Help Please I'm Confused By Libra Man ?

I posted about a week ago https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/libra/how-to-attract-a-libra-guy-please-help-2097336/ how I met my libra guy, now I'm just really lost.

I've seen him around at parties for the past couple of months but never really talked to him. Recently we exchanged numbers and began talking. The first time we hung out we went to a pool party together and ended up kissing the pool all night and talking. He's 20 years old and he told me that he hasn't had a girlfriend since he was 16, I asked him why and he said he really doesn't like the feeling of being rejected and that she had broken up with him for no reason. That was a great night. Then the second night he had a party at his house that I came to. We talked a bit off and on and then we ended up kissing a bit before I left to go home. That was also a good night. Then the third night in a row he invited me and my friends over to watch movies n hang out to drink. I ended up spending the night and we were talking and laying in his bed playing music and kissing the whole time, that went on for hours, and then the next morning he took me home and gave me a kiss goodbye. So I saw for 3 days in a row. Then the next day we just texted off and on, he asked me to see again so we ended up going to the wave pool wed and had another good night of kissing and talking. Then thursday night I think things got a bit odd. That night my friend came from out of town and I took her over my one friends so we all drink. I ended up pre gaming in the car before we got there since I didnt have to drive so I was pretty drunk. When we got there the libra guy I liked was there and I went up to him and gave him and his friends a hug. As the night went on nobody ended up drinking, everybody was just hanging out and I was the only drunk one so I was of course acting like a typical drunk person. He was looking at me smiling and laughing kinda but we really didnt talk much that whole night which was kinda odd. When me and my friend left I gave him a hug goodbye and went home. I was kinda upset cause I wanted to kiss him good night but I got over it. Right before I went to sleep I sent him a text saying "Im sad I didn't get to kiss you tonight". The next morning on friday all he said in response was "awww". I didn't know what to think of that so I changed the subject and asked him how was work. Then he asked me through text what I was doing that night and I said nothing just trying to find something to do.

I didn't want to ask him right out to hang out so I wanted to kinda leave it up in the air for him to ask me. He didn't ask to hang out right after that text so I told him that there was a pool party that night and I was going and that he should come cause I wanted to see him. He said he didn't know what he was doing but he thinks he just going to chill out for the night, mind you it took him about an hr to respond to what I asked. Then I said there was a party up his street he might check out but he wasn't sure. Then I said "well if you want to come and change your mind let me know" and then i never got a text back. That stopped at like 7pm. Now Im just really shocked cause it seemed like yesterday he didnt want to hang out. I don't know how to take that cause he responding to much. Idk if he thought how I acted thursday night being the only drunk one was weird or not. But i really really like him alot. We haven't talked about our feelings for each other but we sure do act like were both into each other alot. I don't want to scare him away by keep texting him or not. I don't know what to do. Tonights saturday and Id really like to seem him bad but I dont want to ask him to hang out and he just doesn't respond or says hes going be out somewhere but doesn't ask if I want to come along. I dont want him to feel like im rushing things. Heck I dont even know if he wants a gf right now cause he never said. But he acts like he likes me alot so Idk wat to think. I was thinking about waiting untill 5 or 6 pm to see if he sends me a text message and if he doesnt then me text him and see what hes up to tonight. But Idk. What should I do. Should I just not text him and see what he does. Im scared to mess things up.

Oh and hes a libra sun scorpio moon

Maybe he was, but Im not sure. I really do like him alot and I dont want that one time to mess things up !

Idk he seems like a pretty laid back person. I just dont want to keep texting him cause I feel like that will push him away. I really do want to see him tonight so hopefully he will text me back.

goodluck and what the other say is right , bad impression can lead us libra's male somewhere else.

Well the thing is, I didn't plan on being drunk. The whole plan was for everybody to drink n have a good time. I pre gamed at my house because I didn't have to drive. When we got there not many people showed up so most of the people there didn't feel like drinking. There was two other people drinking but I was the only one who was really drunk. The libra guy I liked didn't drink at all, neither did his friends that he came with. Libra guy drinks on same amount as I do so me being drunk didn't make me feel at the time like there was anything wrong. I was just laughing a lot and random things and acting silly with my friend talking. We were around a few people so it would have been weird if we were all over each other. He's really a well rounded cool guy. But its hard for me to know wats going on in his head because he doesn't express his feelings. I have to ask him what he's feeling. But the past few days before that happend me and him were hanging out and he wouldn't let go of my hand or stop kissing me and he kept making it a point to say that we need to chill again. He's seen me drunk and sober both times, so its hard for me to believe this one time I was drunk acting silly is something that can completely flip his mind. Then again he said he hasn't had a serious gf since he was 16 and I was the first person he's kissed in like 5 months, so to me that made me feel special. I just don't get why he didn't seem to excited to hang out with me yesterday. I clearly made it clear though texts that I was trying to do something with him but he kept kinda just acting reall chill about it, like he wanted to hang but at the same time he just wanted to chill n not go out that night. So idk. I'm a cancer and I don't want to look like a fool liking this guy if he's unsure about me or if he's scared to be more forwarded. This whole time I been kinda forwarded with him cause I feel like he's really shy. But when its just me n him I feel like he's so happy and his eyes get all big and he can't stop smiling at me. Tonight is Saturday and I want to hang out with him. But idk if should text him or wait for him to text me. He typically always texts but yesterday like I said he didn't have much to say, so idk wat to do about today.

And its not like this is the very first time we hung out. He's seen around before many of times but we only recently got each others numbers n started talking 2 weeks ago. I've hung out with him when I was sober and when I was drinking so he knows what I'm like at both times. Its not like Thursday nite was the first nite we hung out. More like the 4th day n a row. Idk I'm starting to think that maybe because he hasn't had a gf in so long and he knows I kinda like him from me always wanting to hang out that maybe he's scared to mess things up with me or doesn't want to move to fast. Or maybe because he hasn't had a gf when since he was 16 he doesn't know how to handle when someone likes him. Idk. I'm a cancer but I'm not a clingy person. I will give a man his space if he needs it. I'm emotional but I only show it when it needs to be showed and I'm very good at hiding my true feelings even if something is really upsetting me I put on a happy face. So I am true to a cancer but I'm not the type of girl who blow your stuff up. I leave people alone and give them space. I just have a have a hard time reading him. its so early tho I don't want to push him away asking him if he likes me or would want to be in relationship.

Leave it for a few days. If you haven't heard by Wednesday, he probably isn't interested.

I think it is a bit much too soon especially if he doesn't want a gf. Chances are you didn't do anything weird while you were drunk, just every day you want to get together or appear. Give space. Like a fine red wine, love needs breathing room to go really smooth.

Also space gives a tiny bit of mystery and makes him worry just a tiny bit.

Well he texted me today and asked me what did I end up doing last night. I texted back and its been over an hour that he hasn't responded. Idk if he's busy or what. The long replys just really scare me. Like I said he's hard to read.

Well I don't know what to do at this point. Saturday he texted me and asked what I was up to, and texted off an on. Then he said he was going to some party but it was like 40 mins away. I was going to go but my friends didnt want to drive that far, then he said I have a extra seat in my car, so I took that as a invite to go. But then I didnt want to ditch my friends so I told him I wasnt going to go he said okay. Then I texted him yesterday and asked how it was and he said it was pretty cool. Then we both went on talking about how we were bored and there was nothing to do. I asked if if he wanted to come over my friends house and hang out, he asked me where she lived, i gave the address and told if he decides to come we will be there and then he never texted back. I don't know what to think of it. Its driving me crazy cause I really do want to hang out and see him but at the same time I kept asking him to hang out and it seems like its about to happen but then he just wont text back. Idk if I should tell him that I feel like he doesnt want to hang out with me or what ? Or if I should just wait till I see him ( whenever that is ) and tell him. My friend is having a party this saturday and I want him to come. Should I bring it up to him now or wait till later on in the week. I know it seems like Im just trying to party with him but that would be weird right now I think if I were to just ask him to go to a dinner or a movie. What should I do ? Are libras normally like this ?

Oh yeah, we're definitely like that. If we don't give you an answer, it's 'cuz we're either weighing our options, trying to find the most subtle/least disappointing way of saying "no", or we want you to chase chase chase. I know that's hard to read but what helps to know is....

you ask him if he wants to meet up -> he's playing 20 Qs w/ you = weighing his options.....
give him a call so he answers -> cuts his thinking time in half so he'll have to come up w/ a decision quickly w/out seeming like you're rushing him

Just don't trip on him if he doesn't answer you back right away though. I'd give him 10 min at the least & if he didn't tell you he's in the middle of something, give him a call. That & spit compliments to him, we're suckers for flattery & detail.

LOL, I hope you don't mind but I'm gonna sit back & watch this unfold. I wonder if this'll turn out similar to my last relationship (5 & half years w/ a Cancer).

Posted by UrsaMediocre
Oh yeah, we're definitely like that. If we don't give you an answer, it's 'cuz we're either weighing our options, trying to find the most subtle/least disappointing way of saying "no", or we want you to chase chase chase. I know that's hard to read but what helps to know is....

you ask him if he wants to meet up -> he's playing 20 Qs w/ you = weighing his options.....
give him a call so he answers -> cuts his thinking time in half so he'll have to come up w/ a decision quickly w/out seeming like you're rushing him

Just don't trip on him if he doesn't answer you back right away though. I'd give him 10 min at the least & if he didn't tell you he's in the middle of something, give him a call. That & spit compliments to him, we're suckers for flattery & detail.

LOL, I hope you don't mind but I'm gonna sit back & watch this unfold. I wonder if this'll turn out similar to my last relationship (5 & half years w/ a Cancer).

Yesterday night my friends and I were going to go swim so I figured that I would go head and invite him out one last time. To my shock he said yeah he would come. I got really excited and figured that maybe that night I would have a chance to talk to him about some things that have been bothering me, but when I thought about it I didn't want to scare him off and mess up the night so I told myself I wasn't going to bring up anything. Now mind you it was my idea for all of us to go swim so I invited him along with all my other friends. When we got to my friends house my friends showed up but the girl I came with nobody liked her so it really weird cause everybody was split into their own group. I was waiting for my libra guy to come with his friends and he didnt get there till like 11:30 and we were already there since 9, by that time my friends all wanted to leave cause some friends didnt like other friends, and I had to leave as well cause they were my ride. I was really upset cause I wanted to hang out with him, but I just said goodbye and him and his friends and one of my friends stayed behind. When I got home I called my friend who had stayed and she told that one of his friends was saying how they arent coming out to anything I plan anymore cause its lame and people never show up and she told me that he and my libra guy I liked plus a few other people were just laughing. I felt bad because I did invite all them out but it

wasn't my fault that my friends couldnt be mature and get a long. I asked her if my libra guy I liked said anything bad about me, she said he didnt say anything about me at all that he was just laughing whenever they were talking about the stuff I plan. So I texted him saying sorry about having him and his come out and me leaving but I had to cause my friends just couldnt get along and wanted to go and they were my ride. I dont even know if hes going to text back or if hes even going to care and if he does text back I dont even know what to say or I should even try to invite him out again. I feel like a joke if they were laughing. I dont even know what do at this point, I dont even know if I should keep trying or just give up on it 😢

yea give space. Im a libra and if hes like me texting nonstop wont get u newhere but being a booty call. Give him space.

I'd say don't give up, just give him a little more space, I'd say about a week or week & a half before you talk to him again. If there's anything I can say about two of my best friends (both Cancers, one being my ex-gf), it's that I get annoyed when I hang out w/ either of them 2 days in a row. They're like alcohol: fun times in small doses, next-day regret in large doses. LOL, I don't mean to talk sh*t but yeah anyways.....try not to trip if he doesn't hit you back up the same day, please try to be patient, and give him time & space. We're air, we need to breathe.

Yeah I think Im just going to give it up for now, I mean I was kinda upset about it but hey if someone doesn't want to talk to me for whatever reason then thats on them. Hes letting it go so its whatever now. I normally get upset when things go weird with anybody in my life that im cool with or like but in a couple days i get over it. im done texting him and im done trying. if he wants to talk he can text me, thats the only way i will respond. i said and made my peace. im going out with my friends over the weekend so im looking forward to having fun without any drama 🙂

Posted by radar10
Yeah I think Im just going to give it up for now, I mean I was kinda upset about it but hey if someone doesn't want to talk to me for whatever reason then thats on them. Hes letting it go so its whatever now. I normally get upset when things go weird with anybody in my life that im cool with or like but in a couple days i get over it. im done texting him and im done trying. if he wants to talk he can text me, thats the only way i will respond. i said and made my peace. im going out with my friends over the weekend so im looking forward to having fun without any drama 🙂

Good move. Leave him be for a week & see what happens. If he doesn't say anything in like a week & a half, I'd just drop it & move on. He just might hit you up after that but I wouldn't sweat it nor hold my breath either. It's funny 'cuz on Friday the 20th, Mars aligns w/ Venus in Libra & we're supposed to be ridiculously attractive to everyone so I hope your weekend turns out as good as ours is supposed to be.

BTW, you kinda look like Vanessa Hudgens....if she OD'd on beautiful pills 😉