground, the payoff is going to be worth it.

i don't know why Tiz says what he says. Has he ever been in a relationship with a Scorpio woman?? i mean a serious one, with commitment.

and i agree, it would also depend on the venus/mars/moon too. how they love (venus) If they have more scorpio in their chart....well...

I can see that, early on-- when still feeling each other out.

Like I said: what usually works, doesn't fly with Scorps-- and maybe the op is a good example of that.. idk.

Sounds normal to me.



To the OP--

Posted by JBG
... she can be somewhat mean & unbearable at times. She says the most cutting things to me about what she hates about my personality and such. I don't like things about her personality either, but bc I want to be delicate with her feelings I don't say anything.

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Cut that shit out, and react; meaning, tell the truth-- what you just told us.

Idk understand it either, but it's going to be trial by fire no matter what.

*shrugs*

+1 with Tiz... thats been my experience too. It usually has to do with relationships and IME it's Leo men with Scorpio women... and the men always end up getting broken hearted and/or royally screwed over lol no pun intended.

I've had a Leo friend who openly admitted for years that he was still in love with his scorp ex and that he was going to look for another girl like her.

Posted by dustbunny
Oh and forgot to mention have been stung/betrayed by one scorpio early on... have learnt to look behind my back and keep away from these souls ever since.

Scorpios cunning is no match for the innocent Leo... just a warning sign

hm is this Gandalf?? that's what gandalf always says. O_O

always proclaiming innocence on leo's behalf.

Posted by IrresistableScorp
Leos take things very personally which comes as a complete surprise to Scorp.

I was talking to this Leo--whose ex cheated on him--we were talking about how some events are a blessing in disguise. Then I said, I noticed how happy you have been since you broke up with that girl who cheated on you??_just an observation.

Leo gets all ruffled up by that. He said: Why do you always have to bring up the cheating?

I was flabbergasted and apologized--I have brought up that cheating incident twice but peripheral to the conversation at hand. For me, I was thinking why did you take that comment SO personally? It was a positive observation: you look happier.

idk

Tainting the memory.

Speaking "ill" of someone they still care about-- or maybe just making him look bad.

I'm guessing.

But either way, his response wasn't reasonable.

Scorps do that, too, though-- at least, in my experience.

I'm sure Merc comes into play, somewhere-- enfant & lisabeth mentioned that I think.

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Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by dustbunny
Oh and forgot to mention have been stung/betrayed by one scorpio early on... have learnt to look behind my back and keep away from these souls ever since.

Scorpios cunning is no match for the innocent Leo... just a warning sign

hm is this Gandalf?? that's what gandalf always says. O_O

always proclaiming innocence on leo's behalf.

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kimprisonment.

In a sense, what JBG said is pretty accurate because I had two boyfriends both of them Scorpio and sometimes it was pretty hard .. But I don't think that the way they are harsh is just to be mean, of course they want you to feel hurt but just more to "shake the tree" and make you realize what you're doing wrong (in their sight..) and fix it. As a grown individual you had to get over it and take it as a constructive critic but if you can't handle it, here comes the troubles..

Posted by IrresistableScorp
Leos take things very personally which comes as a complete surprise to Scorp.

I was talking to this Leo--whose ex cheated on him--we were talking about how some events are a blessing in disguise. Then I said, I noticed how happy you have been since you broke up with that girl who cheated on you??_just an observation.

Leo gets all ruffled up by that. He said: Why do you always have to bring up the cheating?

I was flabbergasted and apologized--I have brought up that cheating incident twice but peripheral to the conversation at hand. For me, I was thinking why did you take that comment SO personally? It was a positive observation: you look happier.

idk

Honestly that comment would have made me feel badly too. He knows she cheated, she knows she cheated, you know she cheated...why keep bringing it up? It's like a blow to his ego EVERYTIME. You probably would have done better if you'd said "you look better since you broke it of with so and so" the cheating part was sooooooooooooo unnecessary.

scorpio tends to hide behind big corporations expensive clothes starbucks pink floyd, career etc
trust me they have the deep need of being part of society
fire signs dont hide behind anything cuz we dont need your big city shinning
were attitute over appearance

Posted by MeanStreetRider
scorpio tends to hide behind big corporations expensive clothes starbucks pink floyd, career etc
trust me they have the deep need of being part of society
fire signs dont hide behind anything cuz we dont need your big city shinning
were attitute over appearance

Pink Floyd? o.O

Posted by Jynja

Posted by IrresistableScorp
And while we are at it. 😄

You Leo's really respond very well to conversations that point to how lovable you are. It's sweet.

At the same time though it's bizarre how the smallest hint of something not being 100% adorable elicits over the top reaction. As a scorp, I spend half my day thinking about how crappy I am and how I can improve. Lol

If someone thinks I'm too adorable--while I appreciate it-- I'm also thinking "what do you want?" I don't trust over the top. Leo's seem to require it. 😄

Just an observation

It's an intriguing thing, indeed.

I have recently left comments on this board that are not very savory to Leos. They've been brushed aside every single time. How long before the dust starts to show under the carpet though? I wonder.

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hmmm... intriguing dichotomy indeed... : $

Posted by Reincarnation

You make us sound superficial; we are anything but superficial.

I was expecting a defensive response and thats exactly what i got ha!
I never said u are superficial, that came from your mind. i know im being rude but have to be direct, are you lame enough to deny your nature?
Scorpio loves the 3d world, loves soceity, loves money, loves the bussiness loves a routine job, loves the tuxedo lol thats what 8th house is about. oh and i forgot, scorpio is like a bag full of feelings and tears, i dont think thats bad im just telling u just to see if you are going to deny it.
Denying your own nature is not wise, u know that right? everything im saying is not a rant against u, but it looks like u have an inner fear of being judged.

Posted by Reincarnation
I find your statement ironic, considering that it's coming from a fire sign.

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Haha! too much madonna and britney for u
let me tell you something, people like that are not true fire, not even close cuz they have sold their honor to the media. sun signs mean nothing
True fire energy lives by its strength alone, uninhibited by foolish emotions! got it? A true man wants respect NOT to be worshipped like an idol, thats false power for us.
i often read about water folks saying: oh you are full of ego ego ego lol haha! theres a huge difference between a lame ego and being absolutely loyal to your ideals.

Posted by MeanStreetRider

Posted by Reincarnation

You make us sound superficial; we are anything but superficial.

I was expecting a defensive response and thats exactly what i got ha!
I never said u are superficial, that came from your mind. i know im being rude but have to be direct, are you lame enough to deny your nature?
Scorpio loves the 3d world, loves soceity, loves money, loves the bussiness loves a routine job, loves the tuxedo lol thats what 8th house is about. oh and i forgot, scorpio is like a bag full of feelings and tears, i dont think thats bad im just telling u just to see if you are going to deny it.
Denying your own nature is not wise, u know that right? everything im saying is not a rant against u, but it looks like u have an inner fear of being judged.

Posted by Reincarnation
I find your statement ironic, considering that it's coming from a fire sign.

Haha! too much madonna and britney for u
let me tell you something, people like that are not true fire, not even close cuz they have sold their honor to the media. sun signs mean nothing
True fire energy lives by its strength alone, uninhibited by foolish emotions! got it? A true man wants respect NOT to be worshipped like an idol, thats false power for us.
i often read about water folks saying: oh you are full of ego ego ego lol haha! theres a huge difference between a lame ego and being absolutely loyal to your ideals.

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What's this "US"?

You're a mutable, graceless windbag-- and totally off-topic, to boot.

Posted by Montgomery

What's this "US"?
You're a mutable, graceless windbag-- and totally off-topic, to boot.

says the female with a fish moon lol
earth rising also pff haha

Posted by MeanStreetRider

Posted by Montgomery

What's this "US"?
You're a mutable, graceless windbag-- and totally off-topic, to boot.

says the female with a fish moon lol
earth rising also pff haha

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That's it?

That's your comeback?


Jeezus.

Get back on topic or take it to the forum that specializes in your over-abundance of pompous ass.

Posted by geminicandIe
Monty, why are you letting this troll moron troll you?

He is not a fire sign at all. He doesn't even know who he is. I mean he was just over there under his other alter-ego. And second one too.

Very weird person, but hey that's what trolls do!

I just noticed. 😄

And no, I don't think he is, either.

and theres the annoying and paranoic double gem female. fuck!
the fish moon female asked you for help? i wouldnt be surprised
u two are hilarious joining forces to start an internet fight hahah
i guess im done here, if theres something that i hate more than internet fights that would be having a useless conversation with a gem woman scorned.
have fun internet warriors

Posted by MeanStreetRider
and theres the annoying and paranoic double gem female. fuck!
the fish moon female asked you for help? i wouldnt be surprised
u two are hilarious joining forces to start an internet fight hahah
i guess im done here, if theres something that i hate more than internet fights that would be having a useless conversation with a gem woman scorned.
have fun internet warriors

You can't finish what you started.

Shocker.

Posted by geminicandIe
If you go over to Sag board, you will see same weak attempt of starting something and then running for his life when I openly challenged him.

This can't be sag trait, can it?

Nope.

funny bitch hahah dont u realize that u just have a big mouth?
u 2 are really fast to write a big amount of shit, and if u are THAT interested in me let me tell u that im from spain, happy now dumb bitch? i dont always write shit to a woman scorned but yes you are THAT dumb and deserve it and if i said that im done here its because i FUCKING HATE stupid internet fights omg gem women are always annoying those of your kind always need a man to have some bed action dont u think bitch? otherwise u start talking shit in a goddamn forum or annoying people while talking on the pone. lame bitches u wanna continue this stupid topic on and on and on? fine, find another lame gem female and keep talking because im not gonna spend my time with dumb bitches

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by MeanStreetRider
scorpio tends to hide behind big corporations expensive clothes starbucks pink floyd, career etc
trust me they have the deep need of being part of society
fire signs dont hide behind anything cuz we dont need your big city shinning
were attitute over appearance

Pink Floyd? o.O

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😄

Posted by enfant_terrible

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by MeanStreetRider
scorpio tends to hide behind big corporations expensive clothes starbucks pink floyd, career etc
trust me they have the deep need of being part of society
fire signs dont hide behind anything cuz we dont need your big city shinning
were attitute over appearance

Pink Floyd? o.O

😄

Yes, but-- which one is Pink?






😄

Posted by dustbunny
I think he means the Scorpio need for power... it's not like a Tauruses need tho. Al tho most Scorpios tend to be the squandering their money kind (never seen one who doesn't flaunt it if he has it) unlike a virgo. Even Taurus with all their miserly ways like living the good life ... tho i think they prefer it if they get it from their partner.

Scorps like cleanliness and looking like they are ready for sex any moment LOL which means looking fresh and up to mark (clothes and all). #justsaying

The most un-materialistic sign could be virgos, aries, gemini. My gemini cousin wore hand me downs... actively asking for them (cue- angelina jolie).

I think you're out of your mind.

Posted by dustbunny
Maybe so.... Could you tell me how?

You're a compulsive liar.

Posted by Infinite8

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by geminicandIe
If you go over to Sag board, you will see same weak attempt of starting something and then running for his life when I openly challenged him.

This can't be sag trait, can it?

Nope.

Not at all!! They are usually more open minded with sunny dispositions. Scary about all these trolls _??_

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I have to agree on all points. 🙂

Posted by dustbunny

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by dustbunny
Maybe so.... Could you tell me how?

You're a compulsive liar.

And the sun shines from your arse.

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You noticed. 🙂

Well i wouldn't put up with her behavior. Tell the Scorpio she's wrong about you man. Tell her how it affects you & that she needs to clean up her act. Don't be scared to say it because it's call Respect. If she can't Respect you, then you don't need her. If she really loves you Mr.Leo, i'm sure she'll accept everything including flaws. I'm sure she has em too. Which is displaying now. Either she change, or you can find someone better