Ladies, would you do your friends this way?

This isn't intended to insult Libra ladies.

Just curious, when it comes to men, how loyal are you to your friends? If you were interested in a man that your friend was interested in, would you go for the guy anyway?

Quick background story. I have two friends - one is a cancer, the other libra. Cancer was seeing an Aqua man casually. Libra meets Aqua (at cancers birthday party, no doubt); aqua flirts with libra. Libra gives him her number and starts seeing Aqua casually. This hurt my Cancer friend, although she realizes she and the Aqua had no exclusive agreement, etc. Its not that the aqua hurt her, she wasn't surprised on his end, but she was deeply hurt the Libra would do that to her.

My question is about the actions of the Libra.

Again, I am not putting down libras. It may just be the libra's marriage is recently over and I think she's just in party mode and craving male attention. Just curious to yalls thoughts about her actions.

Is a human being in the form of a Libra capable of being unloyal: Yes.

Immature ones, yes.

I've seen it from both genders though.

Isn't there like a code anyway? If your friend is interested/pursuing someone, you don't go after them yourselves. It makes you look like an asshole.

I had a Pisces friend pursue a girl he was into. They weren't quite dating, but the mutual interest was there. Long story short, she wanted to make the Pisces jealous, so she hooked up with his Libra friend who knew that the Pisces was interested/pursuing her. He was pretty wtf/upset that his friend did that to him.

Also, having worked with several Libran women, I saw it on several occasions too. Didn't care if someone else was interested or causally seeing the guys that they chased. It was all about them and screw everyone else.

In Libra's defense, personally, I've seen this from a Sag friend, too. Laame.

In the case of Libras, specifically your friend, it sounds like her insecurities got the best of her and she wanted validation from the first dick chasing her. That was one common thing I noticed with the girls that I saw. It was also the case with the Pisces' friend. The Libra was lonely and hadn't gotten laid in a long, long time.

When I was in my teens, My then taurus friend was interested in someone who was interested in me and it was mutual or rather I was flattered but I didn't and wouldn't even consider it. Then about face, I was actually with someone and she stepped in! That ended that friendship for a number of years and now we are nothing more than FB friends, she and I had grown up together.

I guess each to their own, I personally wouldn't...men come and go but your real friends should be there forever!

Posted by size zero superhero
In the same breath, attraction and interest are conditional. My fondness could end real quick if he's sweating everyone within a 3 mile radius or responding to flirtation by spitting game right back.
Who is the most desperate of all: guys who are guilty of this, the women who tolerate it, or said woman's thirsty friends with an apparent inability to find higher-quality men elsewhere?!

lol.

Agreed.

Thanks yall.

Maybe. Depends on a lot of things.

I'd probably steer clear of the guy. After all, he's prepared to cheat on his gf, then he'd probably cheat on me.

She's just left a marriage, so she may be starved of affection. Some guy sweet talks her and she's gone. He'll probably move on to someone else in due course.

Anyway, I didn't answer your question. No I'm pretty loyal to friends, and I hate drama, so I probably would just leave well alone. I don't want to lose a good friend.

Update:

Well, unfortunately for my Libra friend, he dumped her after one hook up. She now regrets it and feels like an idiot. Hates that she did that to the other friend, who doesn't want her around anymore. Awkward for me, being friends with both. The guy contacted my Cancer friend Friday night asking what she was doing. She blew him off. Good for her!!!

People are fucking lame.