crabbycrab76
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You never know when a Leo...
A month ago you were scared as hell to lose her bro. However, you are now in the danger zone! Say yes and you got a hell of a good woman. Say no and we will see what happens.
Only do it if you are 100% ready
Only do it if you are 100% ready
Posted by SsupermanShe did say "no rush babe", cause I'll have to figure out what to do with my own place and stuff. But I have no doubt it's what I want too, I just wasn't expecting it. I've never lived with my SO or let them live with me, so I'm not sure how it will change things. I hope it is more like the way we spend time together now.
A month ago you were scared as hell to lose her bro. However, you are now in the danger zone! Say yes and you got a hell of a good woman. Say no and we will see what happens.
Only do it if you are 100% ready
Posted by MiZLeoOnly cause I haven't done it before. Uncharted territory, not because I don't want to cause I do.Posted by crabbycrab76
will decide to pounce or bounce! Unpredictable as heck!
What do you leos do? Think about things privately, decide it's what you want to have happen, then announce it to the world? LOL.
Haha, pretty much. But, I'd only do it if your 100% ready. You sound like you have doubts.click to expand
OMG, OMG, OMG, OMGGGGGGG!
Omgahhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
😄
Are you ready to live under HER roof?
On her terms?
In her home?
Serious question.
You already have your own place, personal investments, etc.
Maybe up the ante and make it a little more permanent for you
both, instead of just YOU taking the risk, here?
Why not invest in a new place you both have equal share and
equal say in?
Just a thought, but an important one, imo... 🙂
On her terms?
In her home?
Serious question.
You already have your own place, personal investments, etc.
Maybe up the ante and make it a little more permanent for you
both, instead of just YOU taking the risk, here?
Why not invest in a new place you both have equal share and
equal say in?
Just a thought, but an important one, imo... 🙂
Mont is right
My SO moved in to my house due to him needing a place to stay, not for romantic reasons. Neither of us were super excited about it, but it needed to happen. Then, I had a bigger house built to accommodate his stuff and business, and his daughter. All in my name, he's nowhere on any documents.
While it hasn't been a MAJOR issue, I will admit there are some aspects about this arrangement that are or can he problematic. Questions of financial responsibility, whose investment it really is, etc. do get in the way of us feeling like it's an equal partnership.
Otherwise, it's been fine. We do have a very unusual cohabiting setup though. We tend to keep things very separate. It gives us the space we each need.
We've agreed that the next property (if there is one) will be his, to "even the score", so to speak. For the most part, it's been good and seems like it was the right thing to do.
Good luck making your decision!
While it hasn't been a MAJOR issue, I will admit there are some aspects about this arrangement that are or can he problematic. Questions of financial responsibility, whose investment it really is, etc. do get in the way of us feeling like it's an equal partnership.
Otherwise, it's been fine. We do have a very unusual cohabiting setup though. We tend to keep things very separate. It gives us the space we each need.
We've agreed that the next property (if there is one) will be his, to "even the score", so to speak. For the most part, it's been good and seems like it was the right thing to do.
Good luck making your decision!
Posted by 037Pretty much sums up what was going on inside me when she asked!
OMG, OMG, OMG, OMGGGGGGG!
Posted by MoonshineLeoIKR!!!! Out of nowhere too! For once, she caught ME off guard! 😄
Omgahhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted by busyeyes88We're both in our thirties. We've been together 5 years with a yr break. So we're not going into this not knowing each other. Also, I sought insight for pitfalls from my fellow cancers so I can be prepared for what I may not be seeing cause I do want to do this with her!Posted by crabbycrab76How old are you both?Posted by MiZLeoOnly cause I haven't done it before. Uncharted territory, not because I don't want to cause I do.Posted by crabbycrab76
will decide to pounce or bounce! Unpredictable as heck!
What do you leos do? Think about things privately, decide it's what you want to have happen, then announce it to the world? LOL.
Haha, pretty much. But, I'd only do it if your 100% ready. You sound like you have doubts.
And how.long have you been a couple?click to expand
Posted by MoonshineLeoI get why everyone is concern, but lioness is a bit of a compromiser, so I don't think she will be like this is MY ROOF and you live in MY house. For example, we had been dating a year when she purchased the cabin property. Big money went into purchasing the land. We went together to check out the property, getting certain soil, irrigation, etc. tests done. But if you had not known it, you would have thought we were purchasing the property together because she asked if I was ok with this component and that component - like how far off to build the cabin off the property line, the best place on the acreage for the cabin, even whether it should be completely convenience free or not - you would have sworn we were a couple buying the property. That's how she is. That's how she make me feel. It's OURS - even if it's not. I don't own one percentage of the property, but like I said, you wouldn't know it from looking at how she treats me regarding it.
Mont is right
Do I think if she gets made enough she will kick me the hell out. Huh, yeah. But we tend to talk things through and if she got that mad, then I probably deserve to be kicked out anyway because you can't find a more even, fair person that her.
So, I'm sure it's what I want to do. Also, I think SSuperman is right - I don't think it would be good for me to turn her down on this because it's a big show of trust and where she thinks our relationship is. I think she will be very hurt if I didn't atleast try this out.
Posted by sultrykittyI think this is how she wants things to be with us too. Because she said, nothing will change - you handle your business and I'll handle mine. So I think she's thinking separate but together. But at the same time, not hold it over my head that it's HER place. And thanks. I'll think more on it this week, but I'm pretty sure where I'm headed with all this - to be with her a much a possible!
My SO moved in to my house due to him needing a place to stay, not for romantic reasons. Neither of us were super excited about it, but it needed to happen. Then, I had a bigger house built to accommodate his stuff and business, and his daughter. All in my name, he's nowhere on any documents.
While it hasn't been a MAJOR issue, I will admit there are some aspects about this arrangement that are or can he problematic. Questions of financial responsibility, whose investment it really is, etc. do get in the way of us feeling like it's an equal partnership.
Otherwise, it's been fine. We do have a very unusual cohabiting setup though. We tend to keep things very separate. It gives us the space we each need.
We've agreed that the next property (if there is one) will be his, to "even the score", so to speak. For the most part, it's been good and seems like it was the right thing to do.
Good luck making your decision!
Posted by MontgomeryOk, Mont, here are my feelings on this - we're together all the time now - especially weekend stay over, so we're practically living together now. And whether we are at my place or her place, we have a routine, she has her ways, etc. and we have already settled into that. We both own our place - neither want to sell it for obvious reasons. If we get a place together, our finances are tied together. I think we both prefer to avoid doing that. Her place is more convenient to both our work places than my place is to her work place. It has never felt like *her rules or her terms* in the past. She is very - compromising in that way. She prefers us to agree on things. So, the way I see it, since we have been practically living together - either her place or mine - then all we're doing is making it official. I won't rent my place out for a few months in - so I can still move back if things don't feel right. But I do feel like it's the next step for us. I just hope our relationship don't take a hit if we do this, but I think I will leave before I let that happen anyway (I mean move back to my place). I won't be putting myself in a financial risk. Actually, as she pointed out, if I rent out my place, that'll be more money in my pocket. Renting her place out would be problematic because - it's a place most people can't afford and those who can afford it, won't rent but purchase anyway. She loves her home and I just don't see her giving it up.
Are you ready to live under HER roof?
On her terms?
In her home?
Serious question.
You already have your own place, personal investments, etc.
Maybe up the ante and make it a little more permanent for you
both, instead of just YOU taking the risk, here?
Why not invest in a new place you both have equal share and
equal say in?
Just a thought, but an important one, imo... 🙂
I believe its better for a man to move into the woman's place, actually.
You guys don't have a lot to move, and you tend to be more contained than we are.
Renting your place out sounds great, too. My ex moved in at my request too. He was virtually living there anyway. He rented his home out, two years later and after our marriage, he sold his place and moved us into a much bigger house.
The only thing I see - though that might just be me - is that you hold her in high esteem, but don't rest on your laurels.
But, so far, you're the Leo whisperer - or its personally me - so I'm pretty confident you'll handle this really well.
You guys don't have a lot to move, and you tend to be more contained than we are.
Renting your place out sounds great, too. My ex moved in at my request too. He was virtually living there anyway. He rented his home out, two years later and after our marriage, he sold his place and moved us into a much bigger house.
The only thing I see - though that might just be me - is that you hold her in high esteem, but don't rest on your laurels.
But, so far, you're the Leo whisperer - or its personally me - so I'm pretty confident you'll handle this really well.
Posted by 037Haha - the Leo whisperer. I wish!! Thanks though. 🙂
I believe its better for a man to move into the woman's place, actually.
You guys don't have a lot to move, and you tend to be more contained than we are.
Renting your place out sounds great, too. My ex moved in at my request too. He was virtually living there anyway. He rented his home out, two years later and after our marriage, he sold his place and moved us into a much bigger house.
The only thing I see - though that might just be me - is that you hold her in high esteem, but don't rest on your laurels.
But, so far, you're the Leo whisperer - or its personally me - so I'm pretty confident you'll handle this really well.
I do hold her in high esteem but I know her short comings too 😉 I just feel like I know how to handle her - or maybe she let me handle her 😄 We just had the best damn time at the cabin - no one around for miles - felt like we were the only two people in the whole world. It was awesome! idk, I just trust her so much and oooh - just feeling her love. Wow!
Something else I thought about, we are still doing counseling. So whatever problems come up they are sure to come out during couple counseling and that's a good thing too. Although I don't think it will be completely smooth sailing in the beginning (nothing has been yet when it comes to me and lioness), I think we will work through it like we always do. Atleast that's what I'm hoping.
Posted by 037From a practical standpoint, it is... and if she were posing the topic, I would
I believe its better for a man to move into the woman's place, actually.
You guys don't have a lot to move, and you tend to be more contained than we are.
Renting your place out sounds great, too. My ex moved in at my request too. He was virtually living there anyway. He rented his home out, two years later and after our marriage, he sold his place and moved us into a much bigger house.
The only thing I see - though that might just be me - is that you hold her in high esteem, but don't rest on your laurels.
But, so far, you're the Leo whisperer - or its personally me - so I'm pretty confident you'll handle this really well.
tell her it was best that she keep her place and let him give up his.
Security is all, here.
Should he keep his house (as opposed to selling it), then all bases are covered.
That said... I know how I am about my home.
And since we're helping Cancer, not LEO (why are we doing this, again...?), you
should know that some of us (me) will take things personally that you might not
believe to be important.
But they are... not the action, but the intent behind it.
Sorry for the buzzkill-- just saying.
Posted by MontgomeryMonty, can you explain this - not sure I follow. If I'm keeping my house (maybe rent out later), then it's all fair - no?Posted by 037From a practical standpoint, it is... and if she were posing the topic, I would
I believe its better for a man to move into the woman's place, actually.
You guys don't have a lot to move, and you tend to be more contained than we are.
Renting your place out sounds great, too. My ex moved in at my request too. He was virtually living there anyway. He rented his home out, two years later and after our marriage, he sold his place and moved us into a much bigger house.
The only thing I see - though that might just be me - is that you hold her in high esteem, but don't rest on your laurels.
But, so far, you're the Leo whisperer - or its personally me - so I'm pretty confident you'll handle this really well.
tell her it was best that she keep her place and let him give up his.
Security is all, here.
Should he keep his house (as opposed to selling it), then all bases are covered.
That said... I know how I am about my home.
And since we're helping Cancer, not LEO (why are we doing this, again...?), you
should know that some of us (me) will take things personally that you might not
believe to be important.
But they are... not the action, but the intent behind it.
Sorry for the buzzkill-- just saying.click to expand
I support this. I mean every relationship has problems but I think both of you are in a better place now where you will be able to talk things through. If you're ready then I say do it. You can only learn and grow that way. Goodluck keep us updated! (:
Posted by MoonshineLeoAwwww....thx!
I support this. I mean every relationship has problems but I think both of you are in a better place now where you will be able to talk things through. If you're ready then I say do it. You can only learn and grow that way. Goodluck keep us updated! (:
Well, she must really want this, cause her master suite has a his/her walk-in closets. When I got there last night, she had completely cleared out the *his* closet space. Also, before, I had the bottom two drawers of the main dresser, but she cleared a whole other dresser out of me. I already had one drawer space in the master bath for my personal items, but she cleared out the whole left side in there also! LOL!! So she's expanding my space already. She said she was going to re-arrange the library shelves and ask where I preferred by books and music in there. We agreed on the area and that was that.
She doesn't appear to be expecting *anything* but a yes at this point ...so I better! Good thing I wanna, huh - or I may be posting a different thread! HAHA!!
She doesn't appear to be expecting *anything* but a yes at this point ...so I better! Good thing I wanna, huh - or I may be posting a different thread! HAHA!!
I told her we had to discuss details on bills and getting things settled on my end before I could make the switch- she was ok with that.
OMG I'm so happy for you two 😄. If she is anything like me she is very compromising and will never make you feel like it's hers and not ours.
I adore this combo- I've said it before but hey, I'll say it again 😛
Posted by MiZLeo@MiZLeo, thk!
Happy for you crabby
Posted by wagtail@wagtail, me too! 😛
I adore this combo- I've said it before but hey, I'll say it again 😛
Love your positive energy, btw.
Posted by MahoganyLeo@MahoganyLeo, thx!
OMG I'm so happy for you two 😄. If she is anything like me she is very compromising and will never make you feel like it's hers and not ours.
That's EXACTLY how she makes me feel...it's OURS - even if it's not. 😄
Yeah, she has a very compromising personality - just don't piss her off! HaHa!!
It seems to me, Leos are fair if you are fair. They like to treat you like they want to be treated. 🙂
So it's official everyone! We will be officially living together by the end of the month!
She wasn't feeling my EZ chair coming in the mix...but I said, "...my ass groove is in it and it fits me nicely!" She busted out laughing and said, well...if your ass groove is in it and all...
Wish us luck! 🙂
She wasn't feeling my EZ chair coming in the mix...but I said, "...my ass groove is in it and it fits me nicely!" She busted out laughing and said, well...if your ass groove is in it and all...
Wish us luck! 🙂
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