Finding Balance

I was stung pretty bad by a Scorpio who moved and is now involved with someone. We're still in contact, several times a week and the entire situation has left me unbalanced for at least the last 10 months. I've masked my anger and sadness fairly well, but slowly and surely it's begun to weigh on me. How do fellow Libra's regain their balance in a situation such as this? I'm about 99% sure I don't have a shot with her, but yet I still can't seem to just let it go and be friends.

Im curious to know why she broke it off or what was the reason.

Aqua here :-) I think you should stop contact with her. I do this with my ex's for at least 6-months. I block them from my phone and email, that way, I don't have the temptation, and trust me, those moments will be there. The great thing about this, is that you can still call or send the texts, but neither will go through, and if they try to contact you... you will never know.

It may seem extreme, but I have found that this let's both parties focus on themselves and get over it. Feelings still linger, even though we would like to hope or try for the latter when we try to be friends too soon, and I have found that one or the other ends up getting hurt, or more hurt. When/if we talk down the road, they get it and we are cool.

I think I might have not made it very clear, but we never dated. We worked together for a year in the same department and went out outside of work on a few occasion. Mostly concerts where it was with her friends or her brother along with a few times after softball for beers and tacos, but again with a friend of hers. I tend to misconstrued situations so I think perhaps I might have saw something that honestly wasn't there. She's had what I believe is an on again, off again relationship that until last week she hadn't mentioned. I know this only through friends and Facebook stuff (until she mentioned it last week). I honestly thought we weren't going to be in contact anymore when she moved away, but about 10 ten days after she left she texted me. I know that anytime she contacts me I'll reply which is why I'm looking to find the balance I once had without breaking off contact. This is honestly the first time I've had such an issue, which is why I'm having a tough time figuring it out. Thanks for all the replies!

Situation remains the same...let her go but only until you can regain your own composure. This maybe 6 months or a year. Don't answer her texts...she probably doesn't even realise you were that serious about wanting more with her, although I'm sure she knows you have feelings of some nature. But it is in your best interest to move on with your life and accept not all that we want to love, love us back. There will be someone else out there for you...just not if all you can think about is her.

I totally agree with Kalin and have recently had a similar situation with a Libra guy... went went to school together, he now lives overseas and was back in town so we caught up. He revealed that he had a crush and had been following me on FB but of course to me he is a friend and I had no idea!

I would be sad to lose contact with him, but there was only ever a one sided thing. I am pretty sure I would hurt this guy unintentionally, and there is something about Libra's that they are always there for us wonderfully egocentric scorps- I have heaps in my life! Sister, BF, friends etc.

Walk away- head held hi, and when you can manage, swan back into her life with all the cool of the Fonz- she might take notice then, but play it cool!!!

Thanks for the feedback all, I'm going to do the no contact for a bit. Yeah I don't expect anything to transpire past our being friends so don't worry no false hope or anything like that.