Libra wont say I love you.

Thats how we are and its quite painful for us to say it. So don't keep wondering if he loves you or not. He is not sure.
male from Singapore
A simple complicated libran. Sun: Libra Ascendant: Gemini
Thats how we are and its quite painful for us to say it. So don't keep wondering if he loves you or not. He is not sure. He will never be sure. The best you can hear from a libra is that "he likes you". If any one of you have a problem with that, please find some other zodiac groups who dont mind saying that stupid line every time you want to hear it.

Logically the phrase "I love you" carries no particular meaning. Its as good as a pickup line and used every now and then by whoever has no idea about what they are talking about. Libra has an issue that we need to make sure we mean what we speak. When we say "I dont know" or "i am not sure" it means we are thinking and we are not sure exactly what it is. Now most people will have a big issue with that thinking we are not interested or always confused. But if you look back at rest of the world, you can find out for yourself that 99.99% people who says "I love you" breaks up someday or the other or keep playing around which contradicts what they once said. We hate to repeat such mistakes which everyone else enjoy making.

Thanks for reading.
31 years old from Canada
Sun Capricorn 0.11 Moon Taurus 3.10 Mercury Sagittarius 9.26 Venus Sag
thx thelibran for posting that up, i understand now why the words, "I love you" is weighted too much, sighs, I guess I just have to rely on my libras actions to see if he truly cares about me
male from Singapore
A simple complicated libran. Sun: Libra Ascendant: Gemini
EVERYONE!!!
58 years old female
Cancer Moon in 12th house trines Neptune
Agreed kenny .. well, maybe not shallow, more like superficial.

Love cannot be put into one category definitively .. and people will use the word carelessly.

I love puppies .. love sweaters .. love my grandmother .. love the rain .. love sarcasm .. ice-cream ...


This word cannot do justice for how one really feels.
34 years old female
virgo sun scorpio mars...
he wont say it if he doesn mean/feel it completely. or when he is not sure yet.
we cant push them..u just hv to wait.but when he says it...he realy means it.at least my libra. when they love u...they will let u know
But how can you tell if a libra male REALLY likes you, do you have to come out and say it first and how long would you usually have to wait, a month, years?????
male from Singapore
A simple complicated libran. Sun: Libra Ascendant: Gemini
We just cant say if we really like someone or not. Unless its a water or earth case where various factors contribute to extended heartbeats which matches our feelings with that of societies general perception of what love is. Then we dont hesitate to use the word 'love' .

With air or fire, we are just scared to tell them how much we like them. bcoz there are no extra heartbeats, there are no feelings and we are not sure if we really like them as a potential romantic partner when all these components are absent. So we begin to doubt ourselves. Can it be called love? No!!! at least as per social definition of love, it cannot be categorized as love. Then next best word to define it is 'like'. And thats the only word we can allow ourselves to use bcoz we wish to stay honest to whatever we speak. So if any air or fire born girl end up asking as "why do u like me?", we have answers. But if they ask us "why do u love me?", we are just plain clueless. Bcoz we think its not love bcoz there are no emotional factors involved. We are not getting much jealous like before. We genuinely want them to have the best and so so. which eventually make us deduct its not love and it may not work.
86 years old female from Chicago
Sun Scorpio 0.25 Moon Sagittarius 27.52 Mercury
***he wont say it if he doesn mean/feel it completely. or when he is not sure yet.
we cant push them..u just hv to wait.but when he says it...he realy means it.at least my libra. when they love u...they will let u know ****

Same in my experience, in fact all the librans I have been in a relationship with (ex-hubby included) has actually told me they loved me first. Even after the relationship is over I have had two admit they love me still and want to be with me. However, for whatever my reasons were for ending the relationship I don't think it is resovable to be in love with them again in one instant. The other. I son't know if I could get back romantically involved with them either.

But THEY DO SAY IT and when they do, the definately mean it. I don't know maybe only when they are in their upper twenties and thirties. I dunno.
86 years old female from Chicago
Sun Scorpio 0.25 Moon Sagittarius 27.52 Mercury
thelibran, do you really think librans do not feel emotional about fire or air signs? I don't think that is true fr all. Nic and his libra girl are ver intense and emotionally involved. Aranlatay (aries) and her libra are very emotional. He has already used the L word. So, why do you say this really. I don't think you can generalize everyone in the same catagory, because you will always find exceptions.
male from Singapore
A simple complicated libran. Sun: Libra Ascendant: Gemini
We use it when it doesn't make anymore psychological impact on the receiver. Its more like a casual statement of reassurance after they both find themselves mutually interested. Not while trying to be honest with someone when we are asked to explain ourselves during the starting stage.

If we use it in the early days, its only a subconscious level manipulation game we are trying to play on the other person.

You can find exceptions based on various cultural backgrounds and the amount of pressure the libra in question is facing.
86 years old female from Chicago
Sun Scorpio 0.25 Moon Sagittarius 27.52 Mercury
***If we use it in the early days, its only a subconscious level manipulation game we are trying to play on the other person.***

Not true, if there actions back it up and they still do years later.

86 years old female from Chicago
Sun Scorpio 0.25 Moon Sagittarius 27.52 Mercury
Hmm, maybe some librans can and some can't say it. I dunno. I guess I got a couple of the ones who could. They would say it on their own, no pressure etc. So who knows. Ofcourse these were librans I was in a serious relationship with, never really heard the I LOVE U from casual relationships, but I did hear the I care for you. Starting to get really emotional about us. etc.
female from TX
Sun TAURUS Moon LEO
Mine gives me the actions that tell me he loves me.

We've had the talks and I've gotten "Do you want me to tell you I love you? Yes, I do and it scares the butter out of me"....so I made a deal with him. I don't want to hear he loves me if he is going to deliver it that way..instead continue to show me that he loves me by showing me in his subtle and not so subtle ways.

I too cannot imagine my life without my "libra", but know that I should continue to live my life independent of his and let him compliment my life rather than supply it.
male from Singapore
A simple complicated libran. Sun: Libra Ascendant: Gemini
((My boyfriend tells me he loves me.))

you are also a scorpio right?


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