How to attract Libra?

Hi, I'm a aries woman and he's a libra male........we actually went to highschool together and ran into each other at a mutual friends wedding in July......I was with a couple girlfriends and one who knows him better pointed out that one of us was single....he asked if I was single and I said yes and asked him if he was.....he is...... he flirted with everyone but not really with me.....being a aries I tell the truth and I said that I didn't really remember him from highschool......he said he remembered me—? not sure how/why cause I kept a very low profile and did not hang with any of the cool kids........anyway nice evening........

K so I do think he is cute but beside that he seemed like a nice guy, he smiled a lot and was funny.......I recently had a get together at my house and invited him to come, some highschool friends.........he did attend.....again nice guy, very funny......he stayed right to the end with me and another couple, but not much came out of it.....but I think everyone had a good evening.....

My question is this......how will I know if he is interested and how do I keep this going without being to aggressive..........I don't want to scare him and I want to get to know him better—??

.......any thoughts——?

Thanks......I figured if he wasn't at least a little interested or curious he wouldn't bother coming to a virtual total strangers house.....

The problem now is running into him without it being to overly obvious.....he knows where I work so he might show up here....not sure.....guess only time will tell 🙂

Thanks for your input......I have learnt in the past that making too obvious a move with some men scares them.....they want to be the hunter 🙂

So wsigaf any thoughts on what to do to keep the possible relationship moving in the right direction......

I don't want to be overly aggressive cause he might see that as desperate or easy......but then I don't want to appear like I don't care either.....

Whats a girl to do——

Posted by cheeky14u
So wsigaf any thoughts on what to do to keep the possible relationship moving in the right direction......

I don't want to be overly aggressive cause he might see that as desperate or easy......but then I don't want to appear like I don't care either.....

Whats a girl to do——

Engage, then disengage. Libra's are attention seekers they wont be able to stand the fact you are not paying him any attention, and will soon then come after it. How do you keep him interested after that? I have no Idea and I'm a Libra! lol

Libra sun, thanks........he is just so darn cute and apparently a little shy.....problem is so am I......last guy I had a thing for was a "cancer" and he was not so nice and did the whole ignore thing to me after I told him I liked him, its been a huge mental hurdle for me since

.....so I have been very gun shy.....

I sense he is different then the cancer, not as moody and more open and cheerful......certainly more courteous......I guess I will just have to wait and see 🙂

Well I like to give people the benefit of the doubt.......the last libra I dated was a good person and we got along very well....perhaps I just got lucky......it didn't work because of a significant age gap....

If he does turn out to be liar I will figure it out.....but in my books everyone is innocent until proven guilty.....besides what I have learnt.....when it comes to men....if they are players it doesn't matter what their sign is they all have the same characteristics.....be it a libra, leo, pices, cancer.....etc etc....

You really can't pigeon hole behaviors cause a lot has to do with environment and upbringing.....

Hopefully this particular libra loved his mother....lol.....

anyway from all accounts from close friends in highschool he was always a very nice guy.....so fingers crossed 🙂 and mind open 🙂

lmao. the responses 🙂

good luck cheeky!

Savory meat and a good CD.

engage him in an intelligent conversation...

Will try to engage him in intelligent conversation, the hardest part is being in the same place to do that......lol

A bunch of us are going to a benefit this weekend and I am toying with the idea of phoning him up, however like I said the last time I made that kind of move I was clothes lined by a cancer male and am gun shy......thinking of having mutual friends mention it to him.....and see what happens......

I guess I just have to let fate takes its course 🙂