Do libras take back all their exes

This libra guy comes back to me always but I dont know where I stand with him. He has V in Scorpio and Mars in libra. He is really sweet, everytime he comes back, we go on so many cute dates. The thing I hate about him though is that he is a little too mysterious. But he is nice to have around, we had an intense relationship a couple years ago and he often asks me if I see a future with him (indirectly) but we don't talk about it openly. Its not always that he comes back to me, sometimes I go back to him also.

I need your advice peeps. Thank you 🙂

Let him make the moves, don't give more than he gives and you need to make him really prove himself if you really can see yourself with him. Stop chasing. If you previously had a relationship with him, what's up with this coming back and disappearing act? And yes, that Scorp influence has a lot to do with being mysterious. What is his moon? That was the problem I had with my Libra, they were very sweet and I could tell they cared, but the Scorpio in moon, Venus and Mercury made it very difficult for them to state how they actually felt and this can be maddening especially if you want to know how deep their feelings for you actually go.

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ElTigre25

Thank you Gemguyaz34- You are so right, everytime he puts effort in it he makes sure he arrives on time for the date, calls me multiple times. Makes me feel like a goddess but everytime I pursue him and keep texting him sometimes he comes out and sometimes he just acts he is busy. Idk I thought Libras never go back/take back their exes. But he always comes back to me. However, sometimes when my relationships fail, I go back to him also so its not just one way. This year I went back to him but later on I told him it was only a time thing and that I am no longer into him. Then he started messaging me and calling me more than ever. He kept asking why I did this and why I dont wana see him anymore. He begged to get another date and I agreed. He has his moon in Libra.
I want to know if he likes me- or sees me in his future, I also wana know how to keep him chasing. I do really like him now

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ElTigre25

Thank you Gemguyaz34- You are so right, everytime he puts effort in it he makes sure he arrives on time for the date, calls me multiple times. Makes me feel like a goddess but everytime I pursue him and keep texting him sometimes he comes out and sometimes he just acts he is busy. Idk I thought Libras never go back/take back their exes. But he always comes back to me. However, sometimes when my relationships fail, I go back to him also so its not just one way. This year I went back to him but later on I told him it was only a time thing and that I am no longer into him. Then he started messaging me and calling me more than ever. He kept asking why I did this and why I dont wana see him anymore. He begged to get another date and I agreed. He has his moon in Libra.
I want to know if he likes me- or sees me in his future, I also wana know how to keep him chasing. I do really like him now

Some of them take a long time to get over someone they really like. They are excellent at sometimes putting up this front of "oh I'm ok and that person doesn't matter" but they know deep down that's BS and they do care and those scales are swaying. I think with some of them maybe they just aren't sure how to face the other person after they made the decision to end it. They then have their time in solitude to really reflect on what they liked and what they didn't. Also depends on how fast things were moving. I'm going by what I experienced, but more Libs will need to answer that for you. Personality wise, it does have a lot to do with other placements. But I don't think it's right for you to keep running back to him. That only lets him know he has you on a string and can pull you back anytime he wants and I personally don't believe it's right to treat someone like that if you really care about them Also Tiz, makes a good point here as well. it's almost like you both are comfortable with it being what it is. Not too healthy.

He says I inspire him, but also intimidate him. He copies me and does literally everything I do, if I decide to go to graduate school, next thing I know he is applying to graduate schools. If I say I want kids soon, he says "hey dont want kids soon, maybe you could have kids with me or do you want children with me" I get caught off guard with this guy so I just brush it off by saying "Oh i meant in the future sometime, dont know when." He asked me if I will want a marriage or not, I said yes I would like to be married soon.
He baffles me, he is asking me serious questions without getting serious with me first.

I just dont know if he cares/loves me anymore.

He's probing your mind for answers then comparing in his head of whether or not it's what he really wants.

hmmm I see

Yeah most libras dont take their exes back, mine comes back all the time and takes me back every single time I go back to him

When they do the breaking up, no. When you do the breaking up, yes.

It's all about unresolved bs and "what ifs."

What's your sign, OP?

I don't take back exes. Can't stay friends either because they don't understand I'm not romantically attached so I avoid the whole thing all together.

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Posted by rockyroadicecream
When they do the breaking up, no. When you do the breaking up, yes.

It's all about unresolved bs and "what ifs."

What's your sign, OP?

Take your advice from this bitter broad. She's here in the Libra forum so much, at first, you'd think she is one. She has a degree in relationships with Libras, apparently. Yeah sure.

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What is your Sun sign? Do know what decan Libra he is? Third decan Libras are VERY honest. Scorpio Venus- I trust them completely usually. I have never had one lie to me.

Thank you guys, so now Im wondering why he keeps taking me back every single time the last couple of years. Yes I did the breaking up first time, he cried and told me not to break it off (this was years ago) and we got back together. Then we dated again and I broke it off again. Then we dated again but he broke it off. ( this was also a while ago) but he still takes me back everytime I reconnect with him. NO matter how long its been and how much time has passed.

I wonder if its because he still has feelings for me or because he never felt anything for me

I am an aries by the way. I know you most of you libras dont get along with aries women. But I get along with libras very well, most of my best friends and exes are all libras

He is a first decan libra

Posted by IllaLupus
Definitely depends on person Rocky because I did have a break up once that wasn't my doing. Technically he didn't say we were through, just started dating someone else a few weeks before christmas and i noticed it on my news feed lol.

Talked to him and saw him awhile after and he said "I still consider you my girlfriend" basically wanted to reconnect after the other girl didn't work out and asked me out again. Course not...

But majority you are correct, most libras will aim to come back if you walked away... because like you said what ifs and whys

I know it does. But on a general scale, you see it happen quite often- the ones who come back are the ones who got ditched. The ones who don't are the ones who decided themselves. Of course, every situation is different, but big picture? Yeah.

Posted by Sassygurl
Thank you guys, so now Im wondering why he keeps taking me back every single time the last couple of years. Yes I did the breaking up first time, he cried and told me not to break it off (this was years ago) and we got back together. Then we dated again and I broke it off again. Then we dated again but he broke it off. ( this was also a while ago) but he still takes me back everytime I reconnect with him. NO matter how long its been and how much time has passed.

I wonder if its because he still has feelings for me or because he never felt anything for me

The question is why do you keep going back?

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Posted by Sassygurl
Thank you guys, so now Im wondering why he keeps taking me back every single time the last couple of years. Yes I did the breaking up first time, he cried and told me not to break it off (this was years ago) and we got back together. Then we dated again and I broke it off again. Then we dated again but he broke it off. ( this was also a while ago) but he still takes me back everytime I reconnect with him. NO matter how long its been and how much time has passed.

I wonder if its because he still has feelings for me or because he never felt anything for me

The question is why do you keep going back?

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Isn't it obvious why any girl would go back to their ex? Ofcourse I still have some kind of feelings for him

Posted by Sassygurl
I am an aries by the way. I know you most of you libras dont get along with aries women. But I get along with libras very well, most of my best friends and exes are all libras

Like most opposites on the zodiac wheel, the sexual attraction between Aries and Libra is intense and usually unquenchable. The Venus is Scorpio loves passion, and intense unquenchable lust. As for inspiration, I would be with someone who inspired me over anything else. I am a first decan Libra and inspiration is everything to me.. Otherwise where is your Venus? He may love your passion; for life and in the bed. Also we like our lovers FINE as hell! Maybe you are easy on the eyes? The best person to ask this question is the Libra. Usually I can trust Venus in Scorpio. Not all of them Of Course, but usually you can believe what comes out of their mouth.

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LeoAquaRuler I think thats what it comes down to, these libra moons want to be the one to break it off so in their mind they are at peace with making the decision of leaving. My best friend also has moon in libra (she's a girl though) she is very pretty but the guy she likes isn't too attractive but treats her badly. She can't get enough of him. In fact, she even admitted to me that she wants to end it with him before he ends it with her. I asked her why and she said just just because she wants the control.

Umm I'm like how is that control, idk how libra moons consider it control

@Librawoman77 Have you dated aries peeps before? What decan were they? How was your relationship?

I definitely inspire him and he becomes more hardworking, more goal oriented when he is with me. To answer your question, I have V in aries and yes I am very attractive, also I have a nice body (lol sorry for bragging) he stares at me and just smiles (which being an aries I just love) he tells me I have the beautiful eyes and that I am funny and make him laugh a lot.

lol you're hilarious 😉
LeoAquaRuler

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LeoAquaRuler I think thats what it comes down to, these libra moons want to be the one to break it off so in their mind they are at peace with making the decision of leaving. My best friend also has moon in libra (she's a girl though) she is very pretty but the guy she likes isn't too attractive but treats her badly. She can't get enough of him. In fact, she even admitted to me that she wants to end it with him before he ends it with her. I asked her why and she said just just because she wants the control.

Umm I'm like how is that control, idk how libra moons consider it control

I drew some tarot cards - it's in the cards for you two to marry if you choose that path. I dated and Aries before and truth be told, I still love him. His Venus is in Pisces, and our chemistry was electrifying. I loved him dearly, I wanted him to myself, but I couldn't deal with his ways. He wasn't dependable, he spent a lot of time at work, he wanted to be the boss. I am a cardinal with a chart full of masculine signs. I just can't let an undependable man lead.

I would rather be with someone who inspired me to reach my goals than anyone else on this planet! He kept me upset with his unstable inconsistent impulsive ways.He left the woman he was dating to see if we could have something. But after I got to know him I realized I wouldn't want a husband like that, so I told him to return to his ex who tolerates all his shenanigans and marry her. He did exactly that. I still love him, I still light up like a candle burning when I see him; but I keep my distance now, but I truly loved him.

Never, once I've come to a decision to break with someone its a done deal. I may not be over them for a long time but I don't ever go back. I never stay friends too cos I don't like leading them on etc

@Librawoman77: Whats your Venus in?
From this I'm guessing the Libra woman dont take their exes back, maybe just Libra males do. Or maybe just my ex does 😛

Also @librawoman77 does it say anything else with Tarot cards? A happy marriage? or anything else?
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IllaLupus What kind of men does your sis like? This must be a hard placement for her, aries and libra together

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Posted by Sassygurl
Thank you guys, so now Im wondering why he keeps taking me back every single time the last couple of years. Yes I did the breaking up first time, he cried and told me not to break it off (this was years ago) and we got back together. Then we dated again and I broke it off again. Then we dated again but he broke it off. ( this was also a while ago) but he still takes me back everytime I reconnect with him. NO matter how long its been and how much time has passed.

I wonder if its because he still has feelings for me or because he never felt anything for me

The question is why do you keep going back?

Isn't it obvious why any girl would go back to their ex? Ofcourse I still have some kind of feelings for him

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No, it's not. Everyone has their own underlying issues as to why they keep going back to something that isn't working. It's also called insanity, dysfunction, etc.

You're justifying it as if it's some Disney shit, but all I see is a toxic situation neither of you choose to get away from. It also screams desperation if you keep going back to something that clearly hasn't worked before. Are there NO other men in your town??

rockyroadicecream OKAY judgemental princess 🙂 LOL

Posted by Sassygurl
@Librawoman77: Whats your Venus in?
From this I'm guessing the Libra woman dont take their exes back, maybe just Libra males do. Or maybe just my ex does 😛

My Venus is in Libra.

Posted by Sassygurl
Also @librawoman77 does it say anything else with Tarot cards? A happy marriage? or anything else?
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IllaLupus What kind of men does your sis like? This must be a hard placement for her, aries and libra together

Nope not anything else just if you choose this path, it can lead to marriage.

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Librawoman77
Thats interesting, I dont know much about Tarot cards but it sounds like something I would like to know.

Librawoman77 what is your moon sign?

Moon in Aquarius! I act more like an Aquarius than a Libra

NO wonder you guys are so sweet!! my sister also has V in libra.. I generally find V in libra caring, sweet people
IllaLupus Librawoman77

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rockyroadicecream OKAY judgemental princess 🙂 LOL

Well you're as dumb as a sack of potatoes, aren't you?

Poor thing.

Librawoman77 does aqua moon help you with your indecisiveness?

Also any moon in libras here? I wana know how you are in relationships or someone you love/care about

@rockyroadicecream you mad? Lmao