Mixed Leo Signals...

Last night I was at a event. I had a great time. I was on the dance floor doing my dance. I saw the Leo male who I stopped talking to 6 days ago. I pretended like I didn't see him and kept doing my thing. After the dance floor cleared a little bit, he walked past me and grabs my hand to walk with him. There was an argument between his friend and some other guy. A girl walks up to him and tells him that a group of guys were trying to fight his friend. He automatically walks away from me to confront these guys. I said something to hurt his feelings or pissed him off last week and he told me not to call or text anymore. Is this normal Leo behavior? How you can not want to talk to me, but try to talk to me? Im confused.

Yeah that's normal. When a Leo says "never" they don't mean "never". Like if they say I "never" want to see you again, they will probably end up seeing you by the end of the week. If they say I "never" want to sleep with you again, they will be texting you an hour later saying that they are in the mood. So I "never" want you to text and call me again is along the same lines. He said that because he was so angry that a) he wanted to hurt you back b) he said whatever was in the top of his head that was cruel. Leos are very narcissistic, so they feel that the thing that would impact you the most is denying you the right to see them ever again. If Leo really did not want to ever see you again, they would avoid the places that you were going, not answer your food calls, cover their face and pretend that you aren't in the same vicinity as them, or quickly say hi and then leave you with no excuses. I could tell you one thing though for sure, a Leo is not going to waste time letting you know that you should never text or call them again if that is what they really wanted.

haha food calls...I meant phone calls. I must be hungry

I am just going to wait and see if I hear back from him. I am still curious as to what he had to say... I may or may not find out. I know I am still on his myspace friend's list. He hasn't removed me yet.

Posted by Ike
I don't think he likes her ,prolly wants revenge ..........

Revenge is not something that Leo males are good at. I am sure you understand...

When I say never I mean never. Me saying never is rare though. Anyway, it all depends on the individual. Rest assured, that if he bothered talking to you that day, he probably still wants something to do with you or was just annoyed that you were ignoring him, LOL.

DON'T REMOVE HIM. He will think you are wierd. All fire signs for some reason LAUGH and think it's wierd when people do that. They also take it very offensively. I agree with Arm. I'm not going to lie... I say never ALL the time. Especially if I'm pissed, "I never want to see you again!" then two days later I'm like "Hi, so how have you been?" haha

haha revenge...Leo's only want revenge if a) you said he's ugly b) in terms of competition- if you said you would never sleep with him "it's on" c) he is bored and has nothing else to do

Posted by Ike
"anyways, personally i think it will hurt their ego a bit--that's why i still say do it"


Tasha why would you want to do something that would hurt a leo guy's ego ? Maybe this is why we treat virgo women and cancer women like garbage ? sorry but just because we are warm hearted doesn't mean we will put up with women acting like what they want . I know if any virgo girl hurt my feelings for no reason , she would not get away scott free like Ms virgo sunshine has . I would prolly make sure i crush whatever self esteem she has , we can be mean like that .

Who said I hurt his feelings for no reason? We were having a few words about sex and commitment. Our life style s are different. He is into the Hip Hop scene and he parties a lot. I am more calm and laid back. He was attracted to me anyways though. He told me that our life style s were different and he was not ready for the commitment that I was seeking. I said ok. Then he added that he like sex and intimacy. I said ok. I told him that I understood and I am who I am. I don't have sex unless I am serious about someone. I told him that I hope he finds someone and if he comes across anyone who is looking for a female like me, send them my way. He blew up at me. "Who do you think I am? I am not the one for that." I told him that it was ok because I usually choose my own anyways. He was telling me "Get someone else then! I like sex and intimacy. I can dig who you are but that is important to me." I was like...ok. I told him that I didn't think it was that big of a deal. He told me "You talk a lot of shit, not cool. You're cool. This is not worth all the drama." I told him that I wasn't bringing any drama and I agreed with him. I told him that he may want to find someone with more experience or who is around his same age. I told him that I am distinctly unique and I know that I am a one of a kind person therefore, I will eventually find someone. He said "You are fabulous and a queen however, I need intimacy in a relationship." I had to think for a little bit. Then I realized that he was trying to tell me that he didn't want a commitment with me, he was just trying to sleep with me. I then responded back to him and told him that I will never have sex no strings attached and that he should stay away from young women because in this day and age, many need to rise their standards and become more selective. He then tol

One of the strange parts... he was talking about commitment with me a few days before. He was telling me that he has asked 2 females to marry him and they both said no so, he didn't feel he was going to propose anymore. He then told me that he has two dogs(pitbulls). I had never been inside his house. He was also asking me about sleeping over and some other stuff. He told me to choose where I wanted to go because this would be one of the only times. I wasn't annoyed though. He told me about his daughter which was a surprise. I was cool with it. Wish I heard about it sooner. He gave me sobs stories of how his past girlfriends broke his heart and at the time, I was buying it.

I just feel that he wants me to argue with him, but not really.

He then told me "On that tip, don't text or call me anymore. You don't know me or what I am about. Thank you for the time you did spend me with. Goodbye."

Sorry that got cut off.

with me*

Before that, he was pretty compassionate. I still am attracted to him in a way. He is strong, articulate, artistic and worldly however, he often doesn't act like a man of his years.

hahaha I know EXACTLY what is going on. BTW Ike awesome I'm Leo with Virgo moon too. ::HIGH FIVE:: Anyway...I spoke to a Virgo that said that SAME exact thing to me for the SAME exact reason...because I like to have fun...different life style ...whatever. I didn't necessarily blow up...Ike may be right it may be other influencing planets. But boy did I have some silent revenge for him coming. I made a nice, sweet, slow, cold dish for him to eat up. I still cared, however that insulted me. How are you going to say to someone, "we are different so go look for your own kind?" Once you do something like that we reciprocate using the mirror method and we definately send mixed signals. That is part of the torture. We know more than anyone that people can not stand mixed signals. That is also something we are awesome at giving, especially since we do it a lot of the time without even the intention of doing so.

eh, i must not be a typical leo then. if i say i never want to see someone again, i freaking mean it. when i break up with someone, it is final. there's no going back. i do have a tendency to say things i don't mean when pissed off but i've learned to walk away before becoming impulsive.

Posted by Ike
sounds like the leo guy has planets in cancer .........

I looked it up and he does. He has Venus in Cancer. Turns out that I have Venus and Mars in Leo. Surprise...

So, Leos don't like to seek revenge—??

After reading this thread, I have to contend with Ike, this leo is a loser clown. You 2 are already criticisizing one another on the low, it wouldn't work even if you wanted it to, he would be too busy defending his ego, you either stroke it or leave him alone, he will not sit there and take criticism, he will get your ass back so if you can't make him feel like a king then leave him alone. Leo men will not take a womans shit talk for too long if at all, he will make you feel the world revolves around you just for the hell of it and dump your ass once your hooked into him. I don't think women understand the wrath of a leo man.

She is right...because Leo women do this too. He will definately make you feel like you are a Queen, the world, the sun, nectar of the Gods, and then once you are at the height of it all he will dump you. As long as you know your feelings won't get too caught up though go for it, because who knows? You might be the Virgo for him. lol

No, Leo's aren't revengeful. WE love sex. It could be or not be with no strings attached it depends on the person and how they act towards us. I personally will give more sex to the man who treats me more like a Queen than one who trys insists on giving me mixed signals. I don't care for or like mixed signals from someone I like or love.

Intimacy and sex is the ONLY thing that will make us commit to you. You have to be pretty stable with an open mind. We have to have stability in our lives but we secretly like challenges too.