to move on or to be patient with this leo guy?

Oh also after we fought, i msgd him a very sweet message on his bday and he read and just simply ignored... i also told him do i even deserve such kind of a treatment after been so nice to him and he told me u kno so please leave me alone nd dont screw my mind.. how can he overreact on such a small thing.. just cz i asked my own friend abt him nd he asked his colleague... strangeeeee behaviour!!!

Posted by Nyda22
Oh also after we fought, i msgd him a very sweet message on his bday and he read and just simply ignored... i also told him do i even deserve such kind of a treatment after been so nice to him and he told me u kno so please leave me alone nd dont screw my mind.. how can he overreact on such a small thing.. just cz i asked my own friend abt him nd he asked his colleague... strangeeeee behaviour!!!

What was the argument about? if you are messing with his head he will know, leos see right through that. We hate when people try to mess with our emotions/head.

Did you meet him on a Friday or Saturday night?

Posted by Nyda22
Oh also after we fought, i msgd him a very sweet message on his bday and he read and just simply ignored... i also told him do i even deserve such kind of a treatment after been so nice to him and he told me u kno so please leave me alone nd dont screw my mind.. how can he overreact on such a small thing.. just cz i asked my own friend abt him nd he asked his colleague... strangeeeee behaviour!!!

Your original post is gone...is he mad that you went around asking about him?

Sorry guys im new to this forum thing.. i dunno how to get back my original post, i have mentioned every detail in it.. anyways long story in short.. we kno each other from 2 weeks nd last i met him was last week on a thursday.. yeah i hardly knew him so i asked my own friend abt him and my friend tokd me he'll lemme kno if he can find out something about him that if he dating someone or really single but once i met him a couple of times nd when he proposed to me.. i stopped finding it out but my friend still spoke to this guys colleague coz initially she was the one who helped us exchange number but disclosed nothing and went to him and when he found out he got majorly pissed nd broke up i dint push it much but i tried yo convince and told him he is overreacting but he refused to understand and told me he hates such things and kept pushing me away ignoring me.. he told me now u know i dont wanna be with u so leave me alone. dont fuck my mind im busy just stay away.. i said fine.. but i blocked nd unblocked him again he dint respond to that.. i dunno i told him how cn u be so rude u were so loving and good to me im sorry if i hurt u but i dint do it on purpose but still he was stuck with that same arrogant attitud nd then i let him be.. i dunno last thing i msgd him was to relax nd get back normal soon and i miss him... nw i duno wgats the problem...

he was super interested in me and he told how he wanted a fun loving girl like me in his life and that we make an amazing couple and he wud compliment me so much and was regularly in touch inspite of hectic schedule ... we started off quite well.. he told me he speaks to alot of girls but just generally nd i shudnt mind so i told him its fine unless he doesnt cross his limits.. he is even 2 yrs younger to me.. i dunno whats with this sudden change in attitude.. i was very easy on him.. but he hasnt blocked me he just doesnt wanna talk to me anymore nd he strictly told me to leave him alone.. im so shocked by this behaviour...

He sounds like he's either a diva or uptight. He clearly overreacted to the news that your friend was gathering information about him. This makes me think he may have something to hide.

Also it's only been a couple of weeks and he "proposed" to you? I'm assuming you don't mean marriage, but rather he asked you to be his gilrfriend. This guy barely knows you, but was ready to be in a seriously relationship upon just you, that's a red flag.

Problem is you were so caught up in the illusion of this guy, you failed to see the reality of the situation. Leos have a way of charming the pants off people (sometimes literally) and we have been known to move fast when we're impassioned. This isn't necessarily a problem until the illusion of the honey moon phase fades. If someone is moving too fast, it usually means they may not be as serious as about you as you'd like.

Astrology aside, it's only been two weeks. It's not like you were in love with this guy. If the Leo is prone to overreacting like this, it's best you know it now. My advice is to stop the passive aggressive block/unblocking games and move on with your life. Find someone less dramatic.

thanks for your advice.. yes i think theres something fishy.. im sure he is hiding something too now.. yes i wasnt that involved.. and i guess he was just showing way too much interest in me just to get intimate wkth me.. he tried to the last time we met.. he literally pounced on me and i had to control the situation but no which he dint react much.. but i guess he removed his frustration on this silly topic instead.. yes i assume if he is so dramatic then what will the entire relationship be like.. nd i also think he is surrounded by many girls.. so thats why he is least bothered all of a sudden.. but he was discussing alot abt me these few days.. asking alot about my thinking and how i want my relationship to be like etc etc.. i dunno why did he have to break his head so much over me when he knew clearly that even i am interested in him.. ahh i have stopped msging now becoz i cant take more arrogance.. but its really surprising how he behaved.. it will surely take me a while to get over this.. he turned so cold in a sec..

Posted by Nyda22
thanks for your advice.. yes i think theres something fishy.. im sure he is hiding something too now.. yes i wasnt that involved.. and i guess he was just showing way too much interest in me just to get intimate wkth me.. he tried to the last time we met.. he literally pounced on me and i had to control the situation but no which he dint react much.. but i guess he removed his frustration on this silly topic instead.. yes i assume if he is so dramatic then what will the entire relationship be like.. nd i also think he is surrounded by many girls.. so thats why he is least bothered all of a sudden.. but he was discussing alot abt me these few days.. asking alot about my thinking and how i want my relationship to be like etc etc.. i dunno why did he have to break his head so much over me when he knew clearly that even i am interested in him.. ahh i have stopped msging now becoz i cant take more arrogance.. but its really surprising how he behaved.. it will surely take me a while to get over this.. he turned so cold in a sec..

It's possible he has nothing to hide, but may just be overdramatic. Since you don't really know this guy, it's safe to say your probably dodged a bullet.

so... u suggest i shud just end this relationship.. nd not really bother much? or just wait for his text and see what he has to say if he ever texts back which i kind of doubt he will.. i dont know thats what i am confused about...

hahahaha oh yes ur right.. he does think hes a diva.. he is self obsessed.. in the beginning he would tell me that i am really pretty later on it changed to how he makes me look pretty by being next to me.. nd how im good becoz im his choice.. and how everyone is checking him out and he keeps adjusting his hair like running his fingers thru them every time.. yeah. he is crazy that way i figured it out.. and he was alot into double meaning talks.. talks that wud lead to something sexual..indirectly and his expressions too and that wud make me feel a bit uncomfy.. the way he wud look at me.. no doubt he is really charming but looks like he was high on sexual emotions..

@bittercupcake Alright.. i will just let go off this one.. maybe just an immature guy.. i shud have waited and not responded this quick to his approach.. and wud have tried to know him more.. thanks for your advice. i will surely consider it.. means alot 🙂

@libramudra: yeah i kno and feels fake too now! its good i realised it on the right time that im really stupid to even get into this kind of a thing.. the sooner the better!