Confused and hurt

Do you think a libra male would try to make a girl jealous on purpose?

My ex and I are still friends, and lately I have been hanging out with one of his friends. I didn't do this on purpose and we are strictly friends ... however ... a couple weekends ago my ex was with some girl. They were hanging on each other, however they arn't dating. Now this is the exact same time me and his friend start hanging out.

I told him she is really pretty and if she makes him happy then go for it ... he just changes the subject and says I don't want to ...

Okay get this. I went to the rodeo with that guy friend of mine which he knew about. I told him. That same night we had that conversation about him dating that girl and all ... well I go and look at his myspace and she is his #3. She wasn't even on his top 12 yesterday. I don't get it. Also there are 2 pics of them. I'm not even on his top friends list. Now I don't know how long they have known each other ...

He says he loves me ...

Sooooo confusing. I tell him I need my space to get fully over him, buthe says he can't stop calling me. Says he won't. Any thoughts—?

Yes ..... obssession.


It's an ex, who the fuck cares whether someone is #3 or #123 —

Sounds like high-school in here sometimes .....

Well that was alittle harsh. There is a reason we broke up ... it wasn't because we didn't like each other or whatever. It's hard to explain.

Sorry to an extent I agree with P-Angel. He is your ex you are friends. So what if he likes this girl or not? You are hanging out with his friend. What is the big deal with him hanging out with this girl? It seems if anyone was trying to make someone jealous it would be you, by hanging out with his friend. Not placing the blame, just wondering.

I take it you're in Houston like me, SB? Rodeo season and all.

Anyway, I don't understand what the big deal is. He's your ex for a reason, right? I don't think you should care who he's hanging out with if you're doing the same thing. It's the pot calling the kettle black.

You are obsessed with this...you look at his myspace. Why? What were you hoping to find? It's like a self-fulfilling phophecy to find something to continue to obsess about. He's an ex for a reason. If you truly want the space to get over him, then do not take his calls, do not see him, do not buy into the "I love yous"...

((Do you think a libra male would try to make a girl jealous on purpose?))

Sometimes we do it to help ourselves to move on. But yea.. we try to make a girl jealous to figure out how are things going inside her head.

my first libra tried making me jealous all of the time. he was very competitive over stupid little things. i, basically, ignored his antics. i was so in love with that man. when he wanted to finally settled down with me (after 4 yrs of calling me his true love, angel,telling me he saw himself in my eyes then going cold on me and coming back)... i told him i was scared and wasn't going to do that with him. i was so patient and understanding with him. i know he meant every word he told me but at the moment it was said. he was so demonstrative of his feelings for me in front of our friends, in public, family but he would still go cold and come back. i am libra/scorpio cusper with lots of libra in my chart. i just didn't want to be his third wife. he is married a third time now and that has been chaotic. he has contacted me when he had been is in a bind with his new wife. he was doing the cold and hot crap with her. she packed up and left him then he won her over again. i treat him with sympathy when he does contact but at arm's length. we are not friends. to hell with being friends with the crazy flaky libra men. i know there are good libra men out there.

^^ agreed

there are good libra man out there when they decide to make up their mind! i wouldn't settle for less, i only have one life, i don't accept anything less then i think i deserve

@SB, the libra ex i had before tried to make me jealous after i broke up with him, he got together with another girl right after the breakup ~ like your situation. But i think its insecurity, or like the thelibran said, its just easier for them to move on but like everyone else on that posted, hes your ex? so why bother? You both made the decision to move on or you anyways judging by your posts.