Most astrology books tell you the most positive qualities of the sun signs. Here is the other side of the picture. Understand that not everyone has only positive or negative traits, we all have a little of both. But I think you'll find that when you have a problem with your mate, the characteristics below will probably be close to accurate.
Aries - The Egomaniac There is a tremendous burst of power and love is at its peak when the affair is new, this tends to diminish the further the affair progresses. In the beginning he can be the ideal lover, but at the end there is resentment and hate. There can be no tests of his love or demands from the loved one. He is the master and the game must be played by his rules. When an Aries female's lover tries to take the upper hand, she will dismiss him as difficult and overbearing. She will go from one man to another, comparing and testing them to decide which one she can handle with the greatest ease. Her satisfaction depends on how much the man is capable of giving her and rarely considers her own contribution to the affair. Faithfulness is not a concept she understands.
Taurus - The Insensitive Bully The Taurus man will always choose someone inferior to himself who is willing to serve him in some way - a kind of servant to wait on him, to be useful in helping him advance his career. Many choose not to fall in love but rather have their freedom to pursue their career. They are practical in love above all else. The Taurus female only has marriage in mind. She charmingly and quietly beguiles and seduces a man into marriage and then proceeds to strip him bare of all his worldly goods, abandoning him the moment his pockets are empty. She will use her earthly sexual powers which can be considerable to make a good marriage, repeating the process as often as necessary to satisfy her greed. Taurians hate to talk about love, most of all when a verbal commitment is expected of them. They can never avow their love with a full heart, always fearing that they will be victimized. Taurus cannot bring himself to tell his loved one how much he cares. He is a clumsy lover, knowing he can not be tender. Taurus will deliberately avoid a delicate emotional situation lest his awkwardness and his inability to deal with it become apparent.
Virgo - The Censor When Virgo falls in love it is purely for sex. The lover must be able to satisfy Virgo's considerable sexual needs. Each new image arouses sexual desire, but so long as you can remain sexually attractive to Virgo, you will retain his love. The slower you are in yielding your gifts, the longer you can keep the affair alive. Nothing is more unattractive to him than easy surrender, which stamps you as cheap and worthless. Virgo can be either chaste or promiscuous, one extreme or the other. There are many spinsters, one-man women, and confirmed bachelors in this sign, but there are also the chasers who frequent bars or pickup joints in the search of a one-night stand. This type can be quite degenerate in his sexual appetites. Despite this, Virgo ranks lowest on the scale of sexual prowess. He is not romantic except as the chase itself is romantic. Sex is something to be done as quickly and efficiently as possible. When Virgo says he loves you and behaves in a jealous manner, do not be flattered. This usually simply means that you are serving some useful role for them and are considered a piece of their property. Anyone who tries to lure you away is depriving Virgo of a useful tool - no more. For both male and female Virgos, true love is not involved; they are never tender or sympathetic unless there is something they cannot get without showing affection.
Libra - The Narcissist Librans work hard to keep lovers coming and going. At first they will give you constant attention until you are completely involved but soon the demands of keeping up the love affair will become too much for them and you will become part of the background. Librans will never relinquish their lovers completely, for they may be needed again. The primary function of a lover is to amuse, satisfy, admire, and exalt Libra, and if you are easily won, the excitement is blunted. If Libra is rejected, he becomes completely demoralized; he cannot believe that anyone could weary of him, though he does nothing to deserve love. Yet even when sorrowful, Libra will immediately seek to dispel the blow by filling the environment with new people - or will revive his original charm until you surrender. In failure, he is without pride, and nothing will compel him to look within himself for any failing. Librans are very competitive and will often scheme to humiliate their loved ones. It is a shock to learn that Libra can be spiteful, for he seems so blandly unaware of his offenses to others. Librans have a fascination with sex and require a great deal of stimulation to become aroused. The sexual act itself can be a nuisance and though all sorts of methods may be employed to arouse and be aroused, there is often little personal interest or involvement. Because Libras gives so little real emotional commitment to a lover, it is not surprising that they like to talk about their affairs. By comparing and weighing the attitudes of themselves and their lovers, they can remain uninvolved and even dissipate whatever interest they may have had in the loved one. Libra likes orderly endings to love affairs. This is to their advantage because, they may need to call on the deserted lover at a later date.
Aquarius - The Fame Freak One cannot expect a smoothly running love affair with an Aquarian, who will become bored with a lover as quickly as he falls in love. Everything is done in extremes. Relationships will start off with a bang, and you will be given undivided attention until the excitement wears off. At that point you will be dropped without ceremony if the initial feeling can never be revived. You will be treated like a stranger as soon as the affair is over unless you are clever enough to transform the relationship into a friendship. The male makes a better friend than a lover. The female is domineering and likes to run the affair, making all the rules. She can be a heartless virago, pressuring the man into submission until not a shred of his self-respect is left. If he manages to escape her, she will be prideless and masochistic in pursuing him until he returns. Perversely, she will find the lover more precious if he does not want her. Aquarians concentrate on one lover at a time until they become tired. They do not like to take the responsibility for ending an affair but if the lover doesn't get the hint, they will provoke a quarrel or create an impossible situation so that the lover will have to leave. Both male and female grow to hate any lover who wants them more than they want the lover. Remember, treat an Aquarian badly, disappoint him, break appointments, keep your emotions hidden - they will be captivated.
Leo - The Prima Donna Leo is very dramatic about love and wants the whole world to love as ardently as he does, for he is always in love. Love enables Leo and makes him generous and enthusiastic. But he must keep his lover in the dependent position and will smolder if he is not adored. Leo women will browbeat or cruelly abuse their lovers to get total obedience. To Leo love is a great ideal, to be dramatized and honored. He will occasionally employ deviate, degrading sexual practices as a sign that the lover is no longer loved, that the affair is over. He will expect the lover to become disgusted and to leave him; he will not take the initiative to end the affair on his own. Leo women use the same device. Leo hates open argument and will not lower himself to fight. An unwanted lover is simply dismissed. Leo males will attract women as if they are sirens while the females will control and disdainfully reign over their men. It takes Leo a long time to recover from a serious love affair; in fact he will try to avoid this kind of love so that he cannot become vulnerable to another's power. When he has committed himself fully and generously, as he will, and then he loses, he will become aloof and distant until his confidence is regained. Leo believes he is the only one who knows how to love and thus he feels he deserves all the attention he can get.
isces men are not exciting sexually, they are very passive, almost female in the act. Sex is not important to them, for they do not often have enough energy to perform."
Absolute rubbish."
I agree.
Passive? Try depraved and willing to go anywhere and beyond!
Well I know this isn't 100% true simply b/c my pisces ex called talking really dirty and begging for the p* $ $ y needless to say I changed the conversation around and hurried off the phone with him b/c I'm not going there with him but he's aggressive in his own way.
Yeah, I gotta be honest, there hasn't been a Libra man I've met who wasn't a complete braggart. It's a shame because so many of the women was hilarious and so humble. I think whenever someone is that narcissistic, they tend to be hiding an underlying insecurity so most times I just let it slide.
Lol, I don't argue or brow beat my men into anything. Now I have discovered that I will argue with someone that I like and respect only because I don't want them to take advantage of me and my kindness to those I love.
yeah no browbeating or wanting to control my man over here. i may feel that urge now and again but i know i won't respect him if he allowed himself to be my bitch.
my ex-libra is a total narcissist! i swear that he wrote the rules in "the blame game" because he always comes out the winner for never having a fault!
Join the Conversation. Explore Yourself. Connect with Others.
Discover insights, swap stories, and find people. dxpnet is where experiences turn into understanding.
Aries - The Egomaniac
There is a tremendous burst of power and love is at its peak when the affair is new, this tends to diminish the further the affair progresses. In the beginning he can be the ideal lover, but at the end there is resentment and hate. There can be no tests of his love or demands from the loved one. He is the master and the game must be played by his rules. When an Aries female's lover tries to take the upper hand, she will dismiss him as difficult and overbearing. She will go from one man to another, comparing and testing them to decide which one she can handle with the greatest ease. Her satisfaction depends on how much the man is capable of giving her and rarely considers her own contribution to the affair. Faithfulness is not a concept she understands.
Taurus - The Insensitive Bully
The Taurus man will always choose someone inferior to himself who is willing to serve him in some way - a kind of servant to wait on him, to be useful in helping him advance his career. Many choose not to fall in love but rather have their freedom to pursue their career. They are practical in love above all else. The Taurus female only has marriage in mind. She charmingly and quietly beguiles and seduces a man into marriage and then proceeds to strip him bare of all his worldly goods, abandoning him the moment his pockets are empty. She will use her earthly sexual powers which can be considerable to make a good marriage, repeating the process as often as necessary to satisfy her greed. Taurians hate to talk about love, most of all when a verbal commitment is expected of them. They can never avow their love with a full heart, always fearing that they will be victimized. Taurus cannot bring himself to tell his loved one how much he cares. He is a clumsy lover, knowing he can not be tender. Taurus will deliberately avoid a delicate emotional situation lest his awkwardness and his inability to deal with it become apparent.