Libra Men and Sex

I would like your honest opinions of libra men when it comes to sex. I don't know if it's just me, or do libra men have
i've been with two libra men, and they have both had insanely high sex drives, pretty much ALL my relationship with both of them was about - there is also a libra man in my family - he's much much older but he's known as the player of the family, he had several extra-marital affairs and he pretty much flirts with anything that moves - in fact owing to my experiences with the three, I always thought libran men had the highest sex drive among all other zodiacs - but i could be wrong
female
TELL YOUR FRIEND THAT CONDOMS ARE HER BEST FRIEND, AND THAT ALL THE SEX IN THE WORLD IS NOT WORTH HER LIFE. SHE NEEDS TO GET ON SOMETHING, AND HE NEEDS TO WRAP IT UP! THATS A LOAD OF BULL, I'VE NEVER HEARD OF A MAN NOT GIVING HIS GF SEX JUST BECAUSE SHE'S NOT ON THE PILL,IF HE AINT GETTING IT FROM NO WHERE ELSE(HEY NOW...) AND SHE'S HIS ONLY SEXUAL PARTNER, IF SHE AINT ON NOTHING, HE WILL STAP IT UP AND HIT IT WITH A CONDOM UNTIL SHE DOES. PERSONALLY I DONT THINK THEY ARE BEING VERY RESPONSIBLE. THEY SHOULD BOTH PROTECT THEMSELVES. RAW SEX....EWWWW! IVE SEEN TOO MANY PEOPLE RUNNING OUT OF THE CLINIC CRYING BECAUSE THEY THOUGHT THEY "KNEW" THIER PARTNER...UGH.
36 years old female from bay area, ca
I am going through this exact problem right now. I have been with my Libra man for just over 2 years. I would most likely have a better grasp on the situation if I could allocate some sort of point in time when things 'went sour' but sex has ALWAYS been a problem with us.

I am a Cancer - he is a Libra. I am 29, he's 27. Normally in relationships it's ME that has to 'put the brakes on' and tell the man to calm down. But not in this case. In fact this is the first time that I have ever had this problem and I am so embarrassed about it I won't even talk to anyone about the issue.

I just don't understand how someone can be with someone, in love, in a healthy relationship - and be like that. My Libra ADORES me. He's told me many times how much he loves me, wants to be with me forever, I'm the perfect woman, etc etc.

So how come no sex?

He's been battling depression for the entire time that I've known him. Come to find out that he has been this way for most of his life. I am constantly trying to help him along and along the way I have become absolutely exhausted. If it's not financial, it's his job, if it's not his job - it's something else.

I feel like I can't keep up at this point. I am very nurturing and loving. I dote on him like crazy, I give him lots of space (I've got a lot of Air in my chart - so I don't need constant attention, like many Cancers) and I give him attention when he needs it. (Libra's love admirers, and I am his biggest fan)

We are so cute together. Everyone is always asking us for advice on being happy, staying together, etc. And on the outside it looks 100% solid.

But how can a relationship be healthy with little to NO SEX?! Seriously =[
female
Thank you for all of your responses! Some of them had me rolling!

My friend wants to thank you for the advice as well. She (and I too) didn't realize that stress could really mess a guy up like that. I've never had this problem with guys so I just didn't know. My friend says her and libra had sex only once this week. I dunno about that...see, we pisces women NEED some lovin, especially at times like that. But I have to say that libra is always with her, even if he's not having sex with her so I guess actions speak louder than words.

Another thing we found out about this libra. My friend is not on birth control yet as their sexual relationship just started a few months ago. Libra just told her another reason that he isn't having sex with her is because she's not on the pill and will literally start thinking of babies when he thinks about hitting that , which turns him off. He refuses to use condoms with her so I guess she needs to get on something.

Libras are weird.
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Posted by spica
Libra chase personalities, def. not sex for sex's sake. Their idea of love is more of a spiritual one (physical sex taken to a higher level). Thus romance and togetherness is high priority. It's their way of showing respect for the person - not chasing after their booty for that sake alone.



It's so good to know this. :-)
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You also have to know its not true for all. Just those who are not working their lower chakras.. but their upper ones.
29 years old female
(that's what I meant by freaky)
29 years old female
Like they're not as into conventional sex as you would think...they're sexually very open.
They'll try pretty much anything, they like to try new positions and switch positions frequently, they're into some kinky butter...

Honestly, I think Libras are probably one of the top signs to have one of those weird ass fetishes like toe sucking....
Lol


In my experience they're only like this with a partner they trust though...
I'm pretty sure if you have a casual hookup/one night stand type of deal with a Libra it's only going to consist of you going down on him and maybe some boring sex. I think trust is essential to their inner freak coming out.
female from USA
What would your opinions of "freaky" be?
female from USA
Posted by spica
Libra chase personalities, def. not sex for sex's sake. Their idea of love is more of a spiritual one (physical sex taken to a higher level). Thus romance and togetherness is high priority. It's their way of showing respect for the person - not chasing after their booty for that sake alone.



It's so good to know this. :-)
29 years old female
Posted by Pesca75
They definitely don't seem to chase after tail like men of other signs do and they seem more the relationship type of guy, so they don't seem to be into sex just for the sake of having sex.

I have noticed this as well. I think it's because they are more attracted to the more wholesome girl next door/domestic types... (I think Libra men are very domestic once you get them to settle down.)

I would go as far to say they're actually turned off by porn. (?)

My Libra is very opinionated, and openly expresses his disgust with trashy women - or women who dress too revealing and act promiscuous.

It's not that they don't like sex...because as someone else above me noted, they're actually pretty freaky. They just don't like random sex with random women who have sex with random men. Haha


Posted by Pesca75

My friend is in a relationship with a libra now and she says she knows for certain that he doesn't cheat on her or watch porn, yet he rarely wants sex and although he told her he would like her to initiate too, when she does, he says "too tired", "I'm watching a movie", or just flat out "not in the mood". He is affectionate at times and does tell her he loves her all the time, but no sex. He swears he's attracted to her but this no sex thing starting to make her depressed. When she tries to talk to him about it, he gets defensive and angry and they fight. It's no secret that he's not happy with his life and his financial situation, so we are wondering if it's just that affecting him or do
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Wow that sounds so familiar. When my Libra got home from his deployment we rarely had sex (like once a month, seriously.) I was really upset at first because I thought it was me, like maybe he wasn't attracted to me anymore...maybe the time we spent apart while he was gone, his feelings changed, etc. But he insisted he just had a lot on his mind, and was feeling stressed and couldn't think about sex. He genuinely just didn't feel like it.

That's why I bolded that last part. He's unhappy and stressed out. There's too much on his mind to think about sex. There's probably no other reason besides that.
curious Sagittarius
^^age and maturity is relative anyway...
curious Sagittarius
I would have to correct my statement instead of saying "young" I meant immature or unpolished libra prefer quantity sex rather than quality. While a mature or evolved libra prefers quality sex rather than quantity...
curious Sagittarius
Mine is not into porn, which is strange to me since most guys I know is into it. In his younger years he was into casual and experimental sex. But now that he is mature he prefers to make love. To him making love is like connecting with me not just physically but emotionally and spiritually as well. He is the only guy that made me experience how it is to make love, most guys normally would dose off after sex but with him he will just stay on top of me naked and without a word would run the tip of his fingers lightly on my skin. He made me feel what John Mayer means in his song "Your Body Is A Wonderland". I wouldn't consider libras have low libido as they mature, I would simply describe it as young libra prefers quantity sex but mature libra prefers quality sex. For mature libras if their mind, body and spirit is not into it then they'd rather not have sex.
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Libra chase personalities, def. not sex for sex's sake. Their idea of love is more of a spiritual one (physical sex taken to a higher level). Thus romance and togetherness is high priority. It's their way of showing respect for the person - not chasing after their booty for that sake alone.
37 years old male from Upstate, South Carolina
Posted by Pesca75
I would like your honest opinions of libra men when it comes to sex. I don't know if it's just me, or do libra men have a low sexual libido? They definitely don't seem to chase after tail like men of other signs do and they seem more the relationship type of guy, so they don't seem to be into sex just for the sake of having sex.


I wanted to point out that not pursuing "sex for the sake of sex" does NOT mean a low libido.

also...

Posted by Pesca75
Other libra men I know can go for long periods of time without sex and the ones I know are mostly too shy to approach women unless they've been around them a lot.
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Just because they may go long periods of time without sex doesn't mean they don't want to. Being shy can make it harder but that's not the real problem.


I don't wanna say to much cause I'll start rambling... and well, not on this topic...

I have what I'd consider a normal to high sex drive; however, I have zero interest in casual or "empty" sex.
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