NikkiMse1978
@NikkiMse1978
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I pushed away my Libra...
Posted by Nights22
lolol fucking women.
Yup I agree! Emotional reactions. Not logical, always get is into trouble! 🙂
Posted by Nights22
Not really trouble. Just fucks you over in the end. As it should.
That is mean. I guess that answers my ? about Libra men.
Keep bothering him. If you really want him back your gonna have to keep talking. His pride is hurt right now, and he probably feels like ur ex is better than him. Guarantee he is questioning his self worth right now. He probably feels like he needs to cut u out of his life completely and rebuild his confidence.
If you want him back ur gonna have to make him feel like nobody will ever mean as much to u as he does... Sounds gay.. But that's how we think..
If you want him back ur gonna have to make him feel like nobody will ever mean as much to u as he does... Sounds gay.. But that's how we think..
Posted by SrgntLeebz
Keep bothering him. If you really want him back your gonna have to keep talking. His pride is hurt right now, and he probably feels like ur ex is better than him. Guarantee he is questioning his self worth right now. He probably feels like he needs to cut u out of his life completely and rebuild his confidence.
If you want him back ur gonna have to make him feel like nobody will ever mean as much to u as he does... Sounds gay.. But that's how we think..
How do I do that? I am not bothering him at this point, thinking he needs his space and I have not really had a chance to tell him about the situation. I only left a brief voicemail. Now what?
Text him. Tell him you miss him and things will be different this time. Send him some sort of message every day until he tells u to stop. Yes it's very creeper-ish but if u really want him back then you'll do it. Thats just my opinion.. Keep in mind I just brokeup with somebody that I still like. U seem genuine tho.. My girl played alota games and ran alota 'tests' on me that I didn't wanna deal with. Be sincere, love will prevail if it's true.
Does he know why you pushed him away, because of the ex?
Posted by SrgntLeebz
Text him. Tell him you miss him and things will be different this time. Send him some sort of message every day until he tells u to stop. Yes it's very creeper-ish but if u really want him back then you'll do it. Thats just my opinion.. Keep in mind I just brokeup with somebody that I still like. U seem genuine tho.. My girl played alota games and ran alota 'tests' on me that I didn't wanna deal with. Be sincere, love will prevail if it's true.
Ive sent a txt & called twice. Also to tell him my cell is going to be turned off, cuz i cant pay the bill. You really think thats a great idea? To call or txt? He told me yesterday ge didnt agree with us talking. Hes too pressured right now? Wouldnt me txti.g & calling be pressure? & by him daying stop, what do u mean by that? I am sincere. It just took my ex coming to me to see i dont want him. Hes an Aqua (only misses the sex as far as i can see) & he doesnt want me for the long haul.
It took me 3 yrs to figure that out! & to realize when i pushed my Leeb away, i wanted him. Not the ex.
In my lst vm to the Leeb i asked him to dinner Friday, to send me a letter or note in the mail (my ohone remember( to let me know. That i deserve a second chance bcus i like him & i promise it will be different. I hope your right! Hes a great guy. Too bad i was dumb to not see it till after.
If we do get vack together, will it b akward and weird you think? I ruined something great! I want that back!
Sorry to hear about ur ex. Would u take her back if she stalked tou? Lol.
Posted by Dreamer02
Does he know why you pushed him away, because of the ex?
I told him hesitantly in a vm yesterday. Thats why i aant to talk to him. To b up front & honesr. Hes ignoring me now. Do u think thats why? Cuz of my vm? Should i tell him? I feel i should. It is the truth.
I blocked cuz it double posted! Oops! & sorry for the typos. Im on my phone! Lol.
Well, he is probably even more hurt and angry now, knowing that you basically dumped him for another guy. And wondering if you are back now because it just didnt work out w/ the Aqua. Hes probably asking himself if he can ever trust you.
Tough situation. But good for you letting the Aqua go. They always pop up at the most inopportune moments dont they! its what they do. My ex Aqua has popped up three times already this year since we broke up. And I know that the moment I would give him my attention he would disappear again. Finally told him last nite very bluntly that I wasnt interested.
Tough situation. But good for you letting the Aqua go. They always pop up at the most inopportune moments dont they! its what they do. My ex Aqua has popped up three times already this year since we broke up. And I know that the moment I would give him my attention he would disappear again. Finally told him last nite very bluntly that I wasnt interested.
Posted by Dreamer02
Well, he is probably even more hurt and angry now, knowing that you basically dumped him for another guy. And wondering if you are back now because it just didnt work out w/ the Aqua. Hes probably asking himself if he can ever trust you.
Tough situation. But good for you letting the Aqua go. They always pop up at the most inopportune moments dont they! its what they do. My ex Aqua has popped up three times already this year since we broke up. And I know that the moment I would give him my attention he would disappear again. Finally told him last nite very bluntly that I wasnt interested.
I didn't dump him for the ex, that is the thing. The ex called me, and I then asked the Libra where we were. I needed validation from him I was making the right choice I guess you could say. I just pushed him to hard/too far/and too fast. I apologized and tried to talk to him since last Wednesday and he ignored me. I did get in between him ignoring me, Have a good day. Or at night, Sweetdream texts. Then Saturday he sent me the long break up text.
I did not lose him to be with the ex. I just was confused by my feelings for the Leeb and when the ex popped back in (like you said Aqua's do) it threw me for a loop.
I have been dealing the ex Aqua with his popping in and out for 3 years and everytime I took him back. This time, I told myself enough is enough! I am not doing that anymore. My POWER is mine! I took it back! For that I am proud of, but I lost my Libra in the process.
And good for you with your Aqua ex! It is time we take what is ours-back! I am proud of you too!
Posted by TasteOfChaosss
Dude, if someone ditched me to be with someone else and then realised they made a mistake and then came crawling back... I probably would have already forgotten their name by then.
Just saying...
You made your choice, deal with it.
That is not it. Read what I said-again!
Posted by NikkiMse1978Posted by TasteOfChaosss
Dude, if someone ditched me to be with someone else and then realised they made a mistake and then came crawling back... I probably would have already forgotten their name by then.
Just saying...
You made your choice, deal with it.
That is not it. Read what I said-again!click to expand
I know, but that may be what he's thinking. If it were me in his situation I would back off big time because the person has shown that I am not no 1 in their life. Even if you didn't take off with the ex, you pushed Libra man away which showed to him that you aren't sure of your feelings for him. Really don't know on this one. Us Libra can be a real pain. All I can suggest is to stay calm and hope he comes back. I don't know your history, but if you have done this before than he is unlikely to give you a second chance IMO.
I know, but that may be what he's thinking. If it were me in his situation I would back off big time because the person has shown that I am not no 1 in their life. Even if you didn't take off with the ex, you pushed Libra man away which showed to him that you aren't sure of your feelings for him. Really don't know on this one. Us Libra can be a real pain. All I can suggest is to stay calm and hope he comes back. I don't know your history, but if you have done this before than he is unlikely to give you a second chance IMO.
Libra Rose-How can I be number 1 in his life if we just dated for one month? I am just trying to correct my mistake and be in his life again. I was sure about my feelings for him, but the ex threw me off course. He makes me feel bad about myself, which in turn he is toxic for me. When I started feeling depressed again, I knew. It has taken me a long time to learn several lessons these last 3 years, but I finally have.
I have never done this before to him. I plan on not doing it again.
Libra Rose-How can I be number 1 in his life if we just dated for one month? I am just trying to correct my mistake and be in his life again. I was sure about my feelings for him, but the ex threw me off course. He makes me feel bad about myself, which in turn he is toxic for me. When I started feeling depressed again, I knew. It has taken me a long time to learn several lessons these last 3 years, but I finally have.
I have never done this before to him. I plan on not doing it again.
Well, I apologize in advance for this piece of unsolicited advice--but perhaps getting caught up in game-playing and the hesitancy to commit means you'd be best off single for awhile. None of us are the 'perfect' relationship material, however this brand of indecision affects others in profoundly negative and even harmful ways.
In other words, do not be disappointed if you cannot mend things with the Libra. Frankly, once someone has shown me that they are not to be relied on, I may forgive them yet won't let them make an ass of me twice(and keep them at arm's length).
No apologies needed. I am seeking Libra opinions. I want to be aware of his thought process.
I am not playing a game, that is just it. I am not hesitant to commit to him. I didn't even know we were in a relationship until he left.
I never thought about how it would affect me. I was so caught up in how the ex was making me feel (angry, pissed, vengeful, hurt, confused, depressed etc.) that I did not realize what my reactions to him contacting me were inadvertatnly being projected onto the Libra. Not until it was too late anyway.
He is keeping me at arm's length that is for sure. And if anyone looks like an ass, it is me.
In other words, do not be disappointed if you cannot mend things with the Libra. Frankly, once someone has shown me that they are not to be relied on, I may forgive them yet won't let them make an ass of me twice(and keep them at arm's length).
No apologies needed. I am seeking Libra opinions. I want to be aware of his thought process.
I am not playing a game, that is just it. I am not hesitant to commit to him. I didn't even know we were in a relationship until he left.
I never thought about how it would affect me. I was so caught up in how the ex was making me feel (angry, pissed, vengeful, hurt, confused, depressed etc.) that I did not realize what my reactions to him contacting me were inadvertatnly being projected onto the Libra. Not until it was too late anyway.
He is keeping me at arm's length that is for sure. And if anyone looks like an ass, it is me.
Posted by SrgntLeebz
Keep bothering him. If you really want him back your gonna have to keep talking. His pride is hurt right now, and he probably feels like ur ex is better than him. Guarantee he is questioning his self worth right now. He probably feels like he needs to cut u out of his life completely and rebuild his confidence.
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OMG I DO THIS ALL THE TIME!! If someone is bringing down my self-esteem or confidence, they gotta go! Then i get it together, and watch them beg...lol. Sounds mean, but they were mean first.
Posted by ALibraPosted by SrgntLeebz
Keep bothering him. If you really want him back your gonna have to keep talking. His pride is hurt right now, and he probably feels like ur ex is better than him. Guarantee he is questioning his self worth right now. He probably feels like he needs to cut u out of his life completely and rebuild his confidence.
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OMG I DO THIS ALL THE TIME!! If someone is bringing down my self-esteem or confidence, they gotta go! Then i get it together, and watch them beg...lol. Sounds mean, but they were mean first.click to expand
Are you saying you agree ALibra? And what if the person does not beg, but just kills you with kindness? Then what? 🙂
Its been 3 days since he last txted me. Ive sent a kind, sincere, caring & very sweet txt to him all 3 days. The last two saying i was dropping off his xmas gifts to his new house. & then letting him know i did. I did follow up with another one today. A sweet, loving, kind, affectionate text. Not smothering him, nor demandng an answer. Asking for another try to make it better. & saying i still like him.
Im being ignored now, however, understand Libras need space. What does that mean really? And any other thoughts? Im remaining positive. Positive thoughts bring positive results.
Im being ignored now, however, understand Libras need space. What does that mean really? And any other thoughts? Im remaining positive. Positive thoughts bring positive results.
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I dont want to dissect his words. I need tips! Help me to win him back!