Libra Female Leo Male

I am a Libra Female and have been seeing a Leo Male for three months. Initially we talked and laughed and the whole thing took us both by surprize. I had already taken a job transfer and had to move an hour away. Since then we still talk and see one another; but, I feel as though he is very careful and unsure. I still want to continue on the fun roll we started; but, he is hiding away. Any ideas?

okay....so now I am 5 months into a relationship w/ a leo male and he seems to be stalling....is it me?......should I let him stall.....should I call him on it.......he is claiming that he is not feeling well physically....it seems to be true.....i also feel that he is not feeling well emotionally....a lot of work demands...kid demands.....i do still miss him and maybe i shouldn't...rats......he claims that he still thinks of me/misses me...but to get together and speak face to face....talk turkey etc....he shys away....go ahead and tell me...move on......I miss him.....any leo males out there who can speak to this phenomenon....libra female

Okay!...where is the response to this message......I am waiting for a Leo male to shed some light on this....

See message dated 10/28/00

Hey Libra Female,
Lionhead here......maybe he is not comfortable with the new change of boundries. I think that even though Leos
need to be the center of attention they also need a lot of space and shy away from confrontation. Also, are you letting him be the control freak that he is ? I mean that with all respect.
Leos love to be in control and Libras love that about them.........Ciao

Explain this Simba!!!
I am currently dating a leo male,and i
cannot figure him out. i have never been with a man that tells me that i am perfect in every way then to have him totally avoid
me. im so confused...i donnot know if i should leave him alone or pursue him further....but he's worth the wait....
my only problem is that i lack patience.

To Libra Female from NY...

Hi there, I'm a Libran too and I read your post. I think you need to approach him, but with caution and diplomacy--you know what that is right? Of course! You're a Libran and I bet you know how to "word it right" for your Leo's ego. Male Leo's can have a sensitive ego so when you ask him on how it's gonn abe for the both of you, compliment him as well. He'll like that. Good luck.
Sloane

i am libra and this is my second leo byfd. the first was was attentive, sweet and awesome..that is, until he took off with a co-worker. he cried when he betrayed me this way. i have fallen for a second leo now but am afraid that he will be nice and then pull the same thing the former leo did. oh well. time will tell

In July started seeing a Leo Male.....absolutely love spending time with this guy...he works 6 days a week at his own business...I wish he could let go and spend time relaxing on weekends more.....ps Stay the heck away from Virgo men all you Libra women! Been there, done that...no thanks...-b-

HEY LIBRA GAL WITH LEO MAN, IT'LL WORK BECAUSE HE DOESN'T SOUND LIKE A LAZY LEO. HAD ONE MYSELF ALONG TIME AGO, 14 YEARS AGO. IF VIRGO WE SHOULD STAY AWAY FROM THAT ALSO GOES FOR ARIES, RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN, THEY CAN BE GREAT IN BED BUT ABUSIVE IN EVERY OTHER WAY.

I completely agree - STAY AWAY FROM VIRGO MEN!!!! Libra will be very unhappy! No joke... I am on my second
Virgo and both are the same...call me
stupid for doing it twice... always
hoping they will change and not be so
selfish...BULL. They are what they are... Selfish individuals who everyone
to cater to them. Leo's on the other-hand can be wonderful! There is one
I'd like to get closer to myself...
but timing is everything...

Best of luck to you!!!

Leo men have atendency to like impulse buying I know I am married to one have been married for twelve years...best decision I ever made.🙂

good luck.

I am your typical Libra female, I give my all. I love my Leo male from the depths of my heart, and yes, a Leo male is everything I have read and he is everything I have ever wanted in a partner. From the first time we kissed, I knew I wanted to only kiss him for the rest of my life....I have been verbally abused by him, no one deserves that - and he is controlling (but we know that suits an indesisive libran fine, dont we, LOL).
All I have done was love him and give him all I had....the ironic part is I miss him, I miss all the wonderful things he had given me, shown me, opened my eyes too, & the beautiful times we had....but not at the price of watching every word I say....I believe there are good leo men out there, I just haven't found him yet. The women who have are lucky! I am just grateful for the experience of being with a Leo Male.....wouldn't want it any other way.

I haven't checked this site in a while. Thank You to all of you who wrote and commented on my question about this Leo guy. I am still in love with him and he is still shy of commitment. He is very sensitive and I do think he is affraid of losing me if we should become even more committed. I am not too worried at this point; but, I have explained to him that I am looking for companionship and would hate to lose him. He knows anyhow.

Just an admonishment.....

Leo males are very fond of women in general too so there is a tendency for him to wander off for an affair. You don't want that do you?? Remember Bill Clinton? A CLASSIC LEO MALE. Leo males like to be physical with the opposite gender so BEWARE.

Can you believe I am back again.......It would appear that I simply must try my best to walk away from this Leo Male......I have felt a very deep love for him for almost a year now.....I explained to him that I cared grately for him and that I believed I was in love with him.....wanting to travel, learn, explore, physically love and care for this guy...............I asked that if he did not feel the same I would greatly appreciate him telling me so, so that I could find a way to stop loving him so......my exact words were "to try my hardest not to love you".......I see this Leo male about once a month and the rest of the time we talk on the email or phone......He has been a great inspiration to my music and art work..........He and I share an interest in history and travel..............He did not reply to my email asking him to state his feelings.......I wrote again asking if my love for him was my imagination or was I to believe that he was still choosing to take baby steps with our love......his only reply was "baby steps".........I don't know if I am to believe that he is simply stringing me along or if he really is this painfully shy and procrastinating..........any takers on this for a bit of advise......my heart and chest say that I am in love with him.............my brain is trying desperately to not feel for him........

I have dated a Leo man before, sure enough he was great, our only problem was the power strugle "So, who is-sss the best? It's me! No, it's me!" Anyway, what i have notice with this cat was, that as soon as i start to get emotionally attached to him , he starts pulling away, but as soon as i act like "Oh yes, baby, you are the best, and i don't even want to put the strings on you " he would show me all his love and appreciation.
To make the story short, Leos are NOT SHY! And they don't like manipulation and pressure that comes from being in a relationship, he is the king, and the deal is done, basically!
I let him be the king in his castle, but in mine i want to rule! ( we stayed good friends though)

Thanks for the reply......This cat is such a pain in the @# $ % .....I enjoy praising him......I let him be in charge however possible.......he has got it made...I feed him the best food.....I give him back rubs and plenty of attention........but with him in charge we go no where and do nothing....I have to coax him to go out and do more.......he's a work-a-holic and does not make time for play.......so now I am on day three of trying not to be in love with him.......I can have more adventure on my own with the friends who have been inviting him and I, literally, all over the world....I will have to go all over the world alone...........just got back from Germany......was dissapointed that he did not come with me.....accomodations paid for....friends as tour guides...had a blast but no Leo Male.........the only BIG problem is that I miss his warmth and his energy and the humor we share........I am doing the One Day At A Time method of getting over him........God Grant Me The Serenity To Accept The Things I Cannot Change etc..........It's like a 12 Step Program over here!.-

The first thing that comes to my mind as you described him is "ego" and plenty of male Leo's have it--even women leos. You need to ask this Leo honey if he's attracted to you. I think that's very important and make sure he looks you right in the eyes with his answer. If he does not look you in the eyes with his reply--start looking for another boyfriend. Also, find out if he has his eye on another woman. Most leo males like to , well, how should I say? They like to keep thier options open --always on the lookout for something hot. I'm NOT saying you're not hot. It's just that thier Texas size ego gives them the quality of "scoping out for prospects". Understand? Leo's want the world. Espeacially the men. Look at Madonna. Understand me? Also, according to my trusty Western and Chinese astrological book by Suzanne White, don't be so ready and willing to pamper this Leo. In fact, get away from him and LET HIM WONDER WHAT YOUR UP TO! What year was he born in?

I am October 5, 1961 and he August 6, 1950

Ok! sorry it took so long to reply but, here is what I found out for you and to me, it seems good. You are a Libr Ox and he is an Aquarian Rat. These two, according to Suzanne White's book should definetaly get along!! and are quite compatible for one another. I read an excerpt from the book under the "LOVE" category and here is what it says for Aquarian Rat:

As the Aquarius/Rat mixes fancy with charisma and neurosis with nervousness, you can imagine the troubled waters of emotion at work here. This person will be both attractive and vulnerable. The attractiveness shows. The vulnerability hides. His or her emotional needs will be best met by coupling with sloid citizen types who are willing to tether their Aquarius Rat firmly to earth. If you love an Aquarius Rat, don't fence him/her in. But do tie your loved one down. I know this sounds contradictory, but think of Aquarius Rats as morning glories. For morning glories to thrive, their feet must be firmly planted in the shade and their heads constantly exposed to the brightest sunlight. That's how you should treat your Aquarius Rat. Let him feel free as a Montgolfiere, but keep the lines drawn and taut and don't take any nonsense. Your Aquarius Rat will love you all the more for caring.

So, there you have it--from the book. You should run out and buy it. Hope this helps.

also, sorry about the typos--sloid should be "solid".

Are you sure he is an Aquarius Rat if he is born August 6, 1950?....In some ways the description does sound like him ; but, I wonder why he would be Aquarian......this could be interesting.....

You know what? You're right! I am beside myself right now as I just read what I wrote and I can't beleive I gave you the wrong signs!! I'm a complete schmuck. I apologise for the strange mistake. You must of been thinking: WHHAAAAATT??

Ok, so I looked it up in the book again--got it right this time and he is a LEO TIGER. So, under "Compatibilities" , here is what it says:
Aries, Gemini Sagitarius and Capricorn enhance your existence with thier Dragon , Horse, and Dog mates. That's not so many to choose from, but then, you are not the easiest person in the world to please, are you? Taurus, Scorpio or Aquarius Monkeys are out of the question for your life style as are both Taurus and Aquarian OXEN.

Here's what it says under "LOVE":
Sentiment is not an easy part of the Leo/Tiger's life. For a start, his natural arrogance puts people off. The Leo/Tiger's inner sense of how exceptional he can be and how fabulous he intends to make his life one day may keep him from settling down to one person, making a family and building a home. You see, the Leo/Tiger cannot envisage himself attatched to anyone who is not at least equal to him both in power and stature. In doing so, the Leo/Tiger limits his chances for marriage and family life. He does not, however, limit himself to sexual adventures, wherein he doesn't much care whether the partner is equal so long as he looks up to him and sighs a lot. Should you find youself in love with one of these benevolent despots, don't even appear weaker than he. Even if you feel like bawling, keep your dukes up. This person is impassioned by strength, excited by force and turned on by aggressivity.

So there you have it from Suzzanne White's book. Page 299. In my opinion if I may dare to say so, he sounds like trouble. Hope this helps you.

Jeese, that does sound scarey!.......The way he appears to me is so much more like the first description being the Aquarian Rat.....but perhaps I see him as an Aquarian Rat when in fact he is really more like the Leo Tiger...........I will keep this in mind.......quite a bit of Western and Eastern astrology can be remarkable......there are some recurring areas in descriptions about me that are off; but, none- the -less quite a few are right on.......I will definitely heed this insight and try to see what I can gain from it....Thank You for your input......

When I first wrote about the "Compatibilities" in the first paragraph, that was about him--the Leo/Tiger. I just wanted to make that clear so that you understand. Good luck with him.

Was it the paragraph that said "it looks good"? and then the part that is incorrect is the paragraph talking about Auquarius being like the morning glory flower. I really should buy that book eh? I had a psychic tell me that this guy is frightened and unsure of my love for him and that he needed a lot of convincing.......but also that by the time of his birthday, August, he should show to be more committed and that by next spring he may want to be a true partner of mine both in business and personal......I guess I wonder if the psychics can see past the Leo/Tiger thing or if the Psychic is seeing another person in my future...I just keep pluggin away at my job and my art and keep my eyes open for all the possibilities. It is just too mystical how I feel about this guy....If there is such a thing as past lives I bet he and I knew eachother at another point in time.....

The only positive things that Suzanne White wrote from her book were the matching of Libra/Ox to Aquarius/Rat (Not your Leo guy) I really didn't read up on Libra Ox --(Sigourney Weaver is a Libra Ox) to tell you the truth. She basically said that his Leo type is a bit complicated. I think you should start looking for that Aquarius Rat--Librans and Aquarians always get along.

Also, I wanted to mention that a lot of psychics today are either phonies or they have some ability but not as accurate as they boast. I advise that you trust the stars only--the planets don't lie. Last week I spoke to one of those tarrot/psychics over the phone and everything she told me was complete rubbish. Go buy Suzzanne White's book or some book like it. You should be able to get it at any well-known, chain book store.

Wow, honey I know exactly wht you are going through. I am a libra female, the object of my affection for the last 8 years has been a leo male. We have always been very good friends, but it's more complex, I've always been in love with him but I married a friend of his and am now divorced. They aren't as close of friends as we are. I recently told(wrote) him that I was in love with him in a subtle manner so as not to scare him off. No response to the letter but now are goodbyes consisit of my cahrming little friend kissing me goodbye on the mouth vs the cheek. In my heart I know to hold faith that he's just scared(he lives across the country to boot) but my head is telling me to move on. But I really don't know if I can give up. I know him better then anyone else, I pay attention to him and know what to do to make him happy in ways the other women couldn't. And I don't mean physical. Mental. But he's on the distant, forgetful side and he travels a lot with his job(which takes him back here at least once a month0. he's coming in town next month for one week and he's going to a special event with me so he's mine for 24 hrs. All I can say is persevere, because the bond can be strong but scary!!

What does your Leo do for a living? He sounds like he's worth holding on to.

He's a drummer in a band from Seattle that is actually quite successful.

SO he's her quite often. He is worth holding on to. He called me today after not hearing from him for days. But the band has been busy and he's my date for a friend's wedding in a few weeks.

I adore him. I just know how charming he is and thought he's not dating anyone, he attracts them left and right, male and female alike, but he does nothing with anyone. But to me the mere fact that the location of our kisses goodbye changed after 8 years said something to me. I'm just holding tight for the wedding!

Dear Charli:

Your second to last sentence was hard to understand, however, he sounds good to keep so try hard to make him yours. Make sure no one else steals him.

Hey!
Sloane, you had me confused when you said he was Aquarius! but, thanks for the author name!
Some do not appreciate what they had until it is gone....
Best of luck!

What is up with him not simply saying......"I am sorry that your feelings for
me are stronger than my feelings for you. I wish you the best in the
future.....David. Now tell me, what is so damn difficult about that?......Jeese! If
there is anyone out there who cannot properly break up with someone....I
want you to cut and paste what I just wrote and USE IT the next time
someone loves you more than you love them......IT IS THE ONLY FAIR AND
JUST THING TO DO.........If you cannot lay it on the line for someone and
have the decency to take responsibility for yourselves than you ought to have
trouble sleeping at night.~B~