Confused about this libra man.... Help!

I was talking to this libra guy for about 6 months. Everything was great. We went out a few times and texted a lot. He would asked me what I thought about him and if I could see a future between us. He knew how l felt him because I had told him at the time he said he wasn't feeling the same but feelings could change. Also promised he wouldn't hurt me. What was confusing was that he would always ask to see my phone and showed a jealous side to him. Always wanting to know who I was talking to. When talking to his friends he would always introduce me as his friend. Never said this is the girl I'm talking to or anything like that. Recently we got into a situation that I'd rather not talk about because it's personal. He said that no matter what we would get through it. I had actually believed him but then he started to become distant. Yet he would still show jealousy. One day he told me he was talking to some girl he knew from his past that he felt an attraction to. They had started talking and it brought feelings he once had for her back. We still wasn't official so I couldn't get mad. I asked if he wanted to be with her he said he wasn't sure. I also had asked how he felt about me he said he cared about me and had feelings for me as well. Supposedly his feelings for me was more than his feelings for her. He was so distracted by her the distance between us became worse. I started to push him away. He would try to talk to me and see what was wrong but I got tired of bringing up the same issue. We never argued just had disagreements. He told me he would stop talking to her but just didn't know how to. After a while I just couldn't deal with it and told him he had to pick who he wanted to be with. He picked her then said his choice wasn't easy because he cares for me and he knows how I feel bout him he claimed that he does have feelings for me. I decided I should just let him go he kept trying to stop me but I was too hurt. I told him he made his choice so he has to let me go. He said no that while I'm in his house I'm his. Confusion again. I don't think they are together right now. He has texted me a few days later checking up on me but I was still hurt so I told him not to check up on me. He said okay then said he wanted to tell me something but he's not sure if I wanted to know he claimed it was personal. I asked him to tell me but he never told me. He felt that since I didn't want him to check on me I didn't care to hear about him.

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I'm starting to feel like he's playing games with me now. I'm still trying to figure out what went wrong. He told me I never did anything wrong. So I'm confused.


I dated a libra before he was my first love he left me it took years to get over him but recently he came back wanting to start over I tried but it was too late. He said he regrets leaving me but didn't feel the same.

Would this new libra do the same thing? I don't think he's ever been in a long relationship I might have been his longest. I'm also trying my very best to get over him but it's hard. I actually miss him. My close libra friend said he is a douche and that I deserve much better. I'm starting to feel like he's insecure and has commitment issues.

'He said no that while I'm in his house I'm his'. I'm sure you grinned like The Mask @ that statement. This guy is playing games. He chose the other girl over you & don't be fooled by his 'jealousy'. It's out of selfishness because he doesn't want to lose one of the sources that feed his ego. Meaning if you have another guy chasing you, chances are you'll give it a try & might even fall = not giving HIM (mr libra) any more attention to fatten the ego. It's the same reason why they keep going back to exes. They have a history with the ex & they might have done some terrible things to her in the past. But the fact that the ex still wants to be with them even after all that, gets them high. Maybe it even turns them on. But, it's not for you, it's for them!

Your friend is right he wants you around he loves the friendship talks and being close without commitment, you can wait around if you want but that takes patience. He may like the attention he gets from both you and her so hes not breaking off ties with her..May granny told me a long time ago before she died if he leaves you for another let him he wouldn't be confusing his feelings if he didn't feel anything for her. He had the kahunas to choose her now hes trying to reel you along just in case. Leave him, you don't need the foolery.

My granny*

I did feel like he was stringing me along. He was always secretive about his past yet always curious about mine. He lied a lot too. Always changing his mind, never sure about anything. His answer was always I don't know...it was driving me crazy. I do however want to get over him. It may time some time. He acts immature at times too. Sorry but I'm officially done with dating libras. I rather have them as friends.

Posted by WaterCup
'He said no that while I'm in his house I'm his'. I'm sure you grinned like The Mask @ that statement. This guy is playing games. He chose the other girl over you & don't be fooled by his 'jealousy'. It's out of selfishness because he doesn't want to lose one of the sources that feed his ego. Meaning if you have another guy chasing you, chances are you'll give it a try & might even fall = not giving HIM (mr libra) any more attention to fatten the ego. It's the same reason why they keep going back to exes. They have a history with the ex & they might have done some terrible things to her in the past. But the fact that the ex still wants to be with them even after all that, gets them high. Maybe it even turns them on. But, it's not for you, it's for them!

Lol I gave him the look he hates and said I'm not anything to him and even if it is his house he still can't tell me what to do.

Its not his sign in particular that makes him unbearable, it's just his inability to stick things out. He quits to easy that would have been a sore thumb for me. I always say if you want to find out a lot before getting into a relationship with a man. Ask to meet his mother ask her and you'll get the warnings and go ahead before pursuing him. If he's not allowing you to meet his mother even as friends there's something messed up about that. I've met 90% of my male friends mothers. However people are true at masking their true selves if you want to know of his feelings that's almost irrelevant because feelings change by day , certain things and unfortunate circumstances change our feelings all day. You want to know who he is behind closed doors, how he treats his family, and how he views his self. We all have insecurities so if he's insecure and a loner that's inevitable, but you really want to understand his attitude and zest for life.

Idk he also mention once the trust is gone there's no fixing it. That's bull IMO. I've rebuilt trust with a few people. He was just using excuses. I only met his father twice and three of his friends. I felt like he was keeping me a secret. I think it was how he was raised as well or maybe his age. My libra friend is nothing like him. He's always straight forward. Never takes advantage of others like my libra did to me. Idk what it is but I always seem to attract libras.

Posted by LivingOnPorpoise
Its not his sign in particular that makes him unbearable, it's just his inability to stick things out. He quits to easy that would have been a sore thumb for me. I always say if you want to find out a lot before getting into a relationship with a man. Ask to meet his mother ask her and you'll get the warnings and go ahead before pursuing him. If he's not allowing you to meet his mother even as friends there's something messed up about that. I've met 90% of my male friends mothers. However people are true at masking their true selves if you want to know of his feelings that's almost irrelevant because feelings change by day , certain things and unfortunate circumstances change our feelings all day. You want to know who he is behind closed doors, how he treats his family, and how he views his self. We all have insecurities so if he's insecure and a loner that's inevitable, but you really want to understand his attitude and zest for life.

What is the purpose of meeting somebody's mom? People are actually very easy to figure out if you pay close attention to their words & action. Even the slickest of liars is bound to slip-up as they get more comfortable with themselves. They may get away with it in the beginning, but you don't need to be a mathetician to add 1 + 1 & figure their "true selves". Just pay attention.

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Posted by LivingOnPorpoise
Its not his sign in particular that makes him unbearable, it's just his inability to stick things out. He quits to easy that would have been a sore thumb for me. I always say if you want to find out a lot before getting into a relationship with a man. Ask to meet his mother ask her and you'll get the warnings and go ahead before pursuing him. If he's not allowing you to meet his mother even as friends there's something messed up about that. I've met 90% of my male friends mothers. However people are true at masking their true selves if you want to know of his feelings that's almost irrelevant because feelings change by day , certain things and unfortunate circumstances change our feelings all day. You want to know who he is behind closed doors, how he treats his family, and how he views his self. We all have insecurities so if he's insecure and a loner that's inevitable, but you really want to understand his attitude and zest for life.

What is the purpose of meeting somebody's mom? People are actually very easy to figure out if you pay close attention to their words & action. Even the slickest of liars is bound to slip-up as they get more comfortable with themselves. They may get away with it in the beginning, but you don't need to be a mathetician to add 1 + 1 & figure their "true selves". Just pay attention.

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I started to catch on to his lies. At first he lied saying this girl new about me which was BS. And the fact that his story was always different. That's why I made him choose guess he couldn't handle the pressure. He tried to work his charm on me again recently but it didn't work he needs to try harder than that.

Well yeah but whats the odds of them slipping up every conversation slim, I do it. His mother knows him she had him she watched him and raised, it takes a minute to figure someone out people switch up all the time. Figuring out someone's motives, and feelings are easy. Figuring out who they are, their capability, their life purpose difficult i'm just saying not everything is visible to the seen eye it takes the 6th sense and research.

lol what a loser. Do guys like this really see wtf it is that they're doing and how idiotic they look? :/

His father and mother are not together and if I remember correctly his father cheated on his mother too when he was younger. He rarely sees his mother. However he does see his father because he lives right under him but not everyday.

Posted by rockyroadicecream
lol what a loser. Do guys like this really see wtf it is that they're doing and how idiotic they look? :/

No, these guys seldom get a moment of solitude to reflect on their personality flaws. They always have a side chick waiting to lift their spirits or rather feed their ego. These guys have a knack for identifying women who will cater to their bullshit and who wouldn't. When they come across a "yes" woman, they string her along until she goes crazy because she ultimately allows it. If they get a woman that isn't gonna tolerate their nonsense, then they line up another woman so they don't even have a tear roll down at her departure. Lol

Posted by LivingOnPorpoise
Well yeah but whats the odds of them slipping up every conversation slim, I do it. His mother knows him she had him she watched him and raised, it takes a minute to figure someone out people switch up all the time. Figuring out someone's motives, and feelings are easy. Figuring out who they are, their capability, their life purpose difficult i'm just saying not everything is visible to the seen eye it takes the 6th sense and research.

Very few mothers will "my son is full of tosh so run little girl". Know why? Because the relationship is different. We each show different sides of our personality depending on who happens to be around at the time. I wouldnt be saying "Mother-fucker, we hit em up!" around a priest, my parents or elderly people. I'd say it around my friends though because I dont respect them like that. No need to play ms goody-goody around them.

Parents are the last people I'd trust or even go to if I needed raw truth about someone I'm dating. Unless they hated him lol. Exes would be good for finding out how they really are in a romantic relationship imo. But I'd be like a hawk with them too because they might be talking from a place of anger if he was a douche to them too. Or from jealousy if they still wanted to be with him.

Duly noted every situation is different like you said , if you talking with someone who hasn't dated has a warm family and good upbringing that one i'd refer to parents to. When i'm talking about a situation and someone pries into my life i only tell so much not stretching the truth but being discrete. And lol yeah I once knew a lady who kept it 100 with her sons' babymama but she didn't listen now shes single and pregnant.

I'm an aqua I have an aqua friend he's married to a scorpio never cheated on her, i know plenty of aqua men married to scopios that statement is kinda partially incorrect.

Posted by backtokemet
it seems LIBRAS are experts at making partial decisions, partial commitments etc .. when a LIBRA is asked (= forced) to choose between A and B, most likely his real decision will be some of A and some of B (for example 60% A and 40% B, 35% A and 65% B etc) .. the degree of commitment to each option depends on which option is providing more food for the ego and thus bound to fluctuate ..
if one option decides to rebel against her option status, the LIBRA will think: OK, 15% for you !

that's the LIBRAN science of commitment, at least for those of us stuck in a cake-eating mindset
done with dating LIBRAS ? more power to you

go get yourself an AQUARIUS .. word on the boards is AQUA men won't cheat unless they're in high school or the woman is a SCORPIO .. hopefully you're not a SCORPIO .. and when they lie it's usually for the greater good

I dated an Aquarius on and off for 8 years. He cheated and I'm not even a Scorpio. He kept it a secret until I did some digging of my own and found out the truth. He had no choice but to confess.


So basically if I want him so bad I would have to deal with him wanting me and her. Smh.

It's funny because he actually mentioned that one day. He said why can't I have both? You'll be number one and her number two. You get your privacy but she can't because she's number two. He's had got some nerve.

I still haven't heard from him since I told him not to check up on me...

Posted by Mariamaria

Posted by backtokemet
it seems LIBRAS are experts at making partial decisions, partial commitments etc .. when a LIBRA is asked (= forced) to choose between A and B, most likely his real decision will be some of A and some of B (for example 60% A and 40% B, 35% A and 65% B etc) .. the degree of commitment to each option depends on which option is providing more food for the ego and thus bound to fluctuate ..
if one option decides to rebel against her option status, the LIBRA will think: OK, 15% for you !

that's the LIBRAN science of commitment, at least for those of us stuck in a cake-eating mindset
done with dating LIBRAS ? more power to you

go get yourself an AQUARIUS .. word on the boards is AQUA men won't cheat unless they're in high school or the woman is a SCORPIO .. hopefully you're not a SCORPIO .. and when they lie it's usually for the greater good

I dated an Aquarius on and off for 8 years. He cheated and I'm not even a Scorpio. He kept it a secret until I did some digging of my own and found out the truth. He had no choice but to confess.


So basically if I want him so bad I would have to deal with him wanting me and her. Smh.

It's funny because he actually mentioned that one day. He said why can't I have both? You'll be number one and her number two. You get your privacy but she can't because she's number two. He's had got some nerve.

I still haven't heard from him since I told him not to check up on me...

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He felt guilty after he was busted.


As for the libra I have no choice but to move on I refuse to look like a fool chasing after him. If he wanted to be with me he would have called or texted me. I'm starting to see it now all his words were lies I was just someone he could pass time with. He never took me serious to begin with.

Lesson learned...

He makes her happy and she does the same but when she came up to the job i see why she melted the whole store this woman was stunning! The other he shows his harmless flirting side but he calls his wife on lunch breaks and after 15 minute breaks its so cute. The others well i can't say the same its different strokes for different folks. Oh and I have venus in aries what does that mean?

I have Venus in Aries as well. I'm still learning all stuff. It's all new to me.

Yesterday Mr. Libra posted something that caught my attention. A quote basically saying he would do anything for a do over. That he messed up. Wonder what he's referring to it's been bugging me all day. I had the urge to text him but I don't think it's the right thing to do after all he made his choice.

Posted by Mariamaria
Yesterday Mr. Libra posted something that caught my attention. A quote basically saying he would do anything for a do over. That he messed up. Wonder what he's referring to it's been bugging me all day. I had the urge to text him but I don't think it's the right thing to do after all he made his choice.

LOL! I'm sure he has other things in life to feel regret about, it doesn't always have to be about relationships. Listen, if he is making statuses on the internet about god-knows-what instead of directly talking to you (if it was infact about you), why should you even care?

So how would you describe yourself in a relationship?

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Posted by Mariamaria

Posted by backtokemet
it seems LIBRAS are experts at making partial decisions, partial commitments etc .. when a LIBRA is asked (= forced) to choose between A and B, most likely his real decision will be some of A and some of B (for example 60% A and 40% B, 35% A and 65% B etc) .. the degree of commitment to each option depends on which option is providing more food for the ego and thus bound to fluctuate ..
if one option decides to rebel against her option status, the LIBRA will think: OK, 15% for you !

that's the LIBRAN science of commitment, at least for those of us stuck in a cake-eating mindset
done with dating LIBRAS ? more power to you

go get yourself an AQUARIUS .. word on the boards is AQUA men won't cheat unless they're in high school or the woman is a SCORPIO .. hopefully you're not a SCORPIO .. and when they lie it's usually for the greater good

I dated an Aquarius on and off for 8 years. He cheated and I'm not even a Scorpio. He kept it a secret until I did some digging of my own and found out the truth. He had no choice but to confess.


So basically if I want him so bad I would have to deal with him wanting me and her. Smh.

It's funny because he actually mentioned that one day. He said why can't I have both? You'll be number one and her number two. You get your privacy but she can't because she's number two. He's had got some nerve.

I still haven't heard from him since I told him not to check up on me...

he must have LIBRA or fire planets in his chart .. maybe a venus in ARIES or SAG
a true AQUARIUS wouldn't cheat and keep it to himself for that long, his higly moral self would be consumed w/ guilt .. ain't it so, aquarius09 ? *waves at aquarius09*

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Waves back..you spoke my mind darling! That's precisely what I would have said!! That's not aqua trait. Let's do see this guy's chart. Lol

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Posted by Mariamaria
Yesterday Mr. Libra posted something that caught my attention. A quote basically saying he would do anything for a do over. That he messed up. Wonder what he's referring to it's been bugging me all day. I had the urge to text him but I don't think it's the right thing to do after all he made his choice.

LOL! I'm sure he has other things in life to feel regret about, it doesn't always have to be about relationships. Listen, if he is making statuses on the internet about god-knows-what instead of directly talking to you (if it was infact about you), why should you even care?

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Smh it was towards our situation. He called me today. I'm seriously done with him and the bs he keeps trying to feed me.

Posted by Mariamaria
Yesterday Mr. Libra posted something that caught my attention. A quote basically saying he would do anything for a do over. That he messed up. Wonder what he's referring to it's been bugging me all day. I had the urge to text him but I don't think it's the right thing to do after all he made his choice.

Don't. He's doing it to be a dramatic attention whore. He should have thought about his actions beforehand, assuming it may be related to you.

I know of a Libra who always was going on about his woes and bullshit, and all of it was his fault because of his piss poor decisions. He'd either share his woe is me stories for pitty/attention, or post that shit on Facebook. He got some serious backlash the last time he pulled that crap and he ended up deleting his profile.

Quit with the wishful thinking of him pining over you. Even if he is, who the hell cares? His dumb ass should have thought about that sooner. It is NOT your problem he chose to be an asshat and is only sorry now because he got caught/someone wouldn't tolerate it.

Guys like him are ONLY sorry when they're caught.

pity* wtf

Posted by rockyroadicecream

Posted by Mariamaria
Yesterday Mr. Libra posted something that caught my attention. A quote basically saying he would do anything for a do over. That he messed up. Wonder what he's referring to it's been bugging me all day. I had the urge to text him but I don't think it's the right thing to do after all he made his choice.

Don't. He's doing it to be a dramatic attention whore. He should have thought about his actions beforehand, assuming it may be related to you.

I know of a Libra who always was going on about his woes and bullshit, and all of it was his fault because of his piss poor decisions. He'd either share his woe is me stories for pitty/attention, or post that shit on Facebook. He got some serious backlash the last time he pulled that crap and he ended up deleting his profile.

Quit with the wishful thinking of him pining over you. Even if he is, who the hell cares? His dumb ass should have thought about that sooner. It is NOT your problem he chose to be an asshat and is only sorry now because he got caught/someone wouldn't tolerate it.

Guys like him are ONLY sorry when they're caught.

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After last nights conversation I realized enough. He never cared I was just there to pass time. He never took me seriously because if he did we wouldn't be in this situation right now.

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Posted by Mariamaria
Yesterday Mr. Libra posted something that caught my attention. A quote basically saying he would do anything for a do over. That he messed up. Wonder what he's referring to it's been bugging me all day. I had the urge to text him but I don't think it's the right thing to do after all he made his choice.

Don't. He's doing it to be a dramatic attention whore. He should have thought about his actions beforehand, assuming it may be related to you.

I know of a Libra who always was going on about his woes and bullshit, and all of it was his fault because of his piss poor decisions. He'd either share his woe is me stories for pitty/attention, or post that shit on Facebook. He got some serious backlash the last time he pulled that crap and he ended up deleting his profile.

Quit with the wishful thinking of him pining over you. Even if he is, who the hell cares? His dumb ass should have thought about that sooner. It is NOT your problem he chose to be an asshat and is only sorry now because he got caught/someone wouldn't tolerate it.

Guys like him are ONLY sorry when they're caught.

After last nights conversation I realized enough. He never cared I was just there to pass time. He never took me seriously because if he did we wouldn't be in this situation right now.

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And they love to create a lot of those 'situations'. It never stops imo. When all is going well between the two of you, they always find a way to irritate you/get a jealous reaction out of you by either talking about other girls that want him or showing you their messages. The one I dated had a habit of keeping moldy & dusty texts just to show me the next time we meet. After he'd say things like "I dont even know her/them, she/they must have gotten my number from the sticker I put on my car when I was selling it".

Posted by WaterCup

And they love to create a lot of those 'situations'. It never stops imo. When all is going well between the two of you, they always find a way to irritate you/get a jealous reaction out of you by either talking about other girls that want him or showing you their messages. The one I dated had a habit of keeping moldy & dusty texts just to show me the next time we meet. After he'd say things like "I dont even know her/them, she/they must have gotten my number from the sticker I put on my car when I was selling it".

Smh... I'm never getting involved with another Libra again. Tried three times with three different Libra's. Next guy I meet and I find out they are a libra I'm running the other way.

My guy friend who is a libra has been after me for over 4 years and I'm never going to even do it to myself again. I'll keep him as a friend just to save myself from another heartache.

Has it ever occurred to any of you that Libra is always acting as a mirror?

From my eternal ons and offs with Libra guys, one thing I know for sure is that what you give them is exactly what you'll get. So be careful what you wish for, cos you might get it. It's only if you learn from your mistake and change your perception that you can hope to be smart enough to anticipate their eternal wishy washy ways that are only based on insecurities.

In other words : make them feel good and they will make you feel good in return.

Posted by Sublimitas
Has it ever occurred to any of you that Libra is always acting as a mirror?

From my eternal ons and offs with Libra guys, one thing I know for sure is that what you give them is exactly what you'll get. So be careful what you wish for, cos you might get it. It's only if you learn from your mistake and change your perception that you can hope to be smart enough to anticipate their eternal wishy washy ways that are only based on insecurities.

In other words : make them feel good and they will make you feel good in return.

If that's the case, then why can't they "mirror" the FUCK OFF reflection? I don't believe that they always mirror because if thats true then they must be looking at themself for I act nothing like that. Are you a libra or a libra groupie? Nothing annoys me more than the groupies who always come up with lame excuses for the sign that they are currently fucking. So, no, that mirror must need cleaning if they think their bs is what they saw.

i am a Libra 🙂 and I surely mirror people's behaviors too. It's too amusing not to.

Posted by Sublimitas
i am a Libra 🙂 and I surely mirror people's behaviors too. It's too amusing not to.

Cool but I still disagree with that you guys give what you get. Not in my experience. Maybe the ones you dated were sane lol.

I'm an aqua but I have a lot of scorpio, so I get EVEN & a bit extra. Very similar to mirroring because I give you the taste of your own medicine, just a tad stronger 😉

The thing with Libra males is they don't go deep enough to feel the sting. You'll end up stinging yourself. If you tried the humorous approach, you'd catch them off guard and you'd have their full attention....Actually that works with all air signs. A little bit of reverse psychology won't hurt.

Posted by Sublimitas
The thing with Libra males is they don't go deep enough to feel the sting. You'll end up stinging yourself. If you tried the humorous approach, you'd catch them off guard and you'd have their full attention....Actually that works with all air signs. A little bit of reverse psychology won't hurt.

My libra ex also has scorpio moon, so I do know where to hit to make him hurt & get my satisfaction. The above may be true to some libra guys without scorpio planets. Two scorp influenced individuals know how to hurt each other on purpose just to teach the other a very good lesson.

Reverse psychology works on air signs, that's true, but not for long because most of us want what we cant have & once we have it we dont know what to do with it. So it'll be a lot of back & forth if RS got involved.

I agree with WaterCup.

Posted by Sublimitas
i am a Libra 🙂 and I surely mirror people's behaviors too. It's too amusing not to.

"It's okay to be an asshole."

Gotta love the enabling that floats around this forum.

Posted by rockyroadicecream

Posted by Sublimitas
i am a Libra 🙂 and I surely mirror people's behaviors too. It's too amusing not to.

"It's okay to be an asshole."

Gotta love the enabling that floats around this forum.

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I guess for someone who's been venting on the Libra board for 3+ years, pointing the finger is easier than taking a good look at your own dysfunctions and grow from them.

PS: Libra men no likey negative females. And you, being an Aries, have absolutely no excuse. So pull your head out of your ass and move on.

Posted by Sublimitas

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Posted by Sublimitas
i am a Libra 🙂 and I surely mirror people's behaviors too. It's too amusing not to.

"It's okay to be an asshole."

Gotta love the enabling that floats around this forum.

I guess for someone who's been venting on the Libra board for 3+ years, pointing the finger is easier than taking a good look at your own dysfunctions and grow from them.

PS: Libra men no likey negative females. And you, being an Aries, have absolutely no excuse. So pull your head out of your ass and move on.

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Says the person who's saying it's okay to be an inconsiderate prick.

el oh el honey. You're quite immature in your views toward others.

Nice try. Now go play. 🙂

P.S. I never said it was ok to be inconsiderate? I merely describe the way we sometimes are and how to roll with it. if anything you should thank me for enlightening you.

Ok here's what I think about libra guys. As long as you don't get to emotionally involved, you're fine. In life, he will manipulate the standard laws of supply and demand like no other and you will be dropped when someone better comes along. So there you have it. Save yourself from
heartache and do not idealism him. Just know when to exit stage. 😉

Idealize*

Ps. He's a good lover, and a good friend. Keep him as a fuck buddy.

Posted by Sublimitas
Ok here's what I think about libra guys. As long as you don't get to emotionally involved, you're fine. In life, he will manipulate the standard laws of supply and demand like no other and you will be dropped when someone better comes along. So there you have it. Save yourself from
heartache and do not idealism him. Just know when to exit stage. 😉

And you say someone else ain't over their past...

Absolutes are rarely true, saying something like libra men are players is dumb. Even if all libra's are gifted with the ability to sweet talk the laws of nature, not all of us would use those powers for evil.

How about this for the OP. Do you like who you are when you are dating this person? Some people say you shouldn't change at all when you're in a relationship, I dint think that's realistic. The very nature of a long term relationship would mean comprises which means you would do something you wouldn't otherwise be doing. So the real question becomes looking at how the other person effects change in your life. Do you like who you are? Does the relationship build you up or tear you down? Do they bring more happiness or grief, how much grief is okay?


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