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Fierce Dravidian
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I don't consider mildness and kindness as weaknessess I have those traits and I stand corrected stupid doesn't fit the Libra lady description. Wish I got played they are so flighty - I try to get close and they get flighty f'in disappear - Libras seem to be way too socialized its fked cuz they show interest matter of factly I don't think I would have taken notice of 'em without them showing interest first I try to make a move and you damned types back off. Too socialized from early on - too many associations - back ground noise - depleted initiative to pursue something nice with a guy like me.
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little_sparrow
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FD, it is your approach. They might be attracted to you initially but you kill their attraction. Have you considered it has nothing to do with them but has to do with you?

If it keeps happening, you are the only constant in the situation.

Libras don't like violence and hostility. Women in general, unless they are screwed up, don't like violence and hostility directed towards them.

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Queenscorpio
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FD, first, Libras in general seem to persue when their interest is sparked, the job is to keep the interest. Read through these threads and you will find they analyze and go back and forth in their minds about every aspect of their involvement with someone. It is just their way. There is nothing wrong with it. I actually admire them for trying to make a concious and sure decisions without letting emotions lead them all the time, like the most of the other signs do. It can be very frustrating trust me, over 50% of my involvements have been with Libra men including a 6 year marriage (8 year relationship). So accept it or move one.

Nice guy? Who would know? Just read over your initial posts, you will see that there is nothing nice at all coming from you. That is probably how these girls are seeing you. You might want to reanalyze your approach and appearance to others before judging them.

Like LS said, if it keeps happening to you with other people, then it is you, not them. Simple.
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"I'm not violent and hostile - I did yell and cuss at two of her people that was like 10 years later. She knows I'm a nice guy - probably just doesn't trust herself does not trust her own instincts. I've seen it happen a lot girls that back off can't trust themselves."

Nothing personal, FD, but saying it is the girl's fault without even considering you might have faults of your own that contributed tothe girl(s) backking off is (1) a cop out and (2) a sign of emotional immaturity (something that intelligent women can pickup very easily, i.e. - Libra). I am sure you are a nice guy, but it is also clear (from your posts from last night and for the past few months) that you like conflict. Libras do not.

If you do not find anything wrong with liking conflict (which there is no reason you should), then find you a woman that would be more compatible with the real you. If you deny the fact that you like conflict, then obviously, you find fault with it, and before finding a woman (who likes conflict or not), you should do a little introsepction and endeavor to get your head together. Otherwise you would not be in the appropriate place to have a healthy and successful relationship. People in healthy and successful relationships know themselves and what they want from themselves, their lives, their relationships, and their partners. Granted, that doesn't guarantee them health and successful relationships, but it gives them a much better probability of it.