ANY ARIES EXPERIENCES? CARE TO SHARE :)

Any of you had any love encounter or experience with an aries? If care to share some tips. Any sign welcome to comment.

Hi Alibra, im married to 1, 5th yr of marriage this year. I noticed that they like an independent person & they respect someone who can butt heads with them. They are easily angered, just ignore bcoz the anger will be short lived. They love sex, lol. Mine is a double aries, so he might be different from other arians. They are also very childlike, half mad if u ask me. Good, honest & generous ppl. I hope i helped.

Hi Watercup! Thanks! Of course you helped.lol. I love my aries very much. But I just don't get him sometimes. And for a sign so simple and direct (aries), this shouldn't happen. I guess because im a libra I over think things. It drives me nuts. In my past relationships it drove my partners nuts that I over analyze and think too much. I don't want to run my aries away with my emotions and constant thoughts. Most of the thoughs I have are negative. Mainly because he doesn't want a relationship right now, for certain reasons. If your okay with it, I will inbox you the whole story and if you have time maybe you can help me out if you've managed to land one for 5 yrs.lol. I get along with aqua's just fine. You get lots of space.lol

I have dated one Aries in my lifetime. He was very sexual-a little selfish when we first got together. Then he became intune to me so it was then a wonderful experience!
He loved to talk (communicate) about any thing and everything. We could talk for hours. There were times he did get a little angry, his FIRE would come out, but as Water said it never lasted long as long as you didn't add fuel to the flames. I used to let him fly off on his tangents and then he'd calm down. He was very passionate about what he beleived in and his friends and family were always first. He did have a spending habit, but then again he made the money to spend! He was also a very romantic man, once we found our balance. Very passionate about love and his feelings, he had it all. Even after it eneded, it was on great terms and he is still a friend of mine today! He even calls me to talk about his girlfriend now with me! LOL

Hi NikkeMse! Thanks a lot for your reply. My story of me an my aries dates all the way back to childhood. However the real important stuff only started 8mths ago. Im nuts about him. But im an air sign, so im very cautious when showing my emotions. As stated above, I would hate to overwhelm my independent aries. Im very independent myself, its one of the things he likes about me. But its not the same in love relationships. As a libra it takes me ages to make a simple decision especially in love matters, so I just prefer my partner to take the wheel and if I don't like the turns I will let him know along the way. My aries is throwing me for a loop. One minute I think he's into me, the next im not so sure.

So true Nikki, my husband has a bad spending habit too. Cant keep time to save his life. Always in fist fights or pissed off by someone or something. Energetic & likes it if u keep up, i put my foot down with this one coz it wears me out (im a thinker dammit). I let him buzz around on his own. He is out playing cricket as we speak. Alibra u can send me your story, i dont mind at all. I know how to handle a ram. I've got aries ascendant, so their little tantrums dont faze me.

Alibra, they love to be in charge, pretend that they are & all will be fine. But dont agree with them too much otherwize they lose interest & get bored. I see they like a little meanness. Dont worry, if u aren't mean by nature, their crap will make u mean, lol.

i'm a libra who is crushing hard on an aries guy right now. basically, my goal is to marry this guy by the time i'm 25 LOL i cannot rest peacefully until i obtain that 'wife status'!!! lol i know it's a long shot considering we're not even a couple yet but i feel like we're getting there!!!!
i keep hearing aries being associated with traits like chidish, selfish, aggressive and i'm just sitting there scratching my head as i'm reading these things because my crush doesn't seem to have a signle mean, aggressive bone in his body. trust me ladies i have TRIED to provoke this guy on numerous occasions but have failed every single time!! he is sooooo warm and understanding. he doesn't get angry at anything. im telling you there is something wrong with this boy.
he is a pisces/aries cusp (born on the 22nd of march). i dunno if this has anything to do with his mildness? he also has venus in taurus and i've heard that aries guys with venus in taurus tend to be more tolerating as in they'll tolerate more crap than others lol

@Watercup I will inbox you the story. Its kind of long, and I know people got jobs and stuff to do so I will try to shorten it.lol
@Nikkiemse and Watercup the whole spending habit thing is throwing me for a loop. My aries is very good at saving and monitoring his money. My sister is an aries and you better believe she loves to shop and splurge but she will sit her tail down in a minute and manage her funds down to the last penny, and wont shop for months untils he racks up again. (Sometimes I wish I inherited that gift from my dad, I'm almost sure that's where she got it from, he's a got dang cancer. Very limited with their cash flow and spending it.lol) My aries is 100% committed to paying off the law, and getting his apartment and car, THEN he says he will be back to doing his thing. The most he spends from eating out. HE says he spends that because I don't cook. He never asks, and he doesn't come over and ask me to. And he's picky! Sheesh, the most famous chef in paris couldn't satisfy him.lol

@AliCar15 & everyone: He says im mean! Lol. I cant believe it. Im always shocked when he says it. He says I don't call enough (might be true, but that's only because I absoutley hate it when he doesn't answer) he says im sweet SOMETIMES, but not all the time. I feel im very sweet, im just not a push over. Shoot. I've been played, wont happen again no sir. I've got a career that im working on, and he knows it. I don't have time to be crying, worrying and being upset over no man. He said he's not ready for a relationship because he wants to be able to give it 110% especially with me. He says there is no other woman he'd want to try a serious relationship with other than me once he gets everything in order. Says it wont be much longer. (We'll see) The whole push pull thing happens naturally because I cant help but mirror my partner. It says it irritates him sometimes. But I cant help it. If you fall back, I fall back. If you step up I step up. If you act mean I will disappear until you calm down, especially if I know I didn't do anything. Just like now I feel im more into him than he is into me. We text and call about the same amount, but I feel my feelings are stronger. He says they're not. But I disagree. Think he's lying? I was just taught no matter how direct or honest a man seems you CANNOT always take them at their word. Even the famous direct and straightforward aries man. Am I right?

@Melanie G my aries was born March 23rd. Very very close call there!lol. If my aries does have that picies in his chart, that could explain his soft side. But you claim you cant make your aries mad. Oh believe me they get mad about stuff normal people would get mad about. Not to say they aren't normal.lol. But seriously, my aries seems to get irrated a lot but I don't think I've ever seen him mad. He told me of times that he was mad, but the average person wouldn't know. He keeps this cool and calm demeanor about himself, and only lets it down when he's around people he trust. Like me, he says or only a SELECT few in his family. He's very private, but if something leaks out his words are always "So what! Im grown!" (lol, he's only 21.)

@melanie...arians are very kind & sweet etc until u stay in the same house with them! They are selfish its true (eg. changes channels on tv without caring if ur watching or not), bad temper over nothing (he trips on his own shoes on the floor & gets pissed off on why they are there, but he put them there himself) & childish (YES, playful, wants things his way etc). And very messy, cant keep a place clean. They are the other leos, love attention & praise eg. my husband loves to cook & he wants to hear, 'yum', 'hmm' until u finish to eat, otherwize he will keep on asking u how the food tastes. With me he always gets his way coz what he cares about or wants, is usually non-existant to me. So yeah, dont be fooled by the sweetness.

ok i personally know two people with the march 23rd birthday but they're both women. one is my boss and the other one is my mom's good friend. they're both really nice and generous. VERY opinionated (lol) but they don't come across as pushy like a lot of aries do (probably due to the pisces cusp influence). and as far as i know they both take love/relationships very seriously and they're strongly against cheating or any other nonsense.
so if your man is anything like his women counterparts, he should be a pretty decent guy lol
i personally don't know any other aries guys besides my crush. i went to school with 2 aries girls and now i'm working for one so i talk to her a lot too lol that's about it though.

Posted by WaterCup
@melanie...arians are very kind & sweet etc until u stay in the same house with them! They are selfish its true (eg. changes channels on tv without caring if ur watching or not), bad temper over nothing (he trips on his own shoes on the floor & gets pissed off on why they are there, but he put them there himself) & childish (YES, playful, wants things his way etc). And very messy, cant keep a place clean. They are the other leos, love attention & praise eg. my husband loves to cook & he wants to hear, 'yum', 'hmm' until u finish to eat, otherwize he will keep on asking u how the food tastes. With me he always gets his way coz what he cares about or wants, is usually non-existant to me. So yeah, dont be fooled by the sweetness.

uh oh lol i need to be prepared then!!! lol
his sweetness doesn't fool me though. i think there's a wild, aggressive side to him that he's not allowing me to see just yet. i've tried insulting him in the past (playfully of course lol) but he just sits there with a cute, forgiving smile on his face ( we're doing the long-distance thing so our convo usually talkes place through video chat or the phone so maybe if we were talking in person, he might lose it eventually and do something horrible to me lol hopefully not!!!!)
he's a gemini-influenced aries (gem moon and mars) so he probably doesn't take many things seriously haha

it can happen lol

Since yours is a cusper, maybe he might be a bit ok & that gem might cool him too. Mine has a taurus venus too, but his moon & mars are in aries- he is a fire spitting little devil, lol. Goodluck with your crush, i hope he marries u someday too, u sound very soothing which might work if he owns a pair of devilish horns. Lol

Posted by WaterCup
Since yours is a cusper, maybe he might be a bit ok & that gem might cool him too. Mine has a taurus venus too, but his moon & mars are in aries- he is a fire spitting little devil, lol. Goodluck with your crush, i hope he marries u someday too, u sound very soothing which might work if he owns a pair of devilish horns. Lol

moon AND mars in aries??!?!?! that just screams out trouble to me lol
you're so brave to be married to him!!! i could never do it. if my crush was a stereotypical aries, i wouldn't even consider marrying him lol too aggressive for my taste. i have a weak heart so i can't deal with too much drama lol but i'm a libra so i do like to instigate stuff sometimes but only in a playful way. i like playful fighting.
what happnes when you and your husband get into a fight? who usually wins? do you just give in to him since aquas are pretty understanding..? lol aries can be pretty unreasonable during fights so ive heard...lol

My Aries ex-hub was very controlling. Didn't get mad as such, just went cold and walked out. Left me stranded in a shopping centre once with no way to get home (this was near the end). This was the flip side of the excellent decision-making ability that attracted me in the first place!! If I was doing it again I would stand up for myself right away. I let myself get manipulated into situations that I should have stood firm on. Good points? Strong on family and duty, does what he says he will... ummm... I'm sure there was more. LOL

To the OP, set yourself a personal deadline for when you want to have a relationship with this guy. He may be genuine, but he may be stringing you along too. While he has you tied down you missing other opportunities. The other day I heard of a woman waiting 7 years for a man to be ready. He never was and she was forced to cut the ties and move on eventually.

I have a scorpio moon & mars, so when im nicely pissed, i put aqua aside & face whatever comes my way. Usually, i ignore him coz he really cant match my own hissy fits. His are quick & mine are long lasting, so...Aries sun/moon/mars is too much energy for 1 person, just last month he got arrested for punching another guy, but got released after few hours coz the guy dropped the charges. He is not a bad person, he just cant control himself. With time i hope he mellows.

@Melanie G I used to pick on my aries at first too. It's actually how I got him to open up. He always seemed so quite and serious, I pick on guys like that. I get a kick out of watching them blush and it helped that I was confident and I KNEW he liked me, and he knew I liked him. My way of showing how much was by playing with him. I still pick on him to this day. It makes him laugh. I love his smile so I pick with him all the time. Honestly I think this helped him get used to me. When we were younger he came off like he was shy, but I later found out that he just doesn't open up to just any ole body. After spending the whole summer around him almost everyday, one day while I was laying next to him picking with him he just started talking about Everything. He started joking back. Next thing I knew it was almost 3am and we were talking like it was 12:00pm in the afternoon on a sunny day.lol If you want to get to know he ENTIRE personality inside and out, you will have to have patience and he will need to feel your worth it. I don't think an aries would waist time letting someone in, if they didn't think the person had any value. At least that's how my sister, cousin and grandma are (all aries) if they are unsure about you, you'd be lucky to get two sentences out of them.lol

@LibraRose you are absolutely right. I have not set a deadline, but I still talk to other guys and even date. Im still waiting on my prince to find me. Im hoping its my aries, but I wont wait on him. Im not waiting on him. However I will admit it is hard to let others in, when your feelings are attached to someone else. Now being an air sign I can float around and go on casual dates all day long. But I will only be intimate with one, and I will only let one in my heart at a time. My brain cannot multi-task multiple men plus my emotions and feelings unless I don't care about any of them. I don't know if this is a good thing or bad thing but for some reason I've always been this way. But I do agree, and your point about him being truthful but may string me along is very true and one of my biggest fears between me and him. This is why I disappear for days sometimes weeks at a time, and he says I don't call or all that other stuff enough. I do this so I wont get angry, attached, and emotional. Why should I lay it on the line for a man that's not ready for what im ready for. I told him this. And he insist that he will. That im the only one he wants. Well until he proves that, then thats how I protect myself. I protect myself by keeping a little of myself TO myself. Does this make since?

The Aries man can easily be the most handsome/ dashing man in your vicinity, and can stand out from the crowd.
Well my "Crush" that went nowhere at about 17 was an Aries. He stood out definitely, you could spot him a mile away like a Grecian carving of Apollo or something. I didn't know he was Aries till I got to know him better. Turned out he liked me too, but it just wasn't meant to be. I am a believer of fate, and I seldom let superfluous relationships entertain my thoughts.
This guy was a venusian Aries - 15 April, well his ex was a virgo at the time, and I still have him on facebook - he married a Piscean woman - which suits him fine. His Venus is in Pisces.

If anything, he reminds me of my Dad..
And.. Libra woman - Aries Man don't last... this comes from the stoked coal flames of my intuition. I am glad I grew up with my Dad.. to objectively know the Arien habits and how they are not on the same wavelength as a Libra's..

Librarose so sorry to hear about your ex. Yeah, they can be very mean. At least u learnt a lesson of standing up for yourself. It wasn't all for nothing. If i were to divorce my husband, i dont think i'll date another aries- those little fire displays are tiring after a while, i just detach to keep sanity sometimes. Its life. Are u with anybody now & what sign is he(if u dont mind me asking)?

Thanks WaterCup. I would keep a bit more distance if I find myself involved with an Aries again. No I'm single right now, but interested in a Libran. Had a ltr with a Libra many years ago and it worked well. Both being calm and agreeable. Current Libran hopeful is still working out where he is right now so I don't know if he's going to come my way. Keeping my options open though.

Good for u girl. Ur brave for wanting a relationship with a same sign partner. I tried it once, it was north pole (brrr), never again! Air signs make great couples with 1 another, great talks etc, but its difficult to sustain, at least for me. Goodluck with your friend, who knows u might just hit the jackpot this time.

Watercup i sent you my story. Anything you can think of that might help would be appreciated. Thanks again! 🙂

Posted by ALibra
@Melanie G I used to pick on my aries at first too. It's actually how I got him to open up. He always seemed so quite and serious, I pick on guys like that. I get a kick out of watching them blush and it helped that I was confident and I KNEW he liked me, and he knew I liked him. My way of showing how much was by playing with him. I still pick on him to this day. It makes him laugh. I love his smile so I pick with him all the time. Honestly I think this helped him get used to me. When we were younger he came off like he was shy, but I later found out that he just doesn't open up to just any ole body. After spending the whole summer around him almost everyday, one day while I was laying next to him picking with him he just started talking about Everything. He started joking back. Next thing I knew it was almost 3am and we were talking like it was 12:00pm in the afternoon on a sunny day.lol If you want to get to know he ENTIRE personality inside and out, you will have to have patience and he will need to feel your worth it. I don't think an aries would waist time letting someone in, if they didn't think the person had any value. At least that's how my sister, cousin and grandma are (all aries) if they are unsure about you, you'd be lucky to get two sentences out of them.lol

awwww that is soooo cute!!! he definitely likes you!! if a guy is willing to just TALK to you for hours and hours, that's a sign that he finds you comforting!! cuz guys don't do that with just anybody.
my crush was super shy and reserved at the beginning as well. it took me literally weeks to get him to open up to me on a personal level. he was cheated on by his previous girlfriend of 3 years (he's only been with one girl even though he's really hot lol) so i'm guessing he has trust issues with girls which might have been the reason for his initial shyness.
he acts like he's totally over it but i don't think he is. 😢
i'm gonna make him see that i'm a trustworthy girl. somebody he would want to date.

and you're totally right about aries not wanting to waste time on something/someone that's not worthy. mine talks to me for hours and hours too lol i think he's starting to like me hehe he even flirts with me now. this was unthinkable a few weeks ago. he was so cautious and timid.

you and i are libras. we are naturally charming and loveable!! guys won't be able to resist us for too long haha

Posted by WaterCup
I have a scorpio moon & mars, so when im nicely pissed, i put aqua aside & face whatever comes my way. Usually, i ignore him coz he really cant match my own hissy fits. His are quick & mine are long lasting, so...Aries sun/moon/mars is too much energy for 1 person, just last month he got arrested for punching another guy, but got released after few hours coz the guy dropped the charges. He is not a bad person, he just cant control himself. With time i hope he mellows.

scorp moon and mars?! no wonder you can handle him!! lol i have taurus moon and libra mars (which is a rather wimpy placement for mars lol)
i am learning so much! i'll know how to handle these situations in the future thanks to you! i can't believe your hubby punched a dude in public though lol i would be so embarrassed lol he seems like a nice guy when he's not angry. he even cooks for you! that's really sweet. 🙂

He is persian, lol, they just love their food. Besides that, he is a better cook than me & he does it for the reviews. Lol @ wimpy mars. Yeah, his temper is embarrassing at times & he punches everything that doesnt agree with him, tv games included. Haha. But he never laid a finger on me, just other men & furniture. Dont be scared of them, they are lambs once u get used to the tantrums. I'm glad i helped u in sum way. Thank u.

he would never do that. he's not that kinda person.

please don't try to scare me. it's really not funny.

Lol melanie, that mars of your IS really wimpy. Join the nunnery then, lol j/k. To be honest, its rare to find someone who is still with the person who took their virginity (it mostly happen in muslim countries). Whatever will be, will be- fear not, its life, it comes with lessons.

Or Steve Carrel in 40 yr old virgin, lol. What makes me cackle is when i imagine 2 virgins on their 1st night. My husband's little sister just got married in Saudi to obviously another virgin. Its silly, but the thought makes me laugh.

Melanie G your encounter sounds just like mines.lol.I hope your right about my aries liking me. I used to be so sure now I just don't know. I feel if a man really likes you he will be with you. Even though I understand my aries reasons for not being ready it doesn't change the way I feel about wanting one.

True, the silent sweet ones get up to the craziest shit, like having human skulls as bedside lamps. Lol. Have u noticed how many serial killers were known by ppl close to them as being 'unable to even kill a fly'? But in reality, a fly is too small, they prefer bigger things, lol.

Dear Melanie, If an aries truly likes you, you will see all sides of him.

We get very close to people we love and want them to know us pretty well so they know what we dont like.

However, aries are bad at picking up hints, you pretty much have to lay it out there for him that u like him. We dont read in between the lines and we're flighty if you keep the chase too long.


Leme know if you have any questions
Im an aries sun, gemini mars

it took me 4 years to truly open up to my bestfriend who is also a libra. I know that it happens slowly but now that she knows all of me I feel so comfortable with her and love her very much. I opened up little by little, mostly because I didnt know if she would like me the way i am, we are usually insecure that if people see our little short lived temper side, they might not like us.

uniqueunicorn...there you are.lol. Thanks for commenting. I guess my last message was too long. But i hoped everything worked out for you 🙂 Im still on shakey grounds with my aries. I actually feel he's loosing interest. I invited him for dinner at my aunts last night, he said he would be there never showed up. Normally when he does that, like miss a date or forget to call me back he always says he fell asleep. (He works crazy hours) its crazy to me that even though i know that, it still hurt my feelings. I cooked a scrumptious meal and he missed it, my cousins and fam enjoyed it though.lol

If I let him know im upset, he will tell me his whole entire day like im going to believe him. Lol. It terrible he will start off like "I know you don't believe me but??_" and he's right I don't believe him, nor do I care. If he didn't get hit by a bus, or someone didn't in the fam didn't get hurt then I feel he should've texted or called or something. I mean I know we're not together, but honestly this is what makes me disappear on his a** then im wrong, or everyone says im reading to much into things because he is not my man. I guess. But its good to know someone understands where im coming from.lol. I love this forum 🙂

In response to the original question:
Yes , the reason I joined DxPnet is because of a situation that started with an Aries female that seemed to be chasing me.If your bored look up my oriinal posts . In the end we have become friends , but there still is and probably always will always be a tinge of sexual tension between us. We are both married but we go on double dates and her hubby and I get along extremely well , in fact my wife gets along with the Aries too . Anyway I guess my point is that Libra and Aries can have a very charming friendship. The directness and Cardinal charicteristics of Aries is a welcome trait to this Libra .And it means there is always something exciting to do. Just keeping it fun is the way to go !

@libragemmale THANKS! I'm going to go read it right now. However in all honesty, i'm starting to worry from the responses im getting regarding the aris/libra pair. I keep reading mixed post. Some say there are excellent pair because of the "opposites attract" factor. Each lacks in the area the other is stronger in. For example my aries is not a good communicator, i mean he can talk to me for hours (WHEN) he talks to me. He's the typre to forget to cancel, or will say he will call right back and its a hr or 2 later. That part doesn't bother me much, but the forgetting to cancel irks my soul to the max. I also hear that this pair only sparks in the bedroom. I dont quite agree Because although it is true me an my aries can send a room up in flames, outside the bedroom are relationship is still sweet, calm, playful and just relaxing. Then I hear that the pair is not a good match for other reasons. Im like YIPES! Im already in love with the dude it scares me that it might be over before its started ya know??_

Well he is sounding a bit flakey to me. If a guy stands me up once, apologises and doesn't do it again, then fine. If he defends himself standing me up and continues to do it, then I know I am not figuring highly on his priorities. You deserve more. Sorry I know it's not what you want to hear. True love shouldn't hurt, and it sounds like you are hurt by his actions. I would be too. In fact he doesn't even make a good friend, because a friend wouldn't stand you up like that.

@Librarose honest advice is the best advice so i appreciate it thank you. I know me and this dude are obviously off balance, and just not right for one another at this time. I love him, but i think i could walk away right now and be okay. I might shed some light tears, but i dont think i'll break like i did when i left my saggy ex. YUCK! Wish me luck, oh boy...this is going to hurt. I just know it. Hope i can do this. It would be easier if our families weren't so close and i didnt have to see him at functions and dinners ugh 😢

Hey Alibra,

Are you talking about the message u sent me? I read it a long time ago and even replied back, did u get my msg?
Aries are too busy always, you just have to get used to that. When my libra ex aske me why did u cancel on me that one time, I said because I was busy. He said whatever. Lol he was least interested in the story that I was busy all day. So yeah its just that aries and libra are so opposite that it takes a while to adjust to each other. I wish it was easier. The thing is that the attraction is so strong and compatible that it seems like everything would be easy and compatible like the "strong attraction and charm"

Yes its true that this pairing can work but it will take lots of time. Lots of patience on libra part to let aries have their time, eventually aries come back but they have to feel like they dont have to fulfill someones expectations but rather feel like that they are doing something because they want to. For aries they have to try to look things from libra point of view.

Oh one more thing ALibra . Don't let anyone discourage you about your long-term chances with the Areis guy. Let the natural progression of things settle as they may. I have two close friends married 15 yrs , happy as clams!! they are a beautiful and gentle Libra Woman / and a rock solid Aries Man .They are absolutely IN LOVE w/ two beautiful children. It CAN work 🙂

@uniqueunicorn: Hey girl. Naw I never got your message. I was like omg I hope I didn't say anything wrong.lol. But as long as you read it, and it helped you. And as far as my aries situation as mad as I am at him right now, that attraction just claws away at me. Im a very patient woman but you will not walk all over me, passifying me with flighty excuses. I've kept my mouth shut because I know he's on a mission and so am I, but there is a such thing as consideration. He'd want me to be considerate, so I expect the same in return, so last night I texted him and let his a** have it. LOL. I wasn't too mean, but I told him "Excuse the heck outta me sir, you could've at least cancelled you didn't have to stand me up bighead, on top of being distant." Then I threw in a little sarcasm about him always saying he falls asleep and is tired from work. Like I said, he still could've cancelled. Call it nagging, but I've learned in the past if you don't let a man know when he's being a butthead, aries, leo, gem, sagg whatever, then they will keep doing it. And you have no one to blame but yourself. Or at least that's what I've learned for myself the hardway.

@Libragemmale: Thank you! I was a little worried. I know it will take a lot of work, and consideration on my aries part along with better communicating skills, and I will have to exercise my great skill of patience without letting him walk all over me at the same time. In my past I've kept my mouth shut on certain issues in a relationship that bothered me, because I was often afraid of coming off as a nagger, or a fussy woman, or someone who is just never satisfied. I learned that no matter how sweet, and patient you are you still have to let a man know when he has hurt your feelings, or done you wrong. I truly don't care how busy my aries is, he's never been "that" busy. Truth be told, im busier than him I work a 10 hrs shift 5 days a week, school full time, dance class, and go to church every Sunday he better recognize. I know how to stand up for myself, its just that after I do I always wonder dang, was that too mean? Was that nagging? Maybe I should've said it this way? It just drives me nuts.lol

Small update everyone, my aries kissed me at least 100 times yesterday, and i didn't even have to ask. I know i must sound like a giddy little girl, but he also reminded me of how much he respects me and is sorry about not cancelling. He says im his valentine, and he just seems as though he cant wait to spoil me. Im so in love, i think he feels it too but aries are so careful about love and takes it so seriously that he refuses to utter those three beautiful words unless he's absolutely 100% sure that true love is what he's feelings, and not just lust, or strong like. I hope its love. Becuase i love him to pieces. I guess it's good he doesn't want to say something he doesn't mean right? I've already said it to him, he believes me now, but he didn't at first. I just hope im not alone in the end

YEAY !!!

Glad to hear it ALibra. I think speaking up for yourself with an Aries is a good move and it obviously worked.

speaking up to an aries always works thats true 🙂