@faith$golphin
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I'm a Leo woman!!! Would a Cap man still marry a women if another women he loves reappears? Is it to
You're out of your ever-loving mind.
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The way they act at the start of a relationship is usually how it's always gonna be. Sounds like he doesn't have any respect for you no offense. I'm a Capricorn and honestly I'd only treat a side chick that way. I'm not tryna be rude just honest. You're letting him have his cake and eat it. He probably won't see you any other way.
No respect, definitely pancake, not to mention a total lack of respect for his fiance!
I feel like this is a horrible situation and I feel for the wife to be...
Posted by capricornmoon
So wait., he tried to be sneaky behind your back and not tell you he was already engaged. And probably wouldn't tell you until well after the fact., and your reaction to it is that you have to be like the guy in the movie 3 men and a baby so you can stop the wedding?
Posted by PancakeFace
The way they act at the start of a relationship is usually how it's always gonna be. Sounds like he doesn't have any respect for you no offense. I'm a Capricorn and honestly I'd only treat a side chick that way. I'm not tryna be rude just honest. You're letting him have his cake and eat it. He probably won't see you any other way.
Posted by PancakeFace
The way they act at the start of a relationship is usually how it's always gonna be. Sounds like he doesn't have any respect for you no offense. I'm a Capricorn and honestly I'd only treat a side chick that way. I'm not tryna be rude just honest. You're letting him have his cake and eat it. He probably won't see you any other way.
Maybe you're right!!! You a man right so I’m sure you know that 70% of married men love there sidechick better than their wife!!! I have over 20 married male friends that I talk to and I would say 14 of them is currently cheating on their wife and 3 have cheated before in the past and only maybe 3 men never cheated. Out the 14 that cheat 9 of them love the side chick more than their wife. Only 4 out of the 9 would actually leave their wife bc they have too much invested. One thing for certain I know he love me!
Posted by capricornmoon
And they've been on and off for 7 years. Like how you let a guy use you for that long? After 2 years with no official relationship/relationship growth or marriage, you're supposed to leave his bum behind on the shelf, collecting dust with the rest of the lame books. What is wrong with you?
lol this 7 years was well worth it and if i could I would do it all over again!!! Just differently!
Posted by GreyWiz
you should give up.
NOPE I'm not giving up!
Posted by PancakeFace
The way they act at the start of a relationship is usually how it's always gonna be. Sounds like he doesn't have any respect for you no offense. I'm a Capricorn and honestly I'd only treat a side chick that way. I'm not tryna be rude just honest. You're letting him have his cake and eat it. He probably won't see you any other way.Maybe you're right!!! You a man right so I’m sure you know that 70% of married men love there sidechick better than their wife!!! I have over 20 married male friends that I talk to and I would say 14 of them is currently cheating on their wife and 3 have cheated before in the past and only maybe 3 men never cheated. Out the 14 that cheat 9 of them love the side chick more than their wife. Only 4 out of the 9 would actually leave their wife bc they have too much invested. One thing for certain I know he love me!
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Then why isn't he marrying you, instead?
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You must be a cusper or something-- when is your birthday?
Posted by PancakeFace
The way they act at the start of a relationship is usually how it's always gonna be. Sounds like he doesn't have any respect for you no offense. I'm a Capricorn and honestly I'd only treat a side chick that way. I'm not tryna be rude just honest. You're letting him have his cake and eat it. He probably won't see you any other way.Maybe you're right!!! You a man right so I’m sure you know that 70% of married men love there sidechick better than their wife!!! I have over 20 married male friends that I talk to and I would say 14 of them is currently cheating on their wife and 3 have cheated before in the past and only maybe 3 men never cheated. Out the 14 that cheat 9 of them love the side chick more than their wife. Only 4 out of the 9 would actually leave their wife bc they have too much invested. One thing for certain I know he love me!
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I think that these "men" are literally the scums of the planet. Poor wifeys.
Would YOU like to be treated this way behind your back? If he was married to you but had a side chick he would "love" better than you?
This situation makes me angry.
I am getting a weird vibe from this I gotta say...
Who knows what's going on? I am a champion of naivety, but this is something else.
Anyway, to find a man who is not like this is not too hard I am sure.
I have faith in the boys 😄
Posted by PancakeFace
The way they act at the start of a relationship is usually how it's always gonna be. Sounds like he doesn't have any respect for you no offense. I'm a Capricorn and honestly I'd only treat a side chick that way. I'm not tryna be rude just honest. You're letting him have his cake and eat it. He probably won't see you any other way.Maybe you're right!!! You a man right so I’m sure you know that 70% of married men love there sidechick better than their wife!!! I have over 20 married male friends that I talk to and I would say 14 of them is currently cheating on their wife and 3 have cheated before in the past and only maybe 3 men never cheated. Out the 14 that cheat 9 of them love the side chick more than their wife. Only 4 out of the 9 would actually leave their wife bc they have too much invested. One thing for certain I know he love me!
Then why isn't he marrying you, instead?
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You must be a cusper or something-- when is your birthday?
hHAHA, trying to banish her to one of the other lane signs eh Monty? Cause she clearly can't he pure Leo, not with this foolisness.
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Pretty much... also, it's one thing to do it.
It's quite another to announce it publicly.
I hope he marries, then you can finally be free of this Cap.
What kinda man is the type of man who won't leave his wife for the one he loves. Doesn't sound like much of a man, no matter the circumstances. If you love someone you move mountains for them. Or maybe that's just me 🙂
Posted by PancakeFace
What kinda man is the type of man who won't leave his wife for the one he loves. Doesn't sound like much of a man, no matter the circumstances. If you love someone you move mountains for them. Or maybe that's just me 🙂this isn't love, its a fantasy.
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Sounds to me like a man who gives all men a bad rep. He's not only hurting the person who made this thread but the one he's gonna marry too. Like what kinda insecure behavior is that? He just sounds selfish. He's got wifey and a side chick too. All these women always say the married guys love them more. Yet they never leave their wives, and why would they? They married their wives for a reason hen they got someone who puts out and makes all their fantasies come true. Unhealthy situation of you ask me by insecure people. I don't mean to sound harsh but hey.
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I stopped seeing my Cap friend for a while because I got tired of my situation, not knowing where I really stand with him. At 1st he was really into me and I knew where I stood. I knew he loved me although he wasn’t verbally expressive at times but we were extremely close to each other. I couldn’t understand why he could love me and push me away at the same time for no reason. I was confused from his push & pull actions therefore I made a lot of mistakes. This was the only Capricorn man I ever got serious with and I didn’t know what to expect and how to handle him.
After 5 months into our relationship I found out he was in another relationship with a women and they were seeing each other before we 1st started dating. I was devastated and upset! From my actions after I found out, that only pushed him away from me even further. I stopped seeing him for 4 months but we continued to have long conversation on the phone 2 and 3 times a day. I was in love with him and I always verbally and emotionally expressed that to him over and over again without getting that same attention in return. Emotional he showed love for me and passionately made love to me but would only verbally expressed once in awhile. Although I tried to remain friends with him but the physical attraction we had for each other was to far gone. We missed each other crazy & eventually we started back going out and seeing each other sexually. At that point he stop acknowledging or revealing he has a girlfriend to me. After 7 years off and on I just recently last year cut all physical contact with him for close to a year. We remained friends still talking on the phone occasionally. The whole year he has been trying to see me but I avoided seeing him. Eventually he started opening up more and more about the way he felt about me. He told me he never stopped loving me and he missed me. He told me he didn’t think I felt the same way about him and he think I have moved on for good. I told him I wasn’t seeing anyone else and I still love him and I missed him but I must move on.
We still continued to talk on the phone maybe 2 times a week for another 3 months. Then one day I was contemplating on riding to this event with him but I wasn’t sure if that was a good idea. Then I spoke to a girlfriend of mine and she ask me was I still talking to him? I told her I just got off the phone with him and I might be riding somewhere with him today. THAT’S WHEN SHE TOLD ME SHE HEARD HE MIGHT BE GETTING MARRIED!!! MY HEART LITERALLY DROPPED OUT MY BODY!!!! The conclusion I came to was I CAN’T LET HIM GET MARRIED!!! I’M STILL IN LOVE WITH HIM!!! This Cap man has been a major part of my life for too long and I just couldn’t sit back and let him marry someone without him knowing I really do care about him, I love him and I still want him!!! Recently I started back having sex with him & he started opening up to me. I have not revealed that I heard anything about any marriage!