Once upon a time

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There was a thread that wasn't about relationships.Only then out of nowhere it was all of a sudden about relationships again, and everyone shut the fuck up for 5 seconds about relationships in the form of threads.Threads that form relations. Thread relations. Thread meditations. Only then out of nowhere they all together stopped, and up fucked the shut then everyone went to bed pissed.

The end.
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Posted by Libragirl92
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Ummm yeah that helped
Up with that, I will not put.

I have no idea what that means
Putting up with that they will not do.

putting up with what exactly. ...I am on here for advice because I honestly care about him...so if you helpful advice that would be appreciated
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By him you mean meeeee right?
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Ummm yeah that helped
Up with that, I will not put.

I have no idea what that means
Putting up with that they will not do.

putting up with what exactly. ...I am on here for advice because I honestly care about him...so if you helpful advice that would be appreciated
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By him you mean meeeee right? yeah of course. ...but I was talking about the leo man I was seeing. ...did you even read my dilemma. .?
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@Libragirl92

Probably not llol. Even with that being said I'm being sarcastic. Why would you care about me right?

Is it just me or did things just get awkward? Is this as awkward for me as it is for you? I mean as awakard for them as it is to us?

Fuck it.

Anyway it will al make sense. Like I said I've got some drama to put in here. Wait did I even say I had drama to contribute?

Jk there's actually no drama, which is a lie, which isn't a lie, which is a lie.

Get it?
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Why cant people find people outside dxp? Gawd lol
I'm waiting for your rlsp drama Soul...you never really hear about Leo men having any kind of drama on here.
He heated his cereal on popcorn setting if that's not drama i don't know what is.
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I thought I would be a grand idea to discus this situation with a little buzz, but one drink lead to another and before I knew It I was attempting to microwave milk and cereal. Go figure.
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Posted by Soul
There was a thread that wasn't about relationships.Only then out of nowhere it was all of a sudden about relationships again, and everyone shut the fuck up for 5 seconds about relationships in the form of threads.Threads that form relations. Thread relations. Thread meditations. Only then out of nowhere they all together stopped, and up fucked the shut then everyone went to bed pissed.

The end.
relationships are interesting and confusing, so maybe people need other people's views about theirs which does help.
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Posted by Taureye
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Why cant people find people outside dxp? Gawd lol
I'm waiting for your rlsp drama Soul...you never really hear about Leo men having any kind of drama on here.
He heated his cereal on popcorn setting if that's not drama i don't know what is.
I thought I would be a grand idea to discus this situation with a little buzz, but one drink lead to another and before I knew It I was attempting to microwave milk and cereal. Go figure.
you coulda been somethin', you coulda been contenda

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lol!
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So we're chatting and she starts getting into some heavy stuff. Her and the Scorpio had split, but in a crazy way. The very day of her wedding she calls it off. Can I just take a moment to say I hate young women under 25. Like all that prep, all that money, then pulls the I can't do this card. She tells me how that happened last April, and her ex scorp has already moved on and recently had babies with another woman. I'm thinking fuck. The desperate rebound card. But she's so attractive and desperate. A damsel in distress that's great at acting, my only weakness.

It still is fun nonetheless. As a Leo myself I know and deeply relate to the feelings she's experiencing. The feeling of suffocating, then making a decision and not being able to go against that decision no matter who or what is standing in your way. Then wanting to try and recycle something from your past in hopes it will work. It normally never does though. In the end I'd truly rather her make a crazy hasty desision then live a depressing life full of regret, so at this point I'm forgiving her for the past and white knighting her like a professional male Leo, and leaving her the perfect opportunities and word traps to white knight back, which she effectively does.  Do you even know what it looks like when a male and femal9Leo white knight each other? Its fucking intense and crazy. It's kind of cheating when you manipulate your own sign.But then it turns out we're both manipulating each other. So I'm stating  the obvious and secretly taking our signs into consideration and she's all "You understand me so well" "We relate so much" "my mother always said you were the good one" Let me just stop and say at this point wtf am I doing? I'm giving my ex exactly what she wants from some farfetched vision I have of a future that doesn't even exist
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Its like my Capricorn Saturun and Uranus in the 7th house is holding a gun to my Leo sun and Cancer Venus saying I swear to God you dumb mother fuckers, but they don't care. Like how long? How long do I sit here alone and wait for something to come my way that likely never will. But I'm fucked either way. I look like shit now, and she looks great. She's at a healthy weight, I'm 40 pounds obese. I'll either sit here alone and rot, or try to go out with my ex, and end up the lesser human. And the best part I truly deserve it, and karma will make sure I'm fucked and suffer from being such an egotistical heartbreaker in my past  regardless of my choice. The worse part is this whole situation isn't making my dick tingle, but rather my chest, only unfortunately for me there isn't a fly swatter in sight. She keeps giving vibes in her messages like she's insecure or worried about me getting upset with her messages, or getting worried when I don't quickly message her back. Like worried I won't want to talk to her, or that she's bothering me. Like we both are extremely insecure Leos. She wants to go hang out this weekend which I agreed to it, but I'm nervous as fuck. I've told her a few times I've let myself go a bit in recent years, and she seems to skip right over it like she doesn't care. God I'm going on a date with an ex that's a Leo basically as rebound who will think I look like shit, and if she doesn't she will consider me a lesser looking human and she makes hasty decisions and she's only 22 and I haven't dated in 4 years, and I look like shit, and waaaaaa. I want my mommy..
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I'll be honest I don't really know what to say here.

You've all been quite supportive, which is totally opposite what my feeling said. Things always tend to be opposite of what I feel.

Thanks though, it means a lot.

Really I have nothing to lose. If this works out then great, but if not I'll write it off as something I deserved for never being satisfied with my past relationships. I've burned too many bridges because I expect a perfect relationship, thought I obvously know people aren't perfect. My type normally die alone because of this, which I truly don't want.

I just act like nothings up, adapt and adjust and we go, and hope for the best. If the best doesnt happen, no regrets. Theres really nothing to lose because truth be told I honestly don't have anything left at this point lol. Nothing but room for something to fill.
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Posted by TheLibraMudra
Posted by Soul
There was a thread that wasn't about relationships.Only then out of nowhere it was all of a sudden about relationships again, and everyone shut the fuck up for 5 seconds about relationships in the form of threads.Threads that form relations. Thread relations. Thread meditations. Only then out of nowhere they all together stopped, and up fucked the shut then everyone went to bed pissed.

The end.
Lmfao this is still funny.

Be sure to tell us nosey, curious biatches how it went this weekend 🙂
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Following up... and curious, as well.

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Ok so lots has happened in the progression of this relationship. We decided to hang out at the bar which was perfect because then I can drink a bit and relax. Out of all the bars she likes the exact one I like, so now I'll  be surrounded by people I know, and all then tenders know my drink which is great. She looks so nerdy which I immediately liked. Little makeup, glasses, not trying to hard, yet naturally attractive. I look like my normal self. A typical D bag that might mug you at 3am after closing time. I buy her and myself a drink, and keep forgetting she's 22, and her last bf who's my age was a straight edge controlling Scorpio, so they never got to out to drink a few together. I  was actually  the first guy to buy her drinks. Cute. The night was going great, and we were chatting, laughing at bar drama, gossiping, feelin the music, you know normal Leo stuff. Then we went outside so she could have a smoke, which I don't mind one bit.

We're outside an she goes into telling me about her roommate whose a Pisces with 2 kids. I also dated this Pisces in the past, and I'm close friends with her brothers. She starts telling me deep stuff, like how the Pisces was on drugs (which I knew already but pretended not to), stole amps from a church her hubbys uncle owns to pawn for drug money, a compulsive liar, and recently split from her hubby due to the fact he'd beat the shit out of her. So now this Pisces chick is going on dick craving spree every night with random dudes from dating sites, or hangs out at the strip club to find men/get free drinks. She's also got one man dropping her off at the next man's house every now and then. I'm like, WTF? I'm trying hard not to flip out and become an over opinionated dictator at this point.  I also understand how hard it is to not feel bad for this girl for multiple reasons. One she was beat by her man, has kids, made some wrong choices, and now it's starting to spiral out of control. Trully a Leo's biggest weakness. Willing to sacrifice their own sanity for someone that's struggling. I try to remind here that sometimes though there's nothing you can do, and by trying to help you will get sucked into their black hole right along with them. I tell her to watch herself. At the same time this Leo chick is really mature for her age. She plays the DD for friends at the bar, only drinks one drink at most, and really tries her best to help people. Its cute, even if I truly find it dumb.
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So she keeps telling me crazy ass stories about the Pisces chick, and a few stories about the Sag guy I briefly spoke about earlier. Like how he's married to this Leo chick ( I know not another Leo lol) and he was her first. The Sag goes around fucking men and women, and goes on wild road trips with lots of crazy people while she sit at home alone and upset. She truly believes once a man you're married to takes your virginity  you're stuck with him and can't leave no matter what he does. Like a Disney princes. I just want to break from this post for a sec to tell you all I almost feel like Dorothy from the wizard of oz when I step out my house. It's like WTF is this strange mysterious world where nothing makes sense and everything is insane?

Anyway, she's telling me all this stuff when all of a sudden we here people yelling. A fight breaks out in the dark ally. Some guy come storming in the back gate still yelling all fucked up, and the bartender comes out telling him he's had enough and needs to leave. The guy refuses, so the tender whips out a phone and calls the cops since this bar is normally a bit rough, and they've got the cops under #1 on speedial. The cops show up, the guy resists, gets fucked up some more by the cops, arrested, and a mugshot appears on my fb the next day. Turns out he was a Taurus lol.
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After all that drama I have to go to the bathroom, so I step away for a moment. When I get back my Leo date is on the phone phone with the Pisces chick. When get hangs up she tells me we have to go pick her up, she's drunk, way down the block from the strip club she was hanging at, and surrounded by cops. Oh boy, cops. They always hate the way I look. Long hair, dark clothes, arrogant smirk with a soft voice, yea. So we leave and half way there the chick calls in tears and the Leo says like 5 times we're on our way. We get there and the cops let her go (they were obviously waiting for her ride to show up) because the girls dressed like a damn prostitute. My town is bad, women can't be walking around at night looking good. My town has the highest sexual assault rate in the whole state. So she get in the car and her attitude is weird. Its like crying, yet laughing at moments, regret, happiness, excitement, depression. Idk how else to explain it other then weird. So we get the Pisces home, my Leo date keeps apologizing, but I find it entertaining as fuck so I don't mind. Sure beats sitting around doing nothing besides getting fat.

So she drives me back to the bar ( which I thought we'd both go back in) but she doesn't exit the car. I ask her if she's leaving, she says yes, so I decide to walk back in. A Leo male I know was still hanging out inside, which is awesome because when he get shit faced he wants to buy everyone shots. I only had 8 mixed drinks within a few hours, so I hardly feel a buzz. I send the Leo a text thanking her for everything, then realize how bad it probably looked that I went back into the bar alone. I immediately left, drove home, told her I'm home, and said I only went back in to tell the bartender goodbye. Which I honestly did. I don't want to give her the impression I'm a player, because sometimes I give off the wrong vibe that I am. The next day I figured she wouldn't want to talk anymore. I though about her all night and could hardly sleep. The next day I forced myself not to text her first. It's important for a man to never give the impression they are insecure or desperate, no matter how bad you want it. Then at about 10am, I get a 4 text message of how much fun she had, and how much she wants to get together again. That's truly great, and that message kicked it off to the next level. Were still not dating, but relationship interest is there. I make sure I don't drop kick my body into the relationship zone, but subconsciously putting myself above the friend zone with little tests and word tricks to try and figure out her true intentions. And so far it's all pointing to a relationship.
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The best part is that was only the first date, and late week.

Idk if I'll continue postings step by step of all my biz, but I told you I'd fill you in on how it went, so there it is. A week late is better then never I guess.

But today something strange has happened, and the ripple effect is looking like a future drama wave.
Really, fucker? You're just gonna end it like that without telling us about the ripple effect? BOO

Hahahaha the way you write out your thoughts is so cute. I'm glad yall had a good time. Hope it stays chill and you have many more nights of you and her. Not you, her and psychos.
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Idk, I might keep writing in here, but this recent issue has left me with something I want lots of opinions on, which might be better for a whole new thread in relationship.

Maybe I'll write it out here first, then make a topic.

All I'm really saying is I could write major paragraphs about every night I go out, but don't find much of a point. Until things get intense, committed, or dramatic I don't see a point saying much else.