Dispassionate

As attached as you are to your partner, you may not really show it much. In your quest for balance and harmony, you rarely have or express strong emotions of any kind. Yours is a very dispassionate demeanor that is detached. You don't invest much passion or feeling in your relationships, loving with your head instead of your heart.
ANY OF YOU HAVE THIS: How do you deal with this?

.. by finding someone who accepts this about you.. and still loves you through and through. Within the safety of this love, you can grow, evolve... and find yourself feeling, expressing, investing... everything you secretly thought you were defective for being unable to do.

I'm still trying to figure this out

Posted by MzDiana
As attached as you are to your partner, you may not really show it much. In your quest for balance and harmony, you rarely have or express strong emotions of any kind. Yours is a very dispassionate demeanor that is detached. You don't invest much passion or feeling in your relationships, loving with your head instead of your heart.
ANY OF YOU HAVE THIS: How do you deal with this?

imho, i think this statement basically means you don't change your decision about to love someone/something even if your emotions or feelings change.

Why does everyone say this about Libras? Lol. I feel I am a bit too emotional when I love. I just hate to show weakness, that includes crying in front of the person im in love with if they hurt my feelings, I rather make them feel bad and cry to my friends and family. At least they wont use it against me. I know that's silly, and ive come to realize that I have trouble with completely letting myself go when I fall in love. I guess too afraid of rejection from the person, maybe they'll think im too mushy, or too emotional, over analyze everything, I pout when things don't go exactly the way I thought they should but I don't hold grudges I get over things quick, and I never stay mad. Anyway just saying, Libra's are very emotional especially when in love, and I don't know about other libra's, but I show it at first, but when my partner shows signs that they don't like it, or will try to use my feelings against me I either run, or turn cold by simply acting as if I don't have a care in the world. Include the relationship. I simply hate to appear weak!

I feel to emotional when in love too. I try to hide it though. Idk if it's a pride thing or fear of rejection. Do you fall in love easy?

Sometimes. The ones I've fell the hardest for are usually ones that I wouldn't have thought I was going to fall for. But yes, I do. I would hate scare someone off with it though, so I tend to act extreamly cool about everything, which I've found gives off the impression that I don't really care. When really im bursting inside with passion for the person, afraid it might scare them off.

I can completely relate to those feelings you have.. The last person I fell for kept asking me how I felt and I wouldnt admit it.. I think he knew he just wanted me to say it.. I wonder now if I would have just opened up and shown vulnerability if things would be different now.. To late..

Posted by pathfinder

Posted by MzDiana
As attached as you are to your partner, you may not really show it much. In your quest for balance and harmony, you rarely have or express strong emotions of any kind. Yours is a very dispassionate demeanor that is detached. You don't invest much passion or feeling in your relationships, loving with your head instead of your heart.
ANY OF YOU HAVE THIS: How do you deal with this?

imho, i think this statement basically means you don't change your decision about to love someone/something even if your emotions or feelings change.

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From my personal experience, I love through being thoughtful, but not showy. I love in a whole other way than most ppl. I do not require much and do not expect much, other than your time. I am not touchy-feely with people and never overwhelming. I have been told I have no emotions, which is not true..just not displayed. I surpress a lot and I know it. I have no explanation why. I just do. I do not fear rejection in the sense that most ppl speak of..only one or two ways...u like/love me or u hate me.