Libra man help

This topic was created in the Libra forum by CherryGemini83 on Saturday, January 9, 2016 and has 6 replies.

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@CherryGemini83
10 YearsGemini

Hi 🙂 If anyone has any advice here I would really appreciate it!

I've recently been seeing a Libra man. We know each other in person through mutual friends and we bummed into each other in a comic book store a few weeks back. That evening he started pursuing me on social media. He said he was very attracted to me and he was acting like he was all in, asking me on a date, inviting me over to stay at his place for a few days, saying he was looking for a meaningful relationship over just a hook up.

We met at his place for our first date and hung out but wound up sleeping together. Gemini/Libra sexual attraction like no other. We then made plans to meet up again but we couldn't make them happen as I left to go on vacation for 2 weeks. He promised that we would see each other when I returned.

Since being on vacation I have only heard from him once. I understand that Libs need space which I completely support as I need space myself however, I do find myself worrying that since he's being so quiet perhaps he was just looking for a quick hookup and was just saying things to get me to sleep with him.

In your opinion do you think Libra men are insincere? Or do you think he's just taking time out and is being true to his word when he said we'll meet up when I get back?

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@gemguyaz34
11 Years500+ PostsGemini

Libra will usually chase after the Gem. Especially if there is Fire in the Gem's chart. We get a long so well because we see a lot of the same things the same and can relate. You would swear the connection is magic and even if a break up takes place it is one of the harder ones to let go due to the connection. Get to know each other as friends first though as it makes the bond stronger. However, take caution of the Libra because sometimes us Gems do things that will annoy them but they won't always tell you but rather they throw subtle hints out there. Do you know his other placements? Use caution if there is Scorp in his chart, particularly, in the Moon or Venus.

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@CherryGemini83
10 YearsGemini

Thanks so much for the responses everyone. Really appreciate it. I do want this to go further, k feel like he understands me more than most guys do. Probably the air element thing.
The thought of having to wait weeks is going to kill me. Haha. But he's worth it so I will do what you suggest and let him come to me.

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@CherryGemini83
10 YearsGemini

@gemguy I don't know his other placements unfortunately.
We wished each other happy new year but haven't spoken again since then as I only returned from vacation today. The message seemed fine from him. Didn't seem like I had pissed him off or anything.

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@gemguyaz34
11 Years500+ PostsGemini

Posted by CherryGemini83
@gemguy I don't know his other placements unfortunately.
We wished each other happy new year but haven't spoken again since then as I only returned from vacation today. The message seemed fine from him. Didn't seem like I had pissed him off or anything.

Then don't worry, he'll be back.

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@Librawoman77
11 Years500+ Posts

He may think "If she gave it up that quickly to me, I wonder how easily she will give it to the next man." Most men (not all) don't look for meaningful relationships with women that have sex on the first date. Google - What do men think about a woman having sex on the first date. I hope I am wrong. 😢