Do Libra men like being pursued?

i am at my wits end with mine. i don't know whether to wait this out of fight for him. it is going to be a week since i had any contact with mine.

how long you known him?

They dont want to be tied down, they like their space and you have to deal with that...if its ONLY BEEN A WEEK? that's NOTHING in Libra land....get used to it and/or kick his butt to the curb......if its all that freaking hard to begin with imagine what it'll be like down the track.

If they're interested? you WILL know, you WONT need to question and you WONT have the disappearing act......

He's merely being a Libran male.....run, save yourself!! There are so many posts like yours on this site - go and do some reading here, you'll find this is normal behaviour from a Libra not interested in anything too concrete

Harsh but better off than feeding you false hopes.

they disappear even when in lov and even after they marry you. i thought this one was the exception. i think i am just getting over the shock that he is not an exception.

I don't understand - you married?

spoke to my females friends who are married to these guys and they refreshed my memory.

you're not giving any details here - you dating a libra and how long? married to a libra?

OH I'm sorry - you want a generic subjective confirmation? I guess you have it from Chatz...

oh yeah, they never actually leave your life and to get them to say goodbye forever? impossible!!!! They leave that door open and unless they tell you to leave them the f*ck alone, they'll be back LOL

Its really up to the other person as to whether you're going to play the game.

i accidently sent him a txt i was sending to my friend about her boyfriend. he thinks i was talking to another guy. i told him i do not but he didn't believe me. i explained to him what we were talking about and he says "whatever." i told him i miss him and he doesn't believe me. i didn't do anything wrong so now i am just ignoring his behavior. it's been a week. his friends tell me he has no one. i don't care anymore. this is too taxing. i have told him i want him many times. he thinks i am living it up with other guys when i am not in his presence. his favorite past time is laying in bed, drinking and watching tv. he is so F**** insecure. he pursued me, i chose him... i get asked out all of the time but i tell men "i am with someone." he is going to push me into another man's arms with his behavior then he is going to think he was right all along about me. these men are insane. at this point i don't care if he finds someone else. let someone else put up with this insanity. so much work instead we should be celebrating that we found each other. i am not paying for the sins of others. whatever happened in his past relationships have nothing to do with me.

no. i don't play silly games. i don't have the time or energy to engage in stupid crap like that.

i fell for him bc he is blunt and direct like i am then he got insecure on me.

It all sounds too hard, why would you want to be in a r/ship like that? HE is playing with your head and it'll mess with you more than you'll ever know at the time.

Get away from this b.s....take it from somebody who has been with the biggest game player in the past (a Gemini), its all games, its to make you feel sorry for them, to pity them, to come running back begging......DONT DO IT.

If you get asked out all the time then damn well go out - why would you worry about one that hasnt got the decency?

Laying in bed, drinking, watching tv? ummmmm....although they are dear little things, yes this is a BIG thing they do.....many hours, days, weeks are taken up by nothingness LOL

My Libra ex spent every spare moment he had after work, on weekends, each and every night online on singles sites...not because he was looking for anybody but because that was his entertainment, and he'd have the television on, he'd drink his bourbon, or beer, and be googling as much as he could....it kept him from the real world and actually spending time with real people. He truly thought/thinks these women/people are his real friends LOL.

He's been doing this for over 3 years.....I couldnt think of anything more draining and boring hearing the same pick up lines, the same sob stories and the same "come save me" pleas LOL....but he gets amusement out of it bless his little heart.

You cant change these men, so if you dont like what you see now?? you're never going to see him any different. Think about it.

When one first meets its all lovey dovey and it should be about fun and all those lovely things but he's showing himself as being a total A $ $ ......look beyond the exterior looks, etc.....look at who he truly is portraying...it doesnt look very pretty from where I sit.

Posted by eagwstinggirl
i accidently sent him a txt i was sending to my friend about her boyfriend. he thinks i was talking to another guy. i told him i do not but he didn't believe me. i explained to him what we were talking about and he says "whatever." i told him i miss him and he doesn't believe me. i didn't do anything wrong so now i am just ignoring his behavior. it's been a week. his friends tell me he has no one. i don't care anymore. this is too taxing. i have told him i want him many times. he thinks i am living it up with other guys when i am not in his presence. his favorite past time is laying in bed, drinking and watching tv. he is so F**** insecure. he pursued me, i chose him... i get asked out all of the time but i tell men "i am with someone." he is going to push me into another man's arms with his behavior then he is going to think he was right all along about me. these men are insane. at this point i don't care if he finds someone else. let someone else put up with this insanity. so much work instead we should be celebrating that we found each other. i am not paying for the sins of others. whatever happened in his past relationships have nothing to do with me.

Wow, sweetie I feel your pain. Doesn't matter how much you try to make a libra feel secure, they'll keep badgering you with their doubts until you give up all your friends! They'll never ask you directly, but more like drive you into doing it!

Yeh it's all champagne kisses and caviar dreams with us, until...

Posted by Upheaval
Yeh it's all champagne kisses and caviar dreams with us, until...

Was this comment suppose to be sarcastic? lol. Are you a Libra?

please read my post http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/messages.asp?id=1644431

Posted by eagwstinggirl
it is going to be a week since i had any contact with mine.

to us...virgo,libra,scorpio....a week is like an hour. lol

Posted by LibScorp2210
not really (as far as im concerned) .. The man is supposed to "chase" and not be pursued ..
anyway if we like you, you will know it, like said above ..

this topic reminds me of those scorpio women who love to chase .. :goosebumps:

LibScorp... That is the whole problem. They show that they do like you and they do chase you, they initiate everything, they hold your hand and kiss you and stare deep into your eyes and give you that smile that makes you go weak at the knees. They pick up the bill and give you their jacket, they tell you, you're beautiful and amazing. Then the next day it is as if nothing ever happened... Then next time you see them, it's as if they never left and it starts all over agian. Then they go see other girls, then come back.

I think i'm in love 😢 I never had the balls to tell him how i feel, i played it cool, very cool cos i was so afraid of scaring him off and i'm not one of those people who can talk about feelings, i'm more of an action speaks louder than words person. I went from being one of the most confident and strongest and independant women i know, to this....

love sux!

old post from sept '08. had to reread it. back then, he pissed me off with his accusations and i vented on here. we patched things up that very same weekend. we got over that hump. now, he just goes psycho on any guy who tries to put the moves on me.

Posted by LibScorp2210
all jokes aside: sweetsherrie I'm just playin with you, don't mean to be an ass or wtv .. I'm a big cute teddybear who spends most of his online time in trying to piss off irresistible women ..

If that isn't a Libra turning on the charm... I don't know what is!


LOL! ;D