If You Could Change One Libra Trait...

Asking my fellow Libras (though other signs can chime in). If you could change one Libra trait what would it be? I tend to think I'd change the mood swings. I do show them outwardly (or at least it is very rare), but I know I experience them often and I dislike it. One mood a day would be nice.

for me (libra female)being indecisive... but once I make up my mind its done, no turning back...
and overthinking because then that puts me thru all mood swings possible

Oh touche on the over thinking (why didn't I think of that? allow me to over think missing that one!)! Ah the jealousy I can see, I hide it well enough, but it's always there isn't it? Really good ones guys!

As a Rising Libra and Venus in Libra, I wish I could change the fact that I think EVERYONE deserves to be loved because in reality there are just some people that don't deserve jack shit!!! This trait makes me give and give and give without receiving, until one day I'm just too tired to give anymore, then the other person is like "WHAT— What did I do??" Really— How oblivious can you be—?

Posted by Scorpio72
As a Rising Libra and Venus in Libra, I wish I could change the fact that I think EVERYONE deserves to be loved because in reality there are just some people that don't deserve jack shit!!! This trait makes me give and give and give without receiving, until one day I'm just too tired to give anymore, then the other person is like "WHAT— What did I do??" Really— How oblivious can you be—?

totally agree!! I'm the same way

Posted by LibraMexiChick

Posted by Scorpio72
As a Rising Libra and Venus in Libra, I wish I could change the fact that I think EVERYONE deserves to be loved because in reality there are just some people that don't deserve jack shit!!! This trait makes me give and give and give without receiving, until one day I'm just too tired to give anymore, then the other person is like "WHAT— What did I do??" Really— How oblivious can you be—?

totally agree!! I'm the same way

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Have you ever watched any of Alyssa Sharpes videos?? OMG she is sooo spot on!! She's on Youtube and talks about all the different placements. Look her up if you haven't! 🙂

I saw one in regards to libra/scorpio relationship.... insightful as am currently in a such relationship. I have to definitely look her up! thanks for the tip. is she like an astrologer or what?

She's just researched alot on the signs and has a quirky way of explaining it. I really "get" her, guess because I'm a Scorpio Sun/Rising Libra and she's a Libra Sun/Scorpio moon. Let me know what you think of her. 🙂

Posted by Scorpio72
She's just researched alot on the signs and has a quirky way of explaining it. I really "get" her, guess because I'm a Scorpio Sun/Rising Libra and she's a Libra Sun/Scorpio moon. Let me know what you think of her. 🙂

I Will. I like her sass from the video I saw ... sooooo are you male or female scorp?

I cannot stand the indecisiveness and sneakiness of intentions. Just from what experienced from the many Libras I've come across and lived with.

Posted by LibraMexiChick

Posted by Scorpio72
She's just researched alot on the signs and has a quirky way of explaining it. I really "get" her, guess because I'm a Scorpio Sun/Rising Libra and she's a Libra Sun/Scorpio moon. Let me know what you think of her. 🙂

I Will. I like her sass from the video I saw ... sooooo are you male or female scorp?

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I am a female Scorpio.....

The people pleasing bs and insecurity. I think those are the root of most Libran problems, especially the ones reflected here.

They lie and are wishy washy because of the people pleasing.

They do crazy shit because they're insecure.

Both traits are basically a result of the other, really.

Posted by size zero superhero
- Libras are known to show unconditional kindness, thus further enabling @ $ $ holery. Continually "letting it slide" inadvertently contributes to cynicism. Nobody should overlook rotten treatment from others, that we'd never dream of dishing out ourselves. We'd benefit in taking a page from Aries' manual & putting those undeserving of our politeness in their rightful place.

- The pressing need for commitment. This rule isn't applicable across the board(never personally struggled in that area myself). Nonetheless, I've consistently observed the trait in countless individual Libras who'd rather endure dysfunctional relationships, if the alternative is being single until further notice. What, exactly, are they so afraid of?!

- Second-guessing ourselves. The direct drawback of objectivity is questioning the pull of instinct. To our detriment, that can result in confusion & self-doubt rather than producing solutions. If all goes wrong after operating on the basis of instinct...surprise, the world didn't end. Mistakes are an inevitable part of life.

- Placing too much stock in others' opinions. Have you noticed how many people out there are monumental idiots? Not to mention those who do NOT have anyone's best interest at hand other than their own? Focus on those whose input actually has merit & is coming from the right place. Discard the rest.

Agreed

Posted by SunPiscesMoonGemini
I cannot stand the indecisiveness and sneakiness of intentions. Just from what experienced from the many Libras I've come across and lived with.

+1 on the sneakyness of intentions! it unhinges my brain. Fire signs are so uncomplicated!

@Grinchy... how's about you put a profile pic up so we can get a good feel of your demeanour?? I always like looking at people's avatars. It shows a lot of how they perceive themselves!

The white lie should be gone, I can deal with not making up ur mind, or the jealousy which I know libras have, but dam those white lies

Posted by rockyroadicecream

Posted by size zero superhero
- Libras are known to show unconditional kindness, thus further enabling @ $ $ holery. Continually "letting it slide" inadvertently contributes to cynicism. Nobody should overlook rotten treatment from others, that we'd never dream of dishing out ourselves. We'd benefit in taking a page from Aries' manual & putting those undeserving of our politeness in their rightful place.

- The pressing need for commitment. This rule isn't applicable across the board(never personally struggled in that area myself). Nonetheless, I've consistently observed the trait in countless individual Libras who'd rather endure dysfunctional relationships, if the alternative is being single until further notice. What, exactly, are they so afraid of?!

- Second-guessing ourselves. The direct drawback of objectivity is questioning the pull of instinct. To our detriment, that can result in confusion & self-doubt rather than producing solutions. If all goes wrong after operating on the basis of instinct...surprise, the world didn't end. Mistakes are an inevitable part of life.

- Placing too much stock in others' opinions. Have you noticed how many people out there are monumental idiots? Not to mention those who do NOT have anyone's best interest at hand other than their own? Focus on those whose input actually has merit & is coming from the right place. Discard the rest.

Agreed

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Definitely the analytical trait. I hate it. All of the above, but then again, we wouldn't be Libras.

Ask and ye shall receive, picture uploaded 😉 Lots of good posts on here about traits I dislike haha