get hurt later

..seems like lately it's avery common theme here..for librans not being ready for a realtionship and wanting only friendship..and other people getting really cofused about this and that...

I say get what you want and stop thinking...your hurting anyway..so dive into it..and get hurt later..it. enjoy the feeling and be happy..things will happen.

hut can be always replaced with other emotions... i noticed too that other people might always be saying bad things...only you have the answers sometimes..look inside you..

Leebra, I have seen this myself of Librans....I know a few now and yup, it seems very much the case.

In my case I have actually started moving on and dating other guys (fun, fun, fun I have to say hehehehe), but I know Libra is at home aching, etc.....isn't it strange? I mean I was the one who wanted the r/ship, he wasn't "ready", now HE is the one sitting at home all alone still sitting on singles sites never meeting anybody while Im out and about having fun....how sad and yes I still feel for him but I am moving on 🙂

Its hard to understand for other signs but this is what LIbras seem to be like.

Every time we went with the girl who gave us those extra heartbeats, we end up hurt.
how long is this going to last?
how can i be sure that she will be happy after a while?
how can i be sure that I will be comfortable with her after a while?
will she ditch me for another man and break me after couple of years?


these are major questions and toughts. In a way consequences of existing social problems. we are not sure what can work and how much effort the other person might put to make things working.

that is very sad...i feel for my libra, he's such a cute baby...i don't want to hurt him..: 😢

that is not what i was saying though because we can't change nature and just tell people to stop hurting...lol..but this is a good topic..lol

what i was saying is for the people waiting for libra to fall for them...enjoy life and take what the libra gives themm but have lfe outsie of that...it doesn't sound much like a doormat 😉 just for the sake of moments happines...enjoy it and forget the rest..if there is a future or no...live for the moment.

anyway...he told me he likes me but coudn't understand me because of my changeable nature...he feels i could be dangerous...he said it's so hard to understand me..i confuse him and so on..and he doesn't know what matters to me, he's a type who never asks...i am confused by him too...so it's weird...

As a Gem, you can get over this quickly and be with a guy who ADORES you. Libras WILL frustrate you no end. You need someone who APPRECIATES you---and a lot of guys just don't "get" Gem girls. So when you find one who does and you're attracted to him, why not take a chance? A guy who DOES appreciate a Gem girl will LAVISH you for the wonderful variety and sparkle you bring into his life.

***One minute they give attention that has your hopes up to a high level the next you are wondering does he even know that i am here, that i am alive.***

Joi, they don't do this when they are sure they want you as a partner. This guy isn't sure or he doesn't. That is it. No matter how much the other loves them, they will be as gentle as possible, however honest about what they want and don't want in the most gentle and unconflicting way. However, it can never be said he didn't tell you.

I know, it is bitter sweet. ((((hugs))))

"One minute they give attention that has your hopes up to a high level the next you are wondering does he even know that i am here, that i am alive."

yea one weekend i got few sms from my colleague all of a sudden. I was quite surprised and started wondering why she has to show some interest in me. Then I remembered I had a very funny conversation with her couple of days back. Probably she thought I was into her. I think when someone entertains you and charms you up, most people consider it as some symptoms of love. Libra does this with every person he is comfortable with. Not to be read as signs of interest.

thelibran ,what if she just wanted to be a close friend ? What if she is just so comfortable with you and wants to do it again? Unless she sent strong signals , it shouldnt be taken as romantic gestures...I chatted with friends, invited them for dinner , teased them and wanted to be close friends but it doesnt mean I'm into them . Other signs can charm and flirt just like Libras 🙂

Very true exam. I am quite the flirt when not involved, with several and most are ones I am not at all interested in romantically. Flirting is fun. However, libra guys flirt excessively, with no true meaning behind it most times.

we are already close. we used to talk a lot and still talk a lot. from i never got any sms before or after that incident. by the way she is a saggi.

Saggi and Librans have great attractions. IMO.

"Every time we went with the girl who gave us those extra heartbeats, we end up hurt.
how long is this going to last?
how can i be sure that she will be happy after a while?
how can i be sure that I will be comfortable with her after a while?
will she ditch me for another man and break me after couple of years?"

Well, there is only one way to find out. You will never know if you don't take the chance.

I know I have hurt several people along the way when it comes to relationships that ended because I did not want to commit, to have faith. I am now with an amazing girl that for some reason when she says she loves me and wants to be with me it removes all worry. I am not going to let this one go, especially out of fear of being hurt.

"Every time we went with the girl who gave us those extra heartbeats, we end up hurt.
how long is this going to last?
how can i be sure that she will be happy after a while?
how can i be sure that I will be comfortable with her after a while?
will she ditch me for another man and break me after couple of years?"

Well, there is only one way to find out. You will never know if you don't take the chance.

I know I have hurt several people along the way when it comes to relationships that ended because I did not want to commit, to have faith. I am now with an amazing girl that for some reason when she says she loves me and wants to be with me it removes all worry. I am not going to let this one go, especially out of fear of being hurt.

"Saggi and Librans have great attractions. IMO." Linda says its one sure bet. I used to think and say its more platonic a while ago but slowly my ideas are getting similar to those of linda. It sure is a relationship which can go all the way....