need advice from leo male help please

Hello I'm a libra and I love my leo man we had the most perfect relationship and engaged to be married till I found out he was cheating.... he said it was due to his fear of me leaving him and that I wasn't giving him attention. .... he says he loves me and wants to make things work out and wants to marry me and that he needs tike to work on his self he asked for 2 weeks apart I feel like my world is crashing down I have already called him crying 3 times and it's only my 2nd day away.... not sure if I should stop calling and let him contact me I don't want to make things worse..... I just want things to be fixed and to go back to being happy again... I am so scared of loosing him I feel like my world is crashing down

Don't call him anymore. My ex Leo husband went from being attentive and sweet to an absolutely CRUEL son of a bitch. The last few weeks of our short three month marriage, I tell him that I had a dream that someone came through the window and killed all of my kids. He's not the biological father. He laughed maniacally and said, "it was probably me...no...I'm just playing, but seriously...shit, these kids, yeah...it was probably me". My kids were damn near perfect. I'm not just saying that. Everyone complimented my kids behavior when they were young. They were quiet, respectful, well behaved kids. Now...as teens— Shit...They've tried to kill me. Lol

Basically, a cruel Leo person...OMG...I mean, you just have to realize that once a mean person, always a mean person. Is this the kind of man that you want to marry— Seriously?

^^^ Amen. And I'd thank my lucky stars the knot has not been tied yet...
I'm sorry sweet, I'm sure the right Love will come to you one day x

Third Libra bitch who tried to create a post in the front page update box...

LEAVE HIM!! Count your blessings that he showed you this before you guys got married. My ex husband is a Leo.....a serial cheater. I'm not saying all Leo's are the same, but the whole "you're not giving me attention" is typical. Don't waste your time calling him and crying at that. It is what it is. He's a cheater and if he needs two weeks to figure out what he wants then he doesn't deserve you. Get yourself together and move on.

Posted by snlee
LEAVE HIM!! Count your blessings that he showed you this before you guys got married. My ex husband is a Leo.....a serial cheater. I'm not saying all Leo's are the same, but the whole "you're not giving me attention" is typical. Don't waste your time calling him and crying at that. It is what it is. He's a cheater and if he needs two weeks to figure out what he wants then he doesn't deserve you. Get yourself together and move on.

Plus 1 to the umteenth power!!!!!
Couldn't said it any clearer

All of this is sad I really thought he was so perfect then this happened he said he needs space to clear his mind he said he's depressed about what happened

He says he's stressed and has problems and he needs time to his self to get his self together and that he still loves me n wants to marry me in the future and that he has to earn my trust back abd that he just needs me to be by his side and support him

Posted by libra1994
He says he's stressed and has problems and he needs time to his self to get his self together and that he still loves me n wants to marry me in the future and that he has to earn my trust back abd that he just needs me to be by his side and support him

He's manipulating you

yeh looks like one who is only seeking emotional support... sincenow ur not together ..hes striving for it ..


its up to you if u want to get into this cycle .. once done, it will happen over n over again.. it has nothing to do with zodiac signs ..its human nature

It just sucks you know I don't know we other yo belive if he honestly made a mistake and he is sorry like he says he is or if he is just planning on leaving I know we have a house and car together .... we where in the process of getting a house when I flounder out but he still got the house for us to live as a family and he says that he got the house because he know that he want to be with me and all my belongings are in the hpuse he just says he's dealing with a lot from work and medical problems and he just wants to free his mind

I don't want to sound stupid or any thing but this is really heart braking we were in gaged to be married brought a house and a car together it's crazy not to mention o don't have a job right now smh

Posted by libra1994
I don't want to sound stupid or any thing but this is really heart braking we were in gaged to be married brought a house and a car together it's crazy not to mention o don't have a job right now smh

its ok to feel this way, its not your fault dear.. he made you feel this way ... but let me ask you a couple of questions..

1. Are you convinced by the reason he cheated on you? that you dont give him much attention? that it was of fear that u leave him? do you buy into any of this?

2. One who cheats for such reason, will probably cheat again.. can you stand that he'd cheat on you while you are married? Breaking up is hard.. but dealing with a cheating partner with your insecurities growing everyday is unbearable .. (by the way my mom is sufferring all her life from dad's cheating.. he begged her to firgive him and swore he wont ever do it again.. she stayed.. a couple years later ... cheating again n he seems proud of it this time).. will u stand this? I wanted mom to get divorced SO MUCH rather than feeling miserable but yeh she too doesnt have a job.. shes 56.. how old r u?! u can build ur career from now i bet ur much younger

3. Are you able to trust him? .. oh i think thats not valid since ur comment already shows u dont know how to trust him..ur even unsure if hes telling the truth..

breaking up is tough.. its terrible but staying in an unhealthy relationship with a manipulative partner .. will drive you to much worse things than breaking up.. think about it.. give yourself timeto feel sad but think of your own good..

can u post his chart or birthday?

His birthday is august 2 1994 that's all I know

All this is crazy you know when we first started talking I cheated on him because I felt like he was ignoring me and wasn't giving me attention after he found out he for gave me but I have been faithful every since and I know what I want I figure if I could do this maybe so could he but it's hard cause we're two diffrent kind of people and we express our self diffrent

Posted by libra1994
All this is crazy you know when we first started talking I cheated on him because I felt like he was ignoring me and wasn't giving me attention after he found out he for gave me but I have been faithful every since and I know what I want I figure if I could do this maybe so could he but it's hard cause we're two diffrent kind of people and we express our self diffrent

you can only control or change yourself... you really have no power over other people in your life.. you can choose to live on the hope of him not cheating again (with all the heartache it brings) .. or leave it now, learn from it and put the pain behind you.. you are young and you dont have to cage yourself

Thanks it's just really shocking

Posted by libra1994
All this is crazy you know when we first started talking I cheated on him because I felt like he was ignoring me and wasn't giving me attention after he found out he for gave me but I have been faithful every since and I know what I want I figure if I could do this maybe so could he but it's hard cause we're two diffrent kind of people and we express our self diffrent

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Posted by libra1994
All this is crazy you know when we first started talking I cheated on him because I felt like he was ignoring me and wasn't giving me attention after he found out he for gave me but I have been faithful every since and I know what I want I figure if I could do this maybe so could he but it's hard cause we're two diffrent kind of people and we express our self diffrent

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aint that cruel?! .... she mentioned when they first started talking... i dont see any real committment here ... but him cheating after their engagement? no she doesnt deserve this

I understand karma suck but we wasn't together and I knew that he was talking to others just as I was

I'm not looking for any one to be mad at any one first off I'm asking g from a guys point of few because I have no clue what's going on..... obviously I want to fix the situation and he says he does to I just don't know if I can trust him this is the problem I do t know if he is sincer..... but I am giving the whole story tell a situation that had happened I was looking for help as to how tod fix things and for hope not for people to be angry or any thing of that nature but that's for your commentary

Or for people to wish bad apon me

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Posted by libra1994
All this is crazy you know when we first started talking I cheated on him because I felt like he was ignoring me and wasn't giving me attention after he found out he for gave me but I have been faithful every since and I know what I want I figure if I could do this maybe so could he but it's hard cause we're two diffrent kind of people and we express our self diffrent

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Okiedokie then...
well I take it all back, I thought you were genuinely wronged and I sympathised but it's clearer to me now that yes- Karma has been served, it also explains why you are wavering on the chopping block.
You've cheated before and you obviously believe that people make mistakes and can recover. Fair play.

My only conclusion is you are BOTH too immature for marriage and a wedding shouldn't even be on the table while you are both behaving like teenagers playing mama/papa.
Yes you may have the house and the car -material things are easy to acquire together or on your own, but the fundamental depth and emotional maturity required for a relationship with vows attached seems to be lacking, sorry.

I am still trying to understand the REAL story, there is more to it that we are not getting.