Gift and a Curse

You know. I am Libra, but I do not see what the big deal is that everyone is so crazy about. For me, I am one of the loneliest people I know. I am so misunderstood, but liked at the same time. However, I notice that those who like me are ppl I do not really like because they have some of the most screwed up outlooks on life or some other unsavory traits that I abhor. I have a hard time understanding my emotions about things, given enough time..they change. I cant blame others for being tired of that shit. But, to me..it seems to be what draws others, but I just want to be left alone by these superficial fuxs. I often feel like Adam Lambert, "What do you want from me?"

Libra Sun /Sagittarius Moon
The combination of the Sun and the Moon in your chart forms a nature that is aspiring and expansive. You are highly adventurous and apt to move about and seek a variety of experiences. You are open and accepting of others, and to you, people are people. No one is more openhearted and unbiased than you. You have a positive spirit and the feeling that your ideals are workable, and you hold to them until they are absolutely proved not to be. This extends to very much to people as you believe that everyone is essentially good, that good will triumph over evil, that dogs can live with cats, and so on. You expect happy endings as you're an incurable optimist. You are outgoing and eager to meet people, but often you give them the sense that you haven't much time for them. There is little that is stable or secure about you, and you seem so much on the go that roots are never sunk deeply in anyone or even in any social issue. You achieve success through charm and positive efforts, but being abstract in your thinking, you become visionary and impractical in business and personal affairs. http://www.astrology-numerology.com/sun-moon7.html#Sagittarius *****This isn't so uplifting of my spirits*****

Is that why you may sometimes ask for space then? Do you do that?

Posted by NikkiMse1978
Is that why you may sometimes ask for space then? Do you do that?

Yes, I am relentless about my space. I do not need my mate/friend/family around me for long periods of time. I find somewhere for them to go and something for them to do, but they feel guilty as if they think I am not telling the truth.

Posted by DeadRingerr
You're Moon and Sun are loners...self motivators, thats why everyone comes to you for answers.

But I dont want to answer those questions. Hell, I dont even care to listen to most of the things they have to say. Yes, I am a loner..but I do crave ONE other person's company from time to time. I know, I sound crazy..and that is how I feel here these days.

I am also reading about how Libra women are so passionate and then again I read how they are not. TBH, I feel out of sorts in the arts of love. I guess it is not something that I have placed a lot of emphasis on. Again, to me. This is one of those curses. I do not like to have sex just because...it is not a sport where I need to keep score (we have sex 3 times per week). I am not acrobatic nor in need of performing like a porn star. So disappointed after reading some of these descriptions of Libra characteristics.

Hi MzDiana,

I am a Sun Pisces, Libra Rising, with a Leo Moon - God Bless My Heart LOL so I am not going to say I understand what it is like but I will speak honestly.

For me sometimes I hear people say things about Pisces and I am just like that is not me or I do not see it. But in terms of astrology you have to look at more than just your Sun sign traits. You have to look at your whole astrological profile and perhaps it will shed some light on why you may feel the way you do. For instance as a Pisces people say we are emotional and social etc but I am very quiet externally and shy but I can talk and communicate really well and perhaps people like that and I can see why they say I am social but I am quite the introvert. Even a bit of a loner and I realized that perhaps that is my Libra that air in me. And my temper is fiery at times or cool the others. Sometimes I feel all of the place and I need to come back to earth or get centered and one of my best friends who is an earth sign can help me do that. When I look at it from that POV its not so confusing. With AIR, FIRE and WATER all I need is some earth.

My Leeb is the same way sometimes he just wants people to shut the fuck up. He doesn't want to hear people whine and complain to him. He has his own mess. And he doesn't have a lot of friends. I am his ONE in many ways and interesting enough he is mine. And when we get on each other's nerves we both need space. And we take it and then we are right back to being on track.

Who you are externally may present one dimension but that is just one. You have many others and those others are you are not a sexual person. Nothing wrong with that. You may come across as easy to talk to because you talk to people and you avoid confrontation so instead of giving them a piss off its how can I help you today and people say you know Ms. Diana is so kind because she took the time to answer or talk to me. A lot of people go off what you do externally not internally so this may be the conflict. But like I said I no expert but I hope it makes you feel a bit better.

Posted by MzDiana

Posted by NikkiMse1978
Is that why you may sometimes ask for space then? Do you do that?

Yes, I am relentless about my space. I do not need my mate/friend/family around me for long periods of time. I find somewhere for them to go and something for them to do, but they feel guilty as if they think I am not telling the truth.

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its probably your saggi moon because im so with you on this. i'm Leo Sun/Saggi Moon and can go loooooooong periods without being around friends and family but still love them the same. i love space so much it makes me feel bad that push ppl away that try to smother me. i try to act different in a relationship tho. just need someone that can understand the space thing which i find with air signs and other fire signs.