Posted by Luckyy_Libra
Now, I've been on this thread reading about a lot of Libras having issues with Leos. I mean, yeah...we are a really good match but I wonder if Leos and Libras are simply fun experiences. What I mean is...I wonder if we just connect on a fun level...with great sex but aren't mean for long term commitments. Think about it, it's an amazing connection....but it hardly lasts, especially when both of the people involved are young. I start to wonder if they are just a match that is just meant to be a passionate, fun, exciting memory. What do you think?
For example, my Leo ex was my first love. Yes, we had great times, and his place in my heart will always remain....but I knew in the bad of my mind it wouldn't work out for a serious long-term relationship where we would build a serious future together. I will always have special memories and thoughts of him that will stay with me forever...but it wasn't meant. He was selfish, rude, and dramatic. Always starting drama and arguements. Now...he has a Taurus girl who he walks all over and hes loving every second of it. Haa...it's funny how things work. You would think a Leo man would want a classy lady with RESPECT for herself but instead he wants a doormat. lol...oh well...
Us Libras shouldn't have to settle.
But what do you guys think? Are Leos and Libras just a good time or did I just have bad luck?
Posted by sleepyrebel
You Guys are making want to stop talking to this leo lady... it's like no hope the way both sides are going.
Posted by LibraGirl43
I have read everything on this site regarding Leo men. I am an adult Libra woman who has dated a Leo man. They have certain traits they display very early in a relationship that undermines our futures together. First Leo's test potential partners very early on (first few dates). They seem to do this to see what we will do kinda like the a "practice run". Unfortunately, this is a direct attack on a Libra. As a Libra we generally are focused on establishing clear and defined boundaries. Thus when they disrespect or hurt us we respond with our backs up. We don't want to be "push over's" or get taken advantage of in a relationship. So we try to be very clear up front with any guy we date what we will and will not accept. Given this was a "test" the Leo is turned off and wary that he is dealing with a "cookiemonster". They also think we may leave them or abandon them in the future. This undermines their trust in the potential of the relationship. With Leo's they see our "boundary setting" as an argument or conflict and don't perceive us as accommodating, loving, giving, supportive, flirty, sexy, gentle women. This puts a bad taste in their mouths for us in the future.
Also, we Libra's don't respond well to the "disappearing act" Leo's frequently display. Libra's perceive unpredictable absence/silence as a sign of imbalance, instability and significant untrustworthiness. A significant problem in the beginning stages of a romantic relationship.
Lastly, Leo's are a bit selfish and self centered. I haven't figured this out just yet. But add me as a favorite and I'll post additional information on this topic.
Libra's just have to get out of the shallows into the deep with Leo's. We have to let things skate and keep showing them affection, don't stalk them, don't over initiate communication and "pass" the tests.
But if we can do some of the following things maybe we can have a strong healthy relationship:
1. Just let their tests run off our backs and go with the flow and
2. Disappear a little bit and
3. Don't challenge their disappearing acts.
4. Don't over analyze their behavior.
5. Focus on ourselves
I am a strong Christian and have found this an accurate study of people's traits and characters.