manchild leo

my saga with my second decan Leo male is coming to a close I can feel it.Not because he treats me poorly which almost makes it harder, but because he can't seem to negotiate between wanting to get more serious with me ... and his desire to be a 31 yr old manchild who isn't used to having to check in with someone on a semi regular basis yet can go and bro out with his friends constantly.

I dont think i asked for much,just once a week , or just at least a check in once a week.he was doing it and everything was lovely until now its been a week and a half and Ive heard absolutely nothing from him .


Ive communicated to him twice now what i need from him,and he said he understood, so I guess i have to end things.


SO SAD!!


i really wanted this to work out and I'm going to miss my big leo kitty

I feel for ya, I am in the same boat with my Leo. Time to put an end to this madness, I heard somewhere that Leos dont know what they have till its gone so maybe your Leo will realize how great he had it and come back. If not we both deserve some meaningful relationships. Stay strong and dont be afraid to go after what it is your looking for.

My Leo called me I guess 3 days ago and we where having light conversation and some how it came up where I said I want a meaningful relationship, just in general and he got a little upset and yelled at me saying "Who said I didnt want a deeper relationship with you" he continue to say "i am even chasing you" I didnt say anything but calling once a week for 2 min and not seeing him for over a month is not my version of chasing. The funny thing is I have soooo come off his case meaning, I dont ask why he hasnt called or why I havent seen him, I dont call him anymore, I totally give him his freedom , If him and I where meant to be it will happen, if not then thats awesome too.

"Who said I didnt want a deeper relationship with you"

Yes, I had a similar convo with my Leo at the end of last year, except his was more, "Don't you think I'm afraid of getting hurt too?" As I expressed some apprehension about getting involved (I'm a committment phobe too). It's interesting when two committment phobic peope are involved, but don't want to let the other go, but don't want to be the one to "cave" and really show "emotions"; although, I've come a helluva' a long way with mine. I think (as you will see by trolling a lot of these types of threads) with Leo's (I think particularly the men) some of them you just need a ton of patience; your own life devoid of them; ability to be there when needed, but fine when they need their space to "prowl" (or whatever they do). I don't know a lot of Leo men (besides my Uncle who is a complete blowhard ass; and another one who dated one of my girls, he was a complete ass too!); and this is the first time I've dated one, so who knows what's going to happen in my situation, but every relationship is different. They don't take kindly to a lot of questions and nagging, but you need to let them know how you feel too, and be firm in what you want. If it's meant to be, then it will be.

I hope he realizes he misses the F**k out of me,not that I'm relying on it...but i hope so because I think he is great other than his manchildness and I think we would be super awesomerad together longterm 😢

I love that Nenah Cherry song - id forgotten all about it :-)

Ugh. This is the reason my bf and I broke up for a month... well, not the same situation, actually we were together for about a year and lived together for 10 months. The first couple months he was always giving attention and the ofcourse the honeymoon phase starts to end and he began to always spend time on his hobbies and sooner or later it was every single night he stayed up late hanging out with the guys upstairs. Whenever I brought up just wanting a little more time for us every once in a while he wouldn't understand because ofcourse he wanted his space and all... which I understand completely and would have been fine with it because I need my space too but this was just all the time. Grrr.

We broke up and I solved the problem by moving out and now we're back together and he no longer lives in the same place but I'm afriad to move back in with him in the future because I think he'll just start getting used to things again and pulling away and I don't want to have a repeat. So for now I'm cool with living apart and hanging out every other day.

When Leo's do this, since they naturally want all the attention anyway it just comes off as they get all the attention and don't show appreciation towards it. I think if a Leo is acting like a manchild tell them how you feel and if they continue it don't put up with it. The second you leave and they feel like they've lost you is when they come running back. They do realize what they meant to you and will miss you. Atleast, that's what happened in my case.

Ooooh! hello thatDOGgirl :-)