Scorpio vs Scorpio

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by phoenix1rising on Thursday, June 6, 2013 and has 15 replies.

Why Scorpio to Scorpio Relationships Can Be Challenging

Scorpio pairs may struggle due to intense emotions and mirror effects, which can lead to conflicts or self-reflection. Differences in individual charts also influence compatibility, making some Scorpio pairings harmonious while others clash. Understanding these dynamics can help improve relationships between Scorpios.

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@phoenix1rising
13 Years

In general, do you find that you DON'T get along with other Scorpios? If so, why?? I have a theory that sometimes hanging out with another Scorpio is like looking into a mirror, and sometimes you don't like that you see. There's also the possibility that their chart makes them very different from you. Overall, what's been your experience?

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@phoenix1rising
13 Years

I agree that I can get along great with other Scorpios, but I've noticed that since I'm on the Sag cusp (Nov 20)... I tend to get along GREAT with Sags, mostly women Sags. Also - I don't know ANY water moons, but I have a moon in Scorp. I just don't meet them... the universe brings me mostly air moons and fire moons, with a few earth moons sprinkled in. Very confusing for me.

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@nov13thscorp
14 Years

I get along very well with other scorps...male or female but I do find myself feeling uncomfortable around certain scorps lol feels as if they could tell what im thinking, if im lying, nervous..etc...Ive NEVER known another scorp I couldnt/didnt get along with...even this scorp girl I work with...we always go abt two, three weeks where we dont speak,we just screw-face each other like "I hate u", then all of a sudden we just start talking again, with the biggest grins on our faces, lauging our heads off, wondering and asking each other "what the fuck was your problem these past few weeks"...hahaha....It sure is tough but I lOVE being a scorp ๐Ÿ™‚

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@lostinspace
14 YearsScorpio

DO NOT GET ALONG. It's never like looking into a mirror (as for style and presentation and personality). It's always standoffish. The ones who I have met and lived with are jealous of me or see me as a threat. Not sure why, I am a quiet soft spoken person. I don't get crazy or obnoxious like the ones I've met.

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@aNEWday
15 Years1,000+ Posts

I get along best with scorps. Even if I feel some type of negative way toward them, they always know how to make me erase that from my mind because I understand there mentality. I also like that I can say whatever is on my mind, where I might bite my tongue with other signs because they will look at me like I am crazy.
I think its a relationship either male or female that feels like being at home. I also love to meet other scorps to compare their personality with mine.

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@aNEWday
15 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by lostinspace
DO NOT GET ALONG. It's never like looking into a mirror (as for style and presentation and personality). It's always standoffish. The ones who I have met and lived with are jealous of me or see me as a threat. Not sure why, I am a quiet soft spoken person. I don't get crazy or obnoxious like the ones I've met.

funny, ive gotten that 'jealous' vibe from other signs except for scorps.. scratch that only 1 scorp female. There are always a few bad apples

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@ScorpSuperior
19 Years10,000+ Posts

honestly, i can get along with most people in general. i had a work relationship with 3 scorpios for several years. i got along well with one, another grew to like me a lot, and the third- well, he didn't get along with ANYONE.

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@SkyLinePhoEnix
13 Years

It usually is too close for comfort meeting a scorp/eagle, from my own experience, especially when they are still in the scorp/stinger phase. still meeting a fem/male is like a temporary marriage of the mind from commitment to divorce. especially with the competetive edge most scorps have, it's all or nothing...the victor never fails to broadcast their triumph while the other who came up short is sure to be the sorest of losers by distancing themselves. not unless the other is eagle, like myself *cough cough*, then strengths and weaknesses are hyper-analyzed by both to the point where they sidestep the ego in a rhythmic tango mirroring each other as equals. like trying to race your shadow when you were young, you were pretty sure you wouldn't win but you did it out of sheer fun nonetheless. usually looked at under these conditions, this pairing will produce one of the most unique and perhaps the most powerful relationships in the zodiac...this has just been my experience tho not to speak on anyone else's.

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@ScorpntheH2Oest91
13 YearsScorpio

I had a scorpio boss and he was really cool. Not cool-cool but nice. I liked him as a boss.

Another was a rugby teammate of mine. I didn't like him at first, and we never really became friends. Just cold and cordial. Not really sure why. Maybe I thought he didn't have much to offer as a friend. He seemed kinda boring to me and uptight. I never knew what to talk about with him either. maybe it was because it was like looking in a mirror and I didn't like what I saw. I'd hope that's not the case.

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@SkyLinePhoEnix
13 Years

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Posted by IntriguedScorp
And Scorpio men are hilarious with their cynical, dark sense of humor. The key here is to laugh because deep inside I can always tell that humor is one of those stupid protective shells we wear, but its fun nonetheless. ๐Ÿ˜„

haha my son has that dark humour...he is a typical Scorp. when he was 8 he asks me *mum would you still love me if i murdered someone* haha!! so glad i had a scorp, totally get him! ๐Ÿ˜„

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Lol pretty much...I'm pretty sure everyone has seen Family Guy. The creator is scorp so I get a laugh not just at the jokes, but by relating to the dark edge of his humor...but we all know that it's still censored in comparison to what really goes on the mind of a scorp ๐Ÿ˜‰

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@nov13thscorp
14 Years

Posted by SkyLinePhoEnix

Posted by starlover

Posted by IntriguedScorp
And Scorpio men are hilarious with their cynical, dark sense of humor. The key here is to laugh because deep inside I can always tell that humor is one of those stupid protective shells we wear, but its fun nonetheless. ๐Ÿ˜„

haha my son has that dark humour...he is a typical Scorp. when he was 8 he asks me *mum would you still love me if i murdered someone* haha!! so glad i had a scorp, totally get him! ๐Ÿ˜„

Lol pretty much...I'm pretty sure everyone has seen Family Guy. The creator is scorp so I get a laugh not just at the jokes, but by relating to the dark edge of his humor...but we all know that it's still censored in comparison to what really goes on the mind of a scorp ๐Ÿ˜‰

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@Rays Heart
17 Years1,000+ Posts

I get along with most scorpios but I don't necessarily enjoyed the company of all in public. The male Scorpios are cool my best friend as a kid was one and we got along great but he took another direction in life and we parted ways. The female Scorpios I know are very loud and bossy in public and that's a problem for me, so I don't like dealing with them in public but one on one they're the sweetest.

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@BlackRed83
13 YearsScorpio

I have found that my experiences with other Scorpio's has been great. Normally when we meet we hit it off instantly. It doesn't take long for them to ask about my birthday. Once I give them the answer their response is " I knew you were one of us!". I tend to get along best with other Scorpio's whose birthday fall either the day before or after my own. In spite of all of this there is one Scorpio I do not get along with who also happens to be my cousin.