Libra cowards

A few threads have got me thinking about this. Now I am completely fearless when it somes to telling people how it is or that i'm not happy anout something, but when it comes to leaving a relationship I am absolutely pathetic!! I am a complete coward and almost go out of my way to get someone to break up with me so I dont have to do it. Is this a Libra thing, other people seem to think it is, but just wondering what other Libra's think?

Yes....but i have notice with some Libra once the person break up with them they keep coming back for some weird reason

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wtf are those last ones?? Rope knots? *baffled*

And if you're looking for late birthday ideas.. I'd like a sybian. Or a Kindle. One or the other. 😛

That wasn't even slightly amusing. Besides.. to "kindle" is what rabbits do when they give birth to their kittens. So the imagery is bad, bad, very bad. 😛

(Though I'm still unclear why Amazon chose Kindle for the name of their e-reader.. shouldn't SOMEONE have known what the word meant??)

Those are the only two things I'd want, KoL - sybian or Kindle. Either one would be suitable evening entertainment for me 😛

God that loo is nightmare inducing.

Posted by TasteOfChaos
Yea I'm the same... I'd prefer them to ditch me so that I don't have to do it.

I think its because we don't like to let people down...

Its probably the reason why we just go "cold" on people. Its like we hope that they just get the hint, rather than being upfront and saying "its over".

If it's advice I am outspoken. But if it's me letting a person down or rejecting them, I hint about a lot. I think is compassion instead of being cowardly.

@aqua Mr Taurus is a distant memory lol , got bored of trying to work him out and finally moved the hell on!

Posted by Classyb78
Yes....but i have notice with some Libra once the person break up with them they keep coming back for some weird reason

I am also bad for this, think its because im so indecisive. I find it so hard to make the decision to leave someone and stick to it! Think thats why I need the,m to be the one who decides to leave me that way there is no way I can go back. Also I h=take a genuine interest in people so I find it hard to keep myself out of their lifes lol

@days also agree with the compassion thing, I really hate to let people down and upset people, although I often end up upsetting them more by staying in a relationship far longer than I should of. I think quite a few Libra's seem to stay in unhappy relationships.

I've noticed that Libras tend to be very passive/aggressive. They can be extremely blunt & blatenly honest half the day & at nightfall/or in certain situations, it's like the "blunt factor" completely shuts off in them.

I understand why Libras have a hard time letting go of a relationship. It could be an ego thing (they're afraid to admit that THEY made the wrong decision). It could be that they put more priority/importance on being someone's ride or die moreso than they considering being that for themselves, a top priority. It could be that Libras don't realize the true extent of their loyalty towards someone (even if it's not returned) until the relationship is nearing its end.

On 1 hand, there's the people that give up too easily; they're always called the quitters & are often told that their willingness to automatically run is the main cause for why they're still single and/or can't ever find a long-lasting/fulfilling relationship.

On the other hand, there's always the people like Libras that actually see quitting/leaving as a last resort. If the relationship is worth it, Libras aren't made to feel bad for staying. In fact they're called warriors & ride or dies (titles we ALL love attaching to our resumes). But if the relationship isn't worth it, being loyal & staying can just as easily earn you the title as being passive, submissive, naive, & alot of other things that carry a negative conotation.

I don't knock Libras (or people period) when they stay in a situation that's actually fixable & worth staying in. Hell, I wish there were more people like this! BUT, if the Libra & the rest of the whole world knows that they are losing 10Xs more than they're gaining by staying with someone, that's when others start questioning Libras & start throwing those negative words at them.

"I understand why Libras have a hard time letting go of a relationship. It could be an ego thing (they're afraid to admit that THEY made the wrong decision). It could be that they put more priority/importance on being someone's ride or die moreso than they considering being that for themselves, a top priority. It could be that Libras don't realize the true extent of their loyalty towards someone (even if it's not returned) until the relationship is nearing its end."

Rubbish. Try as they might, Aquariuses can *never* understand Libras. Because simply, they're not built the same. It's neither an ego thing, nor a selfless thing, nor the true extent of loyalty. I won't say what is it, but I hate it when Aquas try to explain Libras. They can never get Libras.

@libra sun U are so right about some Libra that stand in unhealthy relationship instead of a healthy one.....

Now that's weird cuz Libra doesn't like DRAMA! LOL

How the Hell don't Aquarius understand libra?When Libra don't what you to understand them..same Libra love to keep secrets....& u have to piece shit together cuz we all know some Libra have a hard time telling the truth.

SO COME ON IT'S JUST NOT AQUARIUS THAT HAVE A HARD TIME UNDERSTANDING LIBRA MOST SIGN DO OR MAYBE ALL SIGN DO!

@TasteOfChaos LOL


But its not easy when your dealing with a Libra with a lot of Scipio in his chart!

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Posted by everevolvingepithet
I agree with Batuk's comments on studies, getting back on topic.
Not the racistish comments, and I don't think it's hard to work out Aquagirl's lineage, just look at her avatars !!🙂

Thank you!!!!! I think Aquagirl is not a true Aquarius because she is insulting one of the most innovative scientist who existed on the world. Yes,Libras maybe physically lazy,they don`t like housework. But their mind is really active, how can mind grow lazy when it`s constantly weighing pros and cons?

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Sorry aquagirl, but I agree with Batuk. You don't come across as a real aquarian. You juggle your astrological placements at your convenience. You become a libra when you want to be and an aqua when it serves your purpose. Then, you become a scorpio or whatever is in your chart when you want attention. Basically, in your head, you are every sign depending on whose forum you are on and who you are speaking to. Your emotional outbursts are out of this world as well as your lack of logic. Einstein was a genius. What does his personal life have anything to do with his innovations? How did you connect the 2 dots: private life and innovations? You are a sad representation of Aquas. Half the time you fart out of your mouth. I've observed this myself when you were shooting wrong historical facts on Iranians and when I corrected you with FACTS, you called me an "arrogant prick girl". Any person who is truly intelligent wouldn't claim to be one, however others will surely see them as one. You say nothing intelligent on these forums yet you claim to be one. Half the time you have emotional outbursts where you attack everyone who goes against you even the slightest. You keep saying you love Libras and you find them so intelligent yet your writing contradicts you. You bash libras in their own forum and you even go on to bash your libra bf time to time yet when someone calls you out on it, you just say "That's not true. I love libras. I think they are intelligent". Then, you further go on and hijack people's thread with sharing your personal issues with your bf. When someone creates a thread asking for advice about their issue, refrain from going on about your life and your experiences with your exs and bf. Just give your INPUT on the matter, not rant on about what happened