Jellybeans

I think my Libra wants me to be jealous!! He's a little on the possessive/jealous side himself...or maybe a lot... 😛
(My mars in Scorp secretly loves it) I think he's trying to validate his own possessiveness or something...

As everyone knows, we are long distance at the moment while I'm in school. I only see him like once a month now...
The distance has actually been good for our relationship...but it has been hard on him at the same time.
He is very needy of my attention and has to talk to me via text/call like minimum of 3 times a day (and that is a very low estimate.) I try to be patient and understanding...but I can't sit on the phone with him all day...this program is very demanding and I also need to have a social life or I will go insane.
He gets very pouty and jealous when I'm out with friends, total baby.

So, anyways, he's been trying to occupy himself....staying busy, hanging out with friends more...
But lately, he's also been dropping little hints about females he's hanging around...apparently trying to get a reaction.(Which he will likely not get from me)

Today he called me to let me know he was going to eat with this girl who works for a friend of his that he helps out from time to time.

I was like "ok, have a nice dinner, I'll ttyl."
So he's like OMG! Are you serious? you're jealous!
I respond totally confused..."what? no. why would you think I'm jealous"
He's like: "you shouldn't be jealous, exactly."
I'm like...I'm not? wtf are you getting this?!
He says: "you said have a nice dinner, sarcastically"
I assure him, no I really meant have a nice dinner........... :/ ......?
He like chuckles to himself and is like "yeah right, you're a little jellybean, isn't that what you call me?"
I was just like, whatever dude you wish.

:/

WHAT IS THIS?!
In the 8 years I've known this kid...never....I don't even know how to react.
Should I act jealous? I don't want him to think I don't care at all....but I'm just not.
I have never been jealous with him...he's never made me feel threatened. He doesn't put me in that position. I don't question his feelings for me or his loyalty.

I feel like he wants me to be jealous, like he wants the attention or something.

This is weird. Libras, help!!

Yep. He is just frustrated. If I was in his situation it would be rough. He misses you and wants to be near you. You know how he is. On the other hand he understands that you being at school is good. I couldn't start something in a long distance situation but you guys have all that history. What's he gonna do? He was just manstrating a little, we get weird sometimes too. He was prolly just missing you a little extra and getting frustrated and wanted to see some fire in you.

Awww, sounds like he's feeling insecure and wanting some attention from you. He'll be getting his snuggle time with you soon though 😄

He definitely wants attention but I'm disappointed that he tried to get in such a childish way and made it OBVIOUS!!??_We are Libra's; our partners aren't supposed to know our tricks unless we want them too. When you see him, smack him on the hand for me and tell him I said "Bad Libra!" lol.

This would have irritated me if a guy did this to me confidence and charm should ooze off the person like natural sweat. I work with a Libra that openly flirts all the time at first I thought he only did it with me, but boy was I mistaken. He does it with every woman that crosses his path. Young, old, hippo, model stance, he doesn't care. And he's openly expressed how he feels about me, so it's worse when I'm around. I just shake my head at him. Its pathetic to me. Ugh. And the way the women just laugh and swarm all around him, im like please. He is sooo not all that. Its such a turnoff. He HAS to have attention.

I would say that you try to give him a little more attention. Maybe even open up the floor so the two of you can openly express the effect the distance has on the both of you. Even if it doesn't effect you he just may really need to express himself to you but doesn't know where to start or what to say. Im in love with an Aries right now, and trying to get him to understand, and express myself to him is very hard because I don't want to seem weak to him. That stunt your Libra pulled was a weak move in my opinion there are so many other ways to get your partners attention. Honestly he started off right, by doing his own thing. He should've just slowly let you notice instead of trying to throw it in your face.

Posted by TasteOfChaosss
Yeah he is fishing for attention.


Maybe cuz he gets jealous he associates that with him caring? So he wants to see if you care too?

That's what I was thinking!

Ok, glad I'm not crazy. 🙂

Posted by LibraSid
Yep. He is just frustrated. If I was in his situation it would be rough. He misses you and wants to be near you. You know how he is. On the other hand he understands that you being at school is good. I couldn't start something in a long distance situation but you guys have all that history. What's he gonna do? He was just manstrating a little, we get weird sometimes too. He was prolly just missing you a little extra and getting frustrated and wanted to see some fire in you.

Yeah you're probably right about the fire....he has always loved riling me up

I'll just play along then...let him think what he wants. 🙂
No harm in him thinking I'm jealous anyway when I really think about it.

Posted by tamara
Awww, sounds like he's feeling insecure and wanting some attention from you. He'll be getting his snuggle time with you soon though 😄

He will! 🙂
excited

Posted by ALibra
He definitely wants attention but I'm disappointed that he tried to get in such a childish way and made it OBVIOUS!!??_We are Libra's; our partners aren't supposed to know our tricks unless we want them too. When you see him, smack him on the hand for me and tell him I said "Bad Libra!" lol.

This would have irritated me if a guy did this to me confidence and charm should ooze off the person like natural sweat. I work with a Libra that openly flirts all the time at first I thought he only did it with me, but boy was I mistaken. He does it with every woman that crosses his path. Young, old, hippo, model stance, he doesn't care. And he's openly expressed how he feels about me, so it's worse when I'm around. I just shake my head at him. Its pathetic to me. Ugh. And the way the women just laugh and swarm all around him, im like please. He is sooo not all that. Its such a turnoff. He HAS to have attention.

I would say that you try to give him a little more attention. Maybe even open up the floor so the two of you can openly express the effect the distance has on the both of you. Even if it doesn't effect you he just may really need to express himself to you but doesn't know where to start or what to say. Im in love with an Aries right now, and trying to get him to understand, and express myself to him is very hard because I don't want to seem weak to him. That stunt your Libra pulled was a weak move in my opinion there are so many other ways to get your partners attention. Honestly he started off right, by doing his own thing. He should've just slowly let you notice instead of trying to throw it in your face.

OH he's a total attention whore......but in the most adorable way really 🙂

You think I should call him out? Haha I already told him "you wish" that's my main response when he accuses me of being jealous....cause he does wish!!
I just feel like every time I try to have a conversation with him about him not getting enough of my attention I'm patronizing him.

LOL. I hate it when they do that.

And yeah he probably does wish you'd show that you care a lot more. Usually only females want their partner to care what the do, I mean guys do too (some of them) but very seldom do they let it be known because they wouldn't want her to get too happy with it.

I for one get highly irritated when things are fine between me and a guy, and then he starts saying and doing things JUST to get a reaction out of me or to see if I care. Im a huge believer in communication. If you want more attention, feel neglected, or anything then you need to open your mouth. If your gonna do something to get a reaction out of me it'd be in your best interest not to let me realize it or I'll think its childish and your full of games. I'd tell him this.

You two are so cute I could gag. Or go into a diabetic coma. ♥

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Posted by LibraSid
Yep. He is just frustrated. If I was in his situation it would be rough. He misses you and wants to be near you. You know how he is. On the other hand he understands that you being at school is good. I couldn't start something in a long distance situation but you guys have all that history. What's he gonna do? He was just manstrating a little, we get weird sometimes too. He was prolly just missing you a little extra and getting frustrated and wanted to see some fire in you.

Yeah you're probably right about the fire....he has always loved riling me up

I'll just play along then...let him think what he wants. 🙂
No harm in him thinking I'm jealous anyway when I really think about it.

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That's a good plan. He's probably feeling insecure because he misses you so much and you're so far away. He's pining for you and would rather be taking you out for dinner.

he definitely wanted attention 🙂

Posted by Nefer
You two are so cute I could gag. Or go into a diabetic coma. —

Haha we get that a lot 😛 😛


But no, we're more like a funny couple than a sweet couple.
Everyone thinks we're entertaining together...but that's just probably cause we're both entertaining in general