When Leo man just wants short term?

Hello all,

I can't really figure it out what is it with this Leo man. We have known each other for 3 months now and the first 3 times we went out was fun, I brought him to some places he has never been, everything was great we enjoyed it a lot

And then the next time we went to an event party he started touching me (put his hand on my arm while talking to other people, also he asked me to sit on his lap when ran out of chairs) after that he went to my place overnight but we didn't have sex only kissing and hugging cos i said i its a bit fast for me, he still kept messaging me every day..

We went out again he brought me to a nice restaurant he said it's our dating we just looked like a couple a deeply in love couple, he has been treating me so well and gentle in the past 2-3 weeks, we text each other every day.

I like him a lot but the problem is he will soon leave my country in 3 months (he can come back and work for a bit longer)and we had a conversation through text I tell him that "if we keep going like this I will be really sad when you leave, I don't want short-term thing im looking for more, maybe we better just be friends... "(I actually trying to put him to say something about our situation)

then he replied "we really enjoy each other company but I understand you it will be a sad situation for us I just want you to be happy if it will be hurting you then yes let's be friends..." he agreed to be friend with me, I thought he would say like I will try to come back or sth....) hhaahaa but he still messaging me...

I can feel that he also like me a lot too... if in this situation a Leo man still treating me so nice and message me every day still, what that means? when Leo man decide to be just friend will they still treating them very good, how will they act?

please tell me what should I do... I really really like him a lot.. 😭

Posted by Lioness18881
You suggested friends... why do people say "friends" if that's not what they really want?

Fear and insecurity. Very few people are comfortable just stating what they want.

Posted by Myaaaya
Hello all,

I can't really figure it out what is it with this Leo man. We have known each other for 3 months now and the first 3 times we went out was fun, I brought him to some places he has never been, everything was great we enjoyed it a lot

And then the next time we went to an event party he started touching me (put his hand on my arm while talking to other people, also he asked me to sit on his lap when ran out of chairs) after that he went to my place overnight but we didn't have sex only kissing and hugging cos i said i its a bit fast for me, he still kept messaging me every day..

We went out again he brought me to a nice restaurant he said it's our dating we just looked like a couple a deeply in love couple, he has been treating me so well and gentle in the past 2-3 weeks, we text each other every day.

I like him a lot but the problem is he will soon leave my country in 3 months (he can come back and work for a bit longer)and we had a conversation through text I tell him that "if we keep going like this I will be really sad when you leave, I don't want short-term thing im looking for more, maybe we better just be friends... "(I actually trying to put him to say something about our situation)

then he replied "we really enjoy each other company but I understand you it will be a sad situation for us I just want you to be happy if it will be hurting you then yes let's be friends..." he agreed to be friend with me, I thought he would say like I will try to come back or sth....) hhaahaa but he still messaging me...

I can feel that he also like me a lot too... if in this situation a Leo man still treating me so nice and message me every day still, what that means? when Leo man decide to be just friend will they still treating them very good, how will they act?

please tell me what should I do... I really really like him a lot.. 😭

It's simple, tell him what you really want and STOP telling him what you don't actually want. Did you expect this guy to read your mind? You basically derailed an easy thing and expected him to fix it for you. Saying, "Let's be friends" is a sure fire way to confuse a Leo. Leo is a sign of passion, not friendship. Depending on the situation we may stick around for a bit, but once we realize the situation won't end in our favor, we'll cut our losses. So make sure you make your intentions clear from now on before he disappears.

thank you so much Chuckcem! I will let him know when there is a chance to talk about this thing!

But should I tell him I like him a lot? since I heard that Leo like to chase will I scare him off if I open up and tell him I like him and what I want ...

Posted by Myaaaya
But should I tell him I like him a lot? since I heard that Leo like to chase will I scare him off if I open up and tell him I like him and what I want ...

Seriously, whoever told you that Leos like to chase and are scared of open emotions was probably thinking of Aries or Sagittarius. Being open and honest with a Leo is turn on to us. It shows passion and strength, which we crave in our potential partners. We admire courage and respond best to the direct approach.

Leos will initiate, but we don't like to chase. If you play hard to get for too long, you'll wind up playing by yourself. Leos hate being manipulated and will ghost if we think it's happening to us. If somehow you did get a Leo to chase you (it happens sometimes), there needs to be an end goal.

Friendship is not an end goal for a Leo who is seeking romance. If you offer us friendship or even start to say, "frien-" you'll have a much harder time keeping us interested romantically. It's not that we don't value friendship, but it comes easily to us. In which case you'll be one of many until you can manage to get close to us.

Unlike other signs that make friendship a priority, Leo wants everything. We want passion, romance, love, understanding, consistency, and anything else you have. If you want to become a Leo's priority, you'll need to align yourself with those goals.

Posted by Myaaaya
Hello all,

I can't really figure it out what is it with this Leo man. We have known each other for 3 months now and the first 3 times we went out was fun, I brought him to some places he has never been, everything was great we enjoyed it a lot

And then the next time we went to an event party he started touching me (put his hand on my arm while talking to other people, also he asked me to sit on his lap when ran out of chairs) after that he went to my place overnight but we didn't have sex only kissing and hugging cos i said i its a bit fast for me, he still kept messaging me every day..

We went out again he brought me to a nice restaurant he said it's our dating we just looked like a couple a deeply in love couple, he has been treating me so well and gentle in the past 2-3 weeks, we text each other every day.

I like him a lot but the problem is he will soon leave my country in 3 months (he can come back and work for a bit longer)and we had a conversation through text I tell him that "if we keep going like this I will be really sad when you leave, I don't want short-term thing im looking for more, maybe we better just be friends... "(I actually trying to put him to say something about our situation)

then he replied "we really enjoy each other company but I understand you it will be a sad situation for us I just want you to be happy if it will be hurting you then yes let's be friends..." he agreed to be friend with me, I thought he would say like I will try to come back or sth....) hhaahaa but he still messaging me...

I can feel that he also like me a lot too... if in this situation a Leo man still treating me so nice and message me every day still, what that means? when Leo man decide to be just friend will they still treating them very good, how will they act?

please tell me what should I do... I really really like him a lot.. 😭

what's his placements and yours?

if your life goals don't match, dont play into it. just say, OK, fine. see ya later aligator.