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Scorpio lovers are often more reserved and focus on deep emotional connection, while Leo lovers tend to be more boastful and expressive about their qualities. Scorpios value anticipation and modesty, making their intimacy more intense and genuine. Leos may seek attention, which can sometimes diminish the experience. Understanding these traits helps clarify their unique approaches to love.
Posted by enfant_terrible
I once asked a girl why male Scorpios are considered such great lovers, like what is it that makes them better than Leos? She replied that they probably are not better, but that Scorpios don't announce their excellence while Leos tend to boast so much that the sex becomes like an anti-climax. lol(Today's valuable lesson learned long time ago by a Pisces chick: )
Anticipation and modesty.
You live in fear of someone else whom, you think is better than you.
For your "lol", it appears you may not have learned your lesson.
Scorpios will do it for their partner to get off. We want to be remembered as your best forever! We want to be the best you ever had. I want the women I've been with to have sexual flash backs. That's how I think. Also, as a Scorpio I want return customers. Must, women come back, that's most of our goals. I love to get women off, turns me on more. I'm goin to get mime regardless!
Posted by PP
Scorpios will do it for their partner to get off. We want to be remembered as your best forever! We want to be the best you ever had. I want the women I've been with to have sexual flash backs. That's how I think. Also, as a Scorpio I want return customers. Must, women come back, that's most of our goals. I love to get women off, turns me on more. I'm goin to get mime regardless!
JEEEZUS...YES!!!
Meanwhile Leo could give 2 F*cks about their mate..its just: -fap-fap-fap-fap...rollover- snooze.
-selfish PRicks.
Posted by PP
Scorpios will do it for their partner to get off. We want to be remembered as your best forever! We want to be the best you ever had. I want the women I've been with to have sexual flash backs. That's how I think. Also, as a Scorpio I want return customers. Must, women come back, that's most of our goals. I love to get women off, turns me on more. I'm goin to get mime regardless!JEEEZUS...YES!!!
Meanwhile Leo could give 2 F*cks about their mate..its just: -fap-fap-fap-fap...rollover- snooze.
-selfish PRicks.Obviously you've had a bad experience. I don't know a Leo that didn't wine and dine his conquest and make her shiver in his bed clapping with glee before. My heart goes out to you. Hopefully, it's all in the past now.
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DEFINITELY in the past. BURIED in the crypt. He tried to escape..hit him with a shutdown shovel.
Posted by PP
Scorpios will do it for their partner to get off. We want to be remembered as your best forever! We want to be the best you ever had. I want the women I've been with to have sexual flash backs. That's how I think. Also, as a Scorpio I want return customers. Must, women come back, that's most of our goals. I love to get women off, turns me on more. I'm goin to get mime regardless!JEEEZUS...YES!!!
Meanwhile Leo could give 2 F*cks about their mate..its just: -fap-fap-fap-fap...rollover- snooze.
-selfish PRicks.Obviously you've had a bad experience. I don't know a Leo that didn't wine and dine his conquest and make her shiver in his bed clapping with glee before. My heart goes out to you. Hopefully, it's all in the past now.
DEFINITELY in the past. BURIED in the crypt. He tried to escape..hit him with a shutdown shovel.
LMLBO! keep a guard dog at the entrance. Cats fear dogs. π
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Lucky for me, my Chinese Zodiac is "The Dog".. I GOT this covered...lol
Posted by SatoriFierce
There are many aspects of sex which appeals to Scorpio. Besides creative, romantic expression and fulfilling the ego, what appeals to Leo about sex so much? Just curious.For sex with Scorps the heightened emotions uncover things they need to discover about themselves and others. The need to live on the edge, to experience the light and the darkness, the danger of trying things taboo. The merging of two bodies and souls, the emotional and physical intimacy. La petite mort; the orgasm as a process of death and rebirth. Scorps love mystery and unwrapping the mystery of another person's sexuality is fascinating. And of course, the demands of the ego are strong in Scorps as well.
Couldn't have said/typed it mo' better myself. We like to control sexually, but also like to please just as much. We have a brain full of nasty sexual acts on out bucket lists. We have no problem expressing those. Most of have huge sexual appetites. Won't take much to get us ready to go to pound town. but, it will take a lot to keep us happy sexually and keep us there!
Sex is a Spiritual experience PERIOD. No sign distinguishes it any further.
I do agree, sex-only unions does chips away at the soul as linking up..you give and you take parts of each other at the same time. So, its better to link with someone long-term.
Pluto...Voracious..Mmm...tell me more.
^^Amen Sister!! Scorp moons UNITE!
Oh...my...god....
First of all:
Who found this http://www.throughnightsfire.com/Scorpionsexuality.html ?!? More importantly, WHO created?! That person is a genius. The stunning portrait of Fabio says it all. No need to even read the description.
Posted by SatoriFierce
So yeah, there probably is no such thing as a completely submissive Scorp. π
Mmmmm...nothing wrong with this at ALL.
Posted by starlover
The difference is ~ ~Leo enjoy making love to themselves
Scorpio enjoy making love to their partner
π
Mmmmmmmm. π
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A WARM, Fuzzy 2nd...
lol.. @Pecheresse citing the source..
Until Leo is humbled, he will not begin to grasp the depths.
To him, it's all about his pride.
"Conditional love" distributed for something in exchange.
Truth will cut his lying head, clean off.
His pride, his memory, will die with him.
For pride, his life was truly wasted.
The Co-yo-te of the zodiac... Snuffed out.
For a witness to all, to humble themselves.
Posted by scorchedearth
who else isn't reading that? lol
haha..I wanted to... I tried. But NO dice boo. lol..
Posted by MrFirebird
Until Leo is humbled, he will not begin to grasp the depths.
To him, it's all about his pride.
"Conditional love" distributed for something in exchange.
Truth will cut his lying head, clean off.
His pride, his memory, will die with him.
For pride, his life was truly wasted.
The Co-yo-te of the zodiac... Snuffed out.
For a witness to all, to humble themselves.Yes, yes, Leo needs to humble himself, and Scorpio needs to get his head out of his dark, dank, miserable ass. π
Luckily, everyone else doesn't necessarily have to go down to the depths of hell and back to learn life lessons. That's just our style ... don't know any other way.
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This, too, is true. But... there are two paths with two destinations.
Both can choose to go to either.
As for the rest, they couldn't survive the depths of Hell. They are not equipped.
So... it's NOT luck. It's ordinance.
I am reminded of Kennedy. (5-29-17 - 11-22-63)
Perpetually constant obsession with sex is a sign of immaturity, weakness and lack of understanding.
To say that "Scorpio needs to get his head out of his dark, dank, miserable ass" is telling of the
one who told it. Hence, the "lizard".
There's more to Scorpio than "sex". Is it remotely possible that other topics, beside sex and romantic relationships, can be discussed with like passion?
There's a reason for going to hell and you won't know what that reason is until you've been there.
IF you think that you have been there, you might need to go back there and see if you dropped something on your way back.
π I can smile, too. π
Posted by scorchedearth
i see that as one of a handful of definitions. the sun isn't the soul. i've always read that the soul is the ascendant. the sun is the ego or personality.The soul is the ascendant? The outward image we show to the world??
Alright, since it has turned quite ridiculous, I think I best go home and tend my emotionally ailing cancer soul lover. LOL
the ascendant is the single most personal thing in your chart. ascendants last from a half hour to several hours. i think that is significantly more important than being born in a "month" that happens to fall under a specific signs jurisdiction.
i also think the moon is more important than the sun for the same reason.
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i think rising, sun and ascendant... to those who dont know astrology much and are asking me qs, i always tell them those are the most impressionable placements.
Posted by seraph
No sign has any greater claim to "love" than any other. I'll accept that there are *different* ways to love (one guess is good as another as to how fulfilling each one is) that would appeal to and fit with different sun signs, and more specifically, their placements.After all, we already have one authority who states that Leos love out of desire and without heavy expectations, while Cancers tend to look for external love out of emotional need. Which is the more "real", purer form of love? The unencumbered form of Leo love, or the heavier Cancer version that is viewed as an imperative, rather than an option? I don't know, nor is it a question really worth answering. because "love", whether it's described in astrological terms or otherwise, is not a zero-sum game.
Posted by seraph
Leos don't "make love" (except to reflective surfaces.)They F**k.
Hard.
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Stupid s h i t.
Posted by Ellybean
π my gem Mars causes so much undercurrent trouble for my chart lol.Love-making is chart dependent in my opinion. Me and my Scorpie have air mars placements. So talking and word/intellect foreplay and even during sex is hot. Where as one of my gal pals HATES any person who speaks a word during sex.
Love is varied throughout the 12 lessons of the signs. Leo's through the lens of "I will" and Scorpio through the lens of "I desire"
"I will"
There's a sayin....
Wanna make God laugh? Tell Him what you will do.
Posted by starlover
The difference is ~ ~Leo enjoy making love to themselves
Scorpio enjoy making love to their partner
πMmmmmmmm. π
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OK, easy there Pech. You had - what, one Leo lover who broke your heart and suddenly you're an expert on Leos?
I think this thread pretty much shows who's got the most overblown ego. It's created by a Leo (moi) who basically gives out free points to the Scorpio just for the fun of it, and what does this evolve too? A bunch of Scorpios banging themselves against thier chests... yet Leos are supposedly the most boastful sign. Riiiiight, I'll believe it when I see it.
Furthermore.......
Posted by PP
Scorpios will do it for their partner to get off. We want to be remembered as your best forever! We want to be the best you ever had. I want the women I've been with to have sexual flash backs. That's how I think. Also, as a Scorpio I want return customers. Must, women come back, that's most of our goals. I love to get women off, turns me on more. I'm goin to get mime regardless!
Yeah that's not a least bit boastful. Surely someone who's THAT good would be more humble about their skills. F-A-I-L ,to say the least. You sound like me when I was virgin.
Actually you sound like the stereotypical Leo, you know the one that everyone keeps talking about but that only exists in their heads. If you enter the Leo section you will only find a bunch of laid-back people who are more than happy to have fun at their own expence. Now enter the Scorp section and you will find a bunch of defensive, dead-serious people with major ego issues and no sense of humor... at least not when it's on their expence.
Surely if us Leos have the most overblown egos we would also make the most ambitious lovers because a non-satisfied customer would mean the end of our world as we know it.
And look, you unsatisfied ladies, if a Leo doesen't care about your pleasure then trust me, he doesen't love you. He doesn't even like you. When I stop giving a f*ck between the sheets I know for sure it's time to leave, simply because I know that's not the way I am!
I'm beginning to think that Scorpios don't really know what love is. Like, they know compassion... just like they know sympathy, but without knowing empathy.
Hey you wanted a war, you got one! Don't f*uck with Bonaparte! π
Posted by PP
Scorpios will do it for their partner to get off. We want to be remembered as your best forever! We want to be the best you ever had. I want the women I've been with to have sexual flash backs. That's how I think. Also, as a Scorpio I want return customers. Must, women come back, that's most of our goals. I love to get women off, turns me on more. I'm goin to get mime regardless!Yeah that's not a least bit boastful. Surely someone who's THAT good would be more humble about their skills. F-A-I-L ,to say the least. You sound like me when I was virgin.
Actually you sound like the stereotypical Leo, you know the one that everyone keeps talking about but that only exists in their heads. If you enter the Leo section you will only find a bunch of laid-back people who are more than happy to have fun at their own expence. Now enter the Scorp section and you will find a bunch of defensive, dead-serious people with major ego issues and no sense of humor... at least not when it's on their expence.
Surely if us Leos have the most overblown egos we would also make the most ambitious lovers because a non-satisfied customer would mean the end of our world as we know it.
And look, you unsatisfied ladies, if a Leo doesen't care about your pleasure then trust me, he doesen't love you. He doesn't even like you. When I stop giving a f*ck between the sheets I know for sure it's time to leave, simply because I know that's not the way I am!
I'm beginning to think that Scorpios don't really know what love is. Like, they know compassion... just like they know sympathy, but without knowing empathy.
Hey you wanted a war, you got one! Don't f*uck with Bonaparte! π
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Who are you? You sure make a big deal outta nothing! Hahahaha.
Posted by ellessque
gheeez, all those angry words.I really didn't think this was going to turn into a pissing match.
and who said anything about being unsatisfied about anything?
Oh so when I mouth off back it's suddenly "I didnt know it was gonna turn into a pissing match".
And ladies unsatisfied by the Leo service include: Pecheresse, TaurusBELLE and starlover. Geez it's kind of awkward when you put it that way...... lol
Posted by seraph
I'll agree with elle on this.If there are issues between Leos and Scorps I fail to see them. Both signs do very well together and understand each other quite well around here. We have a lot of Scorp regulars on the Leo board and vice-versa. Maybe my vision needs adjusting?
Huh? Wait, what? I don't understand , is that a response to something I said? Or Elle, for that matter?
Posted by PP
Who are you? You sure make a big deal outta nothing! Hahahaha.
Supposedly Leos are the most boastful sign, you proved that to be wrong... Scorpios actually often do that, but obviousely this is gonna play out like a really juicy episode of the Twilight Zone - no one can see the trees for the forest except me.
[Intro theme here]
Posted by ellessque
gheeez, all those angry words.I really didn't think this was going to turn into a pissing match.
and who said anything about being unsatisfied about anything?
Oh so when I mouth off back it's suddenly "I didnt know it was gonna turn into a pissing match".
And ladies unsatisfied by the Leo service include: Pecheresse, TaurusBELLE and starlover. Geez it's kind of awkward when you put it that way...... lol
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..SSomeone call my name?.. What's the problem?
Posted by Ellybean
I've never been with a Leo in any capacity. The only sizable interaction I have with one is the Scorpio's bestie. Even with his abundant Virgo energy he is just the quintessential Leo with his energy.I love watching the interplay between the two of them. True loyalty and respect for each other's strengths and weaknesses, wonderful humor. Like when we're all out to eat or for a drink, if a female waitress is serving us, as soon as she walks away leo goes "She wants to bang me." However if it's a male waiter he turns to Scorpie and says "He wants to bang you."
Leo is unafraid of all things social. He used to be a car salesman for goodness sake. π He can approach any woman anywhere(or any person for that matter), find a conversation and charm the person to come eat or drink with us. Not only that he usually entertains them and us the whole night and can turn a table of three into a party of fifteen. That's just not something my Scorpio is/does.
On the opposite side, Leo started online dating recently. He had a profile up for about a week or two and couldn't get a single girl to talk/reply to him and was frustrated. So he knows that Scorpio used to do that and that's how we met, so he asks Scorp to take a look see over it all. Scorp tweaks his profile, changes his pictures and the Leo is in disbelief it will work, thinks he's making things worse. 15 minutes after Scorpio saves the changes, Leo get 3 messages from girls contacting him for the first time. Scorpio gives him ways/things to say in first messages to get replies from girls, since he wasn't getting anywhere there. A week later Leo texts "It hurts me deep down in my soul just how effective your messages are."
I think they're fabulous, the both of em. π
This was nice. Leos could learn a thing or two from the Scorpios when it comes to subtleties and toning things down with mysterious allure. Its not always about "Bravado, in your face" boldness which can be darn abrasive.
You are absolutely right though, Leos can turn a table of 5 to a table of 15. Great friends..I'll pass on the lovers ticket.
I've had both a leo and scorpio. I can def say scorps are way better in the sack. For me anyways ^^. (Libra sun and moon). The Leo was way to egotistical with nothing to back it up. The scorp didn't say much but boy oh boy he didn't have too
Scorp was way more interested in what got me off than what the leo was
Posted by ellessque
scorched,in public, I like to be in control and dominate. Mainly self control. There is shit that needs to be done and I'm going to get it done. Just stay out of my way and everyone will be happy π
in private, after that door closes to the world until the next day, i prefer a more submissive "traditional" type role.
this is me too.. Its my way or the highway out in the world, whatever he wants indoors.
Posted by seraph
Leos don't "make love" (except to reflective surfaces.)They F**k.
Hard.
that's not been my experience of leos at all....apart from one who was utterly selfish in bed and so was 'binned' very quickly.
guess i must be a reflective surface π
with scorpios, i think they have natural carnal skill but i imagine you see all their tricks very early on and you wonder where you can possibly go from there and also, as with scorp ladies, there is so much sensuality involved that it's hard to work out your true feelings so it may seem really intense but it's only intense for those moments. well, it's like that for me anyway.
leos are more slow release cos i think they need the love feeling more to encourage their repertoire out of them cos if they can get away with doing as little as possible in the sack, that suits them fine lol.
Lol @ "dont fuck with Bonaparte". That was funny. The best sex i ever had was with a leo mars. Just saying..
Posted by WaterCup
Lol @ "dont fuck with Bonaparte". That was funny. The best sex i ever had was with a leo mars. Just saying..
i have leo mars tooooo!!! π
Oh, my God, YES about aries...it was like being fucked by rooster..it ended seconds after it started. I never gave that man any famous excuses "not tonight, honey, i got a headache" bcause i didnt need to, lol. I would have been selfish if i did. Hahaha. Now the scorp did it the longest, you moaned until your mouth get dry. So many times i wished to push him off, lol...just finish, my tongue is dry and im thirsty.
I remember our 1st attempt at sex, he never got it in bcause he was already done..in his pants and i had to use a hairdrier to dry his pants. He was so embarrassed that he left soon after. 2nd time he did it (the normal way, not with his pants) super duper fast and blamed it on the position, the bed position and me (apparently i was too hot, lmao). He wanted us to shift the bed to the other side of the room and i was like "look, im not about to rearrange furniture for u..do it or leave it". Aries do it very fast and for about 20 times in 30 minutes. Hahaha. Mercy!
On his defence thou (i dont wanna sound mean or anything)...i think i was his 1st. We were married for a few years and i never heard him talk about or mentioned an x..nothing. Plus he was/is muslim (arab) That would explain a lot about what went on in private. Really good guy in general
Muslim guys are really weird about sex. The leo mars one had his strange habits. 1st time we slept together, he jumped up after he was done and did a little chant while walking up and down. When we moved in together to a flat near a mosque, he would move away from me at the sound of azaan (the call for prayer), didnt matter what time it was. I didnt see the point cause a sin is a sin and he didnt stop "sinning", lol
Posted by Pecheresse
^^^^^no foreplay with Leos.
Foreplay involves fluffing the pillows and making sure the bed's sturdy enough to take what's to come.
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Elle- how am i paint brushing them all? Just bcause i didnt add "MY" bfore muslim guys makes that statement a generalization? I've been with 2 so 'guys' is proper, u cant expect me to not put the 's' at the end when talking about a couple of people.
I dont know where yours came from, but my guy were from muslim countries {middle eastern and pakistani} so to them zeena {premarital sex} was a BIG deal to them to the point of freaking out {in the beginning}. Both bathed after each sex act
And it has EVERYTHING to do with being muslim.
a. my husband didnt have any sex experience due to his religion {in his country sex talks are forbidden} hence he didnt know that the bed or its position is not at fault for premature ejaculation.
b. The other dude did {meri tuaba, meri tuaba}
in public, I like to be in control and dominate. Mainly self control. There is shit that needs to be done and I'm going to get it done. Just stay out of my way and everyone will be happy π
in private, after that door closes to the world until the next day, i prefer a more submissive "traditional" type role.
+1 ^^^^This is it
Both characters need improvement in all areas! smh
I get Watercup, she wasn't being stereotypical at all..she comes from Africa..(South Africa) (Correct me if I'm wrong no?)
I'm not turning this into a "religion" thing..but I briefly dated 2 Muslims before as well..One was from Conakry, Guinea but we to the same University here in the states, we'd speak French, I'd stay at his place..etc.. but he seemed so "technical", he wasn't senusal enough for me. I remember he got up to pray too and asked me if I would join him..lol I rolled over and went to sleep. The 2nd guy was a Sagg from the states. During Ramadaan (Sp?) I wouldn't so much as get a call or text from him because I was a "temptation"...lol That was the last. I DO love me some African men though. My Current Scorp is Yoruba...lol ..OK I'm done.
Agree with taurusbelle. My husband doesnt have sex during the month of ramadaan..at all. It depends on a person, how serious they are about their religion and their upbringing.
Elle- logically speaking, even if i held the title of 'world's number 1 whore' its still not possible to sleep with EVERYBODY so i dont get where u get 'generalization' from. I fucked 2 and that wasnt a blanket statement. Your x (i dont know where he is from) wasnt raised on a purely muslim enviroment like my guys whose parents were both muslims and every single person they knew growing up was muslim..all they knew/know was islam and its laws. U just cant compare them to your guy. Pakistan is +- 80% (even more) muslim and different religions stay in separate areas to prevent 'infection' by other religious groups. Its even worse at my hubby's country, i think it might be in 90s if not 100. You just cant compare 'pure' muslims to 'diluted' ones.
Taurusbelle, Yoruba people are from Nigeria and nigerians here in south africa have notoriety for being...well...'great' both in bed and 'down there'...is it true? Lol. I have nigerian friends, a lot of them and they all tell me that a night with them would be the best but would leave me in a wheelchair for a while, lol. They are a confident lot and dont u just love their accent and how they 'o' at the end of every single word? It makes me laugh when they say things like...listeno, stupido, toileto, breado etc. Haha
Posted by WaterCup
Taurusbelle, Yoruba people are from Nigeria and nigerians here in south africa have notoriety for being...well...'great' both in bed and 'down there'...is it true? Lol. I have nigerian friends, a lot of them and they all tell me that a night with them would be the best but would leave me in a wheelchair for a while, lol. They are a confident lot and dont u just love their accent and how they 'o' at the end of every single word? It makes me laugh when they say things like...listeno, stupido, toileto, breado etc. Haha
CHAI!!! EEEY Watercup,You go PUT me for trouble oooooo!!!! ah!-ah!..YES he is from Nigeria. I picked up most of my "pidgin" from him. I LOVE it. Now if only I could master speaking Yoruba I'd be GOLDEN. From DAY 1 I fell in LOVE with his accent. When he speaks "Proper English" he has a British type accent. But when it comes to speaking pidgin,-Chai- the BUSH comes out!! haha... And YES what you heard is TRUE. Yoruba men are confident, My guy is tall & slim, but carries a GREAT walking stick...Lord have mercy. He plans on flying into the states for the holidays. I can't wait to see my baby mi.
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I once asked a girl why male Scorpios are considered such great lovers, like what is it that makes them better than Leos? She replied that they probably are not better, but that Scorpios don't announce their excellence while Leos tend to boast so much that the sex becomes like an anti-climax. lol
(Today's valuable lesson learned long time ago by a Pisces chick: )
Anticipation and modesty.