Do Leo's move fast?

This topic was created in the Leo forum by PancakeFace on Tuesday, October 13, 2015 and has 50 replies.

Do Leos Move Fast in Relationships

Leos tend to move quickly once they feel a connection and are confident in their feelings. They often dive into relationships but may also need reassurance to slow down. Individual experiences vary, but generally Leos are passionate and decisive in love.

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@PancakeFace
10 Years

I would really appreciate some advice here.

In my experience they do move fast once they love you. Or am I wrong?

I tend to take my time with relationships and Leo's seem to dive in. Is this true? I'd just like any feedback here at all.

Thanks guys.

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@PillowFortBuilder
11 Years

I'm a leo sun with libra mars. I move quick but the fastest I've ever moved was with someone that was slightly manipulative. The subtle move in thing really got me for a loop. She was living rent free pretty quick. If a leo feels pressured or trapped they back off, but that's just my opinion about mist fire signs.

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@PancakeFace
10 Years

Posted by capriaquagirl
Oh! The Leos I know don't move really fast. My mother, father, brother, grandfather are all Leos. This sign dominates my family. I also have several friends who are Leos. I can tell you this though, they are not wishy-washy or dilly-dallying type. When they like someone, their decision is final.

That's interesting thanks. I always thought Leo's didn't like commitment. So I've been surprised recently after getting to know one well. Once we sort of confessed our feelings to each other it was like "it's on" like someone else mentioned. I just hadn't expected that from a Leo. It kinda blew me away. As I've dated 2 other Leo's before.

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@PancakeFace
10 Years

Posted by PillowFortBuilder
I'm a leo sun with libra mars. I move quick but the fastest I've ever moved was with someone that was slightly manipulative. The subtle move in thing really got me for a loop. She was living rent free pretty quick. If a leo feels pressured or trapped they back off, but that's just my opinion about mist fire signs.

Yeah I can see that. I've seen Leo's back off. I think they are just really loving so they go for it when they believe the other person feels the same way.

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@LeoSunSagMoon
10 Years

Posted by sultrykitty
I'm Leo sun/Leo mars. I move fast, yes. I take a while to evaluate the situation first, but once I've made a decision, it's on.

Basically this for me too. I'm a Leo Sun Aries Mars. I am really choosy and liked to be chased, but once you have me I reward you.

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@PancakeFace
10 Years

Posted by LeoSunSagMoon

Posted by sultrykitty
I'm Leo sun/Leo mars. I move fast, yes. I take a while to evaluate the situation first, but once I've made a decision, it's on.

Basically this for me too. I'm a Leo Sun Aries Mars. I am really choosy and liked to be chased, but once you have me I reward you.

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That's pretty much exactly what I'm seeing. Thank you for your input.
I'm an Aries Mars too 🙂

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@LeoSunSagMoon
10 Years

Posted by PancakeFace

Posted by capriaquagirl
Oh! The Leos I know don't move really fast. My mother, father, brother, grandfather are all Leos. This sign dominates my family. I also have several friends who are Leos. I can tell you this though, they are not wishy-washy or dilly-dallying type. When they like someone, their decision is final.

That's interesting thanks. I always thought Leo's didn't like commitment. So I've been surprised recently after getting to know one well. Once we sort of confessed our feelings to each other it was like "it's on" like someone else mentioned. I just hadn't expected that from a Leo. It kinda blew me away. As I've dated 2 other Leo's before.

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Most Leos I know like relationships and are loyal when in them. If their Venus is also Leo than it totally makes sense they would be so loving and want to move fast.

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@LeoSunSagMoon
10 Years

Posted by PancakeFace

Posted by LeoSunSagMoon

Posted by sultrykitty
I'm Leo sun/Leo mars. I move fast, yes. I take a while to evaluate the situation first, but once I've made a decision, it's on.

Basically this for me too. I'm a Leo Sun Aries Mars. I am really choosy and liked to be chased, but once you have me I reward you.

That's pretty much exactly what I'm seeing. Thank you for your input.
I'm an Aries Mars too 🙂

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No problem! Yay Aries Mars! You should definitely be able to handle whatever they throw at you then!

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@christinelovessnickers
13 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by PancakeFace
I would really appreciate some advice here.

In my experience they do move fast once they love you. Or am I wrong?

I tend to take my time with relationships and Leo's seem to dive in. Is this true? I'd just like any feedback here at all.

Thanks guys.

I move fast, but it doesn't normally happen too often. When I am in, I am in, but I sually get bored first.

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@LostBull
11 Years

Do you think Leos move faster when the other person is harder to get? The Leo I was seeing (mars in Scorpio) told me on the first date not to get too caught up because he has never been married and never will be married. Within the next two weeks he moved faster than any man I have ever met. He pressured me for commitment. Even though I did not commit to him, he started talking about marrying me and wishing I was pregnant ( before we even slept together). Way too fast, but super flattering. I have that feeling that if I jumped on board right away he would still be reminding me that marriage is not for him.

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@PancakeFace
10 Years

Posted by LostBull
Do you think Leos move faster when the other person is harder to get? The Leo I was seeing (mars in Scorpio) told me on the first date not to get too caught up because he has never been married and never will be married. Within the next two weeks he moved faster than any man I have ever met. He pressured me for commitment. Even though I did not commit to him, he started talking about marrying me and wishing I was pregnant ( before we even slept together). Way too fast, but super flattering. I have that feeling that if I jumped on board right away he would still be reminding me that marriage is not for him.

To me that sounds very Scorpio, they love a challenge. Scorpio likes to test the water too, throw things out there and see what your answer will be. He might have said he didn't want marriage just to see what your reaction would be. Then when he got comfortable with you he pursued you harder. From what I know about Leo's they are very all in once they are in. Oh and they love yo chase.

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@sultrykitty
11 Years5,000+ Posts

I knew within 6 months of knowing my SO that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with him and told him so (impulsive fire-sign mistake). He took 10 years to finally admit the same, even though he now admits that he knew much sooner than that but didn't know how to deal with it. I just jumped right in and assumed that's how it would be.

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@PancakeFace
10 Years

Posted by MiZLeo
I won't chase for long if your to hard to get.

I've noticed that with Leo's. My Leo ex didn't like the situation and she didn't stick around long.

My Mars in Aries and Scorpio moon make me pretty relentless when I want somebody lol.

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@PancakeFace
10 Years

Posted by sultrykitty
I knew within 6 months of knowing my SO that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with him and told him so (impulsive fire-sign mistake). He took 10 years to finally admit the same, even though he now admits that he knew much sooner than that but didn't know how to deal with it. I just jumped right in and assumed that's how it would be.

Lmao what's your placements and what are his?

I'm glad it worked out for you guys!

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@sultrykitty
11 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by PancakeFace

Posted by sultrykitty
I knew within 6 months of knowing my SO that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with him and told him so (impulsive fire-sign mistake). He took 10 years to finally admit the same, even though he now admits that he knew much sooner than that but didn't know how to deal with it. I just jumped right in and assumed that's how it would be.

Lmao what's your placements and what are his?

I'm glad it worked out for you guys!

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Lol, it was no walk in the park, lol. Now mucho bueno.

Me: Aqua ASC, Leo sun, Cap moon, Leo mars, Libra venus, Virgo mercury

Him: Libra ASC, Aqua sun, Taurus moon, Aries mars, Aqua venus, Cap mercury

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@PancakeFace
10 Years

Mine? Capricorn with a Scorpio moon. Ye old favorite Scorpio lol.

Leo's are my favorite people actually. I'm just skeptical of all that flattery they give out, sometimes.

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@PancakeFace
10 Years

Posted by sultrykitty

Posted by PancakeFace

Posted by sultrykitty
I knew within 6 months of knowing my SO that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with him and told him so (impulsive fire-sign mistake). He took 10 years to finally admit the same, even though he now admits that he knew much sooner than that but didn't know how to deal with it. I just jumped right in and assumed that's how it would be.

Lmao what's your placements and what are his?

I'm glad it worked out for you guys!

Lol, it was no walk in the park, lol. Now mucho bueno.

Me: Aqua ASC, Leo sun, Cap moon, Leo mars, Libra venus, Virgo mercury

Him: Libra ASC, Aqua sun, Taurus moon, Aries mars, Aqua venus, Cap mercury

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Wowwwww, that sounds like a crazy combination. Damn! No wonder it took so long, but that's kinda amazing at the same time.

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@sultrykitty
11 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by PancakeFace

Posted by sultrykitty

Posted by PancakeFace

Posted by sultrykitty
I knew within 6 months of knowing my SO that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with him and told him so (impulsive fire-sign mistake). He took 10 years to finally admit the same, even though he now admits that he knew much sooner than that but didn't know how to deal with it. I just jumped right in and assumed that's how it would be.

Lmao what's your placements and what are his?

I'm glad it worked out for you guys!

Lol, it was no walk in the park, lol. Now mucho bueno.

Me: Aqua ASC, Leo sun, Cap moon, Leo mars, Libra venus, Virgo mercury

Him: Libra ASC, Aqua sun, Taurus moon, Aries mars, Aqua venus, Cap mercury

Wowwwww, that sounds like a crazy combination. Damn! No wonder it took so long, but that's kinda amazing at the same time.

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Proof.that any synastry can work if you want it to. :-)

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17 Years1,000+ PostsPisces

Posted by GreyWiz

Posted by Magenta_Azure
I hate capricorn men they're disgusting

lol. i noticed some other pisces say the same thing. have you tried scorpio or libra?

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Lol I will always love Scorpio energy, but I've gotten to a place where I realize they like to be abusive and nasty towards Pisces. No matter how good or accomodating we are there something that triggers them to be abusive towards Pisces so I'm staying away from them even though I attract them a lot.

As far as Libra go I wouldn't waste my time. They have a nice clinginess to them but not much power or reliability. I don't feel like I can rely on them to protect me or at the very least to reciprocate the same energy that I put into the relationship. I need someone to match my power not drain it. Big waste of time to me.

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@Montgomery
13 Years10,000+ Posts

I need someone to match my power not drain it…

I like this.

It can apply to fixed signs too, though it's a different kind

of clinginess... almost aggressive.

Not Aquarians, though, really... not that I've noticed.

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12 YearsLeo

Posted by PancakeFace
Mine? Capricorn with a Scorpio moon. Ye old favorite Scorpio lol.

Leo's are my favorite people actually. I'm just skeptical of all that flattery they give out, sometimes.

So how are things with your leo girl? is she still in the friendzone? rotfl

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10 Years

Posted by bloobaz

Posted by PancakeFace
Mine? Capricorn with a Scorpio moon. Ye old favorite Scorpio lol.

Leo's are my favorite people actually. I'm just skeptical of all that flattery they give out, sometimes.

So how are things with your leo girl? is she still in the friendzone? rotfl

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Lmfaooooo no! She ended up telling me that she wouldn't get married in casual conversation that I was stuck with her. So I was cold with her, after everything. Then I decided to just be honest, so I told her how I felt. Things progressed fast! I didn't know Leos moved so fast. She wants it all haha.

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10 Years

Posted by GreyWiz
cap woman and leo man relationship usually has no middle ground. From what i have seen it's either really bad or it is a instant power couple. when it works it really works and they feed each other to great heights. Caps know how to unlock a leo's potential. same way leo girl and cap guy.

Pisces is another sign leo needs to learn from. pisces are the last sign on the karmic wheel and they can teach us many things useful for being our very best.

both pisces and cap are quincux signs to leo i think. Both signs are supposed to make a big impact on us. leo male and pisces female has a lot more romantic quality. i always think of it like beauty and the beast.

Maybe that's why I get along with Leo's so well. This is good to hear though.
But I totally agree with what you said about Leo - Cap, well that's how it feels anyway 🙂

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12 YearsLeo

Posted by PancakeFace

Posted by bloobaz

Posted by PancakeFace
Mine? Capricorn with a Scorpio moon. Ye old favorite Scorpio lol.

Leo's are my favorite people actually. I'm just skeptical of all that flattery they give out, sometimes.

So how are things with your leo girl? is she still in the friendzone? rotfl

Lmfaooooo no! She ended up telling me that she wouldn't get married in casual conversation that I was stuck with her. So I was cold with her, after everything. Then I decided to just be honest, so I told her how I felt. Things progressed fast! I didn't know Leos moved so fast. She wants it all haha.

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Really glad to hear this 🙂 All the best to you!

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@TxOgal
12 Years1,000+ PostsTaurus

I think Leos move fast in committing to someone in a relationship .. but does not seem fast to me when committing officially.

That's my observation from what I read on the forum, and how my Leo bf was moving way faster than me in the relationship and on being exclusive (I even agreed on being exclusive before I'm even sure about us.. but I agreed bec. I won't be seeing ir thinking of anyone else when im already in a relationship anyway)

Good luck OP

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11 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by LostBull
Do you think Leos move faster when the other person is harder to get? The Leo I was seeing (mars in Scorpio) told me on the first date not to get too caught up because he has never been married and never will be married. Within the next two weeks he moved faster than any man I have ever met. He pressured me for commitment. Even though I did not commit to him, he started talking about marrying me and wishing I was pregnant ( before we even slept together). Way too fast, but super flattering. I have that feeling that if I jumped on board right away he would still be reminding me that marriage is not for him.

You're right.

Scorpio mars possessiveness doesn't mean he would have committed. He just wanted to own you.

lol

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12 Years1,000+ Posts

I can't speak for every Leo under the Sun (excuse the rhyme and the pun 😛 ). However, I think a Leo is slow and observant at first, but once his/her mind is made up, they POUNCE! Sadly, once that happens, it's really hard for a Leo to let go because they really put their ALL into that moment of attack.

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11 YearsCancer

Posted by SpiceNSugar
I can't speak for every Leo under the Sun (excuse the rhyme and the pun 😛 ). However, I think a Leo is slow and observant at first, but once his/her mind is made up, they POUNCE! Sadly, once that happens, it's really hard for a Leo to let go because they really put their ALL into that moment of attack.

Now is this statement for a Leo is looking or ready for a commitment?

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11 YearsCancer

Posted by Celestial_Luna

Posted by SpiceNSugar
I can't speak for every Leo under the Sun (excuse the rhyme and the pun 😛 ). However, I think a Leo is slow and observant at first, but once his/her mind is made up, they POUNCE! Sadly, once that happens, it's really hard for a Leo to let go because they really put their ALL into that moment of attack.

Now is this statement for a Leo is looking or ready for a commitment?

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Let's try this again: Is this statement for a Leo who is looking or ready for a commitment?

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12 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Celestial_Luna

Posted by Celestial_Luna

Posted by SpiceNSugar
I can't speak for every Leo under the Sun (excuse the rhyme and the pun 😛 ). However, I think a Leo is slow and observant at first, but once his/her mind is made up, they POUNCE! Sadly, once that happens, it's really hard for a Leo to let go because they really put their ALL into that moment of attack.

Now is this statement for a Leo is looking or ready for a commitment?

Let's try this again: Is this statement for a Leo who is looking or ready for a commitment?

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Again, I can't speak for all but for me personally, it was always like this, even when I was younger.

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@leona
11 Years

I m a leo sun libra moon and i think if i like someone i do take a while. I observe and analyse before i jump into it - other people find it too annoying.. they think i m hard catch and a few aquas told me that they find it v intriguing yet very frustrating. I like to be chased so i keep things slow but once i ve made up my mind theres no holdin back .

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@leona
11 Years

Posted by MiZLeo

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Posted by Celestial_Luna

Posted by SpiceNSugar
I can't speak for every Leo under the Sun (excuse the rhyme and the pun 😛 ). However, I think a Leo is slow and observant at first, but once his/her mind is made up, they POUNCE! Sadly, once that happens, it's really hard for a Leo to let go because they really put their ALL into that moment of attack.

Now is this statement for a Leo is looking or ready for a commitment?

Let's try this again: Is this statement for a Leo who is looking or ready for a commitment?

I think this is all Leo's no matter what. I wouldn't say we ever really "look"...I know this might sound kind of egotistic, but we don't really need to. I'll probably get a lot of hate mail for that one! lol. It is more of, when we see something we like that crosses our paths, we go for it.

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@mizleo - hahah true on my caseee 🙂

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@LeoGurlz
12 Years

For me, I analyze and investigate whats before me and decide. Timing depends on how much time I get with the person. If Im spending several days a week with the person then my decision is made quicker than if Im interacting with someone once a week. Once I decide, Im in it for the long haul giving all my efforts accepting flaws and all. We will go very hard for our relationships.

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@Shaniajam
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Met this leo he lives out of state but came into town for business. We hooked up thought I wouldn't hear from him again but he's actually called everyday...phone sex. Says he won't hurt me. Says he doesn't want to stop seeing me... Also states he misses me. He gets busy but as soon as he available he makes time for me... Calls me his "B" and I'm ok with it. I'm a Taurus.

At first I've been apprehensive cause my heart has been broken... He's grown on me and I be missing him like hell and I confess my feelings. I thought he would pull away but he just confirmed that he wants me more. I can tell he's not busy at times but not contacting me either don't know what that means but I feel good right now. Meeting again this weekend. Any tips?

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@Hjohnson92
10 Years

When Leo's really like you they tend to want to move to the next level when they move to the next level with you they seem to move a little fast because they want you and they don't want anyone else to have you but as far as marriage the only way they will move with that is if they think you're right for them and that it will work if you don't want to move fast with them try to let them know in a very nice way I can't speak for all of them but as for me I won't get offended if I was told I was moving for you I would give you time and probably try to do things to allow you to fall for me like pampering and things I know you might like so that eventually you will move along with the pace and that's honest truth