i can play this game too

im an Aries dealing with my first Libra. we are just friends/ and yeah all the mental and verbal flirting is there ( i really do enjoy it ) i love the bantering and quite the seducer he is. his friend said to me recently "he likes you" and of course my typical Aries response was "well no shit " the problem i have with this whole "thing" is that he is in a relationship. im realistic, i dont expect him to leave his ol lady even if things are bad between them. he talks about how he has to stick it out a lil longer.. ( yeah right he just wants to stick it) so say if he gets whatever he is after... hes done? the "game " is over? Part of me wants to "ride " this out and the other side tells me to To just end it. which maybe i should, since hes been in my head for awhile now. just kinda venting..

i hate word flters takes the fire out of what i had to say

Y'know, when people say "first Libra" or "first" something, they really mean its not going to last and they know it.
Commodifying someone really shows you see them basically just as a tool, which he kinda is...
So..

"so?"

So it wouldn't last.

if ur libra is anything like my ex libra run.

Aries and I get along fine, even past the bedroom. It just takes work on both ends but that's any sign. But you are a Ram so it's only the thrill of the chase for you right now. You really don't want something serious with this guy, sleep with him and be done.

Aries and Libra are polar opposites when it comes to signs. The attraction is often just physical, but with a spark that makes them (usually the Libra) feel that more may be there.

But overall, I ag with everyone else... this guy is IN a relationshio already? Um... eff that?

Libra or not.... Second best to NO ONE.


Come on Aries! You are too beautiful and strong for that cr*ap!

Less whining , more chasing aries ! 😉

"Public Service Announcement to ALL people dating (or thinking about dating) a Libra male...Be committed to several partners in addition to the Libra...you know......in order to achieve and maintain the relationship's "balance." AHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAH!! Goddess you get me everytime!

"r u still with the sagg girl upheavel or witht the leo ?"

wow that's a long time ago sweets , there were others in the meanwhile 🙂
why u wanna know ?




"Public Service Announcement to ALL people dating (or thinking about dating) a Libra male...Be committed to several partners in addition to the Libra...you know......in order to achieve and maintain the relationship's "balance."

you actually have experience with this or just think so because of what you read ?

almost every libra i know is loyal , only the 3th decan libra's i know aren't

yes

Well one, I think you know the answer to your own question. If this guy told you that he was in a relationship & that he didn't have any IMMEDIATE Plans to leave his girlfriend then that only leaves the reason for him messing around with you on the side to simply sex & extra curricular activities that he might not be receiving from his girfriend.

It's bad enough that most men aren't honest about being in a relationship, but oh man when a man is actually honest about it, the wise thing to do is to either stay & admit that you're only staying b/c you're naive, feel that he is the best it's going to get, or b/c you're content in sharing him with someone else who earned his heart the honest & legit way. If you want to stick it out with him, that's fine but don't let the sex turn into emotions for him & then end up suprised when he lets you down in the long run.

Ask yourself why you really are sticking it out with him, after knowing he's already commited to someone else? You can't say that he's that good of a person b/c if he was he wouldn't be cheating on his girlfriend & allowing others to disrespect his woman and/or his relationship with her. Once you figure out why you're really still sticking it out with him, then it'll be easier for you to make the decision as to if it's worth it staying or leaving. In my opinion, this situation is a no-brainer. The longer you continue to give all the "benefits" while he's still with his girlfriend, the less and less his respect for you gets. So if you really want this guy, suck it up & leave him alone. The WORST thing you can show a man is that you're willing to share him with someone else b/c he will never admire that. NEVER!

Posted by DancingArianFlame
what goes around, comes around. i think you and him and every other person that thinks its okay to flirt, fuck, kiss etc.. with someone that's in a relationship should watch themselves you should ask yourselves how would you feel if it was done to you?

i'm ok with my man flirting. i flirt with everyone. i'm in a relationship right now where we're not jealous or possessive. we're all about living in the moment with each other. it's nice.

> Aries and Libra are polar opposites when it comes to signs. The attraction is often just physical, but with a spark that makes them (usually the Libra) feel that more may be there.

Having dated three Aries dudes I can tell you, it isn't a physical attraction. In fact, that is the one area that could be better. Instead it is a very comfortable, supportive, friendship. A very good partnership.

I would give this guy a miss though. If it is meant to be, it will be (without breaking someone else's heart).

my exp with aries are great but i think it best you avoid someone that are in a relationship.

this thread is kinda old.

but libra guys are usually pretty slutty. if the girl they're with doesn't give them enough attention, and another girl does, he'll switch.

Posted by Hypnotic1o1
This thread reminded me sweetsherrie and aquarius goddess (I didn't get to know her) are no longer here.

😢😢

sweetsherrie is still here, under a new moniker lovelygirl89.