There was another girl :(

But at least he was honest. We had a tryst a few months ago and I told him to wait a few months till I relocated to the US for work till we started something (details here - https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/accidentally-confused-the-hell-out-of-this-leo-guy-5781891/). Met him today, turns out he met someone else. Which is fair, we never promised to be exclusive or in a relationship. Still heartbroken though. Every man who seems to almost get with me thinks I'm amazing and will tell me all the things they don't tell their girlfriends and then just want to be friends (I usually say no). Ah so over it. Someday I'd like to meet a man who knows what he has - till then I'd like to get out this heartbroken state short term and stay non cynical and a beliver second. I know some amazing couples. I just am so over being single. Very non-Gemini I know. Just not having a great month.

Don't mind tiziani he gives really bad advise... Even more so because he does not even know me and is trying to be an A-hole with my screen name... shows you how little of a life he has.

Yes Leo's are like this... Nothing like girls wanting to fight over you... I am not shocked this would be the 3rd Leo that has been talking to more then just a few ladies... As a Gem you are being forgiving... which is good to be so light hearted about it. I am sure you find some one that values you just the way you are and a little bitt of time would not matter... after all thoughs that run quick are quick to fall... It is a quote from some where but can't remember where now.

Best of luck...

And tiziani dude grow up get a life and don't be such a looser.

PM

3rd Leo this week*

PM

I thought Tiz was referring to PM as Personal Messaging..?
Cos I tried to message him a couple of weeks ago and got bounced back so it's like- turned off or something?
None of my business, just my two cents.
Sorry for derail Sunnygirl.
I hope you feel better soon, it's a sucky feeling being let down but sometimes it's for the best x

wagtail it's all good... again... I don't even know the guy... just shows you how much time he has on his hands. I have seen him post but just don't get it. I guess I did not realizes i had such a troll problem... but again I am a guy so just weird. I don't think he is gay... but never had a guy stocker before... Tiz... dude just so you know I am not gay. lo Not going to lie I am jaded but who isn't grow up.

PM

Posted by kalin
At least he's honest!

I did not say he was a lier... I am jaded... but weird the stalking. Honestly I really don't know him...

PM

Posted by BlackMamba
It's your cancer moon. You're a sensitive person who is sympathetic. Stop that. You're not a fuking therapist. Don't be a doormat.
Don't let guys waste your time. Be upfront about what you want it!


Create heavy boundaries!

Yup - that is exactly why I chose not to be friends. And I suspect that that is also the reason he wanted to stay friends. It really sucks though.

i appreciate honesty... at least he aint a player..

Im sure you'll find a great man who deserves you

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Posted by kalin
At least he's honest!

I did not say he was a lier... I am jaded... but weird the stalking. Honestly I really don't know him...

PM

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I think she was referring to the Leo guy in op's post. 🙂

Posted by sunnygirl
But at least he was honest. We had a tryst a few months ago and I told him to wait a few months till I relocated to the US for work till we started something (details here - https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/accidentally-confused-the-hell-out-of-this-leo-guy-5781891/). Met him today, turns out he met someone else. Which is fair, we never promised to be exclusive or in a relationship. Still heartbroken though. Every man who seems to almost get with me thinks I'm amazing and will tell me all the things they don't tell their girlfriends and then just want to be friends (I usually say no). Ah so over it. Someday I'd like to meet a man who knows what he has - till then I'd like to get out this heartbroken state short term and stay non cynical and a beliver second. I know some amazing couples. I just am so over being single. Very non-Gemini I know. Just not having a great month.

He probably intentionally misunderstood.


😐


Thank God... let him go.

Bleh.

Bullet... dodged.

Honest about being dishonest?

lol

Like I said... bullet/dodged.



And wtf PM? o.O

No one's said a cross word about you here.

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by sunnygirl
But at least he was honest. We had a tryst a few months ago and I told him to wait a few months till I relocated to the US for work till we started something (details here - https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/accidentally-confused-the-hell-out-of-this-leo-guy-5781891/). Met him today, turns out he met someone else. Which is fair, we never promised to be exclusive or in a relationship. Still heartbroken though. Every man who seems to almost get with me thinks I'm amazing and will tell me all the things they don't tell their girlfriends and then just want to be friends (I usually say no). Ah so over it. Someday I'd like to meet a man who knows what he has - till then I'd like to get out this heartbroken state short term and stay non cynical and a beliver second. I know some amazing couples. I just am so over being single. Very non-Gemini I know. Just not having a great month.

He probably intentionally misunderstood.


😐


Thank God... let him go.

Bleh.

Bullet... dodged.

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Did you delete your message where you said you were not happy you were right and sent virtual hugs? 🙂 I liked that one more, but yeah, agreed. Rejection is always a bit hard to get over. I'll get there in a week or so.

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Posted by Montgomery

Posted by sunnygirl
But at least he was honest. We had a tryst a few months ago and I told him to wait a few months till I relocated to the US for work till we started something (details here - https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/accidentally-confused-the-hell-out-of-this-leo-guy-5781891/). Met him today, turns out he met someone else. Which is fair, we never promised to be exclusive or in a relationship. Still heartbroken though. Every man who seems to almost get with me thinks I'm amazing and will tell me all the things they don't tell their girlfriends and then just want to be friends (I usually say no). Ah so over it. Someday I'd like to meet a man who knows what he has - till then I'd like to get out this heartbroken state short term and stay non cynical and a beliver second. I know some amazing couples. I just am so over being single. Very non-Gemini I know. Just not having a great month.

He probably intentionally misunderstood.


😐


Thank God... let him go.

Bleh.

Bullet... dodged.

Did you delete your message where you said you were not happy you were right and sent virtual hugs? 🙂 I liked that one more, but yeah, agreed. Rejection is always a bit hard to get over. I'll get there in a week or so.

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Oops no that wasn't you - that was 037. The blue profile pics are blurring in my head. Heartbreak vision blurring issues 😉

It sucks that you were sort of looking forward to being with him and then this is the outcome. At least there was no cheating involved and he was honest. Hope you find someone who's on the same page as you next time.

Posted by tiziani
As you said he and you are long-term friends with history. That counts for something.

Yeah thats kind of why I can't go back to being friends. Theres already too much emotional intimacy there, and while he has clearly moved on from the sexual addition, it may take a while for me. I am losing a friend but honestly I have enough friends (don't mean that to mean cocky). I don't need a friend who I feel bad around, esp as he starts to introduce me to his new girl, which would have happened.

I'm sorry you are hurting ” But sometimes being friends with someone is better than being in a relationship with them.. I don't think he did anything wrong bassed on what I read and I don't think you did either. I read your other post and it sounds like misunderstanding and miscommunication but even if you guys didn't have that miscommunication in the beginning things could have still ended the same way.

I think it's normal or common for people to date a few people at a time when not commited and when they are ready to commit they pick the person that the think is the best fit for them.
Leo's require a special kind of love lol. He knows what he want so respect his choice and focus on the things that will help you attract what you want. ˜˜

Also Respect his honesty because he could have played games with you. Accept his friendship and be graceful.. Live your life and I'm sure someone great will come along.. I'm sure it's a lesson in all of this for you..

Posted by Scorpio4242
I'm sorry you are hurting ” But sometimes being friends with someone is better than being in a relationship with them.. I don't think he did anything wrong bassed on what I read and I don't think you did either. I read your other post and it sounds like misunderstanding and miscommunication but even if you guys didn't have that miscommunication in the beginning things could have still ended the same way.

I think it's normal or common for people to date a few people at a time when not commited and when they are ready to commit they pick the person that the think is the best fit for them.
Leo's require a special kind of love lol. He knows what he want so respect his choice and focus on the things that will help you attract what you want. ˜˜

Also Respect his honesty because he could have played games with you. Accept his friendship and be graceful.. Live your life and I'm sure someone great will come along.. I'm sure it's a lesson in all of this for you..

I do respect his honesty. I told him that. I also told him it was a hard decision for me to say I don't want to stay friends but I had to do it to protect myself. He asked me if we could revisit it in a few months, I said sure if you want to. I was graceful, I'm not angry with him at all, just frustrated at the miscommunication and disappointed because of the build up in my head while I was heading into the US. I am definitely not desperate, otherwise I would have taken his offer of still being there as his "sounding board" just so I could stay in his life. I also didn't ask him anything about the other girl for the same reason - I'm still hurting, I don't want to know. He knows me well enough, he will understand. I'm not doing this to punish him, but to regroup and recharge till I'm back to my normal self and can truly be friends. Maybe that will happen, maybe it won't. But me taking care of myself is my priority.

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Posted by Montgomery

Posted by sunnygirl
But at least he was honest. We had a tryst a few months ago and I told him to wait a few months till I relocated to the US for work till we started something (details here - https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/accidentally-confused-the-hell-out-of-this-leo-guy-5781891/). Met him today, turns out he met someone else. Which is fair, we never promised to be exclusive or in a relationship. Still heartbroken though. Every man who seems to almost get with me thinks I'm amazing and will tell me all the things they don't tell their girlfriends and then just want to be friends (I usually say no). Ah so over it. Someday I'd like to meet a man who knows what he has - till then I'd like to get out this heartbroken state short term and stay non cynical and a beliver second. I know some amazing couples. I just am so over being single. Very non-Gemini I know. Just not having a great month.

He probably intentionally misunderstood.


😐


Thank God... let him go.

Bleh.

Bullet... dodged.

Did you delete your message where you said you were not happy you were right and sent virtual hugs? 🙂 I liked that one more, but yeah, agreed. Rejection is always a bit hard to get over. I'll get there in a week or so.

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No...

I said this--

His problem has a name, I imagine... like Jessica.

Sounds like he grabbed a rebound in this miscommunication.

Just a guess...


I'm pissed - not with you, with myself -

things are just complicated


That made my eyebrow arch involuntarily.



037 hugged you... page two.

I can say for Leo men they will not wait because Leo's do not like to be alone too longso if you have a chance with one hop on it as soon as possible. Don't make him wait because he won't wait for long you have to remember that lions are always on the prowl for a mate a true mate so once they find that person it's too late for you to make up your mind whether or not you are going to be with them don't get mad just realized next time you are interested in a Leo to pursue him fully and you will never lose him then