Official ended. Welcoming criticism lol.

Yay, made a rush decisionto post on fb I'm in a relationship ( with the Leo man) well he asked for exclusivity so I did it. And he decided to help me financially a little bit his words. Not that I want his money but I think that's a nice move from him. Main reasons is to help me move on from the Aqua. 2) I know it will push Aqua away which will b good for me coz I'm done waiting for his commitmejtnissues thing. It will keep us away from each other while he's out there chasing other birds. This was done after the last time he's given me the best sex I ever had lol. But we had a long conversation and he says he supports my decisions 100% % coz he can't give me what I need. , he cares about me deeply and to him the only person he shares and talk about deep stuff too is me. Pretty much the closest person to him at the moment as other people it's all casual and fun!( Aqua typical ways) . As I pretend it doesn't bother me when he talks about flirting with other women. I decided in the end that we shouldn't talk really anymore for a while and to keep massive spaces. It's not healthy for me as it hurts me when I know he's flirting with other people ( massive hyprocite ) I know. Aqua is very stubborn in their own way. I can't deal with it anymore. Soo I think finally I made it final. Now we both can be fully done with each other. I know my decision on making things official on fb will cause him to do a lot of mind game back but it's fine. It's for the best for now. We talked about his commitmentnissues n he agrees on it coz he says he's never been in love yet refuse to acknowledge or work at himself. So it won't go anywhere between us. Anyway, welcome any critism. As much as I want to keep being friends I think it's best I stay fully detached from him for my sake. And focus on other things and give the Leo a full chance. Wherever that might lead. Thank you all for ur replies etc. I hope this is my last post of this Aqua. I am staying clear from Aqua men from now on. !!!! and I hope thenleo will be a much better match for me... 🙂 you all take care

I think you made a right choice by leaving him.

Wish you the best with your Leo.

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I think you made a right choice by leaving him.

Wish you the best with your Leo.

Yeah I think so. I think making things official on fb n stuff help keeping me discipline and help me focus on the Leo and forget about the wish washy player man that he is. Sigh. I hope he stays away. We are actually in the same circle of friends which is a bit annoying so I'm planning to stay clear too. I feel sorry for him now but I need to do what's right for me..😢 I hope the Leo situation goes well. To be honest , I just want to go with the flow and see where it leads...🙂 I hope it will turn out good. They r easier to deal with. More straight forward type of man...

aw i'm so happy to hear that the Leo guy made you his.

come back anytime! you deserve love and consistency!!

No one will criticize you. It's a good move to let the Aqua man go. You crave stability. Best of luck!

Posted by lisabethur8
aw i'm so happy to hear that the Leo guy made you his.

come back anytime! you deserve love and consistency!!

Yeah i know I do I truly hope it goes well. I'm still a little sad adjusting to the lost < love> n potentially friendship but it's needed. Thank you so much

Posted by compy
No one will criticize you. It's a good move to let the Aqua man go. You crave stability. Best of luck!

I do m

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Posted by compy
No one will criticize you. It's a good move to let the Aqua man go. You crave stability. Best of luck!

I do m

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I do more than I Let on def n the Aqua lives in the la la land most of the time.

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So you're using the leo to move on from the guy you really want. Just lol

Yes, she is, but if this works for her, it's fine. Sometimes it's difficult to make the decision. She is a fixed Taurus after all. The fixed Leo will have her stick to the decision. The Aqua man was not suitable to her present needs.

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So you're using the leo to move on from the guy you really want. Just lol

Yes, she is, but if this works for her, it's fine. Sometimes it's difficult to make the decision. She is a fixed Taurus after all. The fixed Leo will have her stick to the decision. The Aqua man was not suitable to her present needs.

I think that's fuked up. But who knows maybe this a good thing for both

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does sweetz really want the aqua?

if she does, why lead on the leo?

that's not fair to the leo guy.

that'll only lead him on.

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So you're using the leo to move on from the guy you really want. Just lol

Yes, she is, but if this works for her, it's fine. Sometimes it's difficult to make the decision. She is a fixed Taurus after all. The fixed Leo will have her stick to the decision. The Aqua man was not suitable to her present needs.

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Thank you. Yes. I am using the Leo to help me move forward. The attraction and the connection between me and the Aqua is too strong we just keep going back and fourth. This way, I have some discipline and help make a clean cut ( hopefully)

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So you're using the leo to move on from the guy you really want. Just lol

Yes, she is, but if this works for her, it's fine. Sometimes it's difficult to make the decision. She is a fixed Taurus after all. The fixed Leo will have her stick to the decision. The Aqua man was not suitable to her present needs.

I think that's fuked up. But who knows maybe this a good thing for both

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I just hope Leo is who he says he is. I am taking my time with the Leo. It's working for now.... we both need the same things in life. Family ortiented and he's in the same wavelength as myself. Again it's still fresh. I just need to know him a bit more first.

Do you live with the Aqua? Is that why you need the Leo's $ $ to be able to move out (and on)?

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So you're using the leo to move on from the guy you really want. Just lol

Yes, she is, but if this works for her, it's fine. Sometimes it's difficult to make the decision. She is a fixed Taurus after all. The fixed Leo will have her stick to the decision. The Aqua man was not suitable to her present needs.

Thank you. Yes. I am using the Leo to help me move forward. The attraction and the connection between me and the Aqua is too strong we just keep going back and fourth. This way, I have some discipline and help make a clean cut ( hopefully)

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A mental connection is stronger, but if it's not harmonized with both people's expectations, it's a mess, as one of the parties can fall in love. You did well. You had your closure. The Aqua will respect your decision. Enjoy your Leo man!

You've been at the Aqua for a long time now. Being free from him will give you clarity on whether you're willing to work that hard at it again or not. Better sooner than later, wish you luck with the Leo.

Personally I think Taurus/Leo works better than Taurus/Aqua. Maybe your experience underlines why that is.

Wish you the best!

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So you're using the leo to move on from the guy you really want. Just lol

Yes, she is, but if this works for her, it's fine. Sometimes it's difficult to make the decision. She is a fixed Taurus after all. The fixed Leo will have her stick to the decision. The Aqua man was not suitable to her present needs.

I think that's fuked up. But who knows maybe this a good thing for both

I just hope Leo is who he says he is. I am taking my time with the Leo. It's working for now.... we both need the same things in life. Family ortiented and he's in the same wavelength as myself. Again it's still fresh. I just need to know him a bit more first.

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if you dont feel love for the leo, why bother though?

youll be disgusted by his touch if you dont love him.

edit -- or rather resent him in time.

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So you're using the leo to move on from the guy you really want. Just lol

Yes, she is, but if this works for her, it's fine. Sometimes it's difficult to make the decision. She is a fixed Taurus after all. The fixed Leo will have her stick to the decision. The Aqua man was not suitable to her present needs.

I think that's fuked up. But who knows maybe this a good thing for both

does sweetz really want the aqua?

if she does, why lead on the leo?

that's not fair to the leo guy.

that'll only lead him on.

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What I want and what I need are two different things :; I can't wait for the Aqua forever untill he change his ways. He's not wanting to change anytime soon. He's still happy flirting around and having casual convo and flirting conversations evehwhere around the world lol. I tease him about it but I still feel hurt inside. He cares about me a lot and I know out of all the girls, im the closest to him emotionally.( his words) We talk deep stuff but it won't work out we r just two different people. He's in a dream land. Nothing about his life is stable. He's got a great job n a great career but there's no rituals or stableness routines there at all. lol his house is a mess. Hahaha... he has a lot of growing to do. I'm the complete opposites. Living day by day without real goals and commitments to change isn't working for me anymore. I have a baby etc. my head still wants him but eventually it will follow my head to the right person. Aqua isn't it. He says he wanna change himself and he can't do that in a relationship. He's not looking for a relationship . So, need to let him go so he can find another woman who's more chilled. I'm not her.

All he has ever been was a fwb and you wanted more. That's why he didn't claim you. I said repeatedly you where playing games, albeit sometimes I dont think you even realized it.

Tbh I still don't think you are done, but I do hope things work out with the Leo and you finds happiness.

Kinda fucked up to use the Leo this way.

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I think I'm gonna miss your obsessive posts about the Aqua .... oh well...

Hahahaha I truly hope this is the last one bittercake.

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All he has ever been was a fwb and you wanted more. That's why he didn't claim you. I said repeatedly you where playing games, albeit sometimes I dont think you even realized it.

Tbh I still don't think you are done, but I do hope things work out with the Leo and you finds happiness.

Kinda fucked up to use the Leo this way.

No I Was not just fwb. I know that for a fact. Thingsgot sour in the middle yes i was playing mind game possibly along the way.only for us to blame. Oh well, done and dusted now. Im not using the Leo. He just happened to be in my life at the right time I guess

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So you're using the leo to move on from the guy you really want. Just lol

Yes, she is, but if this works for her, it's fine. Sometimes it's difficult to make the decision. She is a fixed Taurus after all. The fixed Leo will have her stick to the decision. The Aqua man was not suitable to her present needs.

I think that's fuked up. But who knows maybe this a good thing for both

I just hope Leo is who he says he is. I am taking my time with the Leo. It's working for now.... we both need the same things in life. Family ortiented and he's in the same wavelength as myself. Again it's still fresh. I just need to know him a bit more first.

if you dont feel love for the leo, why bother though?

youll be disgusted by his touch if you dont love him.

edit -- or rather resent him in time.

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Mm the Leo has his extremely passionate side and cuddly side . That's why I think it can grow over time ( my feelings )

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So you're using the leo to move on from the guy you really want. Just lol

Yes, she is, but if this works for her, it's fine. Sometimes it's difficult to make the decision. She is a fixed Taurus after all. The fixed Leo will have her stick to the decision. The Aqua man was not suitable to her present needs.

I think that's fuked up. But who knows maybe this a good thing for both

does sweetz really want the aqua?

if she does, why lead on the leo?

that's not fair to the leo guy.

that'll only lead him on.

What I want and what I need are two different things :; I can't wait for the Aqua forever untill he change his ways. He's not wanting to change anytime soon. He's still happy flirting around and having casual convo and flirting conversations evehwhere around the world lol. I tease him about it but I still feel hurt inside. He cares about me a lot and I know out of all the girls, im the closest to him emotionally.( his words) We talk deep stuff but it won't work out we r just two different people. He's in a dream land. Nothing about his life is stable. He's got a great job n a great career but there's no rituals or stableness routines there at all. lol his house is a mess. Hahaha... he has a lot of growing to do. I'm the complete opposites. Living day by day without real goals and commitments to change isn't working for me anymore. I have a baby etc. my head still wants him but eventually it will follow my head to the right person. Aqua isn't it. He says he wanna change himself and he can't do that in a relationship. He's not looking for a relationship . So, need to let him go so he can find another woman who's more chilled. I'm not her.

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well it's weird cause, maybe it's your other placements...what is your mars??

cause the sound of your aqua guy is very unstable...he would never be a choice in the first place for me...

i can tell with a guy early on for some reason. He would have to hit all my buttons: Stability, confidence, and chase me, and be financially secure with me, because it provides security, and also deep love. it's a TALL order..but. well...the heart wants what it wants.

but maybe he is really hitting your attraction button.

like LADA astrology says,....you are magnetically attracted to who you are attracted to. it's just the way it is.

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So you're using the leo to move on from the guy you really want. Just lol

Yes, she is, but if this works for her, it's fine. Sometimes it's difficult to make the decision. She is a fixed Taurus after all. The fixed Leo will have her stick to the decision. The Aqua man was not suitable to her present needs.

Thank you. Yes. I am using the Leo to help me move forward. The attraction and the connection between me and the Aqua is too strong we just keep going back and fourth. This way, I have some discipline and help make a clean cut ( hopefully)

A mental connection is stronger, but if it's not harmonized with both people's expectations, it's a mess, as one of the parties can fall in love. You did well. You had your closure. The Aqua will respect your decision. Enjoy your Leo man!

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Yes, our mental connection is addictive even for him.( his words) BUT I thought I could keep the mental going on while in a relationship but it won't be good for me. After a great mental game I wanna take his cloths off like after we have a phone call I just wanna see him. So I need to cut all my losses. yeah I truly think I made a good decision ! N prob respect me more for it. Thank you so much, yeah I mmmm excited to see where Leo will lead 🙂 I need to get his chart lol

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So you're using the leo to move on from the guy you really want. Just lol

Yes, she is, but if this works for her, it's fine. Sometimes it's difficult to make the decision. She is a fixed Taurus after all. The fixed Leo will have her stick to the decision. The Aqua man was not suitable to her present needs.

I think that's fuked up. But who knows maybe this a good thing for both

I just hope Leo is who he says he is. I am taking my time with the Leo. It's working for now.... we both need the same things in life. Family ortiented and he's in the same wavelength as myself. Again it's still fresh. I just need to know him a bit more first.

if you dont feel love for the leo, why bother though?

youll be disgusted by his touch if you dont love him.

edit -- or rather resent him in time.

Mm the Leo has his extremely passionate side and cuddly side . That's why I think it can grow over time ( my feelings )

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eww. that's horrible, sweetz!!!!

if it's not there...it will NEVER be...

Be careful.....if you are not fully over the last one, the chances are the latest one won't work out

Happened to me more than once

Rebound ?

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Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
So you're using the leo to move on from the guy you really want. Just lol

Yes, she is, but if this works for her, it's fine. Sometimes it's difficult to make the decision. She is a fixed Taurus after all. The fixed Leo will have her stick to the decision. The Aqua man was not suitable to her present needs.

I think that's fuked up. But who knows maybe this a good thing for both

does sweetz really want the aqua?

if she does, why lead on the leo?

that's not fair to the leo guy.

that'll only lead him on.

What I want and what I need are two different things :; I can't wait for the Aqua forever untill he change his ways. He's not wanting to change anytime soon. He's still happy flirting around and having casual convo and flirting conversations evehwhere around the world lol. I tease him about it but I still feel hurt inside. He cares about me a lot and I know out of all the girls, im the closest to him emotionally.( his words) We talk deep stuff but it won't work out we r just two different people. He's in a dream land. Nothing about his life is stable. He's got a great job n a great career but there's no rituals or stableness routines there at all. lol his house is a mess. Hahaha... he has a lot of growing to do. I'm the complete opposites. Living day by day without real goals and commitments to change isn't working for me anymore. I have a baby etc. my head still wants him but eventually it will follow my head to the right person. Aqua isn't it. He says he wanna change himself and he can't do that in a relationship. He's not looking for a relationship . So, need to let him go so he can find another woman who's more chilled. I'm not her.

well it's weird cause, maybe it's your other placements...what is your mars??

cause the sound of your aqua guy is very unstable...he would never be a choice in the first place for me...

i can tell with a guy early on for some reason. He would have to hit all my buttons: Stability, confidence, and chase me, and be financially secure with me, because it provides security, and also deep love. it's a TALL order..but. well...the heart wants what it wants.

but maybe he is really hitting your attraction button.

like LADA astrology says,....you are magnetically attracted to who you are attracted to. it's just the way it is.

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God I don't know why!!! Our compatibility chart between me and the Aqua is amazing 😢 all four aspects all positives. Honestly if he hasn't got the commitment problems we work amazing well as a team. He agrees on that. But it suck. We can talk for hours . He's not giving me stability and that's where things go sour. 😢 he keeps me mentally attracted all the time. So I need to cut all losses ! It's very hard for me normally to stay truly interested in a man..... sigh. I hope this is truly the end

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Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
So you're using the leo to move on from the guy you really want. Just lol

Yes, she is, but if this works for her, it's fine. Sometimes it's difficult to make the decision. She is a fixed Taurus after all. The fixed Leo will have her stick to the decision. The Aqua man was not suitable to her present needs.

I think that's fuked up. But who knows maybe this a good thing for both

does sweetz really want the aqua?

if she does, why lead on the leo?

that's not fair to the leo guy.

that'll only lead him on.

What I want and what I need are two different things :; I can't wait for the Aqua forever untill he change his ways. He's not wanting to change anytime soon. He's still happy flirting around and having casual convo and flirting conversations evehwhere around the world lol. I tease him about it but I still feel hurt inside. He cares about me a lot and I know out of all the girls, im the closest to him emotionally.( his words) We talk deep stuff but it won't work out we r just two different people. He's in a dream land. Nothing about his life is stable. He's got a great job n a great career but there's no rituals or stableness routines there at all. lol his house is a mess. Hahaha... he has a lot of growing to do. I'm the complete opposites. Living day by day without real goals and commitments to change isn't working for me anymore. I have a baby etc. my head still wants him but eventually it will follow my head to the right person. Aqua isn't it. He says he wanna change himself and he can't do that in a relationship. He's not looking for a relationship . So, need to let him go so he can find another woman who's more chilled. I'm not her.

well it's weird cause, maybe it's your other placements...what is your mars??

cause the sound of your aqua guy is very unstable...he would never be a choice in the first place for me...

i can tell with a guy early on for some reason. He would have to hit all my buttons: Stability, confidence, and chase me, and be financially secure with me, because it provides security, and also deep love. it's a TALL order..but. well...the heart wants what it wants.

but maybe he is really hitting your attraction button.

like LADA astrology says,....you are magnetically attracted to who you are attracted to. it's just the way it is.

God I don't know why!!! Our compatibility chart between me and the Aqua is amazing 😢 all four aspects all positives. Honestly if he hasn't got the commitment problems we work amazing well as a team. He agrees on that. But it suck. We can talk for hours . He's not giving me stability and that's where things go sour. 😢 he keeps me mentally attracted all the time. So I need to cut all losses ! It's very hard for me normally to stay truly interested in a man..... sigh. I hope this is truly the end

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I have my mars in Aqua . Perhaps?

Letting go of someone who can't give you what you need is a healthy move. My only concern is that you may be moving on quickly to the Leo man BECAUSE of the Aqua man's lack of action. Just be sure the Leo isn't just an emotional rebound for you. Best of luck!

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So you're using the leo to move on from the guy you really want. Just lol

Yes, she is, but if this works for her, it's fine. Sometimes it's difficult to make the decision. She is a fixed Taurus after all. The fixed Leo will have her stick to the decision. The Aqua man was not suitable to her present needs.

I think that's fuked up. But who knows maybe this a good thing for both

does sweetz really want the aqua?

if she does, why lead on the leo?

that's not fair to the leo guy.

that'll only lead him on.

What I want and what I need are two different things :; I can't wait for the Aqua forever untill he change his ways. He's not wanting to change anytime soon. He's still happy flirting around and having casual convo and flirting conversations evehwhere around the world lol. I tease him about it but I still feel hurt inside. He cares about me a lot and I know out of all the girls, im the closest to him emotionally.( his words) We talk deep stuff but it won't work out we r just two different people. He's in a dream land. Nothing about his life is stable. He's got a great job n a great career but there's no rituals or stableness routines there at all. lol his house is a mess. Hahaha... he has a lot of growing to do. I'm the complete opposites. Living day by day without real goals and commitments to change isn't working for me anymore. I have a baby etc. my head still wants him but eventually it will follow my head to the right person. Aqua isn't it. He says he wanna change himself and he can't do that in a relationship. He's not looking for a relationship . So, need to let him go so he can find another woman who's more chilled. I'm not her.

well it's weird cause, maybe it's your other placements...what is your mars??

cause the sound of your aqua guy is very unstable...he would never be a choice in the first place for me...

i can tell with a guy early on for some reason. He would have to hit all my buttons: Stability, confidence, and chase me, and be financially secure with me, because it provides security, and also deep love. it's a TALL order..but. well...the heart wants what it wants.

but maybe he is really hitting your attraction button.

like LADA astrology says,....you are magnetically attracted to who you are attracted to. it's just the way it is.

God I don't know why!!! Our compatibility chart between me and the Aqua is amazing 😢 all four aspects all positives. Honestly if he hasn't got the commitment problems we work amazing well as a team. He agrees on that. But it suck. We can talk for hours . He's not giving me stability and that's where things go sour. 😢 he keeps me mentally attracted all the time. So I need to cut all losses ! It's very hard for me normally to stay truly interested in a man..... sigh. I hope this is truly the end

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mentally attracted?

mars in gemini? or something air mars?

and it trines your moon?

are you a gemini venus as well?

https://cafeastrology.com/articles/idealmanforawoman.html

If a woman’s Mars is in Gemini, intelligence ranks very high on her list of ideal qualities in a man. An athletic or tomboyish look, sometimes on the slim side, is often preferred. Wittiness is a huge turn-on for these women. Versatility, liveliness, and playfulness are qualities in men that these women find devastatingly attractive. They’re not especially impressed with what they might consider “less evolved” types of men who display more typical, or traditional, masculine traits. Depressed or boring types won’t do. These women want to be stimulated, and their brains are their biggest sexual organs.

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So you're using the leo to move on from the guy you really want. Just lol

Yes, she is, but if this works for her, it's fine. Sometimes it's difficult to make the decision. She is a fixed Taurus after all. The fixed Leo will have her stick to the decision. The Aqua man was not suitable to her present needs.

I think that's fuked up. But who knows maybe this a good thing for both

does sweetz really want the aqua?

if she does, why lead on the leo?

that's not fair to the leo guy.

that'll only lead him on.

What I want and what I need are two different things :; I can't wait for the Aqua forever untill he change his ways. He's not wanting to change anytime soon. He's still happy flirting around and having casual convo and flirting conversations evehwhere around the world lol. I tease him about it but I still feel hurt inside. He cares about me a lot and I know out of all the girls, im the closest to him emotionally.( his words) We talk deep stuff but it won't work out we r just two different people. He's in a dream land. Nothing about his life is stable. He's got a great job n a great career but there's no rituals or stableness routines there at all. lol his house is a mess. Hahaha... he has a lot of growing to do. I'm the complete opposites. Living day by day without real goals and commitments to change isn't working for me anymore. I have a baby etc. my head still wants him but eventually it will follow my head to the right person. Aqua isn't it. He says he wanna change himself and he can't do that in a relationship. He's not looking for a relationship . So, need to let him go so he can find another woman who's more chilled. I'm not her.

well it's weird cause, maybe it's your other placements...what is your mars??

cause the sound of your aqua guy is very unstable...he would never be a choice in the first place for me...

i can tell with a guy early on for some reason. He would have to hit all my buttons: Stability, confidence, and chase me, and be financially secure with me, because it provides security, and also deep love. it's a TALL order..but. well...the heart wants what it wants.

but maybe he is really hitting your attraction button.

like LADA astrology says,....you are magnetically attracted to who you are attracted to. it's just the way it is.

God I don't know why!!! Our compatibility chart between me and the Aqua is amazing 😢 all four aspects all positives. Honestly if he hasn't got the commitment problems we work amazing well as a team. He agrees on that. But it suck. We can talk for hours . He's not giving me stability and that's where things go sour. 😢 he keeps me mentally attracted all the time. So I need to cut all losses ! It's very hard for me normally to stay truly interested in a man..... sigh. I hope this is truly the end

I have my mars in Aqua . Perhaps?

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https://cafeastrology.com/articles/idealmanforawoman.html

If a woman’s Mars is in Aquarius, she can be most impressed by men who are somewhat unconventional or kooky in their choice of clothes and overall style . She wants an interesting man. He can certainly be handsome, but boring? Hardly. A man with a brain is important, although she won’t be attracted to a brainy type. Somebody who is perceptive, a little unconventional, and perhaps somewhat aloof is most attractive. Rigid or boring types simply won’t do.

oh my goodness. lol

if you also have an air venus....no wonder.

You will need someone talkative and brainy.

lol!!

you need a guy like Danny Elfman type. A bit kooky and unconventional and they act like hippies too! 😄

haha. Jenna is Aqua mars and Aqua moon....

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So you're using the leo to move on from the guy you really want. Just lol

Yes, she is, but if this works for her, it's fine. Sometimes it's difficult to make the decision. She is a fixed Taurus after all. The fixed Leo will have her stick to the decision. The Aqua man was not suitable to her present needs.

I think that's fuked up. But who knows maybe this a good thing for both

does sweetz really want the aqua?

if she does, why lead on the leo?

that's not fair to the leo guy.

that'll only lead him on.

What I want and what I need are two different things :; I can't wait for the Aqua forever untill he change his ways. He's not wanting to change anytime soon. He's still happy flirting around and having casual convo and flirting conversations evehwhere around the world lol. I tease him about it but I still feel hurt inside. He cares about me a lot and I know out of all the girls, im the closest to him emotionally.( his words) We talk deep stuff but it won't work out we r just two different people. He's in a dream land. Nothing about his life is stable. He's got a great job n a great career but there's no rituals or stableness routines there at all. lol his house is a mess. Hahaha... he has a lot of growing to do. I'm the complete opposites. Living day by day without real goals and commitments to change isn't working for me anymore. I have a baby etc. my head still wants him but eventually it will follow my head to the right person. Aqua isn't it. He says he wanna change himself and he can't do that in a relationship. He's not looking for a relationship . So, need to let him go so he can find another woman who's more chilled. I'm not her.

well it's weird cause, maybe it's your other placements...what is your mars??

cause the sound of your aqua guy is very unstable...he would never be a choice in the first place for me...

i can tell with a guy early on for some reason. He would have to hit all my buttons: Stability, confidence, and chase me, and be financially secure with me, because it provides security, and also deep love. it's a TALL order..but. well...the heart wants what it wants.

but maybe he is really hitting your attraction button.

like LADA astrology says,....you are magnetically attracted to who you are attracted to. it's just the way it is.

God I don't know why!!! Our compatibility chart between me and the Aqua is amazing 😢 all four aspects all positives. Honestly if he hasn't got the commitment problems we work amazing well as a team. He agrees on that. But it suck. We can talk for hours . He's not giving me stability and that's where things go sour. 😢 he keeps me mentally attracted all the time. So I need to cut all losses ! It's very hard for me normally to stay truly interested in a man..... sigh. I hope this is truly the end

I have my mars in Aqua . Perhaps?

https://cafeastrology.com/articles/idealmanforawoman.html

If a woman’s Mars is in Aquarius, she can be most impressed by men who are somewhat unconventional or kooky in their choice of clothes and overall style . She wants an interesting man. He can certainly be handsome, but boring? Hardly. A man with a brain is important, although she won’t be attracted to a brainy type. Somebody who is perceptive, a little unconventional, and perhaps somewhat aloof is most attractive. Rigid or boring types simply won’t do.

oh my goodness. lol

if you also have an air venus....no wonder.

You will need someone talkative and brainy.

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Basically I'm stuffed.'I have venus in gem. Mercury in gem and mars in Aqua lol.'i tried to dig the Leo deeper but he was a bit shallow 😢 I hope that in term I will learn to setttle for that.....!arghhhhhhhhh fml

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So you're using the leo to move on from the guy you really want. Just lol

Yes, she is, but if this works for her, it's fine. Sometimes it's difficult to make the decision. She is a fixed Taurus after all. The fixed Leo will have her stick to the decision. The Aqua man was not suitable to her present needs.

I think that's fuked up. But who knows maybe this a good thing for both

does sweetz really want the aqua?

if she does, why lead on the leo?

that's not fair to the leo guy.

that'll only lead him on.

What I want and what I need are two different things :; I can't wait for the Aqua forever untill he change his ways. He's not wanting to change anytime soon. He's still happy flirting around and having casual convo and flirting conversations evehwhere around the world lol. I tease him about it but I still feel hurt inside. He cares about me a lot and I know out of all the girls, im the closest to him emotionally.( his words) We talk deep stuff but it won't work out we r just two different people. He's in a dream land. Nothing about his life is stable. He's got a great job n a great career but there's no rituals or stableness routines there at all. lol his house is a mess. Hahaha... he has a lot of growing to do. I'm the complete opposites. Living day by day without real goals and commitments to change isn't working for me anymore. I have a baby etc. my head still wants him but eventually it will follow my head to the right person. Aqua isn't it. He says he wanna change himself and he can't do that in a relationship. He's not looking for a relationship . So, need to let him go so he can find another woman who's more chilled. I'm not her.

well it's weird cause, maybe it's your other placements...what is your mars??

cause the sound of your aqua guy is very unstable...he would never be a choice in the first place for me...

i can tell with a guy early on for some reason. He would have to hit all my buttons: Stability, confidence, and chase me, and be financially secure with me, because it provides security, and also deep love. it's a TALL order..but. well...the heart wants what it wants.

but maybe he is really hitting your attraction button.

like LADA astrology says,....you are magnetically attracted to who you are attracted to. it's just the way it is.

God I don't know why!!! Our compatibility chart between me and the Aqua is amazing 😢 all four aspects all positives. Honestly if he hasn't got the commitment problems we work amazing well as a team. He agrees on that. But it suck. We can talk for hours . He's not giving me stability and that's where things go sour. 😢 he keeps me mentally attracted all the time. So I need to cut all losses ! It's very hard for me normally to stay truly interested in a man..... sigh. I hope this is truly the end

I have my mars in Aqua . Perhaps?

https://cafeastrology.com/articles/idealmanforawoman.html

If a woman’s Mars is in Aquarius, she can be most impressed by men who are somewhat unconventional or kooky in their choice of clothes and overall style . She wants an interesting man. He can certainly be handsome, but boring? Hardly. A man with a brain is important, although she won’t be attracted to a brainy type. Somebody who is perceptive, a little unconventional, and perhaps somewhat aloof is most attractive. Rigid or boring types simply won’t do.

oh my goodness. lol

if you also have an air venus....no wonder.

You will need someone talkative and brainy.

Basically I'm stuffed.'I have venus in gem. Mercury in gem and mars in Aqua lol.'i tried to dig the Leo deeper but he was a bit shallow 😢 I hope that in term I will learn to setttle for that.....!arghhhhhhhhh fml

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omg. lol

you really should get his placements. 😛 😆

btw -- the danny elfman type is really super awesome, jenna is very lucky.

so if you get that type, and you feel the same way, yay you. 😄

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So you're using the leo to move on from the guy you really want. Just lol

Yes, she is, but if this works for her, it's fine. Sometimes it's difficult to make the decision. She is a fixed Taurus after all. The fixed Leo will have her stick to the decision. The Aqua man was not suitable to her present needs.

I think that's fuked up. But who knows maybe this a good thing for both

I just hope Leo is who he says he is. I am taking my time with the Leo. It's working for now.... we both need the same things in life. Family ortiented and he's in the same wavelength as myself. Again it's still fresh. I just need to know him a bit more first.

So why make it facebook official if you don't even know him like that

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It's for many other reasons. It goes for my kind of work im doing lol. ( hard to explain) Also to keep other men away, they message me on fb n sometimes I can't b bother responding lol. The Leo demands exclusivity there's no point me acting like I'm single when I'm not .

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So you're using the leo to move on from the guy you really want. Just lol

Yes, she is, but if this works for her, it's fine. Sometimes it's difficult to make the decision. She is a fixed Taurus after all. The fixed Leo will have her stick to the decision. The Aqua man was not suitable to her present needs.

I think that's fuked up. But who knows maybe this a good thing for both

does sweetz really want the aqua?

if she does, why lead on the leo?

that's not fair to the leo guy.

that'll only lead him on.

What I want and what I need are two different things :; I can't wait for the Aqua forever untill he change his ways. He's not wanting to change anytime soon. He's still happy flirting around and having casual convo and flirting conversations evehwhere around the world lol. I tease him about it but I still feel hurt inside. He cares about me a lot and I know out of all the girls, im the closest to him emotionally.( his words) We talk deep stuff but it won't work out we r just two different people. He's in a dream land. Nothing about his life is stable. He's got a great job n a great career but there's no rituals or stableness routines there at all. lol his house is a mess. Hahaha... he has a lot of growing to do. I'm the complete opposites. Living day by day without real goals and commitments to change isn't working for me anymore. I have a baby etc. my head still wants him but eventually it will follow my head to the right person. Aqua isn't it. He says he wanna change himself and he can't do that in a relationship. He's not looking for a relationship . So, need to let him go so he can find another woman who's more chilled. I'm not her.

well it's weird cause, maybe it's your other placements...what is your mars??

cause the sound of your aqua guy is very unstable...he would never be a choice in the first place for me...

i can tell with a guy early on for some reason. He would have to hit all my buttons: Stability, confidence, and chase me, and be financially secure with me, because it provides security, and also deep love. it's a TALL order..but. well...the heart wants what it wants.

but maybe he is really hitting your attraction button.

like LADA astrology says,....you are magnetically attracted to who you are attracted to. it's just the way it is.

God I don't know why!!! Our compatibility chart between me and the Aqua is amazing 😢 all four aspects all positives. Honestly if he hasn't got the commitment problems we work amazing well as a team. He agrees on that. But it suck. We can talk for hours . He's not giving me stability and that's where things go sour. 😢 he keeps me mentally attracted all the time. So I need to cut all losses ! It's very hard for me normally to stay truly interested in a man..... sigh. I hope this is truly the end

I have my mars in Aqua . Perhaps?

https://cafeastrology.com/articles/idealmanforawoman.html

If a woman’s Mars is in Aquarius, she can be most impressed by men who are somewhat unconventional or kooky in their choice of clothes and overall style . She wants an interesting man. He can certainly be handsome, but boring? Hardly. A man with a brain is important, although she won’t be attracted to a brainy type. Somebody who is perceptive, a little unconventional, and perhaps somewhat aloof is most attractive. Rigid or boring types simply won’t do.

oh my goodness. lol

if you also have an air venus....no wonder.

You will need someone talkative and brainy.

Basically I'm stuffed.'I have venus in gem. Mercury in gem and mars in Aqua lol.'i tried to dig the Leo deeper but he was a bit shallow 😢 I hope that in term I will learn to setttle for that.....!arghhhhhhhhh fml

omg. lol

you really should get his placements. 😛 😆

btw -- the danny elfman type is really super awesome, jenna is very lucky.

so if you get that type, and you feel the same way, yay you. 😄

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I know I should get his placements lol!!!! Maybe it's better if Idont know though? Lol who's Danny elf man ?

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lol!!

you need a guy like Danny Elfman type. A bit kooky and unconventional and they act like hippies too! 😄

haha. Jenna is Aqua mars and Aqua moon....

Hahahahaha it's funny coz I actually like a man that dress up really really well. Mmm strange right? I don't actually like the hippie type lll

Lol. I think my Taurus sun is strong there'. A man with business suit turns me on hhhaaha

The other night we all went out in a group and the Aqua bloody suited up . He looked so hot. I almost fainted on he dance floor. But then he thinks I still have feelings for my ex sag as he was watching me dancing infront of my ex ( the singer) god it's all a mess! Thanks to all my airy placement s. Hahahahahaha

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So you're using the leo to move on from the guy you really want. Just lol

Yes, she is, but if this works for her, it's fine. Sometimes it's difficult to make the decision. She is a fixed Taurus after all. The fixed Leo will have her stick to the decision. The Aqua man was not suitable to her present needs.

I think that's fuked up. But who knows maybe this a good thing for both

I just hope Leo is who he says he is. I am taking my time with the Leo. It's working for now.... we both need the same things in life. Family ortiented and he's in the same wavelength as myself. Again it's still fresh. I just need to know him a bit more first.

So why make it facebook official if you don't even know him like that

It's for many other reasons. It goes for my kind of work im doing lol. ( hard to explain) Also to keep other men away, they message me on fb n sometimes I can't b bother responding lol. The Leo demands exclusivity there's no point me acting like I'm single when I'm not .

I think it's all weird but do you.

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It is weird. What do you mean ? I will not say it's not wired. lol. My actions r crazy at times. but I think it serves its purpose esp with the circumstances I am in.

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The other night we all went out in a group and the Aqua bloody suited up . He looked so hot. I almost fainted on he dance floor. But then he thinks I still have feelings for my ex sag as he was watching me dancing infront of my ex ( the singer) god it's all a mess! Thanks to all my airy placement s. Hahahahahaha

Maybe you take a break and get your head straight

Doesn't seem fair on the latest guy

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The other night we all went out in a group and the Aqua bloody suited up . He looked so hot. I almost fainted on he dance floor. But then he thinks I still have feelings for my ex sag as he was watching me dancing infront of my ex ( the singer) god it's all a mess! Thanks to all my airy placement s. Hahahahahaha

You are a hot mess.

Really not trying to be mean but look at what you just wrote in the thread about becoming official with the Leo.

Posted by Chuckcem
Letting go of someone who can't give you what you need is a healthy move. My only concern is that you may be moving on quickly to the Leo man BECAUSE of the Aqua man's lack of action. Just be sure the Leo isn't just an emotional rebound for you. Best of luck!

Thank you so much!!! Yeah I truly hope it goes well with the Leo! Tel me more about how amazing u guys are I need to stay detached from talking about Aqua lol.

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The other night we all went out in a group and the Aqua bloody suited up . He looked so hot. I almost fainted on he dance floor. But then he thinks I still have feelings for my ex sag as he was watching me dancing infront of my ex ( the singer) god it's all a mess! Thanks to all my airy placement s. Hahahahahaha

Maybe you take a break and get your head straight

Doesn't seem fair on the latest guy

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yeah... I thought about that... taking a break .. but I'm kind of doing it as the Leo is very busy man and I'm happy with that.. we don't see each other much.... and he's not all clingy over me and I like that. So it's just taking things slow with the Leo...

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The other night we all went out in a group and the Aqua bloody suited up . He looked so hot. I almost fainted on he dance floor. But then he thinks I still have feelings for my ex sag as he was watching me dancing infront of my ex ( the singer) god it's all a mess! Thanks to all my airy placement s. Hahahahahaha

You are a hot mess.

Really not trying to be mean but look at what you just wrote in the thread about becoming official with the Leo.

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Yeah, I did say I welcome all critism. Lol

What is your sun sign saweetz? Scorpio?

Posted by sultrykitty
You've been at the Aqua for a long time now. Being free from him will give you clarity on whether you're willing to work that hard at it again or not. Better sooner than later, wish you luck with the Leo.

Personally I think Taurus/Leo works better than Taurus/Aqua. Maybe your experience underlines why that is.

Wish you the best!

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What is your sun sign saweetz? Scorpio?

I have Taurus sun with my house in Scorpio. 😢 maybe that's why. what makes u think I'm a Scorpio? Wheh I read up about my house it makes so much sense. I seem to be attracted to men that needs deep healing!!! I managed to dig the Aqua so far. Became the only person he shares deep stuff with. Others are very shallow. Even sexually , he became the most passionate healing sexual man... But I gave up I can't do it anymore. He needs to do it on his own now

it takes time to know whether the love is real so you should give leo and you a chance with an open heart. however, to ensure you don't end up using him for financial and emotional security only, you should prepare to pay leo back his money as soon as you are able. using someone for emotional security is bad enough, adding $ to that is just wrong

if you want to be respected, be respectful and respect yourself first

Posted by Astrology101
Omg leos jumping into something... without knowing shyt. —

Oh well.