Libra, Libra. ssjvhaoifnakjfvnaifaw;ldfkja!

hi all,

so, as some of you may or may not remember my Libra ordeal from last spring and how much I was hurting after a break up, well, the bugger is back on the scene as in: messaged me, we chatted for a bit on fbook and such and all of a sudden he's all attention. Guess he got his ducks in a row after deployment and divorce. He told me that he hasn't been seeing anyone and hasn't even slept with anyone since being with me - that is soooo TMI!
blah. why do men do that? dissapear and than a year later after you pick up all your pieces and are happy with someone else, they all of a sudden show up and stir the pot again?

or is he just being super friendly? but than why ask me things and tell me so much of himself and post things on my timeline and write emails and making sure we talk and what not?

I so do not get men.

He likes you and wants to give it another shot

You've travelled and dated around since the very last time, with sags, Leos etc etc while he only had you in his mind. Says much about sincerity on both ends, doesn't it?
Don't date around and focus on one person. Libra seems flighty but really isn't.

=\hmm... there was only one Taurus for a short time and nothing really came off of it, we remained friends. Sag happened at the end of June and I never looked back. He hurt me tremendously. I doubt he had me only on his mind. He did his own thing and is now looking for idk what. Friends maybe. I'll be ok with that. He's deploying soon and so maybe he is just looking for someone to talk to, but he has familly for that. I will not make much of it, aside that we may become just friends. I'm not about to jeopardize a good relationship with Sag, even though we have our ups and downs. Funny how men always come back around when it's them that messed it up. I was really hurt by him. I was reeling. He knows it and was just cold about it. I'm sure he is not really looking for anything, but than what does he want? Why is that?

than that would be a helluve long distance booty call since he is in Georgia and I am in Canada. I doubt that's what he wants.

I just don't get why men do that.

wish he didn't. don't really know what to think about him or just men in general.

ok, sooo... it's been a few days and he's cranking the heat up every day... and me being polite talks to him. I keep it as we are just friends and am very open about my ongoing relationship, but I think he just wants to butt in. :/ wish he didn't.
sooo... we just talk and I hope we will remain just friends.

what the hell is in his head?
are libra men like this to try to draw a wedge between a couple?

well, he's not really being lazy. on the other hand, you remember the grief he caused me, so really even if I was not with someone, he would not be really having any chances. why bother. never understood women who take their ex's back after they hurt them severely. I will never understand it, even if I have done so in the past.

Posted by roamingfree
even if I was not with someone, he would not be really having any chances. why bother.

You need to make sure he knows that. It does sound like he wants another chance. If you are completely against the idea please express that to him. It won't be a fun conversation and if that really was what he wants he will no doubt be sweeter than he ever was and will try to change your mind. Expect it before you start your talk with him.

oh, he does know it. it's all over my fbook. it's all out in the open, serious relationship. nothing hidden. we talked about it. he really does know. I think he is trying to see if he can have any pull. he knows I cared about him tremendously. well, I am not encouraging it. and not going to. I'm ultra happy with my Sag even though we have our growing pains, he is so perfect for me. Libra can't compare. Even though at one point I really thought that he was it, there was always something in the back of my mind. I still care about him in some way. I suppose we always do in ways. But it's past. Its horrible how things work out with men. I wish men would stop being so fickle when they care about a woman and realize that we do move on and that we do not wait around for a year just becasue he decides to cut all ties and communication. in the end I have to admit he treated me like total crap and was not even nice about it. he still didn't apologize and I think he should. In any case. I know we are not for each other.
Why are Libra's soooo.... idk... taking their for ever time. A woman can retire and go gray waiting for a Libra man. at least a Gem woman.