im confused

little while ago a friend of my ex virgo contacted me , she is a libra...we stared to flirt and we agreed to meet up for coffee, w supposed to meet yesterday but she had some things to do and couldnt make it so we agreed to push i till next day ( tuesday) ,we supposed to meet after her class in the evening, around noon i txt her just to confirm and find out what time, she wasnt working i know that since she had a big exam that day and was studying all day
she gets of the class around 7pm and i get a txt from her around 5pm than maybe we should postpone it cauze she is tired and she feels guilty of my ex!
well , what the hell? she is the one who started talking to me and she was pretty clear with her flirts and she was even asking around some of my friends if im really done with the virgo ex.
so she gets me all worked up and than switches the plans on me, i postpone my business trip till wednesday just so i could meet with her and i kind of told her that but not in a direct way, i didnt want her to think that im canceling work just to meet with her
i ticket me off little bit
so later she sends me a txt , ? please dont be mad.
i told her that im not mad but i do not appreciated that she waited till last minute to change plans, but its ok, no big deal

i wish she thought of her guilt yesterday when she ,made plans with me

im not sure how to act right now, but i want to punish her a little and ignore her for a while,
just for that i want her to chase me a little bit, because i dont want to get to excited just so i can get stood up again
what you libras think? how should i handle this?

Take her for her word and look elsewhere for someone else.

It will save you years of frustration and heartache. She was probably very torn between doing the right thing by her friend and doing what you/she wanted. It was a hard decision, that is why she waited for the last minute because she was torn until that point, then she decided to be loyal to her friend.

When she contacted you the first time, she actually thought she was contacting someone else. (If I remember correctly.) At first she was probably being friendly. (Libra = friendly = flirting) and then got in over her head. She probably didn't know how to politely back out or what the right thing to do was.

She probably likes you as a person but also loves and is loyal to her friend.

My advice? Fish elsewhere.

yes she did contact me by mistake, or was it? she started the flirting thing not me,
you know how it is with you girls, the more you have to listen about some guy the more you want him
i will fish somewhere else but i got this huge resentment growing in me against the ex virgo
this is a 3rd girl that decided not to continue with me becuase of my ex and only this one was her friend...wtf is going on?

but anyhow, thanks for your help, i wont be contacting the libra anymore....she is pretty, smart, and nice but if she thinks im going to deprive my self of pride and get on my knees than she has another thing coming,

" and nice but if she thinks im going to deprive my self of pride and get on my knees than she has another thing coming,"

Being a Libra...I think this is the last thing she really wants. This is something that you are associating with her to make the decision easier on your end. I can't think of a less effective means of impressing or securing the interrest of a Libra girl than begging.

well i never did and never will, i was just saying...cauze i dont know what she wants, but i have no problem ignoring her and wait for her to make her move,

* you know how it is with you girls, the more you have to listen about some guy the more you want him

"And how is that workin' for you?" 😉

You can tell I am high on coffee cause I am quotin' Dr. Phil. hee hee.

* this is a 3rd girl that decided not to continue with me because of my ex and only this one was her friend...wtf is going on?

To be honest, sounds like she is slamming you behind your back. You might want to have a conversation with the ex and sooth and rough waters otherwise you might be running into this for awhile.

* cause i dont know what she wants

She told you what she wants! (WHY do people NOT listen to us? It is so infuriating. *sigh*) She wants to remain loyal to her friend, your ex. She doesn't think dating you is a good idea because it would hurt your ex, who obviously isn't over you if my suspicion is right and she is slamming you behind your back. She likes you and doesn't buy the trash talk, assuming that is what is going on, but she doesn't want to date you either. At least not now.

See what I'm talking about Mr. Aries? well you probably would never see it since your inner self is just Fire. Yeah just Fire ever heard of tornados? and cyclones? and storms? and hurricanes? and .. I don't remember the other ones.

LS, for some reason, it is so hard for people to take librans at their word... Maybe because they reject so polite and calmly. Librans are flirts by nature - this should never be taken to heart unless they stress the issue...

They are pretty direct when they want you. At least in my experience.

Class-act-aries, please move on for now, I don't want you to get strung along like ATom did for so long with his libra girl. Take what she says as truth, she means it.

yes. they are pretty direct when they want you. Until they change their mind.

yes i am moving on, i didnt get emotionally involved with that one so its easy for me to do,
im not going to loose sleep over it,
if one more girls even brings up my ex i will snap and heads will roll, hers first

So violent!!!

not violent at all, i cantake care of this without violence but i've put up with a lot, she needs to get out of my life, the ex virgo that is.

Talk to her. Do you know why she is bitter/upset? (assuming my assesment here is correct.)

she still thinks that we will get back together, i dont know what gives her that impression,

Cool avatar Class Act.

lol thanks f.d

I'm telling you we waver back and forth....u have to sneak ur way in with situations like this....