libra at it agin.

ok I posted this long story about my life with libra man. i felt the need to make a stand we have 3 small children 5 2 and 1. because of the games libra pretending to be intrested in rebuilding our marriage. with once i figured out he was playing games. I put my foot down. i told him he would not be ableto stay at m house when he comes to visit the kids.he got pissed. he was suppose to come visit the kids in may and never came. he said he didnt have the money. but he got a 12000 bonus from his job. he brought a caprice and rims. all types of nice tthings. but he didnt have money to see his kids.. okay well he told me he didnt want to see me ever again... so he then tells me he should have to pay me less child support so he could have money to come see them. now i took it has me having to pay him to come see the kids. howcome he has money to spend on what he wants but not money 2 visit. I then took back my statement and i told him he could stay at my house. becuz i really want my kids to have a relationship with thier father.. but y do i have to pay? and if he doesnt want to see me again why would he wanna stay at my house?.. y all the games. now that i say he can stay now he can find to come .. is it rally about the kids or his self?

Strap his irresponsible ass to the wall and stop being a pussy. File the divorce to get grounds that forces him to pay for ygr well being of the children he helped with conceiving. You are finding too many excuses to do what you damn well know you should do. Sorry but this taurus does not sugarcoat and frankly irritated that are allowing this man to control your life when he lives thousands of miles from you.

i appreciate honesty..

games, games, games...thats all it is to him, just games and you're allowing him to play them.....

Libra woman here, Girl you got such a Dark Side Libra. Dump him quick. He's balance as long things are going his way. His Money, His Sleep over, His penis. RUN AND SAVE YOURSELF!!!!!

you got such a Dark Side Libra

I love you for saying that - I knew there was this hit and miss when it came to Libra's...some real good ones and the ones that are so passive aggressive and all harmony

WHEN THE CRAP IS GOING THEIR WAY and their way only.

GEEZ, i have had my share of both and it is hard to tell which one is which unless you date them.

The libra has alwayspaid for his responsibilities. however thats really nbeen it he thinks hecan replace money with time. I try to explain that he can not. he has to have both.

I want a divorce. I made that up in my mind... I still cant afford it thats no excuse.

yes I want him to have a relationship with his kids however I cant force it. its his decision. you are right as long as he makes the rules he is okay with things. but if I make any rules or change anything its a whole different story. I have decided to let him stay at the house. but I told him I will not pay his airfare. I have already went over and beyond. with this libra I have notice if I ask or tell him to do things he will not budge but if its his idea. then he is all for it. He made a comment yesterday and said he uses people for what he uses them for.. that didnt sit well with me...I realize he has his own life and I have mine. no matter what I say he doesnt hear me. so I am done. he makes his own decisions. he told me to BACK OFF!!! so thats what I will do. Once I am done. I am done!

You can afford a divorce, go to divorce court and tell them you need legal aid! That you will defend yourself.

Libra men seem to take things personal and if they are bitter about you leaving them (like my libra ex husband) they will make everything about you not the children. They will "make you pay" by doing stupid shit like that. My ex husband still tries to pull that shit at times but like HP said, take him to court and get a set child support payment, visitation rights and whatever other responsibilities you would like him to share. That way there is no excuse he is legally binded.