Watching me?!

Him: I saw a picture you posted today (in a group)

Me: I didn't know you were in there, but would you like me to take it down? (He's never mentioned it before on any picture).

Him: no, I see all the pictures you post I just don't say anything.

Then we had video sex Lmaoo. I guess he was turned on. Please enlighten me on if I did something wrong... And he's watching me on social media is this a good or bad thing?

Him Leo sun Scorpio moon, cancer Venus
Me Taurus sun Taurus moon Aries Venus

He's very intense by the way... And he'll show up when I least expect it and if I don't answer. Watch the temper lol... I don't answer sometimes anyway lol (I like the intensity it turns me on).

Is he warning me?

Posted by TauroMale
Scorpio moon...of course hes watching you

Good point. Just not used to someone watching me... So I didn't respond but... It was arousing. Nonetheless I'm gonna be more careful lol

Posted by leow31
Leo Sun, Scorpio Moon: The Psychopath 😄


Good reading.
http://hexagoninfulleffect.com/2012/05/28/sun-in-leo-moon-in-scorpio-the-scorpion-king-the-public-enemy-1/

Holy crap face Lmaooo... I was always wondering what was that mystery I could not figure out I am such an analyzer but could not do it to him! Now I see! He's purposefully hiding the crazy ‚‚‚‚ I am still turned on by that though more so now. 🙊🙊 don't judge me 😋😋

So i assume you mean a Facebook group?

Just so you know - Whether you actually want to see it or otherwise you will unfortunately see the photo.

I'm still traumatized over a triforce tattoo someone posted- located just above the dick- cause why the fk not.

But digress- how does this relate to you thinking you did anything wrong?

Also you do realize all of your friends are watching you on social media- It even tells you now when your friends put new content out.

Posted by Skitty
So i assume you mean a Facebook group?

Just so you know - Whether you actually want to see it or otherwise you will unfortunately see the photo.

I'm still traumatized over a triforce tattoo someone posted- located just above the dick- cause why the fk not.

But digress- how does this relate to you thinking you did anything wrong?

Also you do realize all of your friends are watching you on social media- It even tells you now when your friends put new content out.

Bravo! Yes I am aware EVERYONE watches me on Facebook... But yes this a private groups that only members can see... And it doesn't give an alert for that content as I have friends that I get alerts for on their MAIN page. He's never asked me or pointed it out before and it makes me feel he is telling me something without being too direct which is why I asked. I'm not overthinking it I just wanted to know if there was a hidden meaning or if he is "stalking" watching which is different from the general "seeing" you post something.

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Posted by Skitty
So i assume you mean a Facebook group?

Just so you know - Whether you actually want to see it or otherwise you will unfortunately see the photo.

I'm still traumatized over a triforce tattoo someone posted- located just above the dick- cause why the fk not.

But digress- how does this relate to you thinking you did anything wrong?

Also you do realize all of your friends are watching you on social media- It even tells you now when your friends put new content out.

Bravo! Yes I am aware EVERYONE watches me on Facebook... But yes this a private groups that only members can see... And it doesn't give an alert for that content as I have friends that I get alerts for on their MAIN page. He's never asked me or pointed it out before and it makes me feel he is telling me something without being too direct which is why I asked. I'm not overthinking it I just wanted to know if there was a hidden meaning or if he is "stalking" watching which is different from the general "seeing" you post something.

Was he teasing you when he said that? Usually leos won't come out and say something like " Oh yeah and im watching everything you post / do / like " that sounds a little desperate and we'll have too much pride to show you / tell you that ...unless it bothers him somehow / jealousy.

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He's never said that before. Which is why I think it was a message. Yes probably a way to say he was jealous. When I asked if I should take it down he said no. Then I said I didn't know you were in that group he responded with I see everything you post. I mean I knew he was watching but this made me realize the depth of how he's watching me. He used to be a little blunt with me and now he's more soft spoken, if I'm upset he straightens it right away... It also appears something is bothering him but he won't say. After this.... He didn't check in for two days. I sent a message on day three "two days. No contact. Interesting" he sent a response ASAP saying I'm calling now and he did. But he seemed a little irritated about something. With a Scorpio moon... Asking leads to nowhere. So I backed off but today I sent a message that he seemed irritated and whatever it is I hope he finds peace that I can't wait for him to be here and how to not read my soul with his eyes too much to let me keep some of it like he does for himself with laughing faved after. He read it but no response. I didn't expect one but I wanted to calm him if he felt I feel differently about him?! (I haven't been expressing my feelings for him, but I'm still around so I thought that would be enough for him to kn

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He read it but no response. I didn't expect one but I wanted to calm him if he felt I feel differently about him?! (I haven't been expressing my feelings for him, but I'm still around so I thought that would be enough for him to know). I have a lot of admirers (it won't change based on my career right now). He is also in the same industry with his admirers. I just want him to know its only him. He's become more inquisitive as if he feels I have someone else... But if he calls I answer so he shouldn't feel that. Please help! Ugh!

Take everything I am about to say with a grain of salt because I don't know him or you nor am I a Leo. However, I am dating a Leo guy that I have been dating for several months. It appears to me that he is trying to create separation almost as if he is trying to train you to take things for what it is. He doesn’t want to hear from you every day. He will talk to you every few days or when he feels like it but not every day. Not responding to your messages is rude and I wouldn’t accept that if I was you. I believe in treating people how I want to be treated. From my experience Leo's are very straight forward about feelings they might or might not have. If I was you I would either adjust my expectations and except things for what they are. I have only dated one Leo guy and he is very Attentive, Romantic and Affectionate and he wants my love constantly. Messages all day every day.. You are not a priority to him obviously, Him getting jealous or mentioning the photo is all about his ego in my opinion. He will give you just enough so he can string you along but It won't be enough for any real companionship.

My Leo ignored me ONE time and ONE time only in the beginning and called me the next day like nothing happened and I treated him accordingly. its 2016 people are glued to their phones. Going through "something" is just an excuse that people use because they simply just DO NOT want to talk to you". I say that all the time but my important people still hear from me. Now that I know him better I know for a fact that it was an excuse because when something happens now in fee first person he calls for comfort.
How old are you ? and how old is he? I will go off on him and call him 2 mins later and he still answers or text back. he has openly admitted to me that when he is upset with me it takes him 15 mins to my message instead of one.
Good Luck

Posted by Scorpio4242
Take everything I am about to say with a grain of salt because I don't know him or you nor am I a Leo. However, I am dating a Leo guy that I have been dating for several months. It appears to me that he is trying to create separation almost as if he is trying to train you to take things for what it is. He doesn’t want to hear from you every day. He will talk to you every few days or when he feels like it but not every day. Not responding to your messages is rude and I wouldn’t accept that if I was you. I believe in treating people how I want to be treated. From my experience Leo's are very straight forward about feelings they might or might not have. If I was you I would either adjust my expectations and except things for what they are. I have only dated one Leo guy and he is very Attentive, Romantic and Affectionate and he wants my love constantly. Messages all day every day.. You are not a priority to him obviously, Him getting jealous or mentioning the photo is all about his ego in my opinion. He will give you just enough so he can string you along but It won't be enough for any real companionship.

My Leo ignored me ONE time and ONE time only in the beginning and called me the next day like nothing happened and I treated him accordingly. its 2016 people are glued to their phones. Going through "something" is just an excuse that people use because they simply just DO NOT want to talk to you". I say that all the time but my important people still hear from me. Now that I know him better I know for a fact that it was an excuse because when something happens now in fee first person he calls for comfort.
How old are you ? and how old is he? I will go off on him and call him 2 mins later and he still answers or text back. he has openly admitted to me that when he is upset with me it takes him 15 mins to my message instead of one.
Good Luck

Thank you. He was fine in the beginning. I was assuming his Scorpio moon was playing a part in his absence. But even a hello or text everyday I've already told him was needed. So him not taking that into consideration proves I'm not top priority. Then he needs to leave me alone and stop coming back! I went through a bad break up before him and I'm not going down this road again. I just let him know I need more communication and I haven't heard anything. I'm going to no contact now and if it happens again, I'm going MIA on him. If he thinks I'm complaining and doesn't respond..,. He might as well not even think of coming back and couple of days later. Thanks ror the insight.

Sorry for the typo but you get the drift

I have a Scorpio Moon and Sun. Im a double Scorpio. I really don't think that's it? how long have you been dating? So he reaches out to you every 3 days? when did he start doing that ? are you guys exclusive? do you plan on moving eventually? its just strange to me because they love love and can be obsessive about those who they love. Can you tell if he is on social media during this time? HMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM so you sent him a message and he didn't respond—— So you guys only talk when he wants to talk..... how much do you know about of him? Very typical .. because of the distance between you is it possible that he has someone?

HAHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA all those questions are because of my scorpio moon.. Sorry but if you ask yourself the right questions you might be able to find the answer within yourself

Posted by busyeyes88
Lol lol lol lol I thought I was bad with questioning someone but you make me look good S4242!!!

LMAO MAN.. I have to figure it out... I will ask you 21 questions until I get the truth.. LOL

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I have a Scorpio Moon and Sun. Im a double Scorpio. I really don't think that's it? how long have you been dating? So he reaches out to you every 3 days? when did he start doing that ? are you guys exclusive? do you plan on moving eventually? its just strange to me because they love love and can be obsessive about those who they love. Can you tell if he is on social media during this time? HMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM so you sent him a message and he didn't respond—— So you guys only talk when he wants to talk..... how much do you know about of him? Very typical .. because of the distance between you is it possible that he has someone?

Geez lol. He was to come this weekend and stay for awhile. This just started this weekend. He hasn't been updating his social media. I think he's busy honestly. He may have someone. It's only been 3 months. We are long distance. He's never said how he feels about me and I was cool with it cause I rather the actions and he was doing great but looking back it's like I'm the last thing in the list. I still don't know how he feels.

I just blocked him and going into no contact. I sent a message that I need more communication and have no idea how he feels about me and I'm not ok with how he's been acting and I want how we were to return. He read it and didn't respond. I've blocked him before and he has called quickly once he found out. This time...I'm serious. I won't answer the calls. I'm going MIA at least for a day or two. If He's still interested then fine. I'm breaking the habit of men treating me like an option. Such a pity. I would've done anything for him.

I saw your photo and I think you are beautiful.. However, from what you wrote you are blocking him to teach him a lesson but if he does what you think he should do you will unblock him. im sure he has learned this by now. I mess up she gets mad I give her want for a day or 2 and she takes me back. He has figured you out. don't try to manipulate say what you want and if you don't get it just remove yourself. . Why haven't you asked if he has someone? He could be doing what he is doing so he doesn't have to come this weekend. I wouldn't block him. I would ask my questions an hold him accountable. and if he doesn't respond for three days ask them again. Don't play games. Say how you feel and tell him what you expect? so you think he is busy———? doing what ? for 3 days————? im not going for it. You shouldn't have to block him to get him to answer your calls. Its simple. I call you answer. if you are busy just say honey im busy right now can I call you later. Simple!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! all that extra stuff is something else.

What's video sex?

Posted by AriesIntrovert16
What's video sex?

Where you masturbate in front of one another every few days.

and then turn vindictive when your partner doesn't respond to your texts right away.

Sounds like a blast.

Posted by Scorpio4242
I saw your photo and I think you are beautiful.. However, from what you wrote you are blocking him to teach him a lesson but if he does what you think he should do you will unblock him. im sure he has learned this by now. I mess up she gets mad I give her want for a day or 2 and she takes me back. He has figured you out. don't try to manipulate say what you want and if you don't get it just remove yourself. . Why haven't you asked if he has someone? He could be doing what he is doing so he doesn't have to come this weekend. I wouldn't block him. I would ask my questions an hold him accountable. and if he doesn't respond for three days ask them again. Don't play games. Say how you feel and tell him what you expect? so you think he is busy———? doing what ? for 3 days————? im not going for it. You shouldn't have to block him to get him to answer your calls. Its simple. I call you answer. if you are busy just say honey im busy right now can I call you later. Simple!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! all that extra stuff is something else.

Yes he could be acting like that to get out of coming and if that's the case we are done. I did long distance 8 months before him and it didn't work . I'm very sexual and need physical contact. I refuse to not see him for months again. Last time we were together was November. If he's not here in January I'm sorry I have to move on. He's in the industry and it gets busy cause I do to but I still make time. When I didn't give two shits about him he chased like crap I also told him everytime I give in the man starts becoming cold and distant and I'm not doing it this time. Well either he's not listening, ges testing it, or he doesn't care. I sent him a message he should've responded when he saw I had doubts. It's now a while and still nothing. I'm not hard to please. Keep contact with me and appreciate me. Not sure what's going but I feel neglected. I'm better off alone. It hurts but I'm not going into depression like I did over the last one. I called twice he did not pick up. That shows he's ignoring me so either he doesn't want the confrontation and waiting on me to cool down or he's done. Oh and thanks about me being pretty, but it seems to be my issue. Pretty isn't getting me anywhere is it? I'm
Always being came on to and I try so hard to show him he's the one yet he toys with me smh.

Posted by leow31
If you block him ...block him for good. These games never end up well. Maybe he has someone else...maybe he didn't like the facebook thing...maybe he got tired of the distance ..and maybe he's trying to get out of coming to see you. That's a lot of maybes. Only he knows. You've blocked him..yet you're calling him..don't you think you're setting yourself up? He sees through you now and knows how to play you. If you block him as I said, make it last and be done with him. Don't bother with guys who give you no explanation and prefer ignoring you than being strong enough to face you. Good luck girl.

I called first, Twice. THEN I blocked him AFTER the text and no response but he read it...now it seems he was at an event per the pics of a mutual friend. Yet I don't care right now. I don't "feel" it's someone else though honestly I truly don't. Nonetheless this isn't a game. If he checks like he says then he'll know based on my message is why I blocked him and to either come up with some form of proper communication with us or let it stay that way and I can move on. This shall prove if he really wanted to come or not. This isn't a game more than the one he's playing. I shall NEVER do long distance again. I'm getting too old for this and I've done enough of them. I also told him this before we started long distance and he forced it and I jumped. Never again. I may seem heartless cause I'm hurt. But it's wrong to treat people that are there for you like they matter not because you know they'll be there at your beck and call... Taking advantage of people that genuinely care about you is not only wrong but that person who is giving the advantage don't deserve good people in their lives. I'm done being a foot stool.

I'm just at a lost and when this happens I hybernate and dissapear... I really become even extra introverted. Blame my Taurus moon ... Here I thought our moons were great ... Ewe.

Posted by Taureye
Scorpio moon makes me into batman.

Batman is sexy. But please explain

So what did you do to this guy to make him hide his face from you in shame a few weeks ago?

Probley a safe wager to guess your threads are based on that foundation i.e You wanting things to be "normal" again, extreme paranoia, mind games etc

Posted by Skitty
So what did you do to this guy to make him hide his face from you in shame a few weeks ago?

Probley a safe wager to guess your threads are based on that foundation i.e You wanting things to be "normal" again, extreme paranoia, mind games etc

When he ignores me I go off. Plain and simple. That's about it though. Maybe he did find his next victim until she sees through his manipulation.

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Scorpio moon makes me into batman.

Batman is sexy. But please explain

When i'm interested in someone or something i do my homework on them or it. It's more of a do i really want to be getting into this type of thing, and if you wanna call it a defense mechanism but then again i have a habit of making sure there are failsafes at every corner though you can't avoid heartbreak at times. Overall i am very very observant, i don't let on that i am because i'd rather someone prove themselves right or wrong with their actions but i'm always observing whether someone knows it or not. My intent isn't to know everything about that person to blackmail them or anything thats some terrible stuff. I just want to protect myself from surprises and in the process get to know that person without any bias and see what i found out matches with what they display. Better safe than sorry. If you put me in a room with people, i will be the quietest out of everyone just nonchalantly observing. Once i have sorta "figured" out everyone i will approach them in a manner that best suits them, not being fake but more diplomatic. I'll still be my blunt self but now i have boundaries settled in my mind so i can better read situations and act accordingly and at the same time have myself prepared for any situation. So yeah...batman.

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Understood... I guess all he had was social media cause I'm very private myself. He didn't know enough about my home life more than I'm a single mom on my own with my own job and place and aspiring career. I never expressed my true struggles cause he's secretive also so.....

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If you block him ...block him for good. These games never end up well. Maybe he has someone else...maybe he didn't like the facebook thing...maybe he got tired of the distance ..and maybe he's trying to get out of coming to see you. That's a lot of maybes. Only he knows. You've blocked him..yet you're calling him..don't you think you're setting yourself up? He sees through you now and knows how to play you. If you block him as I said, make it last and be done with him. Don't bother with guys who give you no explanation and prefer ignoring you than being strong enough to face you. Good luck girl.

I called first, Twice. THEN I blocked him AFTER the text and no response but he read it...now it seems he was at an event per the pics of a mutual friend. Yet I don't care right now. I don't "feel" it's someone else though honestly I truly don't. Nonetheless this isn't a game. If he checks like he says then he'll know based on my message is why I blocked him and to either come up with some form of proper communication with us or let it stay that way and I can move on. This shall prove if he really wanted to come or not. This isn't a game more than the one he's playing. I shall NEVER do long distance again. I'm getting too old for this and I've done enough of them. I also told him this before we started long distance and he forced it and I jumped. Never again. I may seem heartless cause I'm hurt. But it's wrong to treat people that are there for you like they matter not because you know they'll be there at your beck and call... Taking advantage of people that genuinely care about you is not only wrong but that person who is giving the advantage don't deserve good people in their lives. I'm done being a foot stool.

I don't think you're heartless...I just think if someone is openly ignoring you without a reason in your books ..why bother? Good on you decide to ignore him for good. Someone that behaves the way he does, doesn't sound interested.

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I finally told him that I don't know how he feels about me and it's bothering me. Hence no response. I guess that's how he feels.

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Scorpio moon makes me into batman.

Batman is sexy. But please explain

When i'm interested in someone or something i do my homework on them or it. It's more of a do i really want to be getting into this type of thing, and if you wanna call it a defense mechanism but then again i have a habit of making sure there are failsafes at every corner though you can't avoid heartbreak at times. Overall i am very very observant, i don't let on that i am because i'd rather someone prove themselves right or wrong with their actions but i'm always observing whether someone knows it or not. My intent isn't to know everything about that person to blackmail them or anything thats some terrible stuff. I just want to protect myself from surprises and in the process get to know that person without any bias and see what i found out matches with what they display. Better safe than sorry. If you put me in a room with people, i will be the quietest out of everyone just nonchalantly observing. Once i have sorta "figured" out everyone i will approach them in a manner that best suits them, not being fake but more diplomatic. I'll still be my blunt self but now i have boundaries settled in my mind so i can better read situations and act accordingly and at the same time have myself prepared for any situation. So yeah...batman.

Understood... I guess all he had was social media cause I'm very private myself. He didn't know enough about my home life more than I'm a single mom on my own with my own job and place and aspiring career. I never expressed my true struggles cause he's secretive also so.....

The way i see it is, if one is so insecure as to not put everything out on the table then really are they worth it? I understand people don't like telling everything about themselves but if this is a person you see as a prospective partner why not be upfront from the beginning? If things bother you say so, if things are not what you thought say so. I respect secrecy but theres gotta be a limit. I mean too many games...guess thats my venus aries talking lol

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Amen! Venus Aries here as well. I only held back because he was being secretive because I like knowing what's going on! I'm a Taurus I'll help anyone and everyone no matter the circumstance. Though when we videoed I would see his surroundings he just wouldn't tell me. I had to pick up on things. I did address it once and so we started spe

Cut off......

I did address it once and so we started spending more time even on holidays but then boom this past few days have been terrible. I'm not gonna beat myself over it. It's still on my mind but I have so much to give the right person...I can't let the wrong one break me again. I just hate starting over.

Shaniajam. have you heard from him?

Posted by Scorpio4242
Shaniajam. have you heard from him?

Yes... I took someone advice and unblocked him cause I wasn't serious. He hasn't requested me back and blocked me from trying. I asked to be friends again and he ignores it. So I confronted him and said why are you punishing me when I've already apologized... Who treats people that care about them like that? He called right away. I'm starting to notice that he loves when I express my feelings (hell do whatever I want then). When I don't show emotions he keeps the things that gives me pleasure (too nasty for details) away until I can't take it and have an emotional break. He's very passive aggressive I've noticed. I called and nagged enough these past few days for him to leave me and then I realized he just needed reassurance... Smh. The problem is I feel awkward telling him I miss him and crave him and want him at the moment when he says nothing. Yet when I do.... I get a lot of attention and affection. I want to hear it too smh. But he does "show" me the same just not with words. Today I had an event. I was busy. He called 5 times back to back and was like where were you? Then played it off like he called for something minor lol. He's intense....I need help on how to back off when it gets too intense. Is that the Scorpio moon part?

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Shaniajam. have you heard from him?

Yes... I took someone advice and unblocked him cause I wasn't serious. He hasn't requested me back and blocked me from trying. I asked to be friends again and he ignores it. So I confronted him and said why are you punishing me when I've already apologized... Who treats people that care about them like that? He called right away. I'm starting to notice that he loves when I express my feelings (hell do whatever I want then). When I don't show emotions he keeps the things that gives me pleasure (too nasty for details) away until I can't take it and have an emotional break. He's very passive aggressive I've noticed. I called and nagged enough these past few days for him to leave me and then I realized he just needed reassurance... Smh. The problem is I feel awkward telling him I miss him and crave him and want him at the moment when he says nothing. Yet when I do.... I get a lot of attention and affection. I want to hear it too smh. But he does "show" me the same just not with words. Today I had an event. I was busy. He called 5 times back to back and was like where were you? Then played it off like he called for something minor lol. He's intense....I need help on how to back off when it gets too intense. Is that the Scorpio moon part?

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Im also very intense and I do think its because of my scorpio moon but my Leo is equally intense and his moon is in Virgo. from day one everything was extremely intense with us.. Haha and it doesn't help that im westindian so im naturally passionate and he is also and he is a virgo moon My only advise to you is don't play games. don't do things to get a reaction out of him or to make him jealous. Say what you mean and mean what you say and have your actions match what you are saying. I am happy things worked out for you :-). Enjoy his visit.....

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What this post reminded me of lol....

LOL

You just seem indescribably unstable.

You blocked him because he wouldn't respond to you because he was working.

Who does that- fights for someone to talk to them- then blocks them? That makes absolutely no sense.

Your actions don't match anything you actually say.

It's very apparent that there is certainly alot more to this than what you saying.

I've done alot of fked up shit in my life. But i've never torn into some to such an extent they felt the need to hide their face in shame from me.

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Shaniajam. have you heard from him?

Yes... I took someone advice and unblocked him cause I wasn't serious. He hasn't requested me back and blocked me from trying. I asked to be friends again and he ignores it. So I confronted him and said why are you punishing me when I've already apologized... Who treats people that care about them like that? He called right away. I'm starting to notice that he loves when I express my feelings (hell do whatever I want then). When I don't show emotions he keeps the things that gives me pleasure (too nasty for details) away until I can't take it and have an emotional break. He's very passive aggressive I've noticed. I called and nagged enough these past few days for him to leave me and then I realized he just needed reassurance... Smh. The problem is I feel awkward telling him I miss him and crave him and want him at the moment when he says nothing. Yet when I do.... I get a lot of attention and affection. I want to hear it too smh. But he does "show" me the same just not with words. Today I had an event. I was busy. He called 5 times back to back and was like where were you? Then played it off like he called for something minor lol. He's intense....I need help on how to back off when it gets too intense. Is that the Scorpio moon part?

So you apologize for blocking him.......for ignoring you? Wow this guy is good.

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No... Where I said that? We still not friends on Facebook and not interested to be. He's the one watching me not the other way around. You think he's good lol... Taurus senses manipulation and gives you enough rope to hang yourself and acts stupid like they don't know... Trust I'm aware.

Posted by Skitty
You just seem indescribably unstable.

You blocked him because he wouldn't respond to you because he was working.

Who does that- fights for someone to talk to them- then blocks them? That makes absolutely no sense.

Your actions don't match anything you actually say.

It's very apparent that there is certainly alot more to this than what you saying.

I've done alot of fked up shit in my life. But i've never torn into some to such an extent they felt the need to hide their face in shame from me.

You can explain but you can't make everyone understand.... And not going to... ASSUME as you may. Good day.

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Shaniajam. have you heard from him?

Yes... I took someone advice and unblocked him cause I wasn't serious. He hasn't requested me back and blocked me from trying. I asked to be friends again and he ignores it. So I confronted him and said why are you punishing me when I've already apologized... Who treats people that care about them like that? He called right away. I'm starting to notice that he loves when I express my feelings (hell do whatever I want then). When I don't show emotions he keeps the things that gives me pleasure (too nasty for details) away until I can't take it and have an emotional break. He's very passive aggressive I've noticed. I called and nagged enough these past few days for him to leave me and then I realized he just needed reassurance... Smh. The problem is I feel awkward telling him I miss him and crave him and want him at the moment when he says nothing. Yet when I do.... I get a lot of attention and affection. I want to hear it too smh. But he does "show" me the same just not with words. Today I had an event. I was busy. He called 5 times back to back and was like where were you? Then played it off like he called for something minor lol. He's intense....I need help on how to back off when it gets too intense. Is that the Scorpio moon part?

Im also very intense and I do think its because of my scorpio moon but my Leo is equally intense and his moon is in Virgo. from day one everything was extremely intense with us.. Haha and it doesn't help that im westindian so im naturally passionate and he is also and he is a virgo moon My only advise to you is don't play games. don't do things to get a reaction out of him or to make him jealous. Say what you mean and mean what you say and have your actions match what you are saying. I am happy things worked out for you :-). Enjoy his visit.....

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Finally some well needed advice! And from a islander! Jamaica here and where are you from? Yes I am learning to just stand my ground go with the flow and most importantly.... Back off and give him space! I've also notice he has Mars in Aquarius which makes him seem aloof and also likes to switch it up sooo much. Now that I know these things it makes it easier for me to allow him to just be ..... Thanks for the advice I shall relax now lol

Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
What this post reminded me of lol....

Lmfao

Posted by leow31
lol....um okay. here's what you posted earlier:


" Yes... I took someone advice and unblocked him cause I wasn't serious. He hasn't requested me back and blocked me from trying. I asked to be friends again and he ignores it. So I confronted him and said why are you punishing me when I've already apologized... "

Sure he's good, he's got you jumping through hoops for him..which isn't good per se but you get my drift.
The only one who's hanging herself is you to be honest ... =/

I did bot apologize for blocking him I apologize for being immature and not addressing the situation first... Big difference. Funny cause he wants me to continue to beg to be back on a friends list... Hahaha... He's the one watching me... He can block me from requesting him cause I won't be asking again. I'm non chalant about that... We are long distance so that's the only way he could watch me. Jumping through hoops? Only my kids can get that. Not to mention I no longer am "available" everytime he calls and what does that do— He calls four times 15 mins apart... He acts cold yet if in missing he's worried I'm doing something and I see that now. So whose playing who? You see I know it's a game. So let's play. Don't blame me for learning the game.

Sorry for the misspelled words but you get my drift ....

Another thing, when I'm into someone I'm into them... But I'm still aware, I just play along... Why? Maybe I like knowing that people feel they can run over me not knowing even nice people have a limit. My payback—? If you don't get your act together soon enough I cut off all my good deeds and in the end? They always come back... But by then. It's too late.

Wonder what aspects of my chart plays the game right along with them, then boom.... Throws it in your face by leaving your ass. Watching you come back and smile yet not care or take you back? Damn I've been doing that for a long time! I give my world when I love you .... Don't ever take advantage of that or I'll wait long enough to make you pay ... Not physically, but emotionally. Damn that's mean. I need to work on that.

Posted by Koniucha
Sounds like loads of fun

Lol... It's a little intriguing ... Am I wrong?

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Posted by Shaniajam

Posted by Koniucha
Sounds like loads of fun

Lol... It's a little intriguing ... Am I wrong?

Seems to over dramatic to me. But I just like to lead a simple life.

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This has been tense since the day I met him. He was the link to a business aspect. He was in town on business we met up at one of the events... And he came on so strong I almost ran litterally... But he would not let me out his grasp. I tried leaving 5 times that night and he would not his me the opportunity until we spoke alone for awhile (kissed at the end too). Then when he went back home I blew him off so much and he just kept coming... I've blocked him numberous times before and he always came back... This time he's reversing the role and trying to make me beg or pay for it... Ok I get it. He's won that board game... But I shall not beg. Now that he's somewhat got me in his grasp.... He's playing the push pull... So when he pulls.... I dissapear lol... Then boom no more than two days later he apprears.... I'll give enough rope "I miss you" then leave him to keep stringing him... And he does the same. I know he's into me and I know he wants me, heck I can go as far as saying I know he loves me, cause who puts in so much effort long distance to play this game!? There's enough people in your town for that mess lol. It's intense. I get tired sometimes and pull away and go do my thing. I think he likes doing it to me... I bought it up and I saw him smiling out the corner of his eyes..... Hahaha .... Game on. Until someone gets tired I guess.

Ah well to each it's own.

I watch people I like most of the time c:

xD