Help me understand this libra male...

I'm a capricorn to start off, and I dated a libra male last year for about 3 months. The first few weeks of our relationship were wonderful, but afterwards it was constant fighting, so we broke up on no-so-good terms. I moved three hours away and moved on with my life. Through out the time away from this libra, he has emailed me about 4 times. I replied with short answers the first three times, and finally he emailed me about a month ago and asked to get together. I decided to try the whole "lets be friends bit" knowing that we probably wouldn't be able to. I drove back to my homewtown to visit him and the first day was really nice.
Feelings were starting to creep back slowly. He told me before I left that night, that he had feelings for me and talked about how much he missed me ect. The next day we hung out again, and talked a lot more about the past, future,ect. He started cuddling with me and holding my hand, and then started talking about being with other girls, and how im just comfortable! I immediately felt disrespected, like he was playing some sort of game. I started getting pissed and then he continued to remind me that we weren't together and that if we were to get back together that it wouldn't be until I moved back home, and that he wasn't willing to wait for me anyways. I felt really hurt, and wanted to leave so then he gets on top of me so I cant move, and kisses me! Talk about confliction :/.
Then he asks me whats wrong..I guess its not obvious yet?!! Uhgg. So I said that the situation is hard for me and I needed to think. he replied "fine have fun with that, this will never happen again". I got up and went for my car, he gave me a hug and apologized for kissing me..I left and was a total mess emotionally for the next few days. I went back home and after much needed talk with friends decided we would just remain friends, and that I will never be someones plan B.
So after this happens we were still on "friendly" terms and so on..I had been back in my town for a week and I met this AMAZING taurus. We hit it off from the start, and are now together officially. The libra text me asking if I was in a relationship,so I said yes. Then he text me asking " I thought you had feelings for me?" I replied saying I did, but I realized you weren't willing to wait for me so why should I have waited for you? The he says —good for you dude?? deletes me off of facebook, and won't respond to any texts I send him.

Let me just get this out.. HE TOLD ME TO FIND SOMEONE ELSE.

He seriously told me to go find a fucking virgo that would suit me better, and that he would find a cute little air sign..as he was holding my hand, no joke. What is his deal!! He doesn't want to be friends anymore cause I moved on and decided not to be pathetic and get my heart broken once HE found someone else? Help me understand fellow Libras!!! You men are confusing!!!

I think when he said that when he was with other girls and that your the one that makes him feel comfortable I think he was trying to say that you're the best out of all of them... Correct me if I'm wrong... I know fersure he's jealous that you started going out with a Taurus after the fact that he said " dude good for you" cause I swear I said something like that before to one of my ex's cause she pissed me off. I think you took it very seriously when he said just find someone else.. Basically he's just trying to see if you're loyal enough to stay with him even though he's telling u not to imo. It's a really mind screwinggame but iv e learned that most Capricorn women take everything literally like that. One of my best girl friend is a cap and it's because I talk to her about emotional things and I am always serious down to earth with her.. Also thefact that I have a cappy moon. I kinda think that you both just have a thing on misunderstandings... You interpret one thing but he thinks another.. Best to stay with the taurus guy.. Unless u like playing mind games forever..

When he said I was comfortable, he said " I'm waiting for perfection, but for now your comfortable". And YES I take everything word for word. Most of our fights were because of how differently we communicate. He expected me to know everything, and I just wanted him to say what he meant! I hate mind games, and I know he loves testing people but I refuse to ever play his little games, and he knew that. I understand where you are coming from for sure though. I never want to be away from my taurus now that I found him lol. I just can't understand this Libra's reasoning...if there even is one...

It's nice to know I wasn't the only one either! Lol. Everything you said...EXACTLY. He'll say something that can mean 100 different things and expect me to know what it was. Maybe this is the capricorn in me or something, but I have my own fucking thoughts and problems to deal with I'm not willing to be your psycic when you can just TELL me!! I can't tell you how many times I've heard " You should know when to leave me alone, and when to give me attention" or " I'm allowed to do this and this because its me, but you can't" . UHGG lol.

U are all VERY correct on this matter...libran men are charmers n play a lot of games just for the sake of love..they are the most indecisive ppl on the planet

My former comment did not appear after all of my effort in responding. In essence, my advice is to read more of the Libra forum, see the familiar pattern with these guys and DONT mess up your new relationship with Mr Taurus. Libra men tend to mess with many poor women.... You have prob had a lucky escape from this undecided idiot. Keep it moving and dont look back young lady.

Im a cap and a libra broke my heart 5 years ago and it took 3 yrs to get rid of him and 2 different phone numbers! I swear they have nine lives...they keep coming back. I think they will always be jealous of who you are currently with until you let them go completely. My x libra still tries to talk to my friends about me, but this time he wasn't able to win me back 😄 I say run and run fast!

Hell yes..lol..run fast n never look back..being with a libra male is like winning the lotto..to find out when u go to redeem ur money..tht the lotto ppl decide they don't wanna give u the money no more..they changed their minds n kept the money!!

I've never met someone who was so charming and slick with tha tongue..(libra men) but at the same time has no confidence n themselves..they appear to be arrogant ..but for what purpose..espc. When they thrive off of u complimenting them all the time for assurance for themselves..they are not fair,not trustworthy, and more indecissive than a baby at a candy store..I have a 8 yr old son by a libra man and now I am 7 mnths pregnant by a libra man..in I've done all that I can to make it work...NOTHING is ever good enough ...I am a capricorn , so we have patience but we are not fools..so I give up..waisted time is so frivilous to me..im putting his ass on child support..n he can go find a lil girl to play with..since he can't seem to grow up..ladies imagine this...he's a libra,he is 29,he has a great job, $ 175,000 house, 3 new cars,and he's an alcoholic..lol..so believe me..I catch hell..ladies look up the word (alpha male syndrome)..most libra men have this..which makes the situation even worst..best thng for u to do is play the game with them..because if for 1 min u let ur guard down..they will run straight the hell over u..be a friend and nothn more..or u WILL end up hurt..but I got a trick for this guy..us capricorns can be very creative when we feel like we've been played...lol..stay tuned ladies..lol

Lol...o please "sagiluv" I've done all those things and some..I have 11 yrs exp. with all sorts of libra men..u know, I guess its all about wht ur lookn 4 in a man..if ur the type of person tht likes to play games and cheatn is smthn that comes natural 4 u..then a libra man would look good in ur eyes..u would both be a great match..and u would probably beleieve everythng u just mentioned "sagiluv" but if u take ur time very seriously and only prefer to deal with 1 person and 1 person only..we tend to have problems with guys that are willing to play mind games ...im not sayn u are this type of person "sagiluv", but I find it hard to believe that someone could give those type of compliments to a sign which is the absolute total opposite of..a libra man is a total illusion .."to good to be true " always n the beginning..but once they see.. they've accomplished wht they were setting out to do ..the desire fades a way..and thts when they decide to play the field(cheat) to make sure they havnt lost their touch...and honey, takn charge is wht us capricorns or known best for.. We are boss chicks..but we also knw when to fall back....A wise man once said,"u can lead a horse to the water,but u can't make him drink it.."lol ..like I said..libras can be good friends, but if ur a bold enough female to take a chance in a relationship with them like I did . Good luck!!

Posted by valeria25
LOL Awwww sorry 🙂 You're right! ALL guys from every sign will be "up" to it. 😛

I can't imagine his dick to be "indecisive" LOL

HHHHHHHHHHHHHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!!!! lol thi shit was too funny lol

Yea I guess "sagiluv" ..lol.. I dnt knw how old u are..but im 30..I dnt allow guys to be lil boys..I turn boyz into men..and THEN I bring the best out of them..lol..I guess that's why librans n I dnt get along..cause I won't allow them to be boys...I need a man in my life..I already have a lil boy...but anyway whatever works 4 u..but thanks for the compliments n the convo..have a good 1..signing off..the realist chik alive!!! Love me or hate me..All I can be is me!!

Beacause mistakes happen..no one is perfect...and im not a murderer...so im not gonna kill my child just because I thought this dude was 4 me n turned out to be a bad dude.. So thnk what u want "wtf" ur not me..and anyways a blessing came out of both situations..I have a handsome smart n healthy 8yr old son..and now im pregnant with a beautiful lil girl..so I got my 2 kids I always wanted..1 boy and 1 girl...so im not sick..im aware of life n everything it has to offers..so watch ur mouth "wtf"

Lol..and for ur info.."wtf"..I don't literally try to change anyone..they always end up changing themselves..I INFLUENCE them to be more responsible for their actions..besides sometime change is better in certain situations..u should learn how to read in between the lines if ur gonna stick ur nose in my business.."wtf"... lol...and u got the nerve to call me sick..lol

well, sadly, this is nothing new on dxp about libras getting bashed about how horrible we are in relationships and what not, but i learned here to not take astrology so personal cuz somtimes you can feel attacked on here if you a libra man but gotta realize that its just general statments but genralizing and prejudice has thin lines between them

the alpha male syndrome is nice tho, never heard of that so i googled it cuz i had an idea and to put it bluntly this is what i found

"psychological ailment when a guy always has to push or boss others around, start fights, talk shit, make himself the center of attention, assume responsibility for anyone else's triumph while also pushing the blame for his fuck-ups onto others."

no shit word for rord lol found that

never thought of myself to be that but again i see this is based of genral statements from personal experience

hate you went through that i will say when libras are cold, we are cold and dont really give a shit the mind games become a way to pass time, but instead of drawing comparisons to myself i will keep it general

astrologically speaking libras are different based on charts blah blah blah but no one on here takes astrology *that serious*

never had an issue with capps, my pops is one tho i know caps can be discerning and very very cold cuz i have experienced it my self, not just on a family level

all i can tell you is he detached cuz you had a boyfriend, now he is just doing shit just b/c, only way i can put it

but capricorns can be hateful creaures too, and i mean down right mean but this isnt about capps, its about how libras are fucc ups in relationships right?

"Wtf" my money is already good..ur such a dumbass..I dnt need his money..I make more money than him..I was trying to make a point..once again learn how to read in between lines..lol..some ppl are so funny to me...ridiculous...hahahahahahahahaha

I can dig it "pride of october"..we can be mean when we want to..but thts only cause we have no tolerance for stupid shit, like the "wtf" person on here...I have exp. With libras from all directions ..not just in relationships..my lil brother is 25..he is also a libra..but I do thnk yall are good ppl..we just don't click n relationships..

So "pride of october" let me ask u a question as a libra man..why is it that yall haft to please everybdy..why can't yall just focus on the person ur with..and arr u also easily influenced? Or are u more of a leader than a follower?

well me, i dont feel the need to please ppl, i like to be honest cuz i expect and respect honesty, but its not to be pleasing some of us do it cuz we know the truth may hurt someone, im not like that and again not all libras are like that

i have no problem stepping up and leading but i am more of a loner, i will hang out with ppl but i enjoy me time more than anything

im not easily influenced one bit,and thats b/c i like to be to myself and independent from ppl, i dont make a move until i know its best, we can focus on one person, but our thinking can be universal, a libra needs to be always moving and some just hop in relationships impulsivly and thats when ppl get hell from us

I have stepped and and been a leader in certain situations but i prefer to work on my own cuz i feel like co op will slow down my pace or disrupt whatever routine i have set for myself,

i have made mistakes but not from influence, i do believe you can adapt unhealthy ways being around people with no goals and no morals, i need goals cuz life is worthless without pushing for something

but thats me,

but it also took maturity, and also my saturn touches my sun and mars natally, focus isnt too much my issue i can focus on one person, my venus is in scorpio and i have gotten rocked in the past from focusing on just one person, even if it was a little affair. I dont believe in cheating either, i will just be single if imma do all that

I cna dig it "pride of oct"..I guess im always gettn trapped up n the famous libra charm..im learning how to fall back n not take thngs so seriously..but the thng is I dnt like to share..I want tht shit all to myself..lol..n yall claim yall lookn 4 a partner ,but when u got 1 u dnt knw wht to do with it..its tooo much pressure right?!..see at the end of the day I knw im a good chik..so it frustrates me when they let the pass interfere with wht could be the future..im pretty stubborn like u said b4 about us caps..so I just be hoping tht they come to their senses b4 im done trying...I feel like they deserve me because ..personally I thnk with the right actions..a libra and a cap..can balance each other out..I dnt mean to offend u "pride of oct" or any other libra male on here..im just expressing my experiences tht I had..like u said maybe its a maturity value tht they are slackn..I dnt knw ..its all confusing to the point it pisses me off...plus im pregnant...lol

Sheesh..if yall don't like wht I gotta say..u do realize u don't haft to say anything...lol..daammn...im a very blount person..so im gonna say what I want 2..when I want 2...regardless of wht I decide to do..im lookn for constructive criticism...I dnt need yall to dictate to me wht I need to do..ill do as I plz..n learn from my own mistakes...im in here chattn to see if there is anyone thts been thru the same thng as I have or can offer positive advice..if u havnt had problems ..good 4 u..but plz keep ur smart ass comments to urslef..thnx haters..anyone else with positive info..feel free to message me..lol..get a life haterz

Sheesh..yall do realize u dnt haft to reply if u have a problem with wht im sayn..im on here to speak wth ppl who's been thru the same thng..or maybe a lil positive feedback from libra men...I don't need for any of u to dictate shit to me..at the end of the day I do wht I plz..and I try to learn from my mistakes..if u have positive feed back feel free to message im all for it..if u got anythng negative to say about how I feel about thngs..o well.. All I can do is be me..if u had great relationships with libra men good 4 u..lol..im not knockn u..do u..im on here once again for those who have been thru the same struggle I have..so haterz..plz keep it moving....sheesh!!!

Well, amethyst just said what I was going to.

The CHOICES one makes (and keeps making) is what leads them where they end up going.
And it's got nothing to do with Astrology.
If you keep attracting and picking and settling with triflin' men who treat you as triflin' men do...
you'll get burned, whether he's a Libra, a Virgo, a Scorp, a Cappie, or a little green alien.

Personally, I find Libra men to be both amazing and infuriating. They've got good and bad, like everyone does.
Even the ones that it didn't work out with 🙂

Hahahaha..its funny when u speak highly of urself ppl get offended..yall really do need to stop hatn..im not on here to make friends so I can say wht I want..I've heard ppl say much worst thngs about libras on here then wht I've said..we all have our own opinions so like I said b4 ..if u dnt like it O WELL.. As far as talkn to a 13 yr.old I dnt knw wht ur talkn about...n still really dnt care...I speak when spoken to ,and thts all I knw..and to u "amethyst2002"..I dnt expect 4 us to agree on everythng..we are not the same n haven't dealt with the same ppl..lol..call it how u read it.. whatever..but u or no one else on here has ever walkd n my shoes..so dnt judge me..once again im speakn about the libras I've dealt with..I knw im a good person n I have my shit 2gether..I never claim to be perfect..it seems yall r gettn more n more offended everytime I speak highly of myself..lol..this isn't about me retards..its a forum about understanding libras better...I dnt need u to school me on shit...damn I guess this forum should have my name on it..lol..but if its anybody real n cool out there besides"pride of october" n sum more ppl I've chatted with on here..feel free to message me..lets talk....all yall haterz should probably keep it movn..lol...like I said b4..libras..im not on here to be rude..just would like sum positive feed back from u guys...due to my bad experiences I've had with a few b4...thanx

Hahahaha..its funny when u speak highly of urself ppl get offended..yall really do need to stop hatn..im not on here to make friends so I can say wht I want..I've heard ppl say much worst thngs about libras on here then wht I've said..we all have our own opinions so like I said b4 ..if u dnt like it O WELL.. As far as talkn to a 13 yr.old I dnt knw wht ur talkn about...n still really dnt care...I speak when spoken to ,and thts all I knw..and to u "amethyst2002"..I dnt expect 4 us to agree on everythng..we are not the same n haven't dealt with the same ppl..lol..call it how u read it.. whatever..but u or no one else on here has ever walkd n my shoes..so dnt judge me..once again im speakn about the libras I've dealt with..I knw im a good person n I have my shit 2gether..I never claim to be perfect..it seems yall r gettn more n more offended everytime I speak highly of myself..lol..this isn't about me retards..its a forum about understanding libras better...I dnt need u to school me on shit...damn I guess this forum should have my name on it..lol..but if its anybody real n cool out there besides"pride of october" n sum more ppl I've chatted with on here..feel free to message me..lets talk....all yall haterz should probably keep it movn..lol..no offense to u libras on here...just speakn thru my own experiences.... ur right "nefer girl" I hear ya..but it seems libras are the ones I keep falln 4..

Hahahaha..its funny when u speak highly of urself ppl get offended..yall really do need to stop hatn..im not on here to make friends so I can say wht I want..I've heard ppl say much worst thngs about libras on here then wht I've said..we all have our own opinions so like I said b4 ..if u dnt like it O WELL.. As far as talkn to a 13 yr.old I dnt knw wht ur talkn about...n still really dnt care...I speak when spoken to ,and thts all I knw..and to u "amethyst2002"..I dnt expect 4 us to agree on everythng..we are not the same n haven't dealt with the same ppl..lol..call it how u read it.. whatever..but u or no one else on here has ever walkd n my shoes..so dnt judge me..once again im speakn about the libras I've dealt with..I knw im a good person n I have my shit 2gether..I never claim to be perfect..it seems yall r gettn more n more offended everytime I speak highly of myself..lol..this isn't about me retards..its a forum about understanding libras better...I dnt need u to school me on shit...damn I guess this forum should have my name on it..lol..but if its anybody real n cool out there besides"pride of october" n sum more ppl I've chatted with on here..feel free to message me..lets talk....all yall haterz should probably keep it movn..lol... n I feel u "nefer"..I guess I just keep falln for libras

Hahahaha..its funny when u speak highly of urself ppl get offended..yall really do need to stop hatn..im not on here to make friends so I can say wht I want..I've heard ppl say much worst thngs about libras on here then wht I've said..we all have our own opinions so like I said b4 ..if u dnt like it O WELL.. As far as talkn to a 13 yr.old I dnt knw wht ur talkn about...n still really dnt care...I speak when spoken to ,and thts all I knw..and to u "amethyst2002"..I dnt expect 4 us to agree on everythng..we are not the same n haven't dealt with the same ppl..lol..call it how u read it.. whatever..but u or no one else on here has ever walkd n my shoes..so dnt judge me..once again im speakn about the libras I've dealt with..I knw im a good person n I have my shit 2gether..I never claim to be perfect..it seems yall r gettn more n more offended everytime I speak highly of myself..lol..this isn't about me retards..its a forum about understanding libras better...I dnt need u to school me on shit...damn I guess this forum should have my name on it..lol..but if its anybody real n cool out there besides"pride of october" n sum more ppl I've chatted with on here..feel free to message me..lets talk....all yall haterz should probably keep it movn..lol..and I feel u "nefer"

It's that infamous Libra Charm... wooooEEEE! It'll sneak up on you and knock you silly before you even know what hit you. THEN they go through this period of weighing and balancing and deciding if you're The One they can see themselves spending their life with. And all the while, they're so sweet and loving, and ACTING like you already ARE The One... even though they're actually still deciding, and may eventually leave. "Indecisive" is commonly said about Libras.... I prefer to think that they are weighing things so carefully, wanting to do the right thing (for everyone involved, not just themselves!), that it takes them a long time sometimes to reach a solid decision. And most Libras I know do not make decisions lightly.. because they rarely if ever change their mind, once it's made up. But on the other hand, they MAY eventually try again with an ex... if they aren't 100% positive that it was the right decision to end it, or if THEY were the one dumped and therefore aren't 100% positive that it wouldn't work out. Very sentimental, Libras.. and prefer to remember the good and not the bad.

They're like these Bad Boys, looking for love... then what they find is NOT love, and they move on, still seeking. They get a reputation as playboys and users. But really, they're just looking for The One. At least, the ones over about age 30. before then, Libra boys have more of the BAD Libra traits and less of the GOOD ones. They just need time to mature, like fine wine. Most of us just don't have the patience to wait for that. Or we aren't crazy enough to try. The ones that ARE patient (and crazy) can find amazing rewards with a Libra. If they don't mind the loss of sanity that goes along with it 😉

Hahahahaha..how about all of u haterz go kill urselves..so now ur mad at me for speakn highly of myself..I can't help it...im the shit..n yea I made mistakes..but its a stack of dudes beatn down my door to egt with me u lonely females...gettn a man a keepn a man isn't a problem for me...only wth libras smartasses...im 2 fly to be single..lol..n u knw wht..b4 its all over..they will be beggn me to cum back to them 2..because im that bytch everyone wnts to be with

Hahahahaha..how about all of u haterz go kill urselves..so now ur mad at me for speakn highly of myself..I can't help it...im the shit..n yea I made mistakes..but its a stack of dudes beatn down my door to egt with me u lonely females...gettn a man a keepn a man isn't a problem for me...only wth libras smartasses...im 2 fly to be single..lol..n u knw wht..b4 its all over..they will be beggn me to cum back to them 2..because im that bytch everyone wnts to be with

I agree completely "nefer"

Woooow "nefer" tht is absolutely well spoken...I feel the same way..but ther were other personal issues tht were involved to make me speak the way I speak about libras..so I couldn't have put it any better words than tht..im gald someone can relate without judging me in the process...and u know as I said b4..I personally thnk they are better friends then lovers..atleast there is no confusion ..but thnx for ur honesty "nefer"

Look wht we have here"taste ofchaos" my personal little fan on the chat forum...why r u so concerned about me n the way I feel about myself..this is about helpn me understan libras..not girls on girls forum...lol..im sorry chick..I dnt do girls..u act as if u want me or something..so tell me since I have ur undivided attention...are u gay..oh..no I get it..u must be a libra female..lol..lets hear it "ms.tasteofasses"

Look wht we have here"taste ofchaos" my personal little fan on the chat forum...why r u so concerned about me n the way I feel about myself..this is about helpn me understan libras..not girls on girls forum...lol..im sorry chick..I dnt do girls..u act as if u want me or something..so tell me since I have ur undivided attention...are u gay..oh..no I get it..u must be a libra female..lol..so lets here it.."ms.taste of asses"

Mmm, MsKnowItAll... as gently as possible, what I'm most concerned with about you is that you seem to KEEP getting taken in by these slick charmers, burned, and it clearly leaves you bitter and angry. But you are blaming THEM for this, for being assholes, and not accepting responsibility for CHOOSING those assholes. Change your patterns and habits, change your life and your future. SOMETHING you are doing keeps attracting these less-than-fabulous men. YOU are the ONLY thing YOU have ANY real control over. Change YOU, change EVERYTHING!

The truth is, every sign has its haters and every sign has bad apples. (My God, I'm a Pisces - I certainly have had my run-ins with this!) Some signs don't mix well with other signs, and a lot of signs that supposedly go together find that certain people rub them wrong anyway. (That's why Astrology is so so so SO much more than mere Sun signs!)

Yea..I know..ur right "nefer"...but like I said b4...everythng always seems good n the beginning..u never really found out wht ur dealing with until its to late..I believe n giving everybody the benefit of the doubt..and don't get me wrong..they are good ppl...maybe capps n libras just doent make a good match..my sons father(libra boyfriend of 7 years) call me almost every week tryn to find an excuse to get back with me..but I shut him down every time..when I was ready ..he wasn't..its 2 late now..n now he points his finger at me like im the bad guy...lol..u know what "nefer" maybe ill just ask every guy I meet from now on..what's their sign...lol

Yea..I know..ur right "nefer"...but like I said b4...everythng always seems good n the beginning..u never really found out wht ur dealing with until its to late..I believe n giving everybody the benefit of the doubt..and don't get me wrong..they are good ppl...maybe capps n libras just doent make a good match..my sons father(libra boyfriend of 7 years) call me almost every week tryn to find an excuse to get back with me..but I shut him down every time..when I was ready ..he wasn't..its 2 late now..n now he points his finger at me like im the bad guy...lol..u know what "nefer" maybe ill just ask every guy I meet from now on..what's their sign...lol

Amethyst2002 n tasteofchaos...i m not waisting my time commenting either 1 of u losers anymore..im on here to speak to open-minded mature ppl..and not to any kids..shouldn't it be pass ur bedtimes..."nefer" thanks for voiceing ur opinion in a respectable manner..feel free 2 message anytime n ill reply...wow speakn of the devil..guess who's textn me...hahahaha!

he wanted some tail. simple as that.

"Ninjamu" yea u right on tht one..they can't get enough of this good stuff..I can't lie their sex is marvelous..n I knw they feel the same about me..their just not ready for commitment...like "nefer" said it...30 n above are def. More of the mature libras..I thnk at tht age..the realize its not all about them...the libra im pregnant by now just textd me n said "we need to talk" know what that means..lol

Yea.."ninjamu"I luv having sex with libra men..I've decided to just stop buying into the emotional stuff..its just sad that they wait up until the point that I don't want them..before they realize im the person they wanna spend their life with ..oh well..just gonna have fun from this point on..and im not bitter..I will still deal with a libra..just with a long spoon

Posted by MsKnowItAll
I have a 8 yr old son by a libra man and now I am 7 mnths pregnant by a libra man..I am a capricorn we are not fools.

Uh huh.

When are you women going to learn that shitty guys leave a trail of shit behind, regardless of their astrological sign? Say whatever you want about your ex to make yourself feel better but at the end of the day you have two children by two different men and no respectable father figure (according to your account of your ex's). The common denominator is you. You have been in each shitty relationship.

If stuck to what you knew you wanted and stood up for yourself you wouldn't have a shitty Libra ex to bitch about.

Sorry if it seams harsh but damn. Really?

When are you guys going to realize your worth what you want and actually tell people no to get it.

What some of u fell to realize is..these relationships didn't happen over night..I was with these guys a while ..I didn't just pick them up n a bar and get pregnant the next day..don't hate me ..hate the playa..this forum is not about me personally..im on here to convo about them..damn..maybe this forum should be named after me..lol..im glad its some mature ppl on here..the rest of u need to sweep in front of ur own doorsteps b4 u try to judge me..I am well established..n I am blessed with 2 beautiful children..so is nothing negative any of u haters can say..to rain on my parade..lol

I broke it off with them..not the other way around..I never said they didn't want me...I said ..that they like to play a lot of cat n mouse chasn games...as a matter of fact..neither 1 of them wouldn't have to many bad things to say about me..besides the fact that I luv hard...probably why they wanted me pregnant in the 1st place...so tht they could keep me n their lives for atleast another 18 yrs...im favored because im a great person to be around and I dnt take no shit...like I said the first libra now wants to settle down..but now its 2 late!!!

I broke it off with them..not the other way around..I never said they didn't want me...I said ..that they like to play a lot of cat n mouse chasn games...as a matter of fact..neither 1 of them wouldn't have to many bad things to say about me..besides the fact that I luv hard...probably why they wanted me pregnant in the 1st place...so tht they could keep me n their lives for atleast another 18 yrs...im favored because im a great person to be around and I dnt take no shit...like I said the first libra now wants to settle down..but now its 2 late!!!

I broke it off with them..not the other way around..I never said they didn't want me...I said ..that they like to play a lot of cat n mouse chasn games...as a matter of fact..neither 1 of them wouldn't have to many bad things to say about me..besides the fact that I luv hard...probably why they wanted me pregnant in the 1st place...so tht they could keep me n their lives for atleast another 18 yrs...im favored because im a great person to be around and I dnt take no shit...like I said the first libra now wants to settle down..but now its 2 late!!!

Alright put your head in the sand. At the end of the day your problems are a result of your decisions. Don't get defensive. You put yourself in front of others to complain about your problems and then told them to mind their own business. Were not 30 year old women who portray ourselves as pregnant strippers with two kids by two different deadbeats, what do we know eh?

Harsh or not people on here were trying to give you advice for your own good. Throwing common sense back in other peoples face and trying to verbally flaunt your "maturity" and "got it togetherness" isn't convincing any of us.